BORN

1925

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Iles Funeral Homes - Westover Chapel

6337 Hickman Road

Des Moines, Iowa

Patricia Dahleen Obituary

Patricia J. Dahleen, born Feb. 16, 1925, Keokuk, Iowa; at rest Sept. 23, 2013, Fountain Hills, Ariz. Mother of eleven met with Mother Teresa When Pat Dahleen and Mother Teresa met, they shared their faith in God and their mutual reliance on the power of love and compassion to see them through life's most difficult challenges. Faith and love combined to form the indomitable spirit of this widow who raised nine children, two having died in infancy. Born Patricia Joan Hatton on the farm in Keokuk, Iowa, the youngest of five, "Patsy" was pretty and petite and quickly acquired a love of fashion from her older three sisters. A job at the ticket booth of the downtown movie theater allowed her to buy the select things that started her as someone who "dressed to the nines" - something that never left her. At 21 she married James Richard "Dick" Dahleen when he returned from the Pacific after the War. The growing family soon moved to Osseo, Minn. where lasting friendships were made. In the mid-60s they moved to Winfield, Ill. into a custom built house big enough to accommodate the eight children remaining at home. Life in Winfield was good with St. John the Baptist Parish providing the anchor, and Friday night fish fry at the VFW and bridge club assuring never a dull moment. But suddenly Dick fell ill and died of cancer in October of 1970 leaving Patsy with eight kids at home stretching from college to kindergarten. There was no estate so Patsy went to work at St. John's as the bookkeeper, a position she held for more than 20 years. Money was tight but somehow there was always enough to feed one or two of the kids' friends. All were welcome in this home. As the four girls and five boys grew up and got married, Patsy was able to fly to Phoenix and Seattle and London (where she met Mother Teresa), thanks to eldest daughter Mary being a flight attendant, so that she could care for her growing passel of grandchildren. Everyone wanted "Gramie" around and she loved the attention and affection. Late in life, an unexpected inheritance from two high school buddies brought Patsy wealth that she had never known. The money was spent on her children and grandchildren. Two years ago she lost her son Matt, the twin of John, to pancreatic cancer. Before Matt died, at his Celebration of Life, he asked his Mom to not forget him. She responded: "I'll never forget you, my darling!" Nor shall we ever forget you, Mom. Mary & Gary (Spencer); Mark & Caroline Dahleen, grand Richard & Emily, great grands Sofia and Leanna; Anne & Dan (Hill), grands James, Conor & Charity Hill, great grands Sophia and Felicity, grands Joseph, Patrick & Patina Hill, greatgrand Ignatius; Suzie & John (Sheaffer), grands Andy, Amanda & Tom (Wright), greatgrand Betsy, grand Abby, steps Greta & Daniel (Abers), step grands Timothy, Jesse, Joanna, Mischa and Judah; step grand John & Shanna(Sheaffer), step grands Jade, John IV and Henry; Teresa & Fred (Severson), grand Tricia, great grands Summer and Leo; grands Michael, and Carly & Jake (Civis); Matthew (deceased), grand Kaitlin; John & Heather Dahleen, grands Callie, Shayla, and Cullen; Thomas Dahleen, grands Trista, Cara and Luke; Joseph & Sarah Dahleen, grands Hannah, Emma and Chloe. Visitation Friday, Sept. 27, 9:30 a.m., Iles-Westover Chapel, 6337 Hickman Rd., Des Moines, Iowa 50322. Ph. 515-276-4567. Funeral Mass, 10:30 a.m., St. Theresa of the Child Jesus, 1230 Merle Hay Road, Des Moines, Iowa 50311. Fr. Mark Neal, presiding. Ph. 515- 279-4654. Burial to follow, Glendale Cemetery, 4909 University Ave, Des Moines, IA. 50311. Memorial Service Saturday, Sept. 28, noon, St. John the Baptist Church, Winfield, Ill. 60190. Ph. 630-668-0918.

Published by Chicago Tribune from Sep. 26 to Sep. 28, 2013.
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Mom, I love you and miss you. Today we are adding another one to your eternal resting spot. Mary Margaret Dahleen was born to Eternal Life - May 16th 2015.
Our prayers are with you today Mary Margaret. I was happy to spend the last few days with you before you joined Mom, Dad and Matt.

Scared Heart of Mary, pray for us now and at the hour of our death amen.

We love you Mary - Joe, Sarah, Chloe, Emma and Hannah.

Joe Dahleen

May 16, 2015

To the family of Patricia, We are friends of Joe & Sarah here in Seattle. After reading about your mother's life, I now understand where Joe gets his warm personality, work ethic & great kindness. It is obvious that she was a loving woman beloved by all. We send you our sympathy & prayers at this difficult time.
Steve & Sharon Huling, Seattle

October 7, 2013

I was one of the friends that shared many meals at her table. I'm fortunate to have known her and her beautiful family.

Brett Clay

Brett Clay

September 29, 2013

Dear Dahleen Family All my sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Your Mom was a very special person with such great faith in our Lord.She raised a wonderful and loving family. It was a privilege to know her.

Helen Zahler

September 28, 2013

Pat Dahleen welcomed me to her family in 1977, she was a wonderful woman with strength,compassion and fortitude. I loved her as if I was one of her family and will miss her terribly. She died in peace and will enjoy eternal life. I grieve with her family and my family grieve too.

Ian Fenny

September 28, 2013

One day while going threw some personal issues Pat looked at me and said * I know what happened when God gave out different traits he accidently gave you the pesons next to you dose of love to." That always has stuck in my heart and I often share the memory. I always looked up to her she will be missed.

September 28, 2013

Dahleen Family,

We are so sorry for your great loss. It was an honor to have your mom in our lives and to be a part of our family. Our prayers are with you.

Tom and Laura Fallbach

September 28, 2013

Mom taught me faith in God right fron the start. From an early age we went to daily Mass, on Friday nights with her mother we used to go to Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament and pray the Rosary. Before bed she would offen read us the children's Bible. But more than all of these she Lived her faith. Faith in action that was Mom.
That gift of faith passed on is better to me than any monetary inheritance. It has served me so amazingly and The Lord is in me and with me always to love and support me through everything. just like Mom. Love you Always Mom!

Anne Hill

September 27, 2013

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27

Visitation

9:30 a.m.

Iles Funeral Homes - Westover Chapel

6337 Hickman Road, Des Moines, IA 50322

Sep

27

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St. Theresa of the Child Jesus

1230 Merle Hay Road, Des Moines, IL

Sep

27

Burial

Glendale Cemetery

4909 University Ave, Des Moines, IL

Sep

28

Memorial service

12:00 p.m.

St. John the Baptist Church

Winfield, IL

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Iles Funeral Homes - Westover Chapel

6337 Hickman Road, Des Moines, IA 50322

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