Dearest Patsy...There just aren't any words...I know this because I lost my 23 year old daughter July of 2011 and my husband and I are now raising our 5 year old granddaughter. She is so very precious to us; and when the horrendous events unfolded a week ago today at Sandy Hook, our hearts were wrenched with pain and sorrow with every single account of the unthinkable crisis. We had no idea that someone from Dublin would have their life so deeply affected...I'm at a loss for words, both for you and for your daughter. There is no greater loss in this world than the loss of a child. Your precious Caroline was a beautiful child who graced our earth way too short a time but she now brings new joy to Heaven for eternity. The only thing that may keep us all hanging on is the knowledge that we will see these precious angels again someday. In the meantime, Patsy, please know my prayers are with you and your family, especially your daughter.