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Sheila FLEMING-MILLER Obituary

FLEMING - MILLER - Sheila M. (nee Donigan) December 25, 2014, of Williamsville, NY, loving wife of the late William E. Fleming and the late Fred Miller; dear mother of Mary (Richard E.) McNamara, Maureen (Dr. James E.) Ryan, Joan (William) O'Hare, Judy (Paul) Kazmierczak and William E. (Christine) Fleming; sister of the late Maureen Grundtisch (Glenn), Gerald (late Helen) Donigan and Ann (Richard) Edmonds; grandmother of Elizabeth, Colleen, Kaitlyn, Patrick McNamara, James, Megan, John Ryan, William, Kathleen O'Hare, Peter, Claire, Thomas Kazmierczak, Lauren, Anna Fleming; beloved friend of Serena Group and Maryann Emmert; predeceased in death by her precious Golden Retriever, Morgan. Sheila was a dedicated Registered Nurse for 42 years and encouraged her three daughters and three granddaughters to become nurses. Friends may call Friday 4-7:30 PM at the PERNA, DENGLER, ROBERTS FUNERAL HOME, 1671 Maple Rd., Williamsville. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial from St. Gregory the Great R.C. Church, Saturday at 9 AM. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Erie County SPCA. www.denglerrobertspernafuneral.com

Published by Buffalo News on Dec. 26, 2014.
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Just found out today! I've had the flu. I am a neighbor with a dog from down the street. Your Mom and grandmother was a very sweet, kind lady who always had time to chat when I was out walking the dog and always had a treat ready for Brody. I will miss her and her cheery smile. With sincere sympathy.

Christine Balcerek

January 5, 2015

I can't begin to describe the level of respect and gratitude that I have for my grandmother. Mama Sheila is the reason that our amazingly close family of 24 exists. I am so thankful for this irreplaceable gift. My family is full of kind-hearted people who are passionate about helping others - a trait that undoubtedly was imitated because of a superb example. With over 40 years of service as a nurse, I could not be more proud to be part of a family that stems from this kind of compassion.

I miss my Papa Fred terribly and these past few weeks have reminded me just how much I wish he was able to be here with me to celebrate life's events. Even though I have now also lost Mama Sheila, I am at peace knowing that they are finally together again. I can picture them laughing, making "spagooti and meatballs" and playing with their beloved dog Morgan.

It is hard to move on. You feel a sense of guilt for simply going about your daily actions. The best way to cope, in my opinion, is to find a way to carry on the memory of those that are lost and to live a life that they could be proud of. I choose to proudly be a follower in Sheila Fleming-Miller's footsteps - caring without judgement, loving without boundaries and praying without doubt. I love you Mama Sheila. May you forever be at peace and pain-free.

P.S. I am sorry I called you Mama Dumb Dumb when you made me take an unwanted nap.

Xoxo,
Colleen

Colleen McNamara

December 30, 2014

Maureen, I am SO very sorry for your loss; please know you and your family are in my prayers Jane Novelli

jane novelli

December 28, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Judy, it's obvious that your mom was very special. She brought wonderful children into this world and raised them to have great morals, kindness, and generosity. The values that she and your dad instilled in you will keep her alive in all of your hearts for many generations. Your mom also taught you the art of true friendship, and I'm happy for that. I wish I could be there for you.

Heidi Brown

December 27, 2014

So sorry to hear of her passing. Our deepest sympathy to your family.
Judy and Mike Zvorsky

December 27, 2014

A very special lady. She will be dearly missed! Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and the family. If we can do anything please feel free to call.

Barbara & Dean Aschenbrenner

December 27, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to your family. She was a very classy lady with a warm heart . Her smile made everyone feel loved. I know she will be missed as she was such an important part of your life.
Love, the G Family

Nancy Giangrisostomi

December 26, 2014

So sorry for Joan, Bill and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Tim & Jen Cramer

December 26, 2014

I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. I remember mama Sheila from my childhood growing up with Elizabeth. May she live through your wonderful memories and rest in peace with the Lord.

Shannon Lynch-Essrow

December 26, 2014

So sorry for your loss. May God be with your family during this difficult time. She was a wonderful person. I have many good memories of working with her in the emergency room. I always looked up to her for the nurse and mother she was.

Grace Logie

December 26, 2014

A very special Lady!! Our deepest sympathy. Love, Debbie and Bob

Robert and Debra (Donigan) Kent

December 26, 2014

Deepest sympathy to you all. Sheila was a wonderful woman and a dedicated compassionate nurse. I enjoyed working with her at the hospital and sharing some good laughs.A very sweet woman.Thinking of you all at this sorrowfull time. God bless

Lisa Jetter

December 26, 2014

So very sorry for your loss! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time!

Christina Westermeyer

December 26, 2014

I'm so sorry ....my deepest condolences...your mother is such a love...a heavenly host of love and light surround you and and your family...you are in our prayers

Patti Shear-Berlin and Family

December 26, 2014

Our love and support during this time.Sheila raised a wonderful family and cared for many others.Thanking God for her life.
The Glanowski's

December 26, 2014

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