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Dale H. Dishman

1944 - 2012

Dale H. Dishman obituary, 1944-2012, Dewey, OK

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1944

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2012

Dale Dishman Obituary

Dale H. Dishman, age 68, and resident of Dewey, Oklahoma, passed away on Sunday, November 11, in Yukon, Oklahoma.
Dale Dishman was born on May 13, 1944 in Chelsea, Oklahoma. He was the son of Harvey Dishman and Maudie (Russell) Dishman. He was raised in Chelsea, graduating from the Chelsea High School in 1962. Dale was very athletic and was an outstanding basketball player. He attended Tulsa University (TU) on a basketball scholarship. After his freshman year at TU, he transferred to Bacone College and continued playing basketball for another year. He attended Northeastern State University (NSU) and received his Bachelors degree in education in 1966. He also played basketball while at NSU. After graduation, Dale taught school in Bowring, Oklahoma for a few years, before teaching in Hominy, Oklahoma. While at Hominy, Dale was drafted into the U.S. Army in 1969, serving during the Vietnam War.
After he received his Honorable Discharge, Dale continued his education at NSU, earning his Masters degree in Guidance & Counseling in 1973. At NSU, he was also a Graduate Assistant and basketball coach.
On August 9, 1973, Dale married Kittie Farmer. They were blessed with three children, Kristie, Kyle and Kindra.
After receiving his Masters degree, Dale, Kittie and the children made their home in Fairfax, Oklahoma, where he coached the team to a State Basketball Championship in 1978. He moved to Bartlesville in 1979 and coached at College High School for several years; then coached at Sooner High School, Central Middle School, and Madison Middle School.
Dale and the former Elaine (Ewing) Davis were married on February 14, 1990 at the Grace-Epworth United Methodist Church, Bartlesville. In 1996, Dale retired after 25 years from teaching and coaching and he and Elaine have lived in retirement in Dewey since that time.
Dale holds several awards and honors. He was ranked as the Highest Scoring Basketball Player in Oklahoma until 1993. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, cooking, loved teaching and coaching and he especially loved his family He was a member of the Dewey United Methodist Church, American Legion, and NRA.
He was preceded in death by his parents; and brother, Russell Dishman.
Dale is survived by his wife, Elaine; children, Kristie Carlson and her husband, Scott, of Enid, Oklahoma, Kyle Dishman and his wife, Tamara, of Yukon, Kindra Dishman of Checotah, Oklahoma; Angela Gilliland and her husband, Bradley, of Bartlesville; six grandchildren, Kelby and Seth Carlson, Andrew Dishman, Marissa Hale, Ryan Duncan and Devin Gilliland; sister, Linda Dishman-Stafford and her husband, Gen. Thomas Stafford, of Satellite Beach, Florida; two brothers; numerous nieces and nephews; and a host of friends.
The family suggests memorial contributions be made to the charity of the donor's choice.
Visitation for Mr. Dishman will be held on Wednesday, November 14, from 9:00 AM to 8:00 PM in the Arnold Moore & Neekamp Funeral Home, 710 S. Dewey Ave. Family will receive friends from 6:00-8:00 PM in the funeral Home.
Services will be held on Thursday, November 15, at 2:00 PM in the Dewey United Methodist Church, 618 N. Delaware, Dewey, Oklahoma. Interment will follow in the Dewey City Cemetery.
Arrangements for Mr. Dishman are under the direction of the Arnold Moore & Neekamp Funeral Home, Bartlesville. Online condolences may be left at www.honoringmemories.com.

Published by Examiner-Enterprise from Nov. 14 to Dec. 14, 2012.
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D,D, was a great friend in Vietnam. We served with Company C, 1/327th Infantry, 101st Airborne Division in 1970, We were two guys that had been drafted out of our teaching positions; me in Minnesota, and Dale in Oklahoma. After serving the first part of our year-long tour in the jungle, we both received assignments with jobs back at battalion headquarters at Camp Eagle. We were able to spend a lot of time together. May he Rest In Peace!

Mark Reisetter

May 29, 2023

Great memories of Coach Dishman, I was a senior his first year at Col-Hi and he made it a fun and memoriable one! My thoughts and prayers are with the family, Kristie and Kyle were the cutest little kids and all the girls on the team loved them!

Paula (Calhoun) Rutherford

November 28, 2012

cindy

November 20, 2012

Uncle Bud. I'm so sad to learn of your passing. We had so many great times. I love you and will always cherish the good times, memories of you teaching me to shoot basketballs, and to water ski. And by the way, there never was a snake in the lake.... Good one though. Made me want to stay on the ski's.

Sheri Shriver DeLozier

November 16, 2012

RIP Coach Dishman, you were my favorite teacher at Col-High and I still tell the story of how you get my keys out of my car. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Michael Hawkins

November 16, 2012

So sad to hear of Coach Dishman's passing. Some of us in the Bartlesville High Class of 1983 was just talking about the fun times in his class just the other day. Awesome coach & teacher. RIP Coach Dishman!

Jodie (Lowe) Hollifield

November 15, 2012

I'm very saddened to hear of Coach Dish's passing....my thoughts and prayers are with his family in their time of sorrow.

Johnny Grigg

November 14, 2012

To all the Dishman family: Please accept our sincere sympathy in the loss of Dale...he gave so much happiness and pride to Chelsea High School through his sports as well as his sportsmanship, through his friendship to all and through his integrity...he will always be remembered fondly by all who knew him.
Jim and Janie (Floyd) Green

Jim and Janie (Floyd) Green

November 13, 2012

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