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Elliot Alfaro Obituary

Alfaro, Elliot
Elliot Alfaro age 64 of Bridgeport, beloved husband of 30 years to Martha Ortiz Alfaro died peacefully on Monday August 25, 2014 with his devoted family by his side. Born in Aguada, Puerto Rico he was the Son of Santiago and Francisca Arce Alfaro. A resident of Bridgeport for over 61 years, he was a 31 year retired Bridgeport Firefighter and veteran serving in the Air Force. An avid sports fan, he enjoyed watching and following the Yankees and college basketball. He enjoyed salsa music and was an accomplished dancer, but most of all his life centered upon his family. He was admired by his brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. A special note of thanks to Dr. David Witt and Dr. John Paul Ayala and their staffs for their compassionate care. He will be sadly missed by his canine companion Gizmo. Survivors in addition to his wife Martha are his children, Elliot Alfaro Jr. of FL., Alexis Alfaro of Bridgeport, Lauren Alfaro and her fiance Kevin Dodson Jr. of Bridgeport, a grandson Alexander Alfaro, several nieces and nephews. Friends are invited to go Directly to St. Andrews Church on Friday August 29, 2014 at 10:30am where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated followed by interment in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Trumbull. Calling hours will take place on Thursday from 4 to 8pm in the Commerce Hill Funeral Home, 4798 Main St. Bridgeport (on the Trumbull line) For online condolences and to light a virtual candle visit us at commercehillfh.com



Published by Connecticut Post from Aug. 27 to Aug. 28, 2014.
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May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together with you .

Nelly and Rafael Vega

August 21, 2022

Always and forever in my heart may your soul Rest In Peace

Miguel Angel Otero

August 21, 2021

Still in my heart Compi rest in peace

Miguel Otero

Friend

August 21, 2020

2 words, Miss You. The best times growing up was spending the summers with you and my Aunt and Uncle. You always had my back. You always made me laugh. See you soon CUZ. Victor

Victor Rivera

Family

August 21, 2020

My condolences to the Alfaro family, He will be missed by all who knew him, big heart and all, see you on the other side brother.....

John Janda

September 1, 2014

Shantia Kemp

August 29, 2014

I didn't know Mr. Elliot but I did know Martha and his sister in law Anna. My condolences to the family especially his wife and kids. It's such a small world I would have never thought that Kevin fiancee was his daughter. Praying that God gives you all the comfort and peace you all deserve. Rip Mr. Elliot

Cathy Perez

August 29, 2014

I was so very saddened to hear of Elliot's passing. He was a brave and lovely, soft spoken man that always had a smile on his face. When I would bump into him at the grocery store we would talk about the Yankees or what we were cooking for dinner! My sincere condolences and prayers go out to his wife and family.

Toni Colombo

August 29, 2014

Martha Alfaro & Family, my prayers are with and your family. Sorry for your loss and may all of you find comfort in this time of sorrow. Rest in Peace Elliot, you will be missed. With Deep Sympathy Marlene Mac Calla & Luis J. Pomales Jr.
Bridgeport Connecticut

August 29, 2014

Rest in Peace Elliot, my friend, you will truly be missed. My thoughts are with the Alfaro family,I send you my condolences as well as my prayer of strength to guide you through this time of your loss.

Shantia Kemp

August 28, 2014

God bless you cousin.

Victor Rivera

August 28, 2014

TO THE FAMILY. MAY YOU FIND STRENGTH IN YOUR FAITH DURING THIS HOUR OF SORROW. ELLIOT WAS A GOOD MAN AND A GREAT FRIEND. WE WORKED ON THE FIRE DEPT. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL THAT KNEW HIM. I WILL MISS HIS POSITIVE HUMOR AND HIS SMILING FACE. IT WAS MY BLESSING TO KNOW HIM. REST IN PEACE NOW ELLIOT.

GEORGE BRYANT

August 28, 2014

Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.
Rest In Peace Elliott, I Love you and will miss you.

Anna Batista

August 28, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss. Elliot, I am proud to say we were friends. May GOD Bless your family.

Bruce & Therese Buchla

August 28, 2014

Pete Oliva

August 28, 2014

Pete Oliva

August 28, 2014

I'm sadden to read of Elliot's passing, and would like to extend my sincere condolences to all of his family and dear friends. Noreen Ahern, BFD (ret)

Noreen Ahern

August 28, 2014

My Condolance to the family may GOD give you strengh.Rest in peace my friend

jose(Babalu) silva

August 28, 2014

Martha and Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences. May God give you comfort and peace during this difficult time. May the soul of your beloved Elliot rest in peace.

Carmen Delgado

August 28, 2014

So sorry for your loss and sadness. Elliot was a good firefighter and a friend, rest now my brother

Patrick Lombard (Retired BFD)

August 28, 2014

Elliot:you were a great man and I'm proud to say that we both married into the same wonderful family. I have fond memories of watching Yankee games with you and talking sports whenever we could. I'll never forget you cooking dinner for me and Martha and Diana when I first began dating Diana. I felt welcome in your home immediately and into your family forever. You also provided a lasting memory for my young son Evan by inviting us to the firehouse to see the trucks and meet your fireman brothers. You were a caring man and I can only assume that God needs you by his side in heaven and that your work here on earth is done..God Bless and God speed..
love Ron Weber (and family)

August 27, 2014

Martha and Lauren my deepest sympathy prayers to you and the rest of the family

Betty Santiago

August 27, 2014

August 27, 2014

I'm very sorry to learn of Elliot's passing. He was a gentleman, and I was honored to work with him on the Bridgeport Fire Department. He will be missed.

Wallace Thomas

August 27, 2014

Elliot,
You were one of our bravest & one of the most gentlest of men I have ever met. Sharing your journey from Black Rock Medical to Asst Neuro showed me what a hero you were. I am honoured to have known you. My prayers & sympathies to Martha & your family. Rest in Peace my friend.
Janet & Gary Colangelo

Janet Colangelo

August 27, 2014

Martha, Lauren and Family, Our deepest condolences for your loss. May Elliot rest in peace as he will truly be missed.

Carolyn & Miguel Padilla

August 27, 2014

To the Alfaro family my deepest condolences. Elliot was a great firefighter and a good man I worked with him for many years and was proud and honored to know him Rest in Peace.

Andrew Fardy

August 27, 2014

I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. May the beautiful memories you shared help sustain you in your time of need. May Gods promise at John 6:40 comfort you.

Lisa

August 27, 2014

Elliott, although your presence will be greatly missed by your loved ones and those of us who knew you, we will accept with submission God's will, and look forward with joy to meeting you in Heaven. May God prepare a place for you at his table.

Donald Day

August 27, 2014

To my sister and family,

Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you
May your memories give you peace and comfort.
When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know.
Please know that we are here for you. With Love,

Rest In Peace Elliott, We Love you and we'll miss you!

Diana (Batista) Weber

August 27, 2014

My prayers are with you lauren and family. May he rest in paradise at ease looking down guiding you as the angel he is. Love you guys

Miguel Perez Jr

August 27, 2014

May God's peace be with you and your family. Cherish the memories we all created with Elliot. I will always remember him as my stong, loving COUSIN. Cuz, I will deeply miss you.

Nelly & Rafael Vega

August 27, 2014

Heaven has truly gained an angel. You always put others first, as a family man, and also in your career as a firefighter. You are loved and will be missed. Til we meet again....

Lauren Ocasio

August 27, 2014

MARTHA ELLIOT JR. ALEXIS LAUREN MY SYMPATHY WITH ALL.ELLIOT ALFARO I ALWAYS LOVE YOU LIKE MY BROTHER(COMPI)SORRY I CAN'T BE THERE BUT MY SPIRIT IS.WE HAD SOME GOOD TIMES TOGETHER I WILL NEVER FOTGET I WAS VERY PROUD TO BE YOUR BEST MAN IN YOUR WEDDING AND MORE PROUD TO BE LAURENS GOD FATHER.MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE DEER BROTHER.(COMPI)UNTIL WE SEE AGAIN Miguel Angel Otero.

MIGUEL ANGEL OTERO

August 27, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss....he surely left his mark here on earth...

Delia Bahamonde

August 27, 2014

Elliot always remembering you! My prayers to the family.

Jose Ojeda

August 27, 2014

You where a great firefighter Elliot.
We had some good times. I still think of
you driving the squad. Till we meet again.

George D Dennis

August 27, 2014

To the Alfaro Family...I am sorry for your loss. Elliot was a great man to work with and just to know. He will be missed.

Pat Torre

August 27, 2014

We were great friends & co-workers on the BFD for many years, I will truely miss you dear pal

Jim Quinn (Retired BFD)

August 27, 2014

I always admired your work ethics and your smiling face. You will be always missed

Bill Brackett

August 27, 2014

ELLIOTT. .SIR. .. U BEEN A PROFOUND FRIEND .. ALL I CAN SAY ... I REALLY THAT U SIR ... FOR ACCOMPANYING ME WHEN WE WENT TO LA FANIA ALL STARS CONCERT.. LONG BEFORE U BECAME A BRAVEST FOR THE GREAT CITY OF BRIDGEPORT. .. ALONG WITH THAT .. NEVER EVER MET SUCH A COMPOSED GENTLEMAN IN MY LIFE.. U WILL NEVER EVER BE MISSED BY BC UR IN MY DEEPEST SOUL.. MAY MARTHA N YOUR CHILDREN BE TAKEN CARE BY THE GOOD LORD.. GOD BLESS MI BUEN AMIGO .. R.I.P. UR BROTHER IN ARMS.. RAMON DELGADO

Ramon Delgado

August 27, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brenda Baker

August 27, 2014

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