Helen Milliken

Helen Milliken

Helen Milliken Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 16, 2012.
DETROIT (AP) — Early in her husband's political career, Helen Milliken dutifully played the role of unassuming, supportive spouse. But she evolved into an outspoken advocate of women's rights, the environment and other issues close to her heart during her record 14 years as Michigan's first lady.

Milliken campaigned vigorously for abortion rights and the ill-fated Equal Rights Amendment, which stated equality of rights "shall not be denied or abridged by the United States or by any state on account of sex."

She drew the wrath of the outdoor advertising industry shortly after her husband, Republican William Milliken, became governor in 1969, when she criticized highway billboards as unsightly clutter. And at her urging, her husband hiked the Pigeon River State Forest while governor and later decided to limit oil and gas development in the scenic forest.

Milliken died on Friday morning at her family's home in Traverse City, her son, William "Bill" Milliken Jr., said. She had been diagnosed with ovarian cancer, he said, and was receiving hospice care. She was 89.

It was the couple's daughter, Elaine, a lawyer and feminist, who died of cancer in 1993, who influenced her mother to take a stand for women's equality. Helen Milliken served as national co-chair of ERAmerica and was a delegate to the International Women's Year conference in Houston. Her other board memberships included the Women's Resource Center and the Michigan Land Use Institute.

Even into her 80s, she remained active in community affairs and as an environmentalist. Milliken helped organize a foreign policy lecture series at Northwest Michigan College and took a course on the life of Mozart.

Milliken co-founded ArtrainUSA, an art museum housed in rail cars that visited more than 850 communities across the U.S. since 1971.

She told The Associated Press in 2006 about her concerns that many younger women were shying away from political activism and the "feminist" label.

"They don't know their history," she said at the time. "Young women take so much for granted now."

Feminism, she said, had "been redefined and misinterpreted" by conservatives as wild-eyed radicalism.

"Nobody ever saw anybody burn a bra; they're too expensive," she said. "But the myth has survived. There have been excesses, but the goal has always remained the same: equal opportunity for women."

Gov. Rick Snyder in a statement praised Milliken for her "countless" contributions to the state.

"As a champion of women's issues, patron of the arts and dedicated environmentalist, Mrs. Milliken lent her strong voice to causes that enrich our state to this day," Snyder said. "Long after Governor Bill Milliken left office, she remained a driving force for the betterment of Michigan, because she loved this state and believed in its future.

"Mrs. Milliken set the standard for the next generation of first ladies."

The former Helen Wallbank, daughter of a Denver-area attorney, earned a bachelor's degree from Smith College in 1945, and met William Grawn Milliken as he underwent military training in Colorado during World War II.

After marrying, they settled in his Michigan hometown of Traverse City, which also was home to the family-owned Milliken Department Store.

William Milliken was elected to the state Senate in 1960, following in the footsteps of his father and grandfather, both Republican state senators. Shortly afterward, Milliken and other moderates rebelled against the right-wing leadership, issuing a manifesto with progressive stands on issues such as taxes and civil rights.

Elected lieutenant governor in 1964 and 1968, Milliken succeeded fellow Republican George Romney as governor in January 1969 when Romney joined President Richard Nixon's Cabinet. Milliken won the election that fall and was re-elected twice, but decided not to seek a fourth term in 1982. He retired from politics unbeaten at age 59.

His wife, however, wasn't done with politics.

Helen Milliken continued to be a sought-after political commodity long after her husband's retirement. In 1994, she was even asked to be the running mate of Democratic gubernatorial candidate Howard Wolpe as he sought to boost his underdog campaign against Republican Gov. John Engler.

She declined, later telling the AP "it just didn't seem like the right move to make at the time."

Milliken is survived by her husband and her son, William Jr., of Ann Arbor, and her sister, Elaine Jackson of Denver.

The family said a memorial service will be held at a date to be determined. Reynolds-Jonkhoff Funeral Home in Traverse City is handling arrangements.

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MIKE HOUSEHOLDER,Associated Press

Associated Press writers David Runk in Detroit and John Flesher in Traverse City contributed to this report.


Copyright © 2012 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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Michael Vanderosen (Roosen)

January 8, 2016

My belated Condolences and Empathy to you Governor Milliken and all your family. I had the very great pleasure and privilege of meeting Helen on several occasions during my time working for you at the Office of Economic Expansion in Brussels, Belgium - and on my visits to Lansing in the '70's. She was a beautiful, vivacious human being, full of warmth, empathy, intelligence and humour - a lovely and outstanding First Lady of the State. I remember her and your good self most fondly.

Michael A Vanderosen (aka Roosen), Molkom, Sweden

Jonathan Lowder

May 3, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Judy Morey

April 20, 2013

My condolences to the Milliken family. I so respect your family for your progressive thinking and for your service to the State of Michigan. Thanking you, and hoping you find comfort in your memories at this time.

John Lowder

April 20, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Anne Roberts

March 7, 2013

I had the privilege of working with Helen Milliken when I was working for the Michigan Foundation for the Arts. We had an annual event which honored artists, and each year, she was our keynote speaker. She was always gracious, inspiring and inclusive. I had one thing in common with her - we had each attended Smith College. She made me feel very special and supported my job and our arts awards. I was very sad to learn of her death and I hope both her husband and son have many opportunities to hear about how she touched so many lives.

Anne Wells Roberts

November 29, 2012

please accept my sincere sympathy,and know that our {GOD}has said"you are opening your hand and satisfying the desire of every living thing."pslm.145:16....dnc

Rich Miller

November 29, 2012

Thank you Lord for this very special Lady you put among us here in Michigan! Hug her for us all!

November 24, 2012

You have my deepest sympathy. May good memories provide solace for your family during this challenging time; and may God provide you with the assurance that you will see your loved one again in Paradise. John 17:3

ginger Klenzos

November 22, 2012

You have done great work....time to bask in the fields of the lord.

Linda

November 21, 2012

Trusting in Jehovah's Promises
Comfort for your sorrow,
courage for each day,
Strength to face this journey,
His Word to light your way,
His peace to fill your heart,
although you may not understand,
And his love to hold you gently
in the hollow of His hand.
My deepest sympathy for your lost.

November 20, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend or family member. The bible can be of some comfort at John 3:16

November 20, 2012

At Philippians 4:6-7, our Heavenly Father can give us peace that excels all thought. May you be comforted by His words and look forward to the fulfillment of His promise.

November 20, 2012

may the GOD of mercy and kindness be with you at this time.May he favor you with his mercy......nc

November 19, 2012

she sure has led a full life, God Bless

Tom & Augustine Rhodes

November 19, 2012

I was so sorry to read about the death of such a great woman. It is obvious from her obituary that she touched the lives of many in a positive way and she will surely be missed. May the God of all comfort be with the family during this most difficult time.

T B

November 19, 2012

I wish to pay respects and send condolences to her family. Hopefully it will eventually be a comfort to know she is reunited with her daughter.

November 19, 2012

So sorry for your family loss. I just read her obit, what a champion for us girls (I am 61), we must continue on inspiring our young ladies and remind them of the warriors.

Karen Kenyon-Remy

November 19, 2012

To her beloved family, especially her wonderful husband, Gov. Bill Milliken. Plus, to all the Republicans of today..... Read more about the Millikens, who epitomized Republican grace, ethics and high values. I know that she will be at peace - a model of wonderful acts encompassing her beliefs. What a fabulous woman! Thank you, Helen, and thank you Governor, for choosing such a fantastic partner in marriage and in life.

Cheryl Landin

November 18, 2012

I am sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. I feel your pain for I lost my mother to ovarian cancer also three years ago. Her death very unexpected and opposite of the prognosis we were given.

I will keep your family in my prayers.

November 18, 2012

To the the family of Helen Milliken - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that she will be missed by many.

November 18, 2012

Please except my condolenceses. During this difficult time of grief relying on God will bring you much comfort and turning to him in prayer will bring comfort.

Juanita Sewer

November 18, 2012

I am sorry for your loss. “He will wipe out all tears from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."

November 18, 2012

What a great loss to your family. My heart aches for you dearly departed. May God give "Tender mercies".with all my love,
Michael j, Moore Tdaho

Deejay Paul

November 18, 2012

May your soul rest in perfect peace & sympathy to your loved ones.

Jackie McCray

November 17, 2012

The Millikens are still a well respected and beloved family by all. My bff has cerebral palsy and wheel chair bound was aided years ago onto the ferry to Mackinaw Island by the Millikens. Govenor Milliken helped lift her aboard and Mrs. Milliken sat with her and our moms during the ride over. She speaks of that experience today. May The Govenor and family receive much peace, comfort and support now and into the future. Soon no one will be sick ever. Take care, Isaiah 33: 24.

Francis and Angela Lombardi

November 17, 2012

Memories of time spent with Helen are deeply cherished. Helen was a devoted wife, a true and fun loving friend, and en exemplary woman. We extend our sincere condolences.

November 17, 2012

God created all mankind to be equal and that would include women evidently Mrs Milliken knew that one day our Creator will have all his servants appreciate that factMrs Millisiken rest in peace until that time

Peggy

November 17, 2012

My condolences to the family of this great woman. She influenced me as I was growing up, made me proud to be a feminist in the 70's. I am thankful the world had such a great person.

Theresa Prochko

November 17, 2012

My deepest sympathies go out to the Milliken family. God is with you.

Natasha F.

November 17, 2012

Yes Mrs. Milliken did seem to be a very wonderful as well as influential woman who did not simply take a back seat to her husband's career. She allowed the power and position that she did have to help change things and make great movements for women and for people to protect what is beautiful and pure; and not taking our environmental for granted we still have some beauty to look upon. I hope young girls too look to her a one of the great role models out there for young girls and young women coming up to respect themselves and their rights as well as everyone to help out the environment at which they live. May the family of Mrs. Milliken find comfort in the memories and stories they have of her and the things she left behind for them to cherish. May we all one day be able to say in a paradise for all to enjoy "Sorrow has passed and our troubles are gone.. Peace at last! Life without tears or pain. Live for the day when you'll say, "Life without end, at last!

Ken Whalen

November 17, 2012

My condolence to all. When I was Pres of Michigan Bell she helped me on a number of occasions.

November 17, 2012

My condolences to the Milliken family. As the days goes by, I hope that the pain you feel will lessened by time and knowing that our Heavenly Father has promised that death will be no more. (Re.21:4). ~Gail. Alabama

Janet

November 17, 2012

I was lucky to see & hear Mrs. Milliken several times during the fight for the ERA. She so impressed me that I voted for her husband, almost the only time I have voted for a Republican. She was such an outstanding person that I knew her husband had to be also. Neither of them ever made me sorry for that decision. My heart goes out to the family on their loss. She was one of a kind, a true treasure.

Robert J. Neveau Sr.

November 17, 2012

My heart go"s out to this family,and thank you for a job well done R.I.P.

Jane Dowling

November 17, 2012

God bless you and your loved ones ~ R.I.P.

November 17, 2012

what a fabulous legacy she leaves us. i am grateful for her life.

November 17, 2012

Offering my deepest condolences during this difficult time, I'm so very sorry for your loss, death is something we are never prepared for, but please find comfort in knowing God has promised He will do away with sickness, pain and death for His word is truth.

Bud & Cheryl Humphrey

November 17, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Milliken family.

November 17, 2012

Mrs.Milliken will be dearly missed by those whose lives she touched.Draw close to God during this difficult time and he will draw close to you.

Patty Neubacher-Haeck

November 16, 2012

What a wonderful First Lady of Michigan, we were blesed and should be so proud of Mrs. Milliken and husband, Gov. Milliken were real Michiganders!!! A wonderful soft spoken lady with so much wisdom and bravato for Women. Let us not forget and carry on her Rights for Women and not be ashamed nor intimidated by the radical right. My sympathy to Gov. Milliken and his surviving so. God Love and Bless you.

Sammye Heald

November 16, 2012

I would like to extend my sympathy to the Milliken family. Mrs. Milliken was a roll model for many young women in Michigan. I lived in Michigan at the time and had the pleasure and honor of voting for her husband.

L MM

November 16, 2012

It would of been great to know such a wonderful lady! RIP

November 16, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the Milliken family. May Helen loving memories of a remarkable person, and God's word be a source comfort in your time of grief.
Jem. Florida

Linc Jackson

November 16, 2012

Always gracious, always understanding, and such a warm smile. I hope my daughters learn from such a wonderful role model. Our prayers are with you Aunt Helen.

skm

November 16, 2012

My sympathy to the Milliken family, and my grateful thanks to Helen for her service to the State of Michigan.

Judith Schleicher

November 16, 2012

What a woman!

Ivy

November 16, 2012

God Bless and Thank You, Sweet Soul.

November 16, 2012

Our deepest sympathies on the passing of a great lady and Michigan icon.
Ron and Sharon Griffith

November 16, 2012

Thank you, Helen Milliken.
You dedicated so much of your life to what should be everyone's top priorities: the rights of women and environmental protection. May you now be in a world where it is no longer necessary to "fight" for what should be naturally understood.
Catherine, Berlin, Germany

November 16, 2012

My deepest condolences are with you at this time of need. Know that god
feels your pain as well. Go to him in prayer and he will comfort you very
much.

Sincerely,

Ms J

November 16, 2012

She tried to make things better. So may we see her when all things are new by god's hand . Ps 37:10-11

Edith Stubbs

November 16, 2012

I celebrate the life of a woman who did much to advance women's rights. Rest in peace.

November 16, 2012

Please accept our heartfelt condolences and prayers. Cherish her memories. Mat the God who give peace be with all of you.-Ro.15:33

Marcia Singler

November 16, 2012

Mrs. Milliken was an outstanding woman who accomplished so much in her lifetime. While her passing is a tremendous loss, her mark remains forever. Women (and men) of today should appreciate the contributions made by Mrs. Milliken. She will be missed.

November 16, 2012

Heartfelt condolences to the Milliken family. May the God of all comfort be with you.

Luci Franco

November 16, 2012

Governor and Mrs. Milliken were true public servants. I hope the family is comforted by an outpouring of respect and remembrance from Michigan's citizens.

November 16, 2012

I am so grateful for all that Helen Milliken did. Her courage is an example for us all.

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