miss you Jay
you where not only a great friend, but my brother
Jay, we will miss you... the world will have a hard time turning without you. Come back soon. Love you
Very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy from my family to yours. Anna Eck Usher Maine West Class of 78' Semper Fi
I was deeply saddened by the news of Jay passing. My heart felt condolences to his family.
When people love one another a bond is formed. With children it happens at birth!
They can be seperated a mile, one hundred miles or a thousand miles but no one can break that bond no matter how hard they try.
A child grows up knowing that bond and knowing the love of his parents, grand parents, aunt's, uncles and friends.
People who love one another are compelled to be together and seek one another. In a child that love also forms security that they carry for the rest of their life.
The more a child is exposed to this love the greater their horizon.
Being seperated from your son Jay hurts. We all understand that you lost your child who was a man but still your baby.
His being loved by so many and his knowing that all those feeling were there would have disconnected any yearning and feed security. I'm sure he felt very secure!
Trying to break the feelings that children have for their parents and vise versa is hopeless. Respecting these felings can build mountains.
Love is sharing, love is an ongoing connection, it is giving, building,bonding and protecting. No man or woman can stop it when it is there. I know you did a good job loving Jay and helping him to mature into the beautiful and happy person he was.
Your respect for him gave him peace and allowed him a mature freedom of body, heart & soul.
It is very painful for a parent to let go. The parent suffers and the family suffers. No one can take that love or pain away it will be there for the rest of your life.
I understand how much you must be suffering, but you will meet again.
This distance will get easier but never go away!
You are sharing your son with God right now and it is difficult but it is an act of love.
We all have to go through hard times and grief. By sharing your child with god you are breaking the circle of selfishness and understanding selflessness. Something everyone needs to understand at some point in their life.
This is a painful time for you,Jay loved you deeply. The seperation and loss is only temporary and you need to be patient until you meet again. May God bless you with the patience and peace necessary to get you through this hard time. Until you meet again, peace be with you!
I served with Jay and he was a good friend of mine. I was glad to know him and blessed to call him my brother.
Sorry for your loss. Semper Fi
Tommy: Words cannot express my sadness at the passing of your son. I thank him for defending our Country and wish you and your family peace and wonderful memories of the past.
My dear friend terri:
I am sending you every hug and word of encouragement I can. I'm sorry I can't be there for you right now, but know I am thinking and praying for you and your family. Love you!!!! Terri
Dearest Terri and Tom...may you find peace and comfort in the days to come from happy memories with Jay, hugs from Andrew and support and love from all those around you. You will never forget the little boy you held in your arms and nurtured, but as you know, some day you will smile instead of cry when you think of him and the time he spent here with you. Hold tight to each other and don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
I am deeply saddened by your loss which words cannot express. There is no greater love than the love of your child. Thinking of you and praying for God to grant you strength.
We are praying that Jay's grand entrance into our God's loving arms was peace for his soul and that He will protect you while you heal.
Liz & Glen Rosier
My heart breaks for your family. My thoughts, prayers and Gods promise is that sometime you will meet again.
I am so sorry for your loss. Nick and I loved Jay. He had such a bright spirit and he will be missed.
Rest in Peace young Warrior.
Brent and Laura Brewer
Love is sent to Jay. A new angel with a fabulous spirit. Love, the Gladwells.
Terri, I am so sorry for your loss, I know a piece of your heart will forever be gone. I pray for peace and acceptance for you and your family.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
My heart goes out to you Terri and all who knew and loved Jay. I am heartbroken for you and sorry for your loss.
There are no words big enough, only tears
We will miss you,You were always great to be around,from the early days of football to the times you were home on leave and would drop by to see Dan.
No words can express how sorry I am. Please know I'm praying for you and your family.
May God comfort you and give you strength in your time of need. May you draw encouragement from God's promise of everlasting life.
God Bless all of you and may he wrap his hands around you and give you comfort ,let you know your son is in good hands
God Bless you and keep you ,prayers to your loved ones .Mom of a marine
Send my condolences to the Wemlinger Family and Friends .I enjoyed working with your son everyday with Jay was a new adventure sometimes good sometimes bad but all together a pleasure.He surely be missed.
Terri and family, so sorry about your son. I have no children, so I cannot know the feelings you have at this time, but I do know how much you loved him, just by seeing your posts on facebook! He was a very fortunate and loved young man and did a great honor by serving his country! Again, my condolences! Debbie (DeMuth) Calkins