DOVER-FOXCROFT - Thomas R. Tash, 44, passed away March 15, 2013, after a courageous battle with colon cancer. He was born Jan. 11, 1969, in Dover-Foxcroft, the son of Theodore Tash and Jayne (Callahan) Belote.
Tom graduated from Foxcroft Academy, class of 1987. He worked for many years for Jack's Tree Service and most recently worked for McKusick Petroleum. Tom enjoyed camping, playing cards, ice fishing and snowmobiling with his son. Tom loved spending time with his family and friends. Tom was a member of Anah Shrine 4x4 Unit and Mosaic Lodge No. 52 AF & AM.
In addition to his parents, Tom is survived by his loving wife, Renee; his son, Trevor; dog and companion Sophia, all of Dover-Foxcroft; brother, Travis "Bubba" and his wife, Kristen, and their children, Lee and Brooke Belote, of Dover-Foxcroft; sister, Tatum and her friend, James, and children, Conor and Kiara Belote; brothers, Chris Belote and Matt and his wife, Sarah, and son, Jake Belote; and sisters, Angela Marshall and Amy Belote. Tom will be greatly missed by many special aunts, uncles, cousins and close friends. Tom was predeceased by his daughter, Courtney Renee; and his loving stepfather, Lee Belote.
Friends and family are invited to call 5-8 p.m. Tuesday, March 19, at Lary Funeral Home, Dover-Foxcroft, with a Masonic memorial service said 7:30 p.m. A celebration of Tom's life will be held 2 p.m. Wednesday, March 20, at Lary Funeral Home, Dover-Foxcroft. The family has requested those attending Tom's celebration of life to wear something navy blue in honor of Colon Cancer Awareness Month. In lieu of flowers, an account has been set up for Renee and Trevor and contributions may be made in their name and mailed to Maine Highlands Federal Credit Union, P.O. Box 507, Dover-Foxcroft, ME 04426. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.
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March 14, 2019
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Diane & Terri Stephen
Tom may be gone from our sight but he will never be gone from our hearts. Our love goes out to all of Tom's family and friends still grieving.
March 27, 2013
Terri & Diane Stephen
Renee and Trevor - we were so sorry to hear about the passing of Tom. He was a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor. He and his smile will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with both of you and the rest of Tom's family.
March 19, 2013
Debbie Clark
Renee, so sorry to hear about your husband, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our condolences to you and your son. Love, aunt Debbie ( Brians sister)
March 19, 2013
Holynda Prado
Renee and Trevor, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We are so sorry to hear about your loss.
The Prado's
March 19, 2013
Sue Dugan
Renee, I am so sorry for your loss. I know he fought hard and you were right there for him. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this devastating time.
March 19, 2013
Michele Fitzpatrick
Renee and Trev - so very sorry for your loss. Tommy was a great husband and wonderful father. So many memories to help see you through...all my love
March 19, 2013
Dave Wheaton
Tom was a childhood friend, teammate, and a great guy. Always remember Tom with a smile on his face. My Thoughts and prayers go out to Renee and Trevor.
March 19, 2013
Nichole Gregory
We were really saddened to hear about Tom. He was a great guy, with a great sense of humor and love for his family. I hope the memories of him will help keep you guys strong.
The Gregory's
March 19, 2013
Kerry
Heaven has become a better place (and much more fun), with you in it. Our vacations and weekends in Maine will never be the same. Your smile, as friendly,mischievous, or crooked as it was, always lightened a mood and made me laugh. We are always here for Renee and Trevor, they know this already. I will continue to pick on trev, and he will continue to ignore me when I do. He will continue to ride-Bubba, jay and Vinny (among many others) will make sure of it. You left behind a legacy, and shoes that are impossible to fill.
You really are our super hero. I am thankful that I have so many memories that have you in them.
March 18, 2013
Larry Hersey
I am so sorry for your loss Renee and Trevor. Tommy was a one of a kind guy, a very special person, he will be missed by all that knew him, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
March 18, 2013
Renee, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Lynn Conklin
March 18, 2013
So sorry that that Tom had to so quickly in life. He was a great man. He was a lot of fun, but at the same time knew his priorities. My condolances to Trevor, and Renee.
March 18, 2013
Peter LeVasseur
So sorry to hear about your loss. We enjoyed your visit to our house and a Boat Trip to Ponce Inlet and Disappearing Island that we will never forget.
Peter LeVasseur
March 18, 2013
so sorry for your loss Jayne tatum Bubba and renee and trevor. you are all in my thoughts sheilla butler
March 18, 2013
Joni Rodgers
Rene,
Words could never express how sorry I am for your loss. I found this letter when my best friend died with breast cancer after an 8 year battle and thought it may be helpful.
Letter From Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived OK.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness: here's eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon, and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
"It's good to have you back again; you were missed when you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, your part of my plan.
There's so much more that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, thought my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented... that my life has been worthwhile,
know as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your foot steps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going... your coming here to me.
Author: Ruth Ann Mahaffey
Copyright 1998-2008
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March 18, 2013
Amanda Day
So sad for your loss Renee and Trev but he will always be looking out for you. Trev I know you will make him proud. Tommy you will never be forgotten, especially your sense of humor always making people laugh. My thoughts are with you all.
March 18, 2013
Heather Ireland
There are no words that express losing someone and no words to tell the person who lost someone. You hear all these things from everyone but they are just a blur right now. Your family is here for you and trev and hopefully everyone can tell how much of a loss this really was. It was a horrible thing and you will never forget and ignore the pain but you have so many people here for you and so many people for you to talk to. We all love you renee and trev <3 See you soon!! Very sorry for his family as well. I didn't really know his family much but you will all be in my thoughts!!
March 18, 2013
Denise Brooker
Renee,
So sorry for your loss. He is in a better place now and you have an angel above to watch over you and your son.
Find peace and strength in HIS arms.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
March 18, 2013
You guys are in my thoughts and prayers I remember Tom from when I was younger
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