2yrs today Darcy, and Mark and I miss you and also Daddy more than ever. I hope Heaven is truly the wonderful place we are all expecting it to be! Mark, Nana, and I attended Sam, Nick, and Ellie's graduation at the University of Liverpool. I hope you were there with us in spirit cheering them on! We took pictures in front of your tree on campus. You have lots of trees planted in your memory for us to visit in various places. I love you Darcy and will be counting the years until I can hug you again! Mommy
Not sure why you had to leave us. Heart still broken.
I loved you as my own. Many times I thought of you. Thanks that i have the painting you drew of you and me by my bedside. I look at it everyday and wish i could have done more for you. Rest in peace my lovely granddaughter. Grandpa Nicholas
Darcy, I thought of you all day yesterday on your birthday...I remember the day you were born. I so wish you were here to celebrate your 21st. Well, Darcy, I think of you not only on your birthday but every single day. I love you, Darcy.
Happy birthday. You are missed and loved.
Happy 21st Birthday Darcy. We are so sad that you're not here to celebrate it with us. We think of you every day. Wish that you were still with us. It still breaks my heart. We love you so much. Love and XOXOXOXOX, Karen and Kara
Happy 21st Birthday Darcy!! You can't believe how much we all miss you and wish everyday you were still here with us! I hope you and Daddy are celebrating together today in Heaven and having a nice day! We are going to have dinner tonight at one of your favorite restaurants-the Melting Pot. We will be dipping into all the gooey fondue in memory of you! Love and miss you so much, each and everyday! Mommy, Mark, and Nana
Darcy, for your 21st birthday I think I will bake you a cake and plant flowers here in North Carolina for you. xxx i love you baby girl
Darc its almost ur 21st bday. I still cant believe ur not here to celebrate it. U r so deeply missed. But never forgotton and loved forever so deeply. I hope ur birthday in heaven is even better than ever. I love n miss u. Aunt Joey
I still think of you, Darcy. You will never be forgotten!
I went to England, I happened to be there one the one year anniversary of you leaving us. I got to see where you spent the last year of your life and meet some of the people who were in your life. Lovely people, kind people. It made me happy, to share that part of your life. To meet them and see "your city."
I saw so many Egyptology exhibits and the British museum. I think they made me feel a little closer to you.
Dear Darcy, It has been just over one year since your death. One Year! So much has happened, and yet Mark and I have survived, but we miss you so unbearably at times! Mark, Nana, and I placed flowers on your trees at Springs with Sara and Rachel. Then Mark, Nana, and I sent balloons with messages on them up to you at my church where another tree has been planted in your memory. Did you see your balloons? They were lavendar with pink ribbons. My friend Anne Whalen gave me the gift of keeping this memorial page up longer, so I hope many more of your friends write stories, share memories, and add pictures to this page. I love knowing that your friends still think of you and want you to know we will never forget you. All my love to you Darcy! Forever from Mommy xoxoxo
Friends and family of Darcy.
I only had the priviledge and pleasure of knowing Darcy for a few short months while at Liverpool. The time I did spend with Darcy will always be cherished. I remember a time we were both asked to stand in front of the class and translate some hieroglyphs for Dr Enmarch. We both were clueless and just looked at each other with terror thinking how Dr Enmarch was going to go mental, however Darcy just laughed in the end and because her laugh was so infectious it brought the pair of us out of terror and into a better place. I know she will be up there smiling down on us all with that gorgeous smile. My thoughts are with your family and close friends who miss you like crazy. RIP angel and thankyou for the short time you were in my life.
Sweet, Beautiful, Precious Child- a void that will never be filled and will be with us til we meet again. Taken much too early from us, but we are forever thankful for the time our Father has shared you with us. The light of your families life with your locks of gold, you will shine upon them from above, forever watching and protecting, and always present. We love you Darcy, The Felsberg's, James, Lauren, Andie, & Jaims
Dear Cara, it saddens me to find such news of Darcy's passing. Although I only met her once at the age of 15, when you drove down to my wedding, my memory of her is sweet..her big beautiful smile when you introduced her. She was a very special young lady, especially because she is yours. Know that I am here for you if you should need me, and I am always your friend across these miles. Jackie and I are praying for you and your family, and for her. Love, Catherine
I'm so sorry for your loss Cara, David and Mark. I can't imagine how painful this is for you. Darcy was unique, and I'm so glad I chose to study at Liverpool University, as I got the chance to be best friends with such a wonderful, bright, and beautiful person. Darcy was the ray of sunshine in our little gang, always the loudest and always the funniest. She was and still is an inspiration to me. Brave, feisty, kind hearted and warm. And although it hurts so much that she is gone, we all know she wouldn't want us to be sad- she always wanted people to be happy. She proved that to me with her friendship time and time again. My favourite memories of her are the small simple things: the way she would get a hot drink from the canteen and usually always spill it or burn herself somehow. Or the way she would really listen when you told a story, and how she used to talk about TV shows we hadn't seen and list off characters as though she knew them personally.
She's changed my life, and I'll go on studying Egyptology and she'll be with me every step of the way. And as the Ancient Egyptians would say Darcy, 'maa kheru'.
Dear Friends and Family, For those of you in Birmingham, Al we will be holding a tree planting celebration in honor of Darcy's 20th Bday on Wed, Sep 28th at her high school Indian Springs. If you write on this wall, we will be reading the postings which have been of such comfort to us. Pls contact me for further info via my email. Sincerely, Cara
What a beautiful young lady, daughter, sister, gone far too soon. My heart is breaking for you and your family. I remember her as a precious baby playing in the sand on the beach.
We are thinking of you and sending prayers for strength to you, David and Marc.
I was so saddened to hear of Darcy's passing. I remember her smile when I cared for her as a child, and I send prayers of love, strength and peace to her precious family, Cara, David and Marc. May her light shine down on you always.
I so loved being a part of Darcy's life as I entertained at her and her friends' birthday parties. Remember when I was Dorothy from "The Wizard of Oz," and Barbie? And do you remember when I taught you girls to Hula and to Belly dance, and we laughed and had so much fun? The last time I saw all of you, I was reading Tarot cards for you. Cara, you are a great mother, and I am so sorry I can't attend the memorial tomorrow. When you are ready, call me, and I will gift you with a reading. Darcy has a lot to say, and if ever I was grateful for my gift of mediumship, it is now. All my love and prayers are going out to you and yours. Darcy has found a place where there isn't any trouble, and that place is far, far, away -- over the rainbow...
We were so very sad to hear of Darcy's passing. A loss of such a precious child is unimaginable. Please know that she will be missed by everyone she touched in East Quogue. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
From Liverpool University, Uk - Darcy brightened the halls of the Egyptian Archaeology Department while she was here. Our deepest sympathies to the friends and family of this wonderful young lady.
Darcy was always so happy and Smiling. She had a beautiful smile that could be seen from afar.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Cara and family,
So saddened to hear of the passing of your baby girl, Darcy. This has to be the most heart wrenching. We want you to know that our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this difficult time.
I think of you every day, Darcy.
This still doesn't feel real, every day I wake up and wonder if perhaps it was a nightmare. I could write pages and pages on here because there is so much that I want to say. I wish I could make things better, for me, for MC, for your family, for everyone. I wish there was something more that I could have done for you. I don't think I ever told you how proud I was of you for going to Liverpool, you were so brave.
Even though you are not here with us, you will never be gone. You continue to teach me things... some are things about myself. I realize I do not have the courage that you had, it's something I will work on and always think of you when I'm scared.
I love you Darce.
Dear Family and Friends, Thank you for all your prayers and thoughts for our family and Darcy. It has given me comfort reading your posts. I thank you for all your beautiful thoughts and words for us. Sincerely, Cara, David, and Mark
Dear Darcy, This is mommy, MC said she had a dream of you reading FB, so if by the craziest of chance you can read this, I miss you so much. Sometimes, I can't even breathe cause it hurts so much that you are gone. I will never understand and I miss your voice so much, but I can't call you anymore. Everyone told us what a nice service it was. MC sang so beautifully! Sarah helped me with so much, I just couldn't have done it without their help! I picked out your new dress that you were so excited to wear, I just couldn't stand the thought of you never being able to wear it at least once because you were so excited to wear it. Sam would have said you looked so beautiful in your new dress. I will miss you so much when I fly to MAN and you won't be there to meet me on the layover. Mark misses you too, he is trying so hard to be brave and strong for me, but he misses you so much already! I will try to keep the birdfeeder filled for the birds for you. I know you would want me to do that. And I really hope Jack is with you in Heaven. He will make you laugh he is such a silly dog! Love, mommy
i am sorry that your little girl died so young may god be with u in your hour of need
Cara, Mark and David,
We are so saddened to hear about your daughter Darcy. You are all in our thoughts and prayers,
The Rougeaux Family
Darcy was the centre of my life this last year and her passing still seems impossible. Wherever she is now i hope with all my heart that she is happy and looked after. She loved her family and friends most of all, so somehow for her we must learn to live with what has happened, she would want us to be happy. Darcy, i miss you.
Oh, Cara, I remember the last time I saw Darcy at the hospital and I remember how wonderful she treated her Papa. I wish I could have spent more time with her. I feel so much pain for all of you. Her memory will bring you consolation and strengh...we will all keep her in our minds and in our hearts forever.
I am a PhD student in the Archaeology department, University of Liverpool, UK. I did not know Darcy but my heart is truly saddened by the loss of such a young beautiful person who had her whole life ahead of her.
My sincere condolences go to Darcy's parents, brother and exdended family and friends. I hope her loving memory will bring you all strength at this heartbreaking time. Rest in peace Darcy xxx
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Darcy's smile in my French classroom at ISS.
Thank you for sharing Darcy with us, and thank you for allowing us to share with each other at today's service. She was a special young woman who touched many people. We are praying for peace, comfort, and joy for you all.
Cara, Mark, David
My heart aches for you at this difficult time. May the happy memories of Darcy help you through these days and years. I remember how helpful Darcy was at the party you gave for Sharyn. You are all in my prayers.
Fondly with love and blessings. Doreen Owens
The Rezonzew Family.
Vestavia Hills, Alabama
I am so sorry for your loss. Darcy was a wonderful young lady full of promise.
Everytime I think of Darcy's passing I find myself feeling that it can't really be true. She was just starting her independent life and all this is so very unfair. Cara, you are a very stong person, but you are also a mother and I know that this is too much for the strongest person. I am so sad for the grief you and your family are feeling and I pray that sweet memories of Darcy will help ease some of the pain of your tremendous loss.
Love and prayers, Jill, Steve, Stephen & Kristin
Cara, David and Marc,
Our hearts are breaking over your loss. Darcy was such a special and beautiful girl and we will hold the memories of her close. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dennis, Janice and Alexandra <3
May her memory be a blessing. Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Cara, Mark and David; We are so sorry over your loss. Darcy was part of our family too. Every time I think of Kara and Darcy playing I get an empty feeling in my heart. You are all in our prayers and hearts. She was a special girl and will be missed by all in East Quogue.
Love; Karen and Kara
Indian Springs Class of 2009. We'll miss you Darcy. A light has gone out in all our lives.
I still can't find the words to express the sadness that I feel. Cara, my heart aches for you right now. I have this empty feeling everytime I think about Darcy. I start to think back to Melissa & Darcy playing as children and then the tears start. I know there is nothing I or anyone can say that can ease your grief, but just know that you, Darcy, David and Marc are in my prayers. Know that you are loved and Darcy was loved very much. She was your bright star, now she shines in the sky.
Terri, Walt & Melissa
Cara, Mark and David,
"We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers. May God give you strength in this incredibly difficult time. Our hearts are with you today and always. We will cherish the memories of Darcy's good nature and the special times that we shared with you while you were living on Long Island."
With deepest sympathy.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
I am so sorry for your loss my heart and prayers go out to your family during this time of need