VEAZIE and BANGOR - Barbara (Smith) Bagley, 89, passed away peacefully Feb. 19, 2013, in Bangor, with her loving family by her side. She was born Sept. 25, 1923, in Bangor, daughter of Stephen and Caroline (Schoppe) Smith.
She grew up in Orono on the family farm on Park Street. She attended Orono schools and graduated from Orono High School, where she met the love of her life, Holand Bagley. After graduation, Barbara attended Husson College and worked at Standard Shoe Co., Bangor. Holand enlisted in the Army and while he was overseas, they kept in touch through letters and postcards. When Holand returned from the war, they were engaged and on June 23, 1946, they were married. They were devoted to each other and together raised five children in a happy home filled with abundant love. Barbara was a homemaker and caregiver her entire life. She was involved in Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, and was an active member of Orono Methodist Church and Veazie Congregational Church, where she was a member of Ladies Aid. She enjoyed spending time at camp at Spragues Falls in Cherryfield, traveling Downeast and out-of-state to visit relatives. One of her most memorable trips was when she visited National Cathedral, Washington, D.C. She loved to read, knit, crochet, create holiday crafts, sew and cook. She was a great cook, always ready to try out a new recipe - her date squares and pistachio bars were the best. Maybe that is why so many of her children and grandchildren are such great cooks. Thanks Mom and Gram. She took pride in planning and cooking for many large family gatherings, including holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions. She loved music and in her earlier years, played the guitar and sang. Barbara will be remembered for her generosity, her kind heart, and her sense of humor that she exhibited up until the very end. She treasured her family and friends and was a very loving and caring person. She loved children, flowers, dogs and life in general.
Barbara is survived by her daughter, Mary Caroline Skaggs and her husband, Tom, of Stillwater and their children, Aaron, Amy, Jeff, Jenny and Jori; sons, David R. Bagley and his wife, Mary, of Veazie and their children, Michael and Alex; Harvey C. Bagley and his wife, Marion, of Veazie and their children, Christopher and Kelly; and Robert L. Bagley and his wife, Michelle, of Glenburn and their children, Amanda and Benjamin. She is also survived by 14 great-grandchildren, several sisters-in-law, many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents; husband, Holand; daughter, Betsy; and brothers, Philip and Wellington Smith. She now joins Holand and Betsy in heaven, where we are sure she will be cooking and caring for someone. Rest in peace, Mom. The family thanks the wonderful staff at Ross Manor for their loving care of Barbara throughout the past several years. They were like family to her. They also thank the doctors and nurses at Eastern Maine Medical Center and Hospice of Eastern Maine for their care during her recent illness.
Relatives and friends are welcome to call 6-8 p.m. Friday, Feb. 22, at Brewer Chapel of Brookings-Smith, 55 South Main St., Brewer, where a funeral service will be held 1 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 23, with the Rev. David Fox officiating. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments at the Family Reception Rooms of Brookings-Smith, 55 South Main St., Brewer, after the service. Interment will be in the spring at Fairview Cemetery, Veazie. Those who wish to remember Barbara in a special way may make gifts in her memory to Commonsense Housing, care of Bob Swindlehurst, 15 Riverside Drive, Eddington, ME 04428. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com.
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February 28, 2013
February 28, 2013
Laura Ellsworth
I love you and miss you Gram. I know you are still here You have talked to me on a couple occations already. I may not see you but I hear you and feel you and I know you will always be with me! I love you and miss you!
February 23, 2013
Mary and all of you , my thoughts are with you. Barb and my mom were roommates for many years and Barb and I had many
Conversations cause my mom couldn't hear I often chatted with Bar I loved her.....(Elnora at Ross manor) very sweet lady.
Miss you Barbara. Barbara Sechrest??
February 22, 2013
Debbie (Higgins) LaMothe
Prayers to all at your loss. She will be missed but know she remains with you in your heart.
February 21, 2013
To the Bagley family, I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancy Michaud
February 21, 2013
Marie Bacon
Harvey, so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother. Our thoughts and Prayers go out to you and your family.
The Bacon Family
February 21, 2013
Jamie Williamson
I am so deeply sad to hear about her passing as you guys can remember she was a great substitue Grammie to we as well for a great many years. My huge condolences go out to all the family, kids and grandkids. Jamie
February 19, 2013
Diane (Farris) Gousse
Dear Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I worked with Barbara beginning in 1984 at the security company. She was a joy to work with and she made the time and the job fun. Her laugh and her big heart will be sadly missed.
February 18, 2013
Sincere Condolences To The Family Of Barbara Ann Bagley God Bless
Tom Namer
February 17, 2013
GISELE LABONTE
i am so glad i had to chance to take care of BARBARA for 7 yrs . i will miss her very much. Take care Scot
t Kathi n Johnny and Mya
February 16, 2013
Gina Henderson
I meant Barbara working the mid-night shift in Winslow in the late 80's early 90s. First time I meant her face to face it was like we had known each other for years. We had alot of great talks and awesome laughs together. That was truly an awesome part of my life that I will never forget. Time pasted and it seems that our lies were pulled in different directions. But I never stopped wishing that time hadn't gone so fast and moved us along on different paths so quickly. But now it has happened again.I will miss you my friend. I am so sorry for your family and friends to have to say good bye to you so soon. I pray that you are at peace now. P.S. Please feel free to drop in on me any time :) God Bless you, your family and friends.
February 16, 2013
Mary St.Amand-Sanipas
To the Wilmot/Bagley Family: As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
February 16, 2013
maggie tardiff
We never lose our precious memories...they make us laugh and cry and they are always with us. Our heart goes out to the family. Kat my friend, I love you.
With deepest sympathy
Maggie & Neil
February 16, 2013
Stephanie Raynes
Laura, I am so sorry for the loss of your Grammy. Take comfort in knowing she is at peace. <3
February 16, 2013
John/Sue/Family Michaud
To all the family, We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Barbara was truly an amazing lady. She was full of laughter but when she spoke you knew you had better listen. She is spreading her wings and watching over you all. She will be truly missed by all that knew her. You need anything dont hesitate to give us a call.
Rip Barbara
February 16, 2013
Valerie Card
I Sincerley Offer My Condolence: Words seem insufficient at this dire time. Although nobody denies the certainty of death, we all need comfort in the reality of it. May you find real comfort and relief, and as a result, begin to recover gradually from the pain. Love from those around you will help you through the days ahead.~~With
Deepest Sympathy.
February 16, 2013
Dave & Laurie Kivlin
Barbara was a wonderful woman who's quick wit and warm heart will be missed so very much. Our sympathy and love are with her family.Remember , she's always with us if we hold her in our hearts.
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