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Max Allender Obituary

Max Isaac Allender, almost two years old. Most adored son of Jessica C. Allender. Cherished twin brother of Coral Leah. Beautiful grandson of Skip and Suzanne Allender. Nephew of devoted aunties Laura, Allison, and Deb. Heroic patient of all his dedicated nurses and care-givers. Graveside services Sunday, 1PM at Oakwoods Cemetery, 1035 E. 67th St., Chicago. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Max Isaac Allender Memorial Fund, 6116 S. University, Chicago, IL 60637. Arrangements by Chicago Jewish Funerals - Skokie Chapel, 847.229.8822, www.cjfinfo.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Mar. 7, 2014.

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Monica Brown

March 9, 2016

Dear Allender Family,

I do not know you personally, but happened to pass by the park and the tree where you so lovingly placed a stone in your child's memory. I cannot imagine your grief and sense of loss but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
May God Bless you and keep you in His Divine care.

Monica Brown

March 14, 2014

Dear Allender Family - The Prescott Center for the Arts Gallery sends you sympathy on your loss.
Skip and Suzanne, we know that you are grateful for the months you were able to spend with Max.
Fondly, Maria (Lynam)

March 12, 2014

My dear friends, our hearts go out to you in your sorrow. Would that we could be with you to support you in this sad time. Please let fond memories of Max's small achievements lighten your spirits. May Adonai send to all of you r'fuah sh'lemah.

John and Marilynne Yeakley

March 9, 2014

May the hearer of prayer comfort you in the days ahead. 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

Marie

March 7, 2014

Family of Max Allender so sorry for your loss

JoAnna Davis

March 7, 2014

Dear Allender family,
Thank you for sharing your family with mine. I feel lucky to have met Max. He touched our lives and will always be in our hearts.

James 4:8

March 7, 2014

Draw close to God and he will draw close to you.

March 7, 2014

Dear family and friends , I am so very sorry for your great loss , my sincere condolence to all of you , may all find comfort in the God of Abraham and each other .

Judith Hanelin-Karzen

March 7, 2014

Dear Allender family,
I read of your tragic loss and my heart goes out to all of you.There is nothing worse than having a sick child or worse yet, losing a child. No words can compensate.
I remember back to Skip and my days as teenagers. Little did we suspect what life would have to offer, both good and bad. And then I met Laura--who is part of the good. I just want to connect with all of you at this tragic time because we are all a part of the tapestry of life. Our lives have touched one anothers' and I reach out to you all with love and sadness for your loss. May Max's memory be for a blessing.
Judy Hanelin Karzen

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Graveside service

1:00 p.m.

Oakwoods Cemetery

1035 E. 67th St., Chicago, IL

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8851 Skokie Boulevard, Skokie, IL 60077-2224

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