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August 22, 2016
Hi Brother,

I couldn't sleep last night, I even slept with your shirt but it didn't help. I think the reason I am so upset this weekend is BC I have to drive your truck until my car is fixed, driving it makes me really sad. I have a big work meeting today at 11am and I'm nervous about it for so many reasons and I'm sure you know why. If you could just be there with me it would make me feel more confident. I wish you were here this week to give me advice and talk to me. Mark lives with me temporarily and he tried his best to help me through this week, he laid with me when i was crying and gave Me the same advice you'd probably give me...I am very lucky to have had 2 older brothers who love me so much. You guys were my backbone growing up, the only thing I had to look up to and learn from. I love you both so much. Please continue to look out for our mark for me, I do the best I can but I'm not you, and although I try my best and love him more than any thing he still needs his brother. We talk about you a lot and try to laugh at the goodtimes. We were laughing the other day about how you use to always wear turtle necks but you could make them look good lol!
We miss you Eric, so much.

I love you more.
August 21, 2016
Hi Eric..a lot has happened since our last chat. We had a great time at the cottage. Dylan, Aubrey and Ashley were there for the whole week. Mark came down on Sunday, Thursday and then again on Saturday. A couple of friends came with him on Saturday and they all went to Mickey Rats to celebrate his 31st birthday. Sara came down on Wednesday and spent the day and that is when Kristin called us with the news that she is pregnant!! Kristin came down Thursday and Friday, and Tom and Jenn were there Thursday, Friday and Saturday. The weather was perfect, it got cloudy one day for about an hour and was beautiful and sunny the rest of the time. When we got home, we came to see you and brought the beach to you in a salsa jar, lol. Well, the official Buffalo Bills season has begun and Bob got season tickets this year with Uncle Mike. He took Dylan to the first pre-season game and then yesterday, he took Ashley and it was Kid's Day. They both had a great time with Grandpa, but that is no surprise. They tailgated, played football and watched most of the game. It was so hot yesterday that Ashley wanted to come home at halftime, but Grandpa didn't mind, they still had fun. I know you have been keeping tabs on your brother and sister and watching over them, I truly appreciate knowing they have you as a guardian angel, couldn't ask for a better one. Well, I'm heading to be in a few minutes, I just wanted to stay up past midnight so I could talk with my boy. I love you so much Eric, but you know that. Smile my beautiful angel and give everyone a kiss for me.I can't believe in 9 days, it will be one year that Grandma joined you in Heaven. Give her a special hug and tell her and Grandpa I love them very much Sending you all my love, Mom

P.S. I almost forgotI already passed my $888 goal for the AFSP Out of the Darkness Walk, it's on September 10th at Delaware Park, and we are walking to honor you again honey, I hope it makes you proud, I love you
July 25, 2016
Hi eric I dont talk that much to you on line but I talk to you when I AM DRIVING ON MY JOB. Believe it or not but I feel safe because you are with me. I love you very much talk again soon.
July 21, 2016
Hi honey, happy 21st of July. We have had a crazy week and have a couple of crazier weeks coming up. Tomorrow night we are having our 4th of July sleepover a few weeks late, lol. We are taking the kids to Seneca Niagara, they do a outside movie every Friday in July and tomorrow night the movie is Grease with John Travolta and Olivia Newton John, I think they will love it. We've got goodie bags for them and red, white and blue cookies to take with us. There will be food trucks and concession stands, so we'll let them get a snack for the show. Then on Saturday night, I have my 41st class reunion at the Olcott Yacht Club so that will be fun to see old friends and find out who is left and what everyone is up to. Then on Sunday, Jenn's friend Linzy is having a bridal shower. I got invited because Jen is the maid of honor, so that should be a lot of fun, it's at The Columns where your stepsister Stephanie had her bridal shower years ago. Then next week, we will be running around getting everything ready to head to Angola and the cottage. You would love the place we have now, it's so big and really nice, we have a great time. And of course, we always take you with us and put our picture of you and Dylan on the fireplace mantle. I'll bring you some sand and shells like I always do, but you will be with us always in our hearts. The girls and Dylan are really excited, they count down the days until we go. I love you baby boy, I'll talk to you again soon. All my love until next time, Mom XOXOXOXO
July 08, 2016
HAPPY 34TH BIRTHDAY HONEY!! I hope you have a wonderful day in heaven, this year Grandma is there to celebrate with you, just as she was in Florida with me and Dad to celebrate the day you were born. What a wonderful day that was, that was truly the beginning of the most wonderful part of my life, my kids. Yesterday I was reliving that time and couldn't remember if I had ever told you this story about your Dad. You were born in Bethesda Memorial Hospital in Boyton Beach, Florida, and when Dad left that night, he had to cross over some railroad tracks to get back to our apartment in Pompano Beach. He was so happy and excited that we had our first baby, he stopped on the railroad tracks, got out of the car, and in the middle of the night hollered 'Eric Christopher Ness' at the top of his lungs. You know your Dad, and for him to do something like that, shows you how blessed we both felt. I hope I shared that story with you, I panicked yesterday thinking that I hadn't, but if not, now you know. I love you so, and miss you more.....I'm making a list of things to tell you when we are together again. For now, my sweet boy, party with the angels and rest in peace Eric. Love forever, Mom
June 21, 2016
Hi Honey, it's June 21st and summer is officially here! Sunday was Father's Day, we had a nice day. Dylan came to visit you, here's the picture Sara took of him. Can you believe how big he is getting? He is such a sweet kid, and handsome like his Daddy. Addison is going to be 6 years old on Thursday, it seems like yesterday she was born and we came to Millard Fillmore Suburban to see her. I would give anything to go back to that day, but that isn't going to happen. I love you so, had to stop and say hello and sending you all my love until we talk again, Mom
May 21, 2016
Hi Eric, another 21, in fact it's May 21, and Bob and I just had another birthday! I can't believe I'm 59 years old, I truly don't feel it, but I truly am, lol. We had a great time in Vegas except Bob caught my cold when we got there, poor guy. It was under the weather for the first couple of days, but we managed to have a good time as always. When we got back, the kids came and stayed overnight, we had fun, they love the room we did for them, which is exactly why we did it. I put a couple of pictures on here of Aub and Ash, they are getting so big. They are such wonderful girls, you would be so proud of them, they miss their Uncle Eric very much. Dylan stayed over last Tuesday and him, Bob and I went to Ashley's chorus concert at Lancaster High, boy, did that bring back a lot of memories. We're heading to Niagara Produce when Bob gets home,I'll try to get you flowers that the deer won't eat the first day, lol, although I'm sure that makes you smile. I love you so much, thanks for watching over Melissa and getting her to where she needs to be, I know that you are helping to take care of her for Bob, and he knows it too. A lot going on with the weather getting warmer (finally). Have to get your garden going, Bob accidentally pulled out one of your perennials, he is a trip. Until the next time we talk my precious angel, all my love, Mom
April 21, 2016
Eric, it has been three years today since you left us, it seems like a hundred and three to me, I miss you so much. Every year, I think this is just another day, but all day yesterday and today, I still have trouble breathing. I talk to myself and scold myself, and remind myself that you are OK now, that you are safe, no one can hurt you, no one can stress you out, you don't need to worry about anything. You are free and happy and eternally resting in peace. I know that God saw you needed that and took you home with him to end your suffering. But I'm still sad, I try so hard not to be, but sometimes I can't help it. I know you would say That's OK Mom, I love you and give me one of your big hugs.' I know that it will never go away, there's a hole in my heart that will be there until I see you again and can hold you forever. I'm coming to see you today and sit with you for a while. The sun is shining and I know you are saying hello. I also know that you are with me always. Although I can't touch you, I feel you in my heart and that helps.I love you so, my beautiful angel, Mom
April 21, 2016
I still here and miss your voice, but sometimes I feel stronger inside. Believe it or not but you influenced be more than anybody, and i know your still with me. I love you eric very muc.
April 10, 2016
Hi Honey, just had to drop you a quick note and tell you about the new bedroom we set up for Aub, Ash and Dylan. It's really the 'Grandkids Room', but we hardly ever see Addison or Mason. Anyway, we had our after Easter sleepover last night and we gave them each a box of candy and on the back we wrote 'We hope' 'you love' 'your room'. And when they finally figured out what was going on, they went flying up the stairs and they love it!! We got them a new bunk bed, futon on the bottom like Mark used to have on Pleasantview, a new TV, a new laptop, and a bunch of neat pillows, desk supplies, etc. They love it, we were so excited to show them. I know Dylan would give anything to show it to his Dad, but I know that you were with him, because you always are. Love talking with you honey, until next time, all my love, Mom

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