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KATHERINE LEIGH "KATIE" JACKSON AUG 8, 1985-FEB. 6, 1997 An anniversary of incomprehensible sorrow turns 16 today. Bittersweet 16 thrums in the background, the ceaseless soundtrack of our lives. Time does not heal, exactly, but it dulls the agony. We are no longer unaccustomed to Katie's absence, although, like amputees, we know the phenomenon of the phantom limb. Katie is the phantom daughter. Even now, we reach for her, look for her, call her name. Sixteen years later could it possibly be so long? her powerful presence endures. Memories make time travelers of us all, and in ours, Katie is here, giggling, dancing, singing, beaming, hugging, wondering. Every new day an amazement, dreams chased in flashing waves of copper crashing across her ballerina's shoulders, keeping a graceful rhythm known only to her. It is as Tennessee Williams said: "In memory, everything seems to happen to music." But now, stillness prevails. Hard reality crowds memory, where joy abides. Katie, forever just 11, is frozen in amber, a lifetime of boxes gone unticked. College. Europe. The Broadway Dream. Our Katie, brimming with cheer and ambition has gone from us into the arms of the Savior, where all wisdom is revealed, every comfort embraced, every glory achieved. Left behind, we are selfishly miserable in our melancholy, comforted only in the knowledge that each day brings us closer to the moment of divine reunion. Until then, Godspeed, Angel Katie. Love, Mom, Dad, Elizabeth and Christopher

Published by TBO.com on Feb. 6, 2013.
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I'm so amazed every year when I read the article of remembrance Tom writes in Katy's memory.
It's always a reminder to those of us that were fortunate enough to have known Katy, the memories are precious even though God hand picked her to be one of his precious angels. Love to all.

Norma Moses

February 9, 2016

God Bless Katie,Elizabeth,Christopher, Debbie and Tom! What a Beautiful child. XOXO

Dean and Susan Twiggs

February 6, 2016

I remember that day as well. Lives forever changed. May you reflect on the love and memories of your beautiful soul, Katie. God bless you all and comfort your hearts today and forver.

Star Garcia

February 6, 2016

God Bless you Angel. I remember that day like it was yesterday. You are in Gods arms now and praising His Almighty name. I can't even imagaine how your parents felt that sad day. You are a bright and shinning star in the center of Heaven. God bless your family and freinds for having to go through this sorrow. Your memory will always shine in the life of those who knew and loved you.

Beverly Davidson: Adkins

February 6, 2016

God Bless!!!!

Valorie Ballentine

August 9, 2015

Katherine Leigh I did not know you but I know your Mom what a blessing she is and you would be my Daughters age. As I think of her I will think of you. God is holding your hand in Heaven on this your 30 year Happy Birthday in Heaven with our Sweet Lord.

Cheryl Zamora

August 9, 2015

May you find Peace..time does not always heal all wounds.

Cyndi McNatt-williamson

August 9, 2015

Happy Birthday in heaven Angel! you are missed so much by so many. May you continue to keep watch over your Mom, Dad, Sister and Brother. God bless.

Star

August 8, 2015

We always keep your family in our thoughts and prayers on these sad times. We hope you find peace knowing she's being taken care of by God, in Heaven.

Felipe and Pam Yanes

August 8, 2015

For those of us who have experienced multiple losses and tragedies, it's difficult for most people to understand how hard it is at times to carry on. I rely on Blind Faith during the moments of sadness and try to hang on to Sweet Memories...

Jerry Close

February 12, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

danny mcleod

February 8, 2015

I still pray for all of you

susan baker MADD

February 6, 2015

Precious family of Katherine, My heartfelt thoughts & prayers go out once again to each you. Typical of you, you are sharing your innermost feelings with the world. Perhaps not
realizing how much these very words mean to so many, including myself. Thank you, while facing again this painful memory, you are sharing with others. Great words. Great family that represent Katherine so lovingly & so remarkable. You remain an inspiration.

August 12, 2014

A beautiful daughter ... two inspiring parents. Love to all....

Andrea Brunais

August 9, 2014

I recently saw the movie "Heaven is for Real" and cried during the whole movie. Not of sorrow, but joy. Joy for those who are there and dear Katie is among them. May God hold close those who are waiting for that day of reunification with this beautiful child of God. May peace be with you.

August 8, 2014

My love to Debbie and Tom and family. You are such an inspiration to all of us that know you. You, who have lost so much, continue to give much to those you love.

Peggy Moss

August 8, 2014

Such a beautiful tribute to your beautiful Daughter may God bless you!

Cheryl Zamora

August 8, 2014

Love is forever.

Bonnie Wagner

February 22, 2014

I did not know Katie until the accident. I was heartbroken for the Jackson family. Since then, I feel I know her well due to her families tributes over the years! Her love, gifts and family have touched my life. Memories of Katie and family will not be forgotten.
Judy Renault

Judy Renault

February 9, 2014

Katie you are loved by so many people...you have the sweetest smile..Just like your Daddy and Mommie...

Sherry Kiszka

February 6, 2014

Thoughts and prayers for your family on this day of remembrance. May your memories of your sweet baby comfort you today and always. Hugs.

Tina Owens

February 6, 2014

Katie,
Although we have never met, I can guess what a blessing you were based on your wonderful and loving family. Sending love to ALL the Jacksons!

Barb O'Malley

February 6, 2014

God Bless you and your family. My heart and thoughts are with you all

Anna-Maria McGregor

February 6, 2014

To Tom beautifully worded as always! To all family and friends, know that today the sun that was shinning down on us all was Katie smiling down at us!

Cheryl Puleo

August 8, 2013

Thoughts and prayers with the family and friend ??

Tammy Sheldon

August 8, 2013

Tom, Debbie - This day is marked on my calendar and each year, I remember. I remember Katie and those fresh, innocent years; all of it new: play dates, kindergarten, Halloween (our favorite), Christmas (our other favorite), dear little pals - sweet, sweet moments; easier, seemingly carefree times. Tom, your words are (as always) stunningly beautiful - healing, comforting. I, too, ache and look at my 28 year old son and know they would be friends - still. Time passes, and it is not ours to understand - but we trust God's blueprint and,in time,perhaps we will. Probably not until we once again are in the presence of that joyful little freckled face, bursting with life, love and laughter. Until then, love you - still; miss you more.

Melanie Randel

August 8, 2013

Your beautiful daughter has remained in my heart and mind because you choose to share her and keep her memory alive. I spoke to you a few years ago when my son had an accident and suffered a TBI - your words to me were very comforting and I will never forget that. Please continue to share Katherine's memory with those of us who will never forget her. May God Bless all of her family.

Mary Otero

February 13, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

February 12, 2013

Tom and Debbie,

I too look forward to reading your sweet and melodious words that keeps little Katie fresh in our memories. Your words just make my heart fill with sadness and yet I can feel her presence still here with us. What a wonderful gift you have with words and we're blessed that you continue to share them with us. I have never met your family, but I feel a closeness that your sweet words have brought me.

May GOD be with you always,

Jerline Burney, Tampa Fl

February 10, 2013

Debbie & Tom...I can only imagine the pain you have felt over the years. Like everyone else, I enjoy reading your tribute to your lovely daughter and shed a tear. I know her loss was tragic event in your life, but this event did bring us back together again. I treasure our friendship everyday. Thank you Debbie & Tom for all that you do to make us all SMILE! Love, Denise & Mike

Denise Harkey

February 8, 2013

Oh Tom - your gift with words paints Katie so vivdly; the Katie we all knew and loved. Every year, a small heart on my calendar reminds me of this day; but more so, takes me back to a time when we were all so young and fresh and laughing and learning... Our children, so precious, so prized. All of our everydays were devoted to their care and activities and well-being. The sadness I feel on this day is nothing compared to your and Debbie's, but know that we DO care, and remember and love you both so very much. Miss you...

Melanie O'Neill-Randel

February 6, 2013

Dear Debbie and Tom~
Every year I read your beautiful tribute to your daughter and I cry every year. Your words are so moving. I wish I could do something to ease the pain. Love to you all
Donna Maggio <3

February 6, 2013

Every year your beautiful memorial to gorgeous Katie brings me to tears. Joe and I always think of all of you on February 6. Give Debbie, Elizabeth and Christopher extra hugs today xoxo

Joe & Lucy Patsko

February 6, 2013

I would have loved to have met your Katie, but by having gotten to know and love Debbie, I can imagine the joy and beauty this lovely young girl inherited...beautiful words so eloquently written by her loving father. God Bless those she left behind.

Jackie Fontanills

February 6, 2013

You guys are always in my heart. Wishing you peace. All my love,

Kelly Seeley

February 6, 2013

God Bless You Debbie & family, on this day of grief for your precious little girl. Prayers for you today...

Debbie Giles-Grieshaber

February 6, 2013

Thoughts and prayers with all of you today.

Keri Everlove White

February 6, 2013

Tom, We were neighbors many years ago on River Grove Ct. Each year I read your memorial to Katie and pray that you be blessed with God's peace that surpasses all understanding. Be well and continue to cherish and find joy in those precious memories. Katie (Schoenig) Nodland-Pope

Katie Nodland-Pope

August 15, 2012

Tom,Debbie;
I cannot fathom losing my first child, or grandchild. I can understand Loss as it speaks to Mother Father & Sister, but it is very very different when it was a gift given to you by The Most High God. I understand a lot more about you, just by your love...
God will continually Bless the both of you..
Herb & Sherri Fluitt

Her Fluitt Jr

August 10, 2012

Thinking of you and your family today. Love to you all
Donna Maggio and family

August 8, 2012

Rest in peace Katie. Thoughts and prayers with you always Tom and Debbie. All our love- the Robinson's(Jody O'Steen and family)

Jody O'Steen

August 8, 2012

I know Katie was one of a kind and enjoyed life to the fullest!!! I know she is a beautiful angel making heaven a more beautiful place. We have the hope of seeing her again!

Joan Butler

August 8, 2012

My love gones out to all of you. Love, Nancy Shannon

August 8, 2012

Saying a prayer for you and Katy.

Frank Jiannetti

August 8, 2012

Beautiful Katy,Gone but you will never be forgotten..That sad day will never be forgotten.May you Rest in Peace in God's loving arms.I am sure you would have become an outstanding young woman,your family would be so proud..

Linda Kender

August 8, 2012

Thank you so much for sharing your painful story twice a year. I have been following every entry since you began . Every time I cry and hug my children a little tighter. About 10 years ago I started posting your memorium in my 6th grade classroom by the door hoping that students would read it and take a moment to reflect on this girls life and how precious it is . Many have read and asked questions over the years. I am on a break from teaching now but I have a 9yr old daughter that I feel the need to share Katie's story and your pain. I believe that one day you all will be reunited and all the pain and grief will evaporate.

February 15, 2012

I just wanted you to know that often when I drive thru THAT intersection I think of your family and that awful day. It is like the "John Kennedy moment" for me, as I associate the girl scout cookies I was arranging to be picked up from Deborah when this happened. My "Brownies" are all young women now just starting their "grown-up" lives with marriages, careers, and even babies. I actually can envision Katie as one of these young women. After all this time, even people like me who barely even knew your family are still effected by the tragedy of this event. My heartfelt prayers are with your family.

Love,

Lisa Grady

Lisa Grady

February 15, 2012

I did not know your daughter, but after reading every memorial to her that you, her father, have written each year, I feel I do know her. Each memorial has warmed my heart to see such loving parents' tribute, but it has also triggered many tears from the words that are so heart wrenching in the aftermath of your loss. May you have God's strength and peace as you continue through the years without Katie by your side.

Bobbi Ross

February 14, 2012

I heard it years ago, but it still rings true: Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal. My thoughts and prayers are with you, just as they were those many years ago.

Joe Brown

February 7, 2012

Praying that God will always give you peace and help with the pain. David said this in 2 Samuel that his son could not come to where he was but he could go to where his son is.Just knowing that there is the promise of a future reunion brings joy and peace to our hearts. Continuing to pray for your family.Pastor Steve Redman

February 7, 2012

Once again, I am in tears over your family's loss. What a beautiful tribute to your daughter. I will keep you all in my prayers.

a newspaper friend

February 6, 2012

I wanted to send a message to your family that I often think of Katie! I recently came across a few pictures of us at Hunter's Green from Halloween, and from a birthday party! I am so thankful to have known Katie! She was a wonderful, beautiful, person insode and out!
Love,
Ashley Pelon Robertson

February 6, 2012

Always in my thoughts and prays. Love you all. Donna Maggio

Donna Maggio

February 6, 2012

Wishing you all peace. All my love.

Kelly

February 6, 2012

Debbie and Tom,
No matter how much times goes by, a part of yourselves will always be missing. Remember the Blessing of the Gift of Life, Katherine. And to be able to share and to learn from her the true meaning of Life. May the God of Love continue to sustain you with His promise of Hope for the future. When He will soon end all suffering on the earth.
"He will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no more, neither will mouring nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away. And the One seated on the throne said; "LOOK! I am making all things NEW.....these words are faithful and TRUE."

James' Mother

August 15, 2011

Pure Beauty and Sunshine. I am thinking of you Debbie and Tom.

Lynn Murray

August 9, 2011

Your families' tragedy is one that has touched me since the day I read it in the Tribune so many years ago. My children are close in age to your Katie and Elizabeth. I have shed many tears over the years when I have read the beautifully written in Memotiam's each year. Your ability to put into words your love for your precious daughters and son has deeply touched me. I feel you have a profound "sanctity for human life" that you can share with others. I have never met your family, but please know I have prayed for each of you. Katie has touched so many hearts in her short life. Your efforts have made that possible. Happy Birthday Katie! it was a sweet life.
With Love,
A newspaper friend from Avon Park, Florida

August 8, 2011

Love & Light Jackson Family.

Kelly Seeley

August 8, 2011

Beautiful, as ever, my dear one.

Debbie Jackson

August 8, 2011

Debbie & Tom...What strength, courage and love you have shown for your daughter in the past 14 years. She and you are never forgotten in my prayers. I can not even imagine the hole that is left in your heart for her. Peace & love always! Denise & Mike Harkey

Denise Harkey

February 8, 2011

You are all in my thoughts and prayers...my heart just breaks for your loss...and I am humbled and amazed by your strength, grace, and love. Absolutely Beautiful...

Lynn Munoz Murray

February 6, 2011

What a beautiful tribute to your daughter! I am so sorry that your time together was so short. There is so much love expressed in this passage and I certainly feel blessed to have read it today.

Debbie Condon

February 6, 2011

Your loss still takes my breath away. Such a beautiful child gone too soon. God bless you all.
A stranger

Cynthia Clark

August 8, 2010

Dear Jackson Family:



My memories of Katie are so vivid! I think of her and can picture her face so clearly. I lovingly remember lunches at Burrs, the famous Jackson 4th of July parties, Julie and Jamie's barn party. My photo album photographs of all of you from your Christmas cards and from the party at Crawford's Barn are very precious to me. Thinking of you always,



Lisa

Lisa Kale

February 15, 2004

PS I must have lost a couple of years here. How could this have been seven years ago? Is this really 2004?

Susan Snedeker Meier

February 11, 2004

It hardly seems possible that it has been five years. Your memories help us to know this child whose life was way too short.





Susan Snedeker Meier

Susan Snedeker Meier

February 11, 2004

Bert & Betty Adams

February 11, 2004

I remember Katie as a precocious toddler, cute a button, frolicing with her cousin Dustin at her great grandmother's home in Rutherford, TN.

Great Uncle Bob

Robert Crouse

February 11, 2004

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