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Carmen M. Dugo Sr.

Carmen Dugo Obituary

DUGO-Carmen M. Sr. 4/17/08. Former husband of Florence (Steve) McCarthy and Phyllis. Father of Sandy(Richard) Knoer, Joseph (Frances) Dugo, Karen(Michael) Friedman, Carmen, Jr.(Tina) Dugo and Melissa (Ian) Mountz. Grandfather of 14 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. Brother of John(Joanne) Dugo and pre-deceased by 3 sisters and 8 brothers Also survived by nieces and nephews. Services were held at the convenience of the family. Arrangements By The STEPHAN-BURNS FUNERAL HOME.

This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.

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Published by Buffalo News on Apr. 19, 2008.

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Lola ( Carol ) and Tom Miller

April 16, 2025

Oh my beautiful Uncle Ottie, we all miss you so so much !

Michael Friedman

April 13, 2025

Muss you Carmen

Carol Miller

April 13, 2024

Oh my beautiful Uncle Ottie , I miss you and my Ma so so so much . The world lost a beautiful man when you left us . I wish I could call and talk , I have so much to tell you . You were always like a Dad to me , always there for me and even yelling at me like I was your daughter. I miss you Uncle Ottie ❤ please hug my beautiful lil Mama for me and give her a big birthday kiss . Xoxo Love always and forever Carol and Tom

Carol Miller

April 13, 2023

I miss you more than words can say Uncle Ottie !! xoxoxoxo

Glen Bertram

April 18, 2021

RIP Mr Dugo

lola Miller

April 17, 2021

Uncle Ottie,I miss you more than words can say ,I loved you like a Dad!!

Carol ( Lola ) Miller

April 17, 2020

I miss you every day Uncle Ottie ❤

Melissa Mountz

September 11, 2015

Well you will be a grandpa again. I am due the day you were taken away from us, April 17th and on Aunt Helen's birthday. I miss you so much!

Angela K

September 21, 2014

I miss you Grandpa. I wish you were here <3

Ma and her lil brother ....xoxoxo

carol miller

April 17, 2014

I miss you Uncle Ottie so so much ,please give my Ma a birthday kiss and hug from me !! xoxoxoxoxo

Melissa Dugo-Mountz

April 16, 2014

? 6 years tomorrow ? Missing you everyday!

carol miller

July 30, 2013

I miss you and my Ma so much Uncle Ottie,I think of you everyday !! xoxoxo

Carol Miller

July 30, 2013

I am thinking of you today ,its so hard to be with out you and my Ma !! I love and miss you more than words can say !! xoxo

Carol Miller

April 19, 2013

I thought about you Uncle Ottie all day on the 17th... you were my rock after my Ma died and now Sandy is my rock because you and my Ma are together now,I love you with all of my heart and sole,I miss you and my Ma so much !! xoxoxoxoxoxo

Sandra Knoer

April 17, 2013

Missing my Dad today,think of him every day,for five long years.Miss and love him so much,no words can describe.So proud to be your daughter,so proud that you're my Dad.

Mike Friedman

June 18, 2012

Happy Father's Day

CAROL Miller

June 17, 2012

Today I am thinking of you because you were more like a Dad to me than an Uncle. Thank-you for always being there for me while growing up. I love you and miss you more than words can say.I love you Uncle Ottie xoxoxoxoxo

Uncle Ottie with his sisters and brothers .

Carol Miller

April 18, 2012

Carol Miller

April 18, 2012

I cant believe four years have gone by,I miss you so much Uncle Ottie. I will always be greatful for having you in my life and for you being a father figure to me. I hope you and my Ma are celebrating her birthday . My two most precious people in the world,I dont stop thinking about you at all. God Bless you both.

Melissa Dugo-Mountz

April 17, 2012

Miss you so much! Mavrik starts kindergarden this year and he is getting so big and he is so smart! I wish you were here to see how big he's getting! Love you Daddy!

Sandra Knoer

December 25, 2011

Thinking of you today, and remembering Christmas as a child ,Dad. Miss you so much ! Wishing you were here. My love to you ,through Christmas Spirits.

July 30, 2011

Happy Birthday Daddy:) I Miss You Soooo Much, Words can not describe!!!!

Lola Miller

July 30, 2011

I am thinking of you today Uncle Ottie ! Happy Birthday . I love and miss you so so much.

Lola Miller

June 19, 2011

You were always like a Dad to me ,I miss you more than you would ever know Uncle Ottie !

Angela K

June 19, 2011

Happy Fathers day.. Wishing you were here

Sandra Knoer

June 18, 2011

Wishing you a Happy Father's Day in heaven! Think of you every day and missing you more each day. I love you!XO

Angela

April 18, 2011

I miss you Grandpa.. You are always on my mind.

Carol Miller

April 16, 2011

I miss you and love you so much ,you were the best Uncle Ottie. xoxoxoxoxoxo Please kiss my Ma and give her a big hug for me and tell her I said Happy Birthday. Tell her Ronnie is with me now so theres no need to worry anymore. I love you both and miss you more than you will ever know!

Michael Friedman

July 31, 2010

Happy Birthday, Dad. I bet you won at poker yesterday....

Carol Miller

July 30, 2010

Happy Birthday Uncle Ottie ,I hope you and my Ma and the rest of the Dugo clan are gonna have a great celebration! I miss you and my Ma very much and it breaks my heart to think that I can't give you both a big kiss and hug. I know you are watching over us and you are in great hands. I love you ,Carol xoxoxoxo

Karen Friedman

July 30, 2010

Happy Birthday Daddy!!!

We miss you sooo much!!!!

Carol Miller

June 20, 2010

Happy Fathers Day Uncle Ottie,you were always like a Dad to me . I miss you and love you and think about you all the time.Give my Ma a kiss for me and tell her how much I miss and love her too ! xoxoxoxoxo

Michael Friedman

June 20, 2010

I remember your 75th and how happy you were. Thanks for being my Dad too for so long.

Sandra Knoer

June 19, 2010

Happy Father's Day Daddy,Miss and love you so much...XXXOOO

Carol Miller

April 17, 2010

It's been two years Uncle Ottie and I miss you more than you would ever know.I miss our talks on the phone and I miss your laugh. I love you my beautiful Uncle. Your neice,Carol xoxoxo

Lola Miller

July 31, 2009

Happy Birthday Uncle Ottie....manicotti...I miss you more than you will ever know...Your neice,Carol aka. Lola

richie knoer

July 31, 2009

happy birthday grandpa & ur welcome lol

Sandy Knoer

July 30, 2009

Happy Birthday to my wonderful Father!! Sinatra and a harvey for you!
Love you and miss you,
Sandy

Melissa Mountz

July 30, 2009

happy birthday Dad! I miss you so much!
Love Melissa

Sandy Knoer

June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day Dad! There are no words to say how much I miss you!I love you and miss you so much!

Michael Weiser

May 4, 2009

I miss u so much grandpa i wish that u were still here i miss your funny jokes and siting in the kitchen listening to frank sinatra with u and uncle joe

Carmen Dugo Jr.

April 21, 2009

Dad, It's been a year and I can still hear your voice & smell your cologne. I can feel your presence, knowing you are my guardian angel. Having "someone to watch over me" as you do gives me strength and courage to take on what ever life throws my way, and for that I thank you.
Love Always Carmen Jr.

Karen Friedman

April 18, 2009

Dad,

We all miss you sooo much, things are just not the same without you.

April 18, 2009

I miss you Dad! I can't believe it's been a year.

Sandy Knoer

April 17, 2009

I think of you every day,Dad.I miss you and love you very much.

Carol Miller

April 17, 2009

It's been one year and not a day goes by when I think about my Uncle Ottie.I miss him so so much!!

Mike Friedman

April 17, 2009

We miss you Carmen.

carol Miller

December 31, 2008

Happy New Year Uncle Ottie,I miss you more than you would ever know,kiss and hug my Ma for me,Love your neice,Carol(Lola)

PAT MOSER

December 30, 2008

HI CARMEN
WELL AGAIN I WROTE TO YOU ON CHRISTMAS AND IT WAS NOT PUT IN . I HIPE YOU HAD A GREAT CHRISTMAS WATCHING OVER YOUR FAMILY. AGAIN I SAY BE GOOD AND DON,T CHASE THE LADY ANGELS YOU ARE SUPPOSTO BE RESTING IN PEACE

richie knoer

December 25, 2008

merry christmas grandpa its not the same without u.

richie knoer

July 30, 2008

happy birthday grandpa i miss u & ill never forget u

JOSEPH DUGO

July 30, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD! POST TIME! LOVE JOE

Sandra Knoer

July 30, 2008

Happy Birthday Dad!!!!I played Sinatra for you today! I know you could hear him!I miss you and love you with all my heart!
Your Daughter,
Sandra

Melissa Mountz

July 30, 2008

happy birthday Daddy! I'm missing you so much!!

Karen Friedman

July 30, 2008

Happy Birthday To You!!

Hope you have a good time!!!

Carol Miller

July 28, 2008

Happy Birthday Uncle Ottie,I miss you so so much,Love Lola!!!

Carol Miller

June 18, 2008

Happy Fathers Day Uncle Ottie,Love Carol

Karen Friedman

June 15, 2008

Happy Fathers Day Dad

We miss you

AVA DIAZ

May 24, 2008

UNCLE OTTIE, WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS MY HEART SUNK. YOU WERE LOVED BY ALL. I WENT THROUGH SOME PHOTOS LAST NIGHT AND FOUND ONE OF YOU AND MY CHILDREN. THEY AND I WILL ALWAYS HAVE FOND MEMORIES OF YOU. YOUR WITH MY MOM AND ALL YOUR OTHER BROTHERS AND SISTERS AND OF COURSE YOUR MOM AND DAD (MY GRANDPA BENJAMIN). I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR FAMILIES LOSS. LOVE AND MISS YOU AVA, DANIEL, DEVEN, AND KEVIN

Carol Miller

May 21, 2008

This is so so hard Uncle Ottie, we miss you so much....

Joann and Don Sapp

May 8, 2008

We
only got to meet Carmen once, and that was at Melissa and Ian's wedding.
Carmen did a marvelous job of walking Melissa down the aisle and giving
her away. Melissa is a lovely, beautiful granddaughter to us now, and we
are so proud of her. She is a marvelous wife and mother and we love having
her in our family. We appreciate the part you had in her life very much.


Sincerely, Joann and Don Sapp
Scottsdale, AZ

May 5, 2008

May 5, 2008

Mavrik and is Grandpa Dugo

May 5, 2008

Melissa Mountz

May 4, 2008

thank you for always loving and supporting me!! thank you for flying to Phoenix and walking me down the isle and dancing with me to Al Martino's "Daddy's little girl". It was a perfect evening! I love you so much and you have no idea how much I and everyone else is going to miss you! you are probably having so much fun hanging out with Frank Sinatra and all your friends and family!! I will love you forever and always!

Michele Picone

April 27, 2008

Dear Uncle Ottie...I want you know that even though it's been a very long time since we have seen each other, you will always be an Uncle very dear to my heart. I will always have such great memories of you for ever. You will always be the best and fastest coffee stirer ever!!!! You always made everone laugh...and every time I hear Sinatra you come to mind. I hope you and Jack can finally reunite and catch up. Thank you for all of the great times I had growing up. I will never forget that big house in Riverside, we all had so much fun. I love you, and I know that you are out of pain, and in a better place. Give my love to my Dad, Aunt Loretta, Gram and Gramps. Until we meet again...go in peace.

Sandi Schmidt

April 24, 2008

Uncle Ottie - I'm sorry I wasn't close to you for the past 15 years or so, but my memory of you will never fade. I'm glad you are now without pain and that you have met up with your maker and also the rest of your family. I hope it is a lovely reunion.
Love alway, your niece Sandi

Sandra Knoer

April 24, 2008

Dad,
I wanted to thank you for all the wonderful memories you have given all of us over the years.You were so protective of your children,you were always there when we needed you,you always made us laugh,you are the best Dad,ever. we are going to miss you so much!
Love,Sandy

Michael Friedman

April 23, 2008

Carmen, will miss you a lot. You've been my Dad for 25 plus years. Find my Mom & Dad up there and say hello. You're probably already drinking with him. Thanks for the greatest gift a man can give, your daughter Karen. We'll all be thinking of you

Lynn Cline

April 23, 2008

Uncle Ottie,I will miss our sunday evening phone calls. Love you and will miss you very much. You are all having a really big reunion up there. Love our niece, Lynn

stephen mccarthy

April 23, 2008

i have always liked carmen since early in 1983 when i first met him;so much so that i wanted him to be my best man at my second wedding even though everybody thought it would be wrong .i saw nothing wrong in thar w\even thou it was his ex-wife i was marrying which was the best gift he could have ever giving me.they thought i was crazy when i went to his second wedding.i got a chance to meet his brothers before they passed away a few years later will miss our harwood canadian sessions we had

Rich Dugo

April 22, 2008

Uncle Ottie, I remember the family reunions at Stonybrook Park. You were always fun to be around. Will miss you. Say hello to Dad and Mom (Jazzy and Madeline). Love your nephew, Rich Dugo

April 22, 2008

From your loving family

April 22, 2008

Cindy Folga

April 22, 2008

Joe,Sandy,Karen,Carmen & Families,
Just wanted you to know we are feeling your sadness. Carmen was quite the character. His friendship and great sense of humor will be missed by all. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Russ,Cindy,Lacy,Keagan and Russ

Michael Weiser

April 21, 2008

Grandpa i will miss u forever and ever u will be in my memmories and thoughts for the rest of my life

Karen Friedman

April 21, 2008

Dad,
I truly do not know what to say. I do know that life will not be the same without you. I hope that you are feeling no pain and that the angles gave you a warm welcome. Say Hi to Frank for me. I will Love you and Miss you Forever and a day.

Karen

Jan

April 20, 2008

Enjoy your family reunion, Uncle Ottie. Say Hi to Helen. She was a blast

John Leiva

April 20, 2008

Uncle Ottie,
You will be missed by all and forever in our thoughts. We love you!

Tom Miller

April 20, 2008

It has been a pleasure to know you Ottie,you were a good man and we will miss you,Tom

Jim Wagner

April 19, 2008

Uncle, thank you for being the greatest man I know. I will surely miss you. I love you , see you in heaven. Love, your nephew Jimmy

Samantha Wolfe

April 19, 2008

My heart goes out to the family and friends who were fortunate enough to know Carmen. I for one was fortunate enough to know him through Grandma Flo and Grandpa. He never made me feel like an outsider; I remember sitting at Grandma's house and him coming downstairs to go somewhere or just for coffee and cracking jokes. He was such a good man and very thoughtful. I will miss him dearly and my heart is just broken to know we lost a good man when Carmen passed. Love, Grandpa Steve's granddaughter

PAT & DON MOSER

April 19, 2008

CARMEN
NOW WHO WILL I HAVE TO TEASE?
YOU WERE A GOOD SPORT AND I LOVED TALKING TO YOU. I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU HAD TO SUFFER ALL THESE YEARS BUT YOU ARE AT PEACE NOW, AND NO MORE STRUGGLING.
I AM SURE GONNA MISS SEEING YOU AT STEVES HOUSE, IT JUST WILL NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU , BUT WE WILL ALL BE WITH YOU SOON, SO MOVE OVER , OLD MAN.
. I EXPECT THAT WHEN IT IS MY TURN YOU WILL BE A HEAVENLY PRO BY THEN AND YOU CAN GIVE ME SOME POINTERS , TO DO THE RIGHT THINGS.
YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY MANY, SO ENJOY THE PAIN FREE TIME YOU HAVE , TILL WE MEET AGAIN.
SLEEP WITH THE ANGLES AND LEAVE THOSE CIGARETTS ALONE.
BYE FOR NOW BUDDY

Ron Wagner

April 19, 2008

I love you Carmen ,You were my mentor. I'm gonna miss you ,Love Ronnie.

Bridget Leiva

April 19, 2008

You will forever be in my heart and memories. I love you Uncle Ottie.

Always,
Your great niece

Carol Miller

April 19, 2008

You were my rock Uncle Ottie,I don't know what I will do without you.You will forever be in my heart. I love you Uncle Ottie,your neice,Carol

LEANNE KNOER

April 19, 2008

GRANDPA WE ARE ALL GOING TO MISS YOU. I 'M GLAD YOU WERE MY GRANDFATHER.

richie Knoer

April 19, 2008

grandpa ill forever miss you youll forever be in my heart & i love you.


your grandson richie

Angela Knoer

April 19, 2008

I will miss you Grandpa and I Love you Forever.You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.

Love your, Granddaughter,
Angela

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