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TONY LAFAYETTE Obituary

TONY LAFAYETTE - BURLINGTON - Anthony "Tony" Joseph Lafayette, 61, passed away peacefully on Friday, Dec. 7, 2012, surrounded by his family, after participating in one final game of cribbage. He fought a courageous battle with cancer. Tony was a graduate of Rice Memorial High School and Vermont Technical College. He loved sports, playing baseball and basketball in high school and collegiately. He passed on this knowledge, coaching countless youth teams through Little League, CYO and Parks and Rec. Additional accomplishments include, retiring as the career leader in assists at VTC, pitching a no-hitter in men's softball, hitting a hole-in-one at Williston Country Club, and induction into the Vermont Softball Hall of Fame. He remained a lifelong Burlingtonian, a city in which he took great pride and started a family. Tony will be remembered for his incredible devotion to his family and the local community. He was an active board member at The Boys and Girls Club and The Burlington International Games. As founder of Lafayette Real Estate, he enjoyed nothing more than managing his apartments, meeting new people and discussing the next business deal (the last of which he closed on November 30th). Never one to forget a face or without a moment to stop and chat, he rarely left home without brightening someone else's day. In later years, he was a self-proclaimed fishing addict, always discussing "the one that got away." A perfect night would be spent with friends and family playing cards, pool and ping pong. Son of Leonard and Marie, he is survived by his wife of 30 years, Melissa; and his children, Chris of New York, Jenna and her wife, Kimberly, of Rhode Island, Brian of New York, and Eric of Burlington. He also leaves behind his siblings, Diane, Mark, Carol and Pat, Peter and Roberta, Paul, Marty and Mary Lou, Maria, and Monica. In addition, he leaves many loved ones, including 89 nieces and nephews. Calling hours will be held at Ready Funeral Home, 261 Shelburne Road, today, Sunday, Dec. 9, 2012, from 3 to 5 and from 7 to 9 p.m. A Mass a Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, Dec. 10, 2012, at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Burlington, with burial at a later date. Online condolences may be made at www.readyfuneral.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Boys & Girls Club of Burlington, a charity that Tony cared deeply about, located at 62 Oak Street, Burlington, VT 05401.

Published by The Burlington Free Press on Dec. 9, 2012.
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Jo Beth Henderson

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December 10, 2023

Tony was a jewel in the Queen City's crown. Just learning this sad news, Diane and I wish to send Melissa and the wonderful Lafayette Family our heartfelt sympathies. The powerful Mets of North Burlington Little League were only one example of Tony's commitment to Burlington's youth. He will long be remembered as an inspiration.

Thomas Leavitt

December 17, 2012

Melissa and Family,
My extreme condolences with your loss. Tony was an exceptional person especially with his endless giving to the community. His positive influence on so many youth and adults associated with Burlington Parks and Recreation was constant and valuable to the health of the community. I consider myself lucky to have worked and recreated with Tony. May you be peaceful in these difficult days. Pete

Peter Selikowitz

December 14, 2012

Melissa and Family,

So sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Rob and Cele Goodwin

December 12, 2012

You were one in a million Tony, our deepest sympathy

Allen + Anne Kieslich

December 11, 2012

To the entire Lafayette family. We are deeply sadden to hear Tony passed away.Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. He was a great friend and he'll surely be missed. Take Care.....love to all

R.j. & Sue Wagner

December 11, 2012

So sorry to hear of Tony's passing. He was a great guy and always stopped to talk! He will be missed.

Maureen (Boivin) Barnard

December 10, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes to the Lafayette Family. Tony was a great person and will be missed by everyone. I remember the fun we had when we sponsored his softball team. He was also a great help when we bought our home. We will always have our memories.

Val Pecor

December 10, 2012

My deepest sympathies to Tony's family. My mother, Christine Hebert, is especially saddened as she enjoyed his visits to her Auer Family Boat House each summer. Safe journey, Tony.

Kathleen Hebert

December 10, 2012

Paul & Marty
Tony was such a gentleman. I always enjoyed being on his team at lunch time bball at Twin Oaks and later at racquets edge. He was the epitome of teamwork and fair play.
My sincere condolences.
Jim Reid

December 10, 2012

I will always remember Tony from 6th grade on up he was always A friend to everyone around him. He is now making friends in a new place for sure. My heart goes out to the great Lafayette Clan.

Bob and Joan Havey

December 10, 2012

May God comfort you all through this difficult time. I was a classmate of Tony's from Rice and will remember him for his smile and caring nature. He has left a wonderful legacy to/with his children.

Karen (Fitzgerald) Badger

December 10, 2012

To everyone in Tony's family I offer my sincere condolences. I was privileged to know Tony earlier in my life through basketball and later on to see him out on the golf course. He understood family and friends and I wish the best for his family.

Glen Burroughs

December 10, 2012

Tony was such a good guy. He was always fair to the many kids that he coached through his wonderful life. He touched so many hearts. He will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Lafayette family. God bless you all.

Doug Carrier

December 10, 2012

Tony was such a nice guy. He was fair to all the kids that he coached throughout his wonderful life. He was a great man to have as a friend and he will be missed. My thought and prayers go out to all the Lafayette family. God bless you all.

Doug Carrier

December 10, 2012

Chris,

Our most sincere condolences to you and your entire family.

The Gibson Family

December 10, 2012

My condolences to Tony's family. I was in his class in high school and have seen him from time to time since. We always stopped and talked. We have lost a great person. My prayers are with you.
Anne Buley, Burlington

December 10, 2012

I am forever in the debt of the kindness which Tony & Melissa showed to our family during our struggle to purchase our first 2 homes. What a wonderful couple! I am sorry for the loss of Tony. He will be remembered by so many with warm thoughts. He is truly a person who touched many many lives.

Liz Arena

December 10, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Tom Sykas

December 10, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Tony. I received news of your passing only today. Rest in peace my friend.

Mike Bevins

December 10, 2012

Lafayette Family,
Thoughts and prayers in your loss of Tony. I remember what a great friend he was to my brother, Tom. God Bless.

Sue (Breiner) Abair

December 10, 2012

Diane, Judy, Laurie and Kathy- My deepest sympathy to you all and your family. Deb Duclos LeBlanc

December 10, 2012

Tony was a fantastic guy, he always had a smile and a warm welcome. I will always have great memories of Tony. My heart goes out to the Lafayette family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Ken Bushey
Gansevoort, NY

December 10, 2012

My heart goes out to The entire Lafayette family. Tony was a really great guy and will be missed.

Kurt Wright

December 10, 2012

Our hearts and prayers are with you, Jenna and Kimberly, and with your family. We are grateful for the joining of our families, and we're so sorry about the loss of your beloved father.
With love from Kathleen Ahern Shattuck and family

December 9, 2012

Tony was my landlord for 14 years. I rented from he and Melissa when they were first married. Such a wonderful couple. Tony was always an upbeat guy and extremely kind. I'm very sorry for your loss, Melissa. Best to you.

Heidi Amlaw

December 9, 2012

Paul, Marty, MaryLou and family,

Tony and I were at Rice together. What a steller guy!
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this time of loss.
I'm sorry I am not able to make the wake or funeral.

Linda Ready

December 9, 2012

Marty & Family
I read on-line of the recent passing of your brother Tony. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and may the many fond memories that you have of Tony bring you and your family comfort during this difficult time.

Regards

Rick Sullivan
San Diego, California

Rick Sullivan

December 9, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Lafayette family.He will be missed.

Karen and Moe Paquette

December 9, 2012

My sincere condolences for Tony's family and siblings. It is tough to see one of the original North end guys pass

Mike Benoit

December 9, 2012

Peter, Paul and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. The peace of God be with you.

Louis & Mimi Meunier

December 9, 2012

I will always remember Tony for his help and kindness he showed my mother Thelma.
My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Richard Lafayette

December 9, 2012

I'm so sorry for the loss of this kind, generous man. My thoughts are with the entire Lafayette family in this difficult time.

Shannon Kinlund

December 9, 2012

Tony was an amazing person, who touch my life from a very small child in the old north end. It is with great saddness that we heared of his passing, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. May he rest in Peace.

Randy & JoAnn (Provost) Dusharm

December 9, 2012

my thoughts of love and peace goes on to all his family members ,tony is a huge lost to every one ,i loved the man like a brother ,

randy castle

December 9, 2012

My thoughts and prayers for all the family at this sad time! Tony was a great guy and will be missed. God bless!
Diann Daily
AZ City, AZ

December 9, 2012

Tony was great with kids. He touched many lives as a positive example through youth sports. Tony made a difference. He always sincerely asked how you were doing. He was interested in people. Tony had a good heart and I know he will be missed. May God Bless the Lafayette Family...

Tony Brice

December 9, 2012

So sorry to hear of Tony's passing. The Lafayette family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Stacey Clarke

December 9, 2012

Iwas saddened to hear about Tony's passing.I was introduced to Tony through my good friend Dave Crosby who lived nearby.My thoughts and prayers are with the Lafayette family.

Gordon Cooper

December 9, 2012

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