Chrissy, Trinity and Tiana … We are very sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our prayers every day as you try to make sense out of the sudden passing of your father, husband and best friend. There may never be any answers for why he was taken away so young. Please remember that Tom will always be there in some special way for all of you. When you're outside and you feel a gentle breeze flow past you for no reason at all… that's your Dad... swooshing by… blowing you a kiss from Heaven. When you look up at the sky at night and you are feeling lonely, and you are missing him… right before a tear falls from your eyes you'll look up at the sky and see a beautiful bright star … shinning brighter than ever… that's your Dad… winking at you from heaven. And, when you can't get your Dad off your mind at night, when you're laying in bed, missing him more than ever… and you toss and turn and fluff your pillows over and over again… all of a sudden… you will feel your blankets snuggle close to you and you'll start to feel so “comfy”… that's your Dad… watching over you… tucking you in from Heaven. Tom will never be gone completely. The more you think of him and smile over special memories… the more he will appear in some very special way from Heaven to show you that he's always there with you. You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have… be strong for each other… share your memories together no matter how sad or how silly they are. That's what your Dad would want … Never let go… never stop crying because you miss him… never stop laughing or smiling your beautiful smiles. He's watching over you, he misses you and he's crying too… but he will need to see your smiles up in Heaven every day to show him your ok!
… Who Loves Ya baby? … Aunt Susan & Uncle Joe