Caryl Wilkins Obituary

Caryl Lynn Wolff Wilkins, 61, of Portland, PA passed peacefully from this life on Friday afternoon, December 28th. Born: Caryl was born in East Stroudsburg, PA on March 31, 1951, a daughter of the late Carl and Ruth Wisegarver Wolff. Personal: Her husband, Dan, daughter, Rachael, and son, Andre were at her side as Caryl drifted away. ALS robbed Caryl of her strength and ability to move; however, the disease could not take away her spirit, ability to enjoy life, sense of humor and love for family and friends. Caryl and her husband, Daniel Wilkins, celebrated their 37th wedding anniversary last May and were working on number 38. Over the years, Caryl worked as a bookkeeper, secretary, tax collector, computer teacher and most recently as a science teacher at the Bangor Middle School. And, of course, Caryl was a wonderful mother, grandmother, spouse and soul mate. In addition to the time she treasured with her family and friends, Caryl enjoyed gardening, skiing, and learning about everything related to animals. She was a 1969 graduate of East Stroudsburg High School and a 1973 graduate of East Stroudsburg State College. Caryl was also a Girl Scout leader and taught crafts and Origami at summer scout camps. Memberships: She was a member of Christ Hamilton United Lutheran Church in Stroudsburg, PA. For many years she served at her church as a committee member, bible school volunteer, choir member, worship service assistant and Christian Clown member to name a few. Survivors: In addition to her husband, Dan, Caryl is survived by daughter, Rachael and her husband, Paul Neira of Ringwood, NJ; son, Andre Wilkins of Salida, CO; sisters, Deb Simeone of Mt. Pocono, Evonne Brodt of Portland, Barbara Keiper of Vine Grove, KY; and grandson, Cristian. Services: Memorial Services will be held on Saturday, January 5, 2013 at 11 a.m. at Christ Hamilton United Lutheran Church, 419 Bossardsville Road, Stroudsburg, PA 18360. Friends are invited to call Friday evening 6 to 7:30 p.m. at the Gaffney Parsons Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc., 4 Lillian Lane, Village of Johnsonville, Bangor, PA and again Saturday morning 10 to 11 a.m. at Christ Hamilton United Lutheran Church. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family in Riverview Cemetery, Portland, PA. Memorials: Family request donations in Caryl's memory to VNA/Hospice of Monroe County, 502 VNA Road, East Stroudsburg, PA 18301.

Published by The Express Times on Dec. 30, 2012.
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Our deepest sympathies.

Pete & Jan Champagne & family

March 9, 2013

Dear Wilkins Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I was fortunate to teach with her at BAMS. She was such a happy person! Her smile will be missed by all who knew her.

Robin Hughes

January 5, 2013

Dear Dan,Andre,& Rachel,
We will always remember the great times we shared with you and Caryl,she was a true friend and leader. May all of the wonderful times you have spent together help you in this time of Sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

John and Beverly Schimmel

January 5, 2013

Dear Wilkens Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in
the loss of your Wife and Mother. She will always
remain in your hearts with the many memories
she left all of you. Our prayers are with you.
May God continue to be your source of strength
at this sad time.
With sincere sympathy,
Walt & Carol Strohe & Family
East Bangor,Pa.

January 3, 2013

Rachel, we are so sorry for your loss.

January 3, 2013

Dear Wilkins Family, we are so sorry to hear about Caryl's passing. What a truly beautiful lady she was. Keep your memories close to your heart. Our hearts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

The Klein Family

January 2, 2013

Dan,
I am so sorry for your loss. Caryl was a great person and I pray that your memories will help you through this difficult time. I pray also that you find comfort in knowing that she is now out of pain and at peace.

Barbara DeFranco

January 2, 2013

I've been thinking of all of you and how much you will miss Caryl. I am so sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful person, inside and out. She will surely be with you in spirit wherever you go!

January 2, 2013

Andre, my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Diane Orner

December 31, 2012

To the Wilkins Family we cannot express how much we will miss our dear friend and co-worker. Her unending smile, love for her family and friends will be how we will remember her. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jerry and Karen

December 31, 2012

Caryl was such a beautiful person inside and out. So very glad she is the Mum to one of my favorite people!!! Keep the fond memories and good times close to your hearts and know she is always there!!! Love you all.

Cat Acklen

December 31, 2012

Dan,
Thanks for the memories and time spent with you, Caryl, and Andre. May God bless the Wilkins family.
Bob Mudie

December 31, 2012

So glad to have met your Mom and Dad when they were here visiting...She was a gem! Hold your memories close to your heart...

Debbie Clapsadl

December 31, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I'll never forget the fun times we shared at girl scout camp when I was young and getting to see her from time to time at the Middle School. Such a sweet woman, she will be greatly missed!

Amberlyn Schollhammer

December 31, 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss, Andre. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Alyssa Preston

December 31, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Wilkins was an amazing teacher and an extremely special individual. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Jennifer Johnston

December 30, 2012

Sorry for your loss

Marc Cerino

December 30, 2012

So sorry to hear about Caryl...she was the most amazing mother...and woman i know...always made me feel like family......she has a special place in my heart...and will be greatly missed....and forever remembered.......all my love...to rachael,dan, andre,and everyone who had the oppertunity to know this beautiful woman

amanda walter

December 30, 2012

Sorry about your loss

Marc Cerino

December 30, 2012

Dear Wilkins family,
Words are not enough to express the sorrow when we experience the passing of our loved ones. Just know that a lot of people are in sympathy with you in prayer and thought at this time. God bless you all.

Allyson Crosby

December 30, 2012

Rachael, Dan and Andre,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christy and Brian Bellifemine

December 30, 2012

My deepest thoughts go to the family. She was a wonderful woman and will always remain in everyones hearts.

Amy Bisher- Bentzoni

December 30, 2012

So sorry to hear on the loss of Caryl.You and your family are in our thoughts. The Bertholf Family

Yvonne Bertholf

December 30, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you Dan and the kids. I had many wonderful memories of working with Caryl over the years in Girl Scouts and at our Day Camps. Very sorry for your loss--Lori Abruzzese

December 30, 2012

Caryl, my friend, you will be sadly missed but remembered with lots of love and laughter. My heart goes out to Dan and the kids.

Cathy DeEsch

December 30, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

futchko family

December 30, 2012

Dan,
You hooked up with one of the cutest and best girls in our high school class. You and Caryl had a wonderful life together and raised a great family together. You were TRULY BLESSED !!

Dave Serfas

December 30, 2012

Dan and kids,
I am saddened at the loss of such a great woman. I had the pleasure of working with her at BAMS. She was devoted and kind.
Sincerely,
Traci Rumsey

December 30, 2012

So sorry to hear about your loss. I will always remember our many years of serving together as VBS co-directors.
Caryl has a special place in heaven.
Debbie Lamson

Debbie Lamson

December 30, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Caryl's passing. She was such a sweet person, and I enjoyed the years we shared as Daisy & Brownie Girl Scout leaders. There's a special place reserved in Heaven for you, Caryl!
Cindi Wilson & family

December 30, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Caryl was a wonderful lady. Most sincerely, Diane Sanders

December 30, 2012

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