My deepest condolences to the Moudgil family and to the extended families. Sheela will be greatly missed. Sheela is a remarkable woman who demonstrated courage, grace, strenghth, and is a loving, caring person. My heart hurts for her and her family.
"Let us consider this hurt a sacred thing and ask ourselves, do we have the courage to transform it into something that can refine our soul." Let there be room for this. "Letting there be room is allowing for a space, a sacred space, where we can be fully present with our pain." As things fall apart, so they come together again. Excerpts/Quotes from Gary Z McGee and Pema Chodron at: http://fractalenlightenment.com/26127/spirituality/turning-wounds-into-wisdom-the-power-of-transforming-pain-into-strenghth. See especially Akhilandeshvari, The Goddess of Never Not Broken.