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January 08, 2010
Every life makes a difference and my Mother's was exceptional in the mark she made upon people. Just the way she believed in living life made changes in others. She was independent and never wanted to be a burden. Her tiny frame hid a spirit of tremendous strength. She was a woman of great compassion that never gave up on her family or friends. I deeply loved my Mom and miss her everyday. Mom said if we are really, really lucky we will have five true friends in our lifetime. My Mom was my friend from the time I was born. We talked several times a day and I still pick up the phone to call her to see how she is today. She is truly missed and will never be forgotten.
December 25, 2009
My Eulogy of my mother-in-law, delivered at her funeral:

On behalf of Tina's entire family, I would like to thank all of you for joining us here today to pay our last respects to the woman we called our mom, our mother-in-law, our grandmother, our great-grandmother, our sister, our sister-in-law and our friend.

For those you who don’t know me, my name is Gary and I have been blessed to be happily married to Tina's only daughter, Becki, for more than 30 years. I pray that Becki and I will enjoy the same long, loving life together that Tina and her husband Bill shared for over 63 years.

Many of us gathered here in this same place just over 3 years ago to mourn Bill's passing, and we've been dreading the day when this gathering would take place.

As Becki’s husband, I was legally Tina's son-in-law. But we shared a special relationship. She always treated me as though I was one of her own children, and likewise, to me she was the same as my own mom, God rest her soul. In my eulogy of Bill, 3 years ago, I promised that I would continue to love Tina forever, in the same way that I loved him. That I did, and though they've both left this life to be together forever, that love shall never die.

Tina loved her husband Bill, her children, her grandchildren and her great-grandchildren. I hope that we can all appreciate Tina's never-ending love for us, and that we can pay honor to her by always loving each other that same way.

Almost 11 years ago, Bill had open heart surgery, suffered a stroke Throughout it all, Tina made caring for Bill her #1 priority, unselfishly sacrificing herself for the wavy, dark-haired young man that she gave her heart to so long ago. No one could have given Bill better care than that which Tina gave him and it stands as a testament to the love which she had for Bill.

Tina's heart was broken when Bill passed away in December, 2006, but she did her best to carry on without him. She found great strength in the love and support that her family and friends gave her. In fact, even though she was over 80 years old, she was blessed with good health and was able to travel, which she did.

Last year (2008) Tina visited Las Vegas, Hawaii and Nashville twice with Becki and me. After wanting to go for all of her life, she finally got to attend several performances of the Grand Ole Opry. During the Country Music Association Music Festival, she and Becki got to meet Bill Anderson and showed him an old album cover and a picture of her and Becki with that album when Becki was only 6 years old. She joined us again in Nashville a couple of months later while Becki was taking vocal lessons and we attended several more performances of the Grand Ole Opry.

This year (2009) she got to meet one of her favorite country singers, Moe Bandy at the Florida State Fair. She talked to Moe about how his song, “Too Old To Die Young”, was played at Bill's funeral. When she tried to buy a CD from Moe, he wouldn't accept her money and told her it was his gift to her. She also went to the Strawberry Festival and saw several country acts perform. In March, she traveled with Becki and me back to Nashville where Becki competed in the CMT Can You Duet contest. While there, she again got to go to the Grand Ole Opry. In October, she and Rick went to Canada and stayed at the fishing camp that she and Bill had owned, and which she loved so much. Being on the Trent River always brought her peace and happiness. In November, she bought her first and only new car, as Bill had always done that for her before. On Thanksgiving, she hosted dinner at her home in Florida, as she always did.

Last Tuesday night she went, as she did two or three nights a week, with Becki and me, to watch and listen to us sing Karaoke. Wednesday found her not feeling well and having a sore throat, but she came outside that evening to see the Christmas lights that Becki and I had hung on her house. Around 9 pm that evening, I bid her good night, told her I hoped she felt better, and told her that I would see her the next evening. Little did I know that I would not and that she would be gone within 12 short hours. Becki stayed that evening and put up her mom's Christmas tree and last spoke to her mom around 10:30 that evening, after she got home.

Today our hearts are broken, and our tears fall like rain. We wonder if we have the strength to live on without Tina But I know that if we are blessed with only a little of her strength and perseverance, we’ll be able to carry on in the way that she would want us to. Never doubting what happened, always remembering her life and her love for us, loving each other, and always looking forward to the time when we will be reunited with her and Bill on the streets of Glory.

Christ, as we know, called the fishermen to follow him. Tina, like Bill, loved to fish, and so today I know with certainty that Tina has been reunited with Bill, and has taken her place with Christ and the apostles in Heaven.

I am looking forward to the day, when I too will be there with Bill and Tina, and my mom and dad.

So long for now Tina, I love you and I'll see you again.
December 23, 2009
Becki, Gary, Rick and family,
My family and I are very sorry to hear about your Mother's passing, we have you all in our thoughts and prayers. When I think about your Mom the first thing that comes to mind is her smile. I remember seeing that smile when we would be checking in for the week at the Blue Roof Cottages, and many times during the years we went there.
Now I know that as her kids you all have a variety of memories and story's that you will remember about your Mom, I just hope that thinking about her smile will help you smile in the days ahead.
December 22, 2009
Rick and family, You have my deepest sympathies, sorry to hear of your Mothers passing. Cherish all the good memories you have of her.
December 21, 2009
Rick and Brian,

So sorry to hear of the passing of Rick's Mother. May memories of days past, bring comfort to you in the days to come. With deepest sympathy.
December 21, 2009
Becki & Family:
We are awefully sad to hear about the shocking news regarding your Mom's passing.... I am happy to have met her and to have known her and know that she is in a better place with Bill, Happy!
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
Mickie, Tanya & Nicholas Jacobson
SE Florida
December 21, 2009
As a member of the community, we would like to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. May you continue to draw comfort and strength from friends and family as well as the God of all comfort as you celebrate a life well lived. (Psalms 34:18) Our condolences go out to the entire family.
December 19, 2009
Becki, Gary, Rick and Family,
We are deeply saddened by the passing of your Mom. I have become very close to her over the past ten years or so and I am heart broken. I walked into the living room today and GAC was on and there was a video of Bucky Covington on, and I had an angel that the battery wasn't working all of a sudden started working for a short time. I believe that was a sign from her. I am so glad I got to talk to her recently, and I am going to miss those long phone calls from her, but I know shes with Bill and she is happy. We lost a wonderful person that I will never forget and I am so glad that I got to be apart of her life. God Bless all of you and help you through this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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