Robert Howe Obituary

Robert "Bob" Howe

VERNON Robert "Bob" Howe, 66, of Vernon, passed away on the morning of Aug. 12, 2013, at the Veteran's Administration Hospital in White River Junction.Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 31 years, Chris; daughters, Lolly Akley and wife, Holly, of Dummerston; Melissa Lynch and husband, Barry, of Chester; Lynn Akley of Vernon; one sister, Deborah Walker of Claremont, N.H.; two brothers, Stanley Howe and wife, Tina, of Dummerston and Carroll Howe and wife, Connie, of Vernon, and many nieces and nephews whom he loved deeply.

He was a loving grandfather "Papa" of four grandchildren, one of whom Bob and his wife raised, Latisha Akley of Vernon, Christy Akley of Brattleboro, Skylar Howe of Chester, and Brie Lynch also of Chester.

He was predeceased by a son, Mitchell R. Howe, and by his parents, Stanley and Evelyn Howe.

Bob was educated in the Vernon Elementary and BUHS #6 schools.

Bob was a veteran of the Army and fought in the Vietnam War. Bob served with Delta company, First Battalion - 14th Infantry (Golden Dragons), 4th Infantry Division. His headquarters were at Camp Enari, Pleiku, Vietnam. Bob fought in the Chu- pa mountains, Ia Drang valley, Plei Me and Cambodia. His company survived a tiger attack in Plei Me on Aug. 11, 1969, and his company got overrun Nov. 5 and 6, 1969, by the 33rd NVA regiment.

Bob was company RTO, taking over directing mortars and keeping his company organized. He recorded a tape of the attack which shows his courage as a great infantry soldier. Bob served as the RTO as well a Tunnel Rat. Bob came home from Vietnam in 1970 and never stopped fighting that war. Robert Allen Howe was truly an American War Hero.

Bob was a dedicated employee for the Vernon Elementary School, as a custodian for over 30 years. He loved every child who came through the school and had very close and friendly relationships with all the teachers. He was a God-fearing man who would pray without ceasing for each child, their parents, every teacher, principal and co-worker. He loved them all unconditionally.

He was also an independent trucking hauling cross country for several years prior.

Bob was a man of great faith and attended church every Sunday. He would always put others before himself. He was a humble man who, very often, went without so others could have what they needed. Bob was full of compassion, wisdom and loving kindness that will be sorely missed by all who knew him. Bob was a fun person who loved to laugh and lived life to the fullest. He never felt more at home than being in the woods. He truly was a great man.

FUNERAL NOTICE: A Celebration of Bob's life will be held at the VFW in Brattleboro on Sunday Aug. 18, at 2:30 p.m. with lead Pastor George Nye. Burial to follow. No wake service is offered.

A potluck gathering will follow the burial also at the VFW. If you bring a dish to share with others please take the dish when you leave.

The family is also asking that you come prepared to share a little something with everyone on how this wonderful man had touched your life.

Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Aug. 16, 2013.
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August 11, 2014

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I have been blessed to know Bob and to have been able to call him friend, cousin, and brother in Christ, Bob has been a man of steadfast faith and testimony for the grace and love of God's gift of salvation though Jesus, a gift available to all that would receive it, and Bob had received that free gift with open arms and heart, I have no doubt where Bob will be spending eternity, My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to all of Bob's family for the void now left in their lives by his absence. A. Lyle Howe Jr.

September 1, 2013

I am so very sad without you. I don't want the night to come, yet it comes. I don't want to go to bed without you, yet I have to. I cry all the time, never ceasing. I don't want to go forward in life without you, yet I have too. I am so sad, my heart is breaking, my world is crumbling and I am spiraling down and cannot stop, at times I think, I don't want to stop myself just let me go. I am so lonely without you honey. I am sick to my stomach, my head pounds and my chest is so heavy with a heart that feels so broken. I just don't know what to do. My faith in Christ Jesus is strong, it truly is, yet as I look in every corner of my world right now and I cannot even find that. I am so profoundly sad.

Chris (your loving wife)

August 22, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Howe Family.I have many fond memories of us all hanging out in Vernon all those years ago. Sorry for your loss.

Colleen Timney

August 19, 2013

So sorry to hear about Bob. He was a great man and will be missed by many!May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Lisa Johnson

August 19, 2013

Chris and family, I know God will grant you comfort and peace as a faithful servant of Him has passed from this life. Another Vietnam vet is at rest. God bless you.

george lagrp

August 18, 2013

Rest in peace old friend. I will always remember your sense of humor, smile and big heart.
My heart goes out to the Howe family during this time of sorrow.

Tom Butynski

August 18, 2013

Had to love that guy,We grinned at each other and laughed together for years.Don`t know who I know in the family.I do know and share your loss Carroll and hope all is well with you.Sounds like he led a good life to me,We are all better off for knowing him. Much Love Terry Hogan

Terry Hogan

August 18, 2013

Thoughts and prayers and my sincere condolences to all of you. I have many fond memories of Bobby in the old days when we lived in Vernon. May he be at peace in the Lord's loving arms.

Linda (Clews) Stark

August 18, 2013

Chris & Family please accept my sincere condolences. I am so sorry for your loss.

Dawn (Akeley) Nebelski

August 18, 2013

Thank You Our heavenly Father, Our Elder Brother Lord Jesus for the life and days of Your beloved son and brother. Please dear Holy Spirit grant his beloved wife, his beloved children, family and friends Your blessings of Comfort and Counsel to those left behind awaiting the coming day when we will once again be with You and Your beloved Bob...by Bobby. Love to all Mama Dee Cornerstone Motorcycle Ministry Original Charter,

August 17, 2013

Bob truly was an American hero. I am so sorry to hear that he's gone. He was generous about sharing his war story with me nearly 20 years ago for the book I was writing about psychological trauma. I have often thought of him with admiration and gratitude. Peace be with you, Bob.

Rebecca Coffey

August 17, 2013

To Bob's Family:
Bobby was a dear friend to my brother Richard. I light a candle for his life
of service and friendship.
Blessings be,
Joyce Edson Reischuck

August 17, 2013

Sorry to hear of your loss and prayers are with you. Rita Hart

August 17, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Gary and Laura Keen

August 17, 2013

Bob had a great heart and spirit. I'm sorry for the loss to his family and friends and am happy that he is whole and at peace.

Lois Johnson

August 17, 2013

We thank Bon for his service to his country, his town, his school, his family, those less fortunate he came in contact with, but most of all his service to God. His witness lives on and it is our prayer that God will hold you, Chris and family, in His arms, cradling you as you grieve and heal
Den & Sandy Harris

August 16, 2013

Faith says may peace find you and you'll be missed

August 16, 2013

So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Faith Barnes Black,Tellico Plains,TN and
Lynda Barnes Tirrell, San Antonio, TX

August 16, 2013

Bob was such a sweet man. I know you will all miss him so much. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.

Barbara Nokes

August 16, 2013

May God and His Angels provide comfort and solace to all who mourn Bob's passing. May Peace be with you all.

Colton & Nancy Class

August 16, 2013

I'm happy for Bob ,No more pain to deal with ...But sorry for you and your loss. My sister is going through this right now .so I feel your pain having watched her.With the love of Jesus and friends, family by your side , and time you will heal.Much Love Beav

Beverly Coleman

August 16, 2013

Chris & family, many, many prayers being sent your way. Your strong Faith will help you in this difficult time.

Cindy Mears

August 16, 2013

I will miss his smile and great attitude. Always had a good word for all. A true American hero

Jack Zumbach

August 16, 2013

Very sorry to hear of the loss of Bob . I have lost another fellow Vietnam Veteran of my home town of Vernon. My thoughts and prayers go out to Bob , Chris and the family.

Walt (Stub) Crossmon

August 16, 2013

Aug 16 2013
What a terrific loss ! Bob was a great gentleman - hero & had so much love for everyone. God bless his whole family - Love ya all Uncle Roger

Roger Britton

August 16, 2013

Thoughts & prayers are with you at this time Chris. I have many fond memories growing up in Vernon with Bob and later working with him at Vernon school. Take comfort in the love of your family and friend and may God Bless you and your family.

Sylvia Scott

August 16, 2013

I am so very very sorry for your loss. May the Lord keep you strong always. With deepest sympathy.

Brenda Howe

August 16, 2013

I'm sorry about Bob, Chris. Love, Janie

Jane Crossmon

August 16, 2013

We lost a truely Great man this week. I love you brother!

Smokey Howe

August 16, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gene & Joan Morse

August 16, 2013

my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of loss.bob was a great person and will be missed dearly. his great smile will light up heaven .
faye 'MIDGE" BISHOP

FAYE BISHOP

August 16, 2013

May Bob's soul have eternal rest and peace. I love you Aunt Christy and I don't have to say to you of all people that Bob is know one of God's blessed Angels. I hope your healing process goes smoothly and swiftly. From what I read and hear Bob wouldn't want you to be sad for too long.

Candy Garland

August 16, 2013

Remember Bob well from BUHS. My thoughts go out to all of you during this time.

Jane Decker Perham

August 16, 2013

Bob was truly a wonderful man, he will be miss. Our love and prays go out to you and family.

Steve Sharon Bird

August 16, 2013

He was truly a wonderful man he will be missed. Our love goes out to you Chris and the family.

Steve Sharon Bird

August 16, 2013

John and I send our love to you, Chris, and your dear family. Bobby had a gentle spirit and it was an honor to worship with both of you before the Lord at Agape. May God draw you and your family nearer to Him because you are so very dear to Him! Will keep you in prayer this weekend as we will be out of state.

Sheri Parker

August 16, 2013

Bob was a great man n I was glad I got to have him in my life when I was a teenager .

Marie Covey

August 16, 2013

A true friend to all and a true American hero will be missed by all of us that knew him and were touched by his love and friendship.

Richard, Rl

August 16, 2013

What an amazing light and spirit Bob brought to all who knew him. I'll always treasure our time together at Vernon School and feel very blessed to have called him my friend. RIP, Bob, and my deepest sympathy to your beloved family.

Nancy Christmas

August 16, 2013

Bob was truly a wonderful man. I will miss him, but know I will see him again.

August 16, 2013

bobby you are such a great person and will be missed by just short of one million people if not more you have touched so many lives and will continue as you walk with the lord god speed my friend and may you rest in peace

george pond

August 16, 2013

He was such an amazing man and impacted many lives. My family was very Blessed to know Bob. Heaven is truly dancing with his presence.

August 16, 2013

Dear Chris I am so sorry for the loss of your loving husband Bob. Bob and Doug will have lots to talk about

Ronnie Johnson

August 16, 2013

My heart goes out to you. I know Bob will be greatly missed. It was a privilege to have Bob includes us in his life.

August 16, 2013

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