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January 19, 2016
May God give you comfort in your time of lost. He is gone but never forgotten.


To the Family of Adam
July 15, 2014
Taps will be sounded for Adam next Tuesday evening at 7PM EST, at his graveside. We will never forget his sacrifice.
Gerry Schuck - Bugler, Bugles Across America.
Honoring America's Heroes.
July 22, 2013
To the family and friends of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
It has truly been my honor to sign Adam's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Adam will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
June 03, 2013
Miss you buddy. Thinking about you everyday.
May 05, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
February 06, 2013
I will forever be grateful for Adam's service for his country. I offer my sorrow for his sacrifice.
December 23, 2012
I miss you and still think about you everyday. I love you.
July 31, 2012
July 22, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
Always remembering Adam. "Some gave all."
July 23, 2012
Adam, you will forever be in many hearts and prayers.
September 14, 2011
I had the chance to meet Adam 10 years ago when I was a foreign exchange student in William Monroe High School, and now, 10 years after the attacks, I first found out about you and your destiny. I feel lucky to have met one of the real heroes of the tragedy that change the world. To the family, I'm so sorry for your loss.
July 23, 2011
You and your family will be forever in my prayers.
July 22, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
Please accept my remembrance of Adam on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
May 30, 2011
Miss you my love. Everyday.
March 19, 2011
Hey buddy.... I havent wrote you in a while, just wanted to remind you how much I love and miss you and how much I look up to you still to this day. I think of you everyday.... I hope you and grandpa are up there having a blast together! He missed you so much Adam! as do I! I have pictures of you up all over my house! Seeing your smile makes my day so much better! I love you and thinking of you always!
March 14, 2011
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
July 29, 2010
To the dear family of Cpl Adam Fargo: My heart goes out to you, as I have just learned who Adam was---a very brave solider who put others' lives and safety above his own. I recently chose his name at random for a remembrance bracelet with his name on it. These are like the POW bracelets we wore during the VietNam war. I assure you I will wear mine with honor and thanks for Adam. Also, I am keeping this writing about him and also his photo, so that I can remember him even more. May God give you peace and strength in knowing that Adam left this world as a brave and courageous man, who did his duty and beyond for others and for something greater than himself. I salute you for rearing such a fine young man. God bless.
Debrah from Arkansas
July 22, 2010
I will not be able to be at the Cemetery this evening, but will be thinking about Adam and his family.
July 22, 2010
Taps will be sounded for Adam this evening at 7PM EST, at his graveside. I will never forget his sacrifice.
Gerry Schuck - Bugler, Bugles Across America.
Honoring America's Heroes.
July 22, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
Remembering Adam on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
July 22, 2010
Thinking of you today, can't believe it has been 4 years. We will ALWAYS miss you!
July 22, 2010
To the family of Adam Fargo, please be assured that you continue to be in my heart and prayers, especially on this four-year anniversary of Adam's death. My hope is that cherished memories may continue to celebrate Adam's life and spirit as well as provide you with some measure of comfort and peace. Libby, I think of you and your family often. Please know that I'm here for you with an offer of support. Sincerely, Craig at Hospice of the Rapidan (1-800-676-2012)
July 08, 2010
Adam-
There is barely a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I think of you and your family often.

Brother....I spoke with MAJ Derocchi about you just the other day and we both carry you with us everywhere we go.

4 years and I can still see you like yesterday.

Missing you terribly-

LT (now CPT) Rich Peacock
May 31, 2010
Dear Adam, I am thinking of you this Memorial Day.
January 01, 2010
Hey Adam.... Happy New Year brother.... I love you and miss you and I wish you were here to drink a beer with me and bring in the new year the right way with a parliment cigerette.... I love you ands miss you soooo much... let Aunt Libby know I love her and miss her as well.....
December 31, 2009
Adam,
Seems like yesterday we were trading answers to Mrs. Davis's trig homework, it's really hard to believe that was ten years ago. I only had to read a few postings to understand what kind of soldier, leader and hero you turned out to be. I greatly appreciate and will never forget your sacrifices for this country and our way of life. Take care brother.
Fair winds and following seas
AT2(AW) Morris
VAQ-142
USN
November 30, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Adam Fargo:

I served with Adam and was in the same battalion (4th BSTB 101st ABN DIV) during the Iraq deployment. His loss was sad for all of us.

I got out of the Army last year and moved to the Charlottesville area. My oldest son is now in kindergarten in the Greene County Schools and I have been getting involved with the community more. I was just recently at the high school and read about the Adam Fargo Fieldhouse. As you can imagine, I didn't think it was the same Adam but was really moved when I learned that it was.

I didn't know Adam very well. I was in Bravo Company. But he was still part of our Currahee family and if there's anything I can do for you, let me know.

Lewis Nelson
lewis@nelsondowns.com
October 05, 2009
Hey lurk,
Well I'm glad that your mom is with you. I know that she's been waiting to see you just like everyone else. I found a note the other day from you, I love you too. Well, I tried to go this week but I couldn't get released. But you know mom and I are very upset. Come see me again. I miss you. Love you forever and ever.
October 02, 2009
Hey Adam, I just got an email from amanda this morning.... I heard the news of aunt libby... I felt like I lost you all over again... I know she is in a better place because she is with you, where she wants to be... I love you so much, and I know you will take care of her.... I love you guys very much... keep smiling for us buddy!!
July 26, 2009
Doug & Libby:
You and your family will always be in my prayers and memory for the sacrifice that Adam made three years ago.
July 25, 2009
Hey Adam, I can't believe it has been 3 years already... I miss you more and more everyday buddy... I love you so much!!!! keep smiling for me!!! I love you so much!!
July 22, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
Adam gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest symmpathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
January 22, 2009
Hey adam!!! just writing to let you know i was thinking about you... I just graduated from WLC (warrior leaders course) on the 20th... i learned alot on how to lead soldiers and become a great NCO! I won the iron soldier award out of 106 people with a 321 on my PT test! and I made commandants list! I hope I made you proud!! everything I do at work adam I do it for you!!! I hope your up there smiling down on us!! I miss you and love you very much!! come visit me in my dreams its been so long since we have talked!!! I love you!!!
January 03, 2009
Fargo,
This is your twin Adam from sig ep at George Mason. i remember when we first met you was just a lil guy but you couldnt tell by the heart and fight you had inside of you. you brought so many smiles to my face and to others in the little time that you were at George Mason. I am glad that our paths crossed because i am sure that i was made better just by knowing you. I think about you all the time you will never be forgotten, you will always be in my heart. I know you are in heaven smiling down on us all. Your Twin cut-up, Adam Zanders McGhee
December 19, 2008
Adam,

I never met you but I knew Jason well. I know that if you looked up to him at all then you were a great man. I just found out minutes ago about this and felt drawn to find out more. Thank you for you sacrifice I will tell my sons about you and make sure they know that you died for them and I will always remember you by name that you laid it all on the line so that others - even people you never met- could enjoy freedom. Thank you and i know you are in a better place where there is no need for sacrifice or sadness.

Levi
December 03, 2008
hey adam...... Im sorry I havent wrote you in a while... I have been so busy...I just went to the E-5 board today!! I hope I made you proud adam!! I maxedthe board with 150 points!!! so now im SPC (p) stecher!!! thats whats up huh?!?! so hopefully within the next month I"ll have my SGT!! I love you and miss you adam! I hope I continue to make you proud!! keep smiling!!! i think of you everyday!!!
November 28, 2008
Dear Fargo Family,

I was Adam's third grade teacher at Courtland Elementary in Spotsylvania. I just learned about the loss of your precious son through a teacher friend of mine and was shocked and deeply saddened. I remembered Adam immediately--a really sweet boy with irresistible personality. Adam always had a twinkle in his eye (I still have a little "troll" with wild red hair that he gave me!) and was loved by his classmates and his teacher. You just knew he would grow up to be exactly the kind of person that the tributes, memorials, and pictures show him to have become... a loving son/brother, a fun-loving and loyal friend, a good student and athlete, a skilled medic, a brave soldier-- seeing the pictures and YouTube video were so bittersweet--Adam had become such a beautiful young man--that same personality radiating from that contagious smile of his. Adam was a bright light that continues to shine in all of those who knew him. I pray that God will ease your pain and give you comfort and strength.
October 18, 2008
Hey Fargo , I am coming to VA next week . I am gonna come see you ! Think about you all the time . Miss you .
October 17, 2008
I still think about you everyday. I miss you. I'll always love you... Forever. You know what I'm talking about, we'll speak soon. Goodnight Lurkey...
September 15, 2008
To the Family of one of the greatest brothers a soldier could ever have,

I served with your son in iraq and was there the morning of the tragedy. i send my deepest sympathies to you and just want you to know that when serving with your son he taught me to have a brighter outlook on life and to strive for greatness. although i only served with him for a limited time i have been in the army for almost 5 years now and i have yet to come across another soldier that shows the same dedication, heart, professionalism and love of his job that your son did. it was an honro to serve in iraq by his side.

SPC Sullivan, Alexander
HHC, 4BSTB
Mechanic
August 26, 2008
Although I never knew Cpl. Adam Fargo, I keep his family and other fallen soldier's families in my prayers.Remember in hard times that he is looking down from Heaven and keeping you safe. Thank You for serving our country, and keeping us safe.
May he rest in Peace with the Lord.

Fiance Currently in Iraq
July 22, 2008
Hey cuz... so today is a very sad but rememorable day... @ years ago you were taken from ur family and friends.... I know you are up above smiling down on us!!! and I know your in a better place... just know that we are all thinking of you today and remembering all the great memories we have had.....I love you and miss you adam!!! just know im thinking of you always bro!!!!
July 22, 2008
Adam,
I can't believe it has been two years now that I have been viewing and signing your guest book. There are still times when this all just does not feel real and you will show up one time when we all get together. Don't worry though, you are always on our minds and we talk about you often. The memories you made with us can never be forgotten and for those we are all grateful, they truly are priceless. When I get sad I just think of a special moment and hear your laugh in my head, it never fails to bring a smile to my face.
As always Adam, you are a hero and I am more than grateful for your sacrifice. I still wish you were here though. I will honor you today and everyday. Miss you Fargo! Keep smiling down on us!
July 22, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Adam, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
July 18, 2008
Hey Fargo!!
It amazes me how time goes by and with the 22nd around the corner how peculair I feel. I am so sad, so mad about you being gone from us but then so proud to have been your friend and so proud of everything you have done for the world and for this wonderful little Greene County community. I miss you Adam and it will never matter how many years go by I can not foget your personality and the joy your face and memory will bring to me everytime I think of you. God Bless
July 15, 2008
To the Family & Friends of Cpl. Adam Fargo,

I will be sounding Taps for Cpl. Fargo on July 22nd at 7 PM, Culpeper National Cemetery.

Gerry Schuck
BAA Bugler
Honoring America's Heroes
June 24, 2008
Whats up Fargo , just wanted to say hey . Have not talked to you in a while , 4th of July is coming up and I was thinking about you . I miss you !!
June 23, 2008
To the family of Adam- Please trust in Jesus to get you through this most difficult time. He calms you and soothes your heart. Adam is with Jesus in Heaven and there is no better place to be. He is at peace and is so very happy.
June 08, 2008
Hey adam I just wanted to write and let you know your on my mind.... I think about you all the time adam!!! I love you and keep smiling!!!
May 31, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Fargo!
April 11, 2008
Hey adam just writing to tell you i love ya and miss ya!!! i just got done running and working out a little bit.... just wanted to let you know im thinking about ya!!!! keep smiling adam!
March 28, 2008
Hey Adam.... I just wanted to write you and let you know that im thinking about you buddy.... i miss you and love you adam.. your in my thoughts everyday..... oh, guess what!!! i got a new tattoo.... I got it for you..... its the combat boots with the M16 and kevlar with the dogtags hanging from the M16 and it has your name and all that stuff.... so now your with me everywhere I go! I miss you and love you!!! keep smiling adam.... I'll be home april 18-21st.... im gonna try and come see you buddy!! love ya!!
March 17, 2008
Adam, I just read your article in today's Daily Progress. So many soldiers and their families are forgotten, and I am so happy that Greene and Cville haven't forgotten about you! Your memory and accomplishments deserve to be remembered for as long as all of us who knew you are alive.
March 13, 2008
I heart goes out to the fargo family for there loss. I am Spc Tesdahl, i was in the same platoon as Doc. I miss you and think about you alot. While i look back on all the things that made me like doc the best thing about him was he could always make you laugh. no matter what. I just want the family to know that your son is the biggest hero in my life. Thank you for letting me know such a wonderfull man.
March 10, 2008
My heart goes out to the Fargo family. I am Leanne Herrmann, Adam's sixth grade teacher at William Monroe Middle School. I was searching through some of my former students' myspace.com pages and read about Adam's death on one of the pages. I was stunned! I have so many fond memories of Adam and his smile. He was one of the friendliest students I have ever had. I remember that whole class being an extremely remarkable class. In fact, I believe it was Adam and Patrick that planned a baby shower for my first baby! I am sure he grew to be an amazing man! May Jesus continue to heal your hearts.
February 29, 2008
Adam,
Happy Belated Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
February 28, 2008
My Dear Big Brother,
today was your birthday, it's late and the day is almost over. I thought about you, of course on your special day. You also visited me in my dream last night. I can't remember now exactly what you were doing but you were there and so was i and that's all that matters. You're getting old big bro. I wish you were here to see how things have changed, especially me. Visit mom, Adam, and tell her to fight and be mom again. push her. she will only listen to you, you must tell her to get well. i believe only you can make things right in this. the great equalizer. it really really sucks that you're not here and i hate it. i would give up everything to have you back, i'm not sure anyone really knows that. i'm writing here and looking at your picture and it's unreal. i still pray for a modern day miracle. come back, Adam. Come back to me. I miss you so much big bro, my heart breaks everyday. i can't let go, i won't let go. visit me again soon. talk to me. let me know how you think i'm doing. I want you to be proud and i think you are, Jason is. Jason is only half of who i am, and my other half is gone. i hurt, but am trying to be strong and be an example. I will not let my life be stopped. i will be brave and make my big brother proud of me. i hope you had a party up there today. you deserve the best. I love you and you're always in my heart.
Love, Your Baby Sister
February 28, 2008
Happy Birthday Adam, I miss you and think about you everyday!!!!
February 28, 2008
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADAM!!!!!!! I've been thinking of you all day long.... I have been out in the field for the past week, so i was looking forward to coming back to the rear today and tell you happy birthday! I love you adam and your always in my thoughts buddy!!! keep smiling!!!
February 28, 2008
It has been another long day brother, just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday you old man and let you know that i have been think about you today.
Love,
Jason
February 28, 2008
Happy Birthday! I still think about you everyday, we all miss you.

-Vac
February 21, 2008
My Dear, Sweet Adam-

I'm sorry it's been so,so long since I've written to you. It's not b/c I'm not thinking of you. I do all the time. The last few months have been real hard for me. My health is not great and I miss you so much. It seems to be getting harder having you gone. But thinking of you gets me thru each day. I LOVE U BUBBA!!!!!!!
Mom xoxoxoxo
February 07, 2008
Just stopping by to tell you I love you Adam.... i miss you buddy, i think about you all the time..... your face is everywhere in my room here..... so when im having a rough day I can always look at you and i know you'll put a smile on my face!! i love you and keep smiling cuz!
January 30, 2008
Still thinking about you Adam. You'll never be forgotten.
January 27, 2008
My wife is buried at Culpepper National Cemetery, I go there fairly often and will stop by to say a prayer and honor the resting place of Cpl Fargo.

I was looking over the Guest Book entries for Virginia and noticed the picture of Cpl. Fargo. What a courageous young man. A medic has enough danger and responsibility, yet here we see Cpl Fargo out with a combat patrol trying to save other lives by finding bombs along the road. I am always grieved to read these tributes; I send my sympathy to the family of this young hero. May you find peace knowing that your son died for all of us.
January 04, 2008
It was a great honor to have met Adam Fargo and served with him in Iraq. We all hope and pray that his ultimate sacrifice will never be forgotten. My condolences to his family. He is gone but never forgotten.
January 01, 2008
Happy new year adam! i wish you were here to bring in the new year with us! We miss you and love you so much adam!!!!!!!!
December 18, 2007
Hey adam!!! 2 more days and ill be home... im gonna come see you! i promise! i got so much to tell u! i miss you and love you adam!!!!! keep smiling cuz!!!
November 22, 2007
Hey adam.. just wanted to write and tell you HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!! your in my thoughts today.... remember all the thanksgiving get togethers we had the stechers & fargos .... holy crap there was a never dull moment there! ill be home dec. 20th thru Jan. 2nd... so ill be able to come see you for christmas.... i promise ill be there adam! i love you and miss you cuz!!! keep smiling!
October 28, 2007
hey adam still thinking of you everyday like i always do... i miss you and love you man! keep smiling!!!
October 25, 2007
Still thinking of you fargo. We know your up ther watchin over us and I want you to know we still think about you everyday.
October 14, 2007
Rest In Peace Cpl. Fargo! God bless you!
October 13, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
October 12, 2007
Another Fallen Hero ~

We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. We know firsthand there are not words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son on 9-3-2004, at the age of 19. Know that you are not alone and that there are families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain. Our deepest condolences and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort.

Adam ~ We are thankful for the Service, Courage, Bravery and Determination from you, my son and all the others in our armed forces. May you rest in peace! You all will not be forgotten.

We still fly my Marine flag, and use my Marine stickers on our vehicle because our daughter is also a Marine, and we are proud of both. Thank you!!

Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
~ Semper Fi ~ Marines!

Proud Parents of a USMC, American Soldier
(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9-3-04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)
October 11, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
October 11, 2007
REST IN PEACE ADAM, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFU MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
October 11, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Adam to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Adam in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
October 05, 2007
Hey Bubba! I know it's been ages since I've written to you. I'm sorry! You know why. It's all I can do to type. I know you are happy and content, so I know I don't need to worry about you.
I still think this is all a bad dream and you'll soon be home. But I know that is never going to happen. You're waiting for all of us to come "home." I miss you so much and love you even more. Mom xoxo
October 03, 2007
Hey adam.... just writing to tell you i love you and miss you... i think about you everyday cuz.... just do me a favor and keep smiling! come visit me in my dreams sometime!! i miss you and love you!
September 18, 2007
Hey adam it's Jenni... just writing to let you know im thinking about you... not a day goes by that i dont think of you.... im always tellin stories to my battle buddies and talkin about you.... just keep smiling... i miss you so much! come visit me in my dreams.... I need someone to vent with.... i know u'll be a great listener! you were always great to talk to about anything... miss you and love you!
September 08, 2007
Hey adam.... im sorry i didnt get to come visit you when i was home. I was so busy spending time with dad.... but i know you understand.... but just remember i love you... and you are always on my mind.... i miss you so much... keep smiling and come visit me in my dreams ok?!? would be nice to talk to you again like we have before in my dreams.... i miss you and love you adam!!!!
August 31, 2007
I have a picture magnet on my refrigerator door of Adam which I see many times each day. "Fallen but not forgotten".Adam is in God's care now. May God bless his soul through eternity. Don't cry because he is gone.Smile because he was here.
August 30, 2007
Hey adam just letting you know im thinking about you! i miss you so much!! and I love you... Keep smiling!
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 16, 2007
HI Adam
Hey buddy I miss you so much... it still feels like your just away for now and you will be coming home soon. It so hard to think about you not being here. I loved being at your parents and meeting people that you got to know an respect as your colleagues. You are every ones legend your amazing Adam. I just cant believe its been over a year. It seems like my whole life changed last year and I know your one of my very special gardian angels who has looked over me while everything was happening. Thank You Adam! Love you!
August 13, 2007
Hey adam... it's Jenni just stopping by to tell you I love you and miss you like crazy cuz.... your in my thoughts every single day!!! i love you and keep smiling!!!
August 12, 2007
My name is Amanda Castle and I had graduated with Adam he was a great person in school I didn't know him very well but he was a class character and I feel very sorry for the lost of Adam and my thoughts and prayers are with you everyday and always will be. God bless you and I will pray for the family over the years.He always had a smile on his face.My heart goes out to the Fargo Family.
August 07, 2007
To Adam: I am sorry I didn't get to meet you. I know Doug and Libby and can only imagine what a special person you must be. Doug, Libby and family: I wish I could have made your memorial event. You and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers. Adam, God bless you and thank you.
August 01, 2007
Hey adam.... so the celebration of your life at aunt libby and uncle dougs was so nice! all the pictures of you and things to remind us of you... finger nail clippers, parliment ciggs, the vanilla waffer cookies you liked... it was all so nice.... but i have to say it wasnt the same w/o you there... it was the first time our whole family has been together since you have been gone... we all miss you so much adam! i havent had a dream about you in a while.... you need to come visit me again... im sorry I didnt get another chance to come see you... i hope you approve of pete... he got to meet the family and i brought him to your grave with me.... he wishes he could have met you! i love you so much adam and miss you so! come see me soon in my dreams! i miss your smile!!!
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Fargo and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 29, 2007
I can't believe it has been a year already....just can't stop thinking about you. Miss you Args


-Vac
July 28, 2007
I have a great respect for our armed forces personnel. Without their devotion to duty, we would not be enjoying the lifestyle so many of us take for granted today. Too few of us understand the need for keeping the U.S. Military strong. My son served with the 82nd Air Medi-Vac in Iraq. He too was proud of what he was doing. I will make sure that I place a flag at Adam's grave next July 22 and thank him personally for his service to our Country.
July 22, 2007
Adam Frances, god how i miss saying that to you and you laughing and saying ashby lyn. i still can't believe its been a year already. your parents had a wonderful celebration for you yesterday. it was really nice. and i was glad i got to meet some of your comrads. your dad had made a bowl of items that reminds us of you. i took the fingernail clippers. you know you grossed me out everytime you picked at your toes. if only you could still be sitting beside me on the couch picking at your feet. i miss you sooo much. but i know you are in a better place now. keeping an eye on all of us. soon we will be together again. until then i love you very much and miss you deeply.
July 22, 2007
You are greatly loved and missed! You will live on in our lives forever. We think of you everyday. Our thoughts and prayers to the Fargo family...always.
July 20, 2007
coming home to see you, i cant believe that it has been a year, where does the time go. all is well with me. see you again.
love
jason
July 15, 2007
Friend, Brother... always. I still keeping what I promise you. And I will for life. RIP. GOD Bless you.
July 13, 2007
Dear family and friends of Adam Fargo,
I will be paying a special tribute to honor Adam on July 22nd at 11 a.m., at his gravesite at Culpeper National Cemetery. I will sound Taps and play Amazing Grace in honor of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo.
I am deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. I will play with all of my heart and all of my soul, this I promise. I am sure that Adam would expect no less.

With sincere and heartfelt sympathy,

Gerard A. Schuck
Bugler and State Director - Virginia
Bugles Across America
Honoring America's Heroes
July 06, 2007
For Adam's family: I am a nurse in Charlottesville. I am also a mom. I want you to know my heart aches for you all, especially as July 22 approaches again. Please know I am praying for the "peace that passes all understanding" for each of you. "Peace" is a relative term. I think about your family and where each of you might be on the painful road you walk. I know Adam's life brought you great joy - I pray that joy gives you some measure of comfort. Yes, fallen soldiers are heroes. But those left behind make an immeasurable sacrifice. Your sacrifice preserves this country's freedom and the spread of freedom on the other side of the world. I am grateful to you all and pray for comfort for you each day.
July 06, 2007
Hey baby,
It's me. I'm finally home from Iraq and you're supposed to be here, but you're not. I guess in a way you are, but just not physically. It's hard to write in the guest book. This whole thing is hard. I'm finally back and the whole thing is just weird. I'm sure you've been watching me and seeing how things have been for me lately. I miss you so much baby. I'm still waiting sweetheart. It'll always be me and you battle. I love you Adam. My turkey lurkey. I miss you baby. I'll see you soon. I love you...
July 03, 2007
Hey adam it's Jenni... man i miss you so much.... i can't believe it has been a year almost... but i do have some good news... im coming home soon! but shhhhhh dont tell anoyone.. i want to suprise gma and gpa... and aunt libby and uncle doug! i know my secret is safe with you! but i promised you i was coming home soon to visit you... i will be there soon adam i promise! i got so much to tell you! just remember i love you and i will see you in my dreams! keep smiling cuz!
June 22, 2007
Adam, I can't believe it has almost been a year. Still not a day goes by when I don't think of you. I miss you Fargo!!!
June 21, 2007
Hey adam it's Jenni.... ive been thinking about you alot lately.... i had a dream last night and you were in it... we really didnt get to say much to each other in this one but i got to see you smiling and i know your doing just fine! I cant wait to come home and see you! i promise i will be home soon to see you adam! I miss you and love you! oh and im sorry it has been so long since i have wrote to you... but adam i swear to you i have not forgotten about you! i would never forget you! i love you so much! just remember that!
June 10, 2007
Just from what I have read, your family is nothing short of amazing Adam. You are a hero, and you always will be. We are deploying to Afghanistan in April Adam, I know you would have given it your all and loved every minute of it. You are not forgotten.
June 02, 2007
My Dear, Sweet Adam, I'm so so sorry it has been so long since I've written in your special book. It's not that I'm not thinking of you. You are always on my mind and forever in my heart. Well, I made it thru all the Memorial Day activities. I never thought about it until Trista said it in her entry. You, Adam J. Fargo, have become a LEGEND. You'd be so happy (not really the right word) at all the fuss that's being made over you. It's so difficult to attend all these ceremonies, but we are SO proud of the man you became. Of all the stuff we went to, the one that touched me the most was awarding the first annual Adam Fargo Memorial Scholarship. You could have heard a pin drop in that gym when Dad was talking about you. Everyone is just amazed by you even people who knew you. HA! I'm looking forward to our open house to CELEBRATE your life. There are some special things I want to do for it. I just hope I'm able to get them done. Sandra is going to help me. The flower box for around your flag pole came. I bought some silk red, white and blue flowers to go in it. It looks so nice. Well, my Adam, I could write to you all day, but I've got things to do. I miss you so very much and love you ALWAYS! oxoxoxox Mom
P.S. Chanel 29 interviewed us for M. Day. Henry asked if had gotten any easier in the last 10 months. I said NO. It's just different. I still hope you'll come walking thru the front door again.
June 01, 2007
Hey Sweetie! I've been thinking about you a lot lately. I've come to realize that you've become quite the legend that you always joked about being. :) Hearing all the memorials and events taking place in your name just amazes me. You truly are a "legend" Adam. I miss you, take care.
May 30, 2007
Just thinking about you as I always do... hugs and kisses to you adam! i love you!
May 29, 2007
I played soccer with Adam in Charlottesville for SOCA and played against him in High School (Western Albemarle). He was always an easy going guy, and I enjoyed hanging out with him from time to time. I played against his brother Jason this weekend in a soccer tournament in Charleston, SC and found about Adam. I'm truly sorry to hear the news and my deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
May 29, 2007
Hi Adam
I know you already know how much people miss you!! It was hard to think about yesterday being a day I will always be so sad on but ALWAYS so proud of. You are a hero in everyones eyes and we miss you SOO much. I wish you could be here and have the chance to meet MADALYN. She is so adorable! You should be proud to have such a beautiful little girl carry your memory on. You know she is gonna be something else :) HA Just look after her. Love you Adam and I miss you everyday.
May 28, 2007
Miss you buddy... as hard as it is to think about you, it's harder not to.

Old Dubba
May 25, 2007
Hey adam... it's Jenni again... so i went to the memorial servicethat 4th ID was holding... it was so nice.... it was for operation iraqi freedom from 05-07.... they had it for all the soldiers who were killed whil they were deployed there... your name got put on the wall... and the memorial area it is at is like a 3 min. walk from my barracks... so it's like apart of you is only a 3 min. walk from me.... I took pictures fro your mom and dad.... like I said before I felt so proud to go represent the family... you sure were one heck of a soldier adam.... I miss you and love you very much... i think of you everyday! keep smiling and I will keep dreaming that your still here!! i miss you cuz!!!!
May 21, 2007
Hey adam.. it's Jenni.... so this wednes day I am going to go the memorial service to honor you and all the other great soldiers out there who sacraficed their lives for this wonderful country, my section cheif SSG Hunt is going with me.... it's going to be sad but I am so proud to represent the Stecher/Fargo family!!! I miss you!! I think about you everyday! there is not a day that goes by that i dont think of you! your my guardian angel! I know you are! Well after wed. I will let you know how everything goes..... see you in my dreams.... i love you!
May 07, 2007
cant stop thinking about you.... i miss you and love you adam.... keep smiling!!
May 07, 2007
My Dear, Sweet Adam, (Little Bubba), PLEASE forgive me for not writing on your book for so long. I see not too many others have either. We haven't forgotten you. There's no way we could ever do that. Remember; ALWAYS in my heart! We're just trying to get on with our lives but it sure is hard as hell without you. I MISS you so much. My health is not too good and I know if you were here you would talk to me about it. There are a lot of activities coming up in your honor (and all the others that have made theSO PROUD of the man you beccame. ultimate sacrifice. We are On 5/23 there is some special ceremony atFt.Hood. Of course we can't go; so we asked Jenni to represent the family. She is stationed there. She is so glad and proud that we asked her. She misses you so much. On 5/24 the state of VA is having a memorial dediccation at the newly renovated state capital building. On 5/25 we award the first Adam Fargo Memorial Scholarship at the awards assembly. Dad and Sarah will do that, but I'll go. On 5/25 there is something in Shenandoah. Gr'pa F wiill go to that. 6/23-6/24 we'll be in Atlanta for the Adam Fargo Memorial soccer Tournament. J organized this in your honor. YOU are his HERO. On 7/21 we are going to have an open house to celebrate your life. I think some of the guys from your unit may come. That would be nice. We haven't meet any of them yet. That disappoints me. I think it would be good for your high school frieds to meet your Army buddies. We'll spend 7/22 quietly as a family (Dad, J, sarah, and me.) It will be a sad day for all of us but I'm going to be thankful for the 22+ yrs. God let you be in my life. I know you are in a better place and forever happy. I still miss you sooooooo
much and love you dearly. Momxoxoxo
May 06, 2007
I miss you Adam... I love you.
April 25, 2007
Just wanted to stop by and tell you I love you.... your always on my mind..... ~*hugs and kisses*~
April 15, 2007
Hey adam... I had another dream about you last night.... thats the 2nd dream I have had about you.... we were playing soccer right here outside my barracks, and you gave me a hug and kiss on my cheek and we talked about nothing... that was the best part we were just having a conversation about how much things have changed.. just seeing you smile and having a good time running around playing soccer was great! I miss you adam.... i know your here with me at heart! I love you!
April 07, 2007
Hey adam... I just wanted to write and tell you I love you and miss you... my birthday is on mondy.. i will def. drink a beer for you ok?! b/c you know it is the big 21!! just remember your in my thoughts all the time!! i love you so so much!!!!
April 02, 2007
Hey Argo,
I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you. It still doesn't seem real to me that you're gone. I would do anything to be able to hangout with you again, but all I can do is think about all the times I was able to hangout with you when you were here and every time I do that I can't help but smile. I miss you so much Argo.


-Vac
March 31, 2007
Hey adam....its Jenni... your in my thoughts as always.. I had a dream about you the other night... it was so great to see you and talk to you.... you are still the adam I grew up with.... I still can't come to grips that your gone!!! I hate it! I was watching the video I put on my myspace page of you.. and just seeing you talk and smiling kills me.... I still wish I knew why you cuz! Just remember you are always in my thoughts... there is not a day that goes by that I dont think of you... I miss you so much... I love you adam!!! dont ever forget that!!! ok!?!?! I will come home soon to visit you... I promise!!!! i love you!!!
March 28, 2007
Adam,
I am really having a hard time being back here after coming to see you. It was so hard. It still is. The thing that is so hard, that I still don't know what to do about...I don't even know how to write this hardly... It's the fact that when I come home from Iraq, you won't be there waiting for me. I'll have no one waiting for me when we all come home. It's like, I know you died, I was there for the funeral, I have been back since. But, still it's like I've been over here. I mean you know how it is over here, it's like you have no idea what is going back in real life. It's like, it still seems like you'll be there when I get back because we would have been apart this whole time anyways. I know I would have seen you on leave, but it's just really hard to think of you not being here. I dunno what to do. This all just seems so... So, like it didn't happen. I pray everynight that you'll come see me in my dreams. Sometimes you do, but more often you don't. This hasn't got any easier since it has all happened. Everyone keeps saying it will. But, some days... It's just like, what am I doing here. I want to be with you so bad!!!!!!! So BAD! I HATE IT HERE. I just want to be with you again baby. I miss you so much. I can't go to church anymore, I don't see the point. It just pisses me off. I am so mad at everything. What do you do now? I don't know anymore. Sometimes, I just feel like I'm seriously losing my mind. My brain starts hurting. My whole body starts hurting. I just want to curl up in a ball and have it all go away. I'm sorry. I feel like I could have prevented this if I would have married you, you might have not been on the road. You might have been with me that morning. I just don't know anymore... I just want you to know, that not a minute goes by that I don't think about you. Not a second baby. I miss you so much. We WILL be together again. I know it. It's fate remember. I LOVE YOU. Always... Forever I'll always love you. Hopefully I'll talk to you and see you again soon. I love you Adam.
March 17, 2007
My dear, sweet Adam- The time between entries into your book are getting longer and longer, but we haven't forgotten you. You will forever be in my heart and you will know that without me writing anything or even saying anything. Besides, how could anyone ever forget that beautiful smile or that unique, raspy voice. You will never be forgotten. We had a pleasant visit with Bridget and her mother. I'm glad she was able to come out to see us, but mostly you. She is really suffering. I wish I could help her, but she has to come to grips with this situation on her own.
The rest of the family is fine. Sarah went to Cancun with her boyfriend (Jason) over spring break and Jason just spent 4-5 days in Utah, snowboarding with some guys on his soccer team. Dad keeps busy most of the time with keeping up with everything b/c I can't do much of anything. I'm hanging in there but it isn't easy. Next week Gr'm, Amanda, Cailey, and the newest member of our family, Camden Alexander Short are going to come for a short visit. I can't wait to meet my little great nephew (your second cousin). We've seen pics and he is cute. Looks like Tim. He was a BIG baby-9lbs. 14ozs. WOW!
Well, I've rambled enough. I miss you Adam and love you with all my heart!! Some days I don't think I'll ever be able to accept that you are gone from us forever. But I know you are in a better place and will be forever happy. Mom xoxo
March 08, 2007
My love,
I'm back in Virginia, but once again...without you by my side. Thing's aren't going as we had planned, but we'll still be together. I love you Adam. I'll be with you tomorrow. Miss you more than anything in the entire world. I love you.
March 05, 2007
Hey Adam,
I wrote to you on your birthday but did'nt say much because I was unsure of what to say. Anyways I want you to know that there isn't a day that goes by that I dont think about you. I set at work on the cold days when there is nobody playing golf and I think of what you would be doing on a day like this. I see boring soccer games on t.v. and actually stop and watch a few minutes of them just cuz I remember you making me stop on them, while we would be channel surfing. None of those guys out there on the soccer field have skills like you. You would run circles around them boys. Anyways brother, I miss you terribly.
I'll see you later.

Carl
February 28, 2007
Happy Birthday Adam, I miss you and think about you every single day.

Flip (that is what you would call me)
February 28, 2007
My Dear, sweet Adam-HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I miss you lots but I know you are HAPPY and having a perfect birthday! I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART! Mom xoxox0
February 28, 2007
Hey Big Bro! Today is your birthday and you're getting old. 23, eh? Where did all that time go? I wasn't really sure if i should be happy or sad today. Should I celebrate today because it was your birth? Or should I be crying because you aren't here to see it? I think i've done a little of both. Glad that you were born yet sad you are no longer here. I wish i could be really happy today so I could celebrate the Fargo way, but it's just not in me, you always did it better than me anyway. I wonder what you are doing, if you can see me. And i'm still waiting, Adam, for what you would tell me. Please visit me more in my dreams, that's where we can talk a lot and i like it very much. I haven't yet talked to you through this but i figured today was a good day to leave you a message. I've been thinking of you all day and wanting to tell everyone I see "Today is my brother's birthday! ... but he isn't here to celebrate." I tell whoever will listen about you and your story. It touches most. I want them to know what it cost for them to be here doing whatever they want. It's still really hard for me to believe you aren't coming home, but i'm still waiting for a miracle to happen. It can, you know? Miracles are not just a thing of the past, but i try not to let my imagination run too wild, it's important to stay grounded and be realistic. But nevertheless, a small part of me will dream that dream forever. I wonder what you are doing on your birthday. Can you drink in heaven? I bet it's a party though. I have not forgotten your birthday, nor will I ever. Today is your day and I am doing my best to devote it to you and letting others know about you. Your dog tags around my neck, as they always are, I face the day. It reminds of you, of course, and to be a fighter. I can do anything because you give me strength and the freedom to do so. That's a big gift, Adam, and here i am getting it on your birthday. I wish I could give you the biggest gift of all, but all i have is my love for you and my promise that i will never let anyone forget about you. Be good! Stay out of trouble. I miss you. We'll talk soon. Love, Your baby sister
February 28, 2007
Happy Birthday bro.

Miss you

Carl
February 28, 2007
Happy Birthday Argo!

I miss you bro.
-Vac
February 28, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FARGO!!!!
I wish so much you were here to celebrate, I remember in the past we would have the best time on your birthday. Me and Jen visited you to say Happy B-day this weekend but I just wanted to tell you again. Sometimes I wish you could just come home but I am beginning to realize that is not going to happen. We all think and talk about you all the time you will always be a part of our lives and influence what we do, I find myself saying sometimes "Adam would be proud" (or wouldn't)
I will never forget you or the memories that we shared. Happy B-day! Today I will remember the good times of your past birthdays and smile.
I miss you Adam.
February 28, 2007
Happy Birthday Adam
Love, Jason
February 28, 2007
Hey Adam...... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Wow time does fly fast huh??? the last time I saw you was last march... and march is just around the corner... I miss you so much adam... you are always on my mind.... when I am having a bad day I think of you... and it always brings a smile to my face.... I hope you have a very Happy Birthday and just remember I will be thinking of you... and everyone else will be thinking of you as well!!! I Love You!! KEEP SMILING!

---Always--- Jenni
February 27, 2007
My love,
It's your birthday today. I remember last year you were in route to Hawaii. You got there and we went out and had so much fun. Well, this time it's my turn to be coming home to you. I'll be there in about 8 days to visit your mom and dad. Also, to see you. I miss you so much. This is so hard Adam! I don't know what to do anymore. There isn't anything to do. I mean, I'm glad I'm getting a break out of here, but nothing is going to turn out the way it was planned. I miss you so much. Everyday I think about you. Pretty much all day long. I love you. I didn't know what love really was until I met you. You took half of my heart with you when you left. You'll always have my heart Adam. I'll see you soon. I miss you and I love you more than anything in the whole world. Happy birthday babe... Love you.
February 20, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
February 16, 2007
Hey Adam... So I just wanted to write you bc you were in my thoughts... Just like you are everyday... I seen someone had made a myspace page for you... I looked at the pictures and the ones where you were acting goofy made me smile.... reminded me of the adam I knew... crazy, outgoing, and loved to make other people laugh! I miss you like crazy adam... I think about you all the time! I just want you to know that! I love you and miss you!!! Happy be-lated Valentines Day!!!!!
February 14, 2007
My love,
Today is Valentines Day. I remember last Valentines Day you bought me the 3 heart diamond necklace. You were afraid that I wouldn't like it because it wasn't expensive. I didn't care. It was from you. I miss you so much. This is so hard. Why doesn't it ever get easier? I just don't understand. I miss you Adam. I love you so much. Your birthday is coming up soon too... I'll be home soon to see you. I'm still going to be with you on my r&r. We might not be getting married, but we'll still be together. I love you Adam. You have my heart. All of it. No one will ever take that away. The only thing that keeps me going some days is knowing that we will be together again soon. I try to remember what you said, about a year isn't that long to wait when you're going to spend a lifetime with that person. Well, a lifetime isn't that long to wait when you have an eternity to spend with the one you love. I will always be waiting. I miss you so much! I know that we will be together again. It's fate, just like you said. I love you. I'll see you again soon. Hopefully sooner than later. I love you Adam. You're my everything. Love you Lurk.
February 14, 2007
My Dear Adam- HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! I love you my sweet little boy. I missed packing you up a goodie box when I did J's & Sarah's. But I did think about you and what I would have got to go in your box; soft chocolate chip coookies, for sure and probably a book-science fiction, candy, gum,and who knows what else. I missed hearing from you yesterday, my birthday. It's just the first one you'll miss for the rest of my life. Dad bought me a heart necklace that says "ALways in my heart". That is where you have to be now for me; for all of us. I miss you so very much Adam. Love you with all my heart!! Rest in Peace. Mom xoxoxo
February 02, 2007
February 02, 2007
Hey adam.... I just wanted to write you and tell you I love you! I found a video on youtube.com of you!!! your talking on your senior video and everything.. it was so good to hear you talk and see you smiling and talking!! just made me smile seeing that smile on your face!!! I miss you Adam!!! Your on my mind everyday!!! I got you hanging above my bed... your the first person I see when I wake up and the last person I see before I go to sleep!!! just remember we all love and miss you very much!!! I LOVE YOU ADAM!!!!
January 24, 2007
My Dear, Sweet Bubba Adam,
I'm sorry it's been awhile since I've written to you. That doesn't mean I'm not thinking of you b/c you are ALWAYS on my mind in some way or other but you are ALWAYS and ALWAYS will be in my heart. I miss you so very much. I know eventually it won't hurt this much and it will be easier to get through each day. But right now everything and everyday is an effort. It just seems to be getting harder and harder. I'm sure if my physical health was better, my emotional health would be too. I just keep hearing your words, "Your strong Mom and you can do this (get beter).
I have to do now for Dad, Jason, and Sarah. We've been in contact with Sgt. Graydon and we are so glad. He is still at
Walter Reed, recovering from his wounds. We are planning to see him when he is released in about 3 wks. He didn't think we would want to see him b/c it would bring up bad thoughts. That is so far from how we feel. We can't wait to meet him and would like to meet the other guys that were in the RG-31 with you. Well, I need to go, Bubba. I wish you were here with us but I know you are in a better place. OH! We heard from Bridget and we'll be seeing her in March. I LOVE YOU! Mom
January 21, 2007
Hey adam... it's Jenni... I just wanted to write and let you know i am thinking about you like I always do! I feel like it gets harder and harder everyday. The more I think about it the more I dont want to accept the fact you are gone. I have pictures up in my room of you! you are my guardian angel adam. I know you are watching over me! helping me every step of the way. I miss you so much! I hate the fact that I didnt get a chance to say goodbye! the last time I saw you was March 2006. and i remember we all sat in gma and gpas living room and talked about old memories about all the stupid stuff we used to do! I miss the times us "cousins" had together. I miss you adam... I know you are in a better place now... I guess god had bigger and better plans for you. I know you are looking down on us telling us not to worry about you bc you are fine... bc thats how you are. but just remember you are always on my thoughts!! I think of you all the time, there isnt a day that goes by I don't think about you... if we could switch places I would in a heart beat.... you didn't deserve to get taken from this world!! I love you adam! don't ever quit smiling!!! it's one of a kind smile!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!
January 04, 2007
Hey Doc

I found this sight about three months ago and it has taken me this long to come with grips in some ways with what happened and to find the words to put here for all to see. I guess I could start by saying that I think about you all the time, at least once a day. Anytime I see a soccer game on TV or see a George Mason sticker on a car or even see anything about the Redskins I think what would you be doing if you were still with us today?
I have pondered a million times in my head about the events of July 22nd 2006 in my head and I still to this day wonder if I did the right thing out there. I at times wonder if you would feel the same way as I do right now if our roles were reversed. I feel that I knew you better than most in our company after all the endless nights that you and I spent in the RG together talking about everything from sports to our families and Bridget and Jamie. It felt to me like we had a kind of a bond that was just between us.
It is Christmas time now and it was this time last year when I really got to know you during Ironclaw training at Camp Liberty. It is times like those and times when me, you and Skeez would hang out in my room and just talk about nothing important but just to do it, that makes me miss you the most. I wish with all my might that you could be with your family during this very important family holiday but for some reason you aren’t and I am.
I am still recovering from the blast here at Walter Reed and I have thought about going to see your parents a million times but I just can’t seem to find the words to say to them if I was to do so. People tell me here all the time that I am a hero for what I did but I don’t see it that way. In my heart you are the real hero Doc because you gave the ultimate sacrifice for what you believed in. No one made you do it but you did day after day because like you said to me “You didn’t want to let the guys in the platoon down”. You never let me down Doc. I will never understand that if there is a God, then why does he always take the good ones from us? Well you were definitely one of the good ones Doc and I will always and forever think about what I learned from you as a human being and I will always remember you until the day I too leave this earth.

SSG James Graydon
US Army Engineer
Sappers Lead the Way!
December 31, 2006
My Dear, Sweet Adam, I know it's been ages since I've talked to you. I'm sorry. I've been pretty sick. In and out of the hospital and even spent 30 days in a nursing facility. The doctors just don't know what else to do for me. Thank God for Dad. He is taking good care of me. I miss you so very much. I have so much free time on my hands that I think of you all the time. It just gets harder and harder to have you gone. I sure hope it gets easier. I don't think it will. I've got to get to bed. I'll write again when I have the time. I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU!!Libby
December 31, 2006
My love,
I wish I could go back and do this year over. I wish I could go back to the first day I met you. It was 2 years and 2 days ago. If I could go back, I would in a minute. You were the best thing that ever happened to me. I know at midnight you'll be with me tonight. I'll kiss my ring and pretend it's you. I love you so much. Sometimes I just don't feel like I can go on. I hate being here without you. There is not a minute that I don't think about you. It gets so lonely baby... I'm so lonely, I just wish that you were here. I would give anything in the world to have you back. I would give anything to just look at you and feel you hold and kiss me one last time. Anything baby... I miss it so much. Adam, I love you so, so, so much. Forever baby. I'll always love you. No one could ever compare to you. No one will ever take your place. I love you. I read this all the time baby....... "hey mama its again....i just want you to know....you are the most important thing in the world to me......... i cant live without you, i can not live without you....you aare the beat of my heart, you make my world turn, i live for you, for us, for our future together, for the kids we will have....as long as we both are alive on this earth my sole purpose in life is being with you, building a future with you and i will do whatever it takes for the rest of my life to make you happy and give you all the love i have....you are mine and always will be, you are stuck with me, i love you bridget, i love you love you love you....anyway would a lurk do without his lurky lu?" Well, baby...Sometimes I don't know what this Lu is doing anymore. Just know that I love you. I'll never forget Virginia. I'll never forget us. I'll always wait. I love you baby. Love you, love you, love you... Forever...
December 27, 2006
Hey adam... it's your cousin Jenni. I am just stopping by to let you know that I am thinking about you and you are constantly on my mind. I love and miss you very much.. I stopped by and saw you again on my way home from my recruiter station. I hope you knew I was there.... I know you and I will be reunited again one day.... everything I am doing and have done since I have been in the army has been for you... noone has motivated me as much as you cuz! I love you so much!!! keep watching over us... and promise me you won't stop smiling!!!! I love you!!!!
December 25, 2006
Well cuz... today is christmas.... gma and gpa came over and gma made her famous chicken noodle soup that we all love!! and I know you loved it as well!! it was different not having all the cousins around but we made up for it... we all sat and watched the thanksgiving tape from 1994... we waited for gma and gpa to leave bc we knew it would be alot tougher for them to see it... but we laughed when we saw you play the "black symphomy" HAHA good times adam.. I will never forget the crazy holidays our family had!
Just like us having food fights in gma and gpas basement... HAHA we got in big trouble for that one... i could go on and on about he crazy memories!!!
Aaron really misses you... he and I are always talking about you... I know you and him were really "tight" and you will forever be in his thoughts and prayers... he says your his "homie" for life... please watch over him and keep him safe... i know you will!!! well I wanted to wish you a merry christmas and I love you and miss you tons!!! keep smiling!!!

Love Always--- your Cousin Jenni
December 21, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,
Just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers especially at this family time of Christmas. Praying for your strength and perseverance and that your hearts are comforted. Take care and may God bless you.
Love,
(Lynne Winter's mom)
December 21, 2006
Well Fargo , I will miss talking to you this Christmas . I wish your family the best and I hope they are OK this holiday season . I know that you will be watching them the whole time ! Adam I miss you alot , I wish so much that we could laugh together this year like all the rest . I know you here me talking to you , I just wish it was face to face . You know what , Jack told me he saw you the other night while he and some more of our friends where talking about you and old memories , then all of a sudden the biggest , longest falling star streaked through the sky :-) We know that was you !! I miss you buddy , you pop in again whenever you want to say Hi . Wish your family the very best and peace through the holiday season .
December 20, 2006
My love,
This time of the year is supposed to be happy. I remember last year at this time when you were over here. Now, it's me and now you're home. I can't stop thinking about you. I never quit thinking about you. The days go by so slow. It's almost time for leave though. I just want you to know that I love you and I miss you. I'll always keep my promise. Always Lurk. I miss you...I miss you so much. I love you Adam. It'll always be me and you battle. You're my rock remember. I'll talk to you again soon. I love you babe...Always and forever. Remember how we used to say that a year isn't that long to wait when you have a whole lifetime to spend with eachother. Well, a lifetime isn't that long to wait when you have a whole eternity to be with eachother. I can't wait to see you again. Love, your Lurkish Lu.
November 23, 2006
To my love,
Happy thanksgiving turkey lurkey. You'll never have to be away from your family ever again on a holiday. I'll always be waiting. I love you Adam. I miss you. I always think about you and our memories together. I'll talk to you soon baby. Love you, love you, love you...
November 23, 2006
Happy Thanksgiving to the Fargo Family ! I hope everyone is doing ok . I am thinking of you Adam , I will give Thanks today for you and all the other soldiers like you !!
November 22, 2006
coming home to see you
love jason
November 22, 2006
I hate this day of the month. It's always hard. I keep thinking back to, well 4 months ago tonight was the last time I saw you and talked to you. That's what I couldn't get off my mind last night. Then,today I think, well blah blah blah, you know. It doesn't get easier. Still doesn't seem real. I still think about you all day. Everyday. I watch the video I have of us often, so I can hear you tell me that you love me. I always loved your voice. Still do. I can't wait to hear it again. I'll see you soon my love. I love you Adam.
November 09, 2006
Whats up Fargo , not alot to say today , just wanted to say Hey . I miss you brother , I am always thinking about you , you make me realize what in life REALLY matters . I miss you Adam !
November 08, 2006
Adam-
It just hit me today, I'll never hear another "Me and Argo did..." story from Jake. And I just keep thinking, why? Why did your family, your friends, and your community have to lose such a good person? We're all muddling through, and maybe one day we'll figure out the answer. In the meantime, keep an eye on us.
November 05, 2006
Hey Lurk,
Things have really bad lately. Everyone says that it will get better with time. It's not. I think it's getting worse. I still can't believe it. I hate it. I'm not doing well. I think about you non-stop still. I'm like a zombie. I just wish that I would wake up and this would all have been a bad dream. It makes me so mad!!! Some nights I just can't stop crying. I try to keep it together at work, but that doesn't work either, so I just go off by myself for a little while and smoke until it passes so I can go back inside. I feel like it's never going to get better. You're never going to come back, and I'm not doing good with that. It really sucks when people ask why I am taking leave so late, and I tell them because I was going to get married. I'm still going to come see you in March baby. I'm still going to come and be with you. I miss you so much. I love you so much Adam. Please come to me in my dreams...I'll talk to you later. I love you baby. I love you, love you, love you. Talk to you again soon. Bye baby...
October 26, 2006
My Dear, Sweet Adam, I miss you so very much. Instead of this (you being gone) getting less painful, it seems to hurt more and more each day. I'm trying to stay busy; to keep my mind occupied, but it isn't easy, especially since I'm not feeling so well. I'm trying to get information together to send to the National Purple Heart Hall of Honor in rememberance of you. I want to do a great job at that. I'm also trying to put something together to give to everyone at Christmas, in rememberance of you. (Like we could really forget you!) I'm trying Adam! I'm really trying! PLEASE keep me strong. I love you dearly! Mom
October 21, 2006
Hello.
I just found this guest book today. Please, let me offer you and your family all my love and appreciation for Adam. I actually met Adam when I went for their graduation at Ft Leonardwood. My daughter, SPC Victoria Leon and Adam were good buddies. I feel especially honored as in Adam's memorial on the web page has him smiling and some of the pictures I was able to send were in the background. Adam was a very loving, kind and generous man and the world will not be the same without him. Again, Thank you for your sacrifice and please know that Adam will never be forgotten and will always be in my heart.
October 15, 2006
Libby, Rodney and everyone...

I guess I am always the last to hear about this kinds of things. I just heard. Sorry to hear about Adam.

I am thinking of you all.

Jay D. Anderson
October 12, 2006
Hey baby,
I got some things from your mom yesterday in the mail. It was hard though. It was nice being able to see you and hear you tell me that you love me though. I miss you so much. Still the days go by, and it doesn't get easier. I don't forget. People say that I'll move on, but they don't understand what we had together. It was special. Remember like you always said, it was fate that we met and we are meant to be together. I do believe that and I swear to god on our relationship that I'm still going to wait for you. Waiting for a few years isn't too long to wait when you look forward to an eternity with your true love. I love you Adam. Everything I do is for you. Fighting in this stupid war, it's for you. You are what keeps me going baby. Remember, you are my rock. My best friend, my battle. I'll quit blabbing. Just know that I love you. Love you, love you, love you. I'll talk to you later. Love you Lurk.
October 05, 2006
Hey Adam,
It is your cousin Aaron here. I havent stopped thinking about you. I love you and miss you more than words can describe. I am always going to remember you as my best friend it just happens to be that you are my cousin too. Things definately will never be the same but one day i know we are going to see each other again. We will have those beers that we talked about the last time we saw each other. I miss you man. You are definately my HERO!!! I love you homie!!!!
RIP
October 04, 2006
My Dear, Sweet Adam,
The past 2 weeks have been REALLY tough for me. I think of you so so much. I haven't been feeling great. I miss hearing your encouraging voice on the phone telling me how strong I am and I can do this. I HAVE to do this. I'm trying Adam; I'm really trying. I keep thinking of how strong you must have been. Just wanted you to know I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU more than mere words can say!!! Mom
October 03, 2006
adam
just finishing up another day, thinking about you like i do often, i miss you man so so much.
love
your brother
September 26, 2006
Hey Lurk,
2 months ago today I found out the news. Then I was on my way back to VA. Much sooner than we had planned on. Everyday I think of you. You're my motivation. You are what keeps me going out here. I'm still waiting for you. Never forgetting about the promises we made to eachother. I can't wait to see you again. I wonder if you hear when I talk to you. Or see when I write to you. I miss you more than anything. I can't wait to see you again. I'll always be waiting. No one will ever take your place. I miss you Adam. I love you. It's just me and you battle. I promise. I'll always come home to you. Love you baby. Talk to you soon.
September 26, 2006
Hey Adam,
Times have been tough lately and sometimes we may think they are never going to get better. I catch myself talking out loud to FARGO!!!You always had a plan for everything. You know we all miss you like crazy! I know you are watching over everyone and you have become a Guardian Angel that we can all count on. Love YA Adam
September 25, 2006
Hey Bubba,
It's just me, Mom. I think of you every day; a million times a day. I miss you so very much, but I know you are in a better place; eternally healthy, happy and young. I know you're watching over all of us. Give us strength and courage to get us through each day without you. But you're never ever really gone from me (us) b/c you'll be in our hearts forever. I LOVE YOU DEARLY! Mom xoxoxo P.S. Jenni graduates from basic this week. She feels you've been watching over her. Keep up the good work.
September 23, 2006
Hey Fargo , I just wanted to say hey buddy . I miss you alot , I think about you about everyday , After your funeral,, after everyone left I went to where you lay and I took a picture of me sitting by you. I look at that picture everyday , its the screen saver on both of my computers , I think about you everytime , I enjoy it . I always think of the great times and I just laugh out loud :-) Well brother , just wanted to say hello , and let you know I am thinking of you . I hope your family is doing ok , I know you are watching over them . Talk to you later :-) See ya Fargo
September 22, 2006
adam it has been two months today, i think about you often and thank you everyday for allowing me to wake up and chase my dreams. some days, some moments are harder than others but i just push on, as you would do. i miss and love you. i will see you again.
love,
jason
August 25, 2006
Hey baby,
I haven't been able to sign this thing yet. It still doesn't seem real. Everyday that goes by I still hope for a message from you. I miss you so much. I promised you that I'd wait, and I will just like you promised me. I can't wait to see you again. It's just hard not talking to you everyday anymore. But, I'm sure that you still hear me talk to you. I know that you are a hero, but I wish it wasn't like this. Someday we'll be together again. I just hope it doesn't take forever. I miss you so much. I think about you non stop. I'm just doing my best out here in Iraq for you. Trying to drive on and be the best medic that I can be. I'll talk to you again soon and I'll keep writing you everytime I'm online. I can't wait to see you again Lurk. Yes, you are a lurkish. I love you Adam. I love you love you love you. Miss you baby. See you soon. Love you.

Love,
Bridget (your lurkish lu)
August 25, 2006
I lost my brother the same day as your precious son - his name is Capt. Blake Russell with the 101st Airborne.. My heartfelt condolences for your loss. My family and I will never be the same and I just want to say what a wonderful person your son must have been because my brother was one of a kind. I will keep your son and your family in my prayers and I personally feel your loss. Nothing will ever replace your son but know that he was a hero as well as my brother and they are with God now!
August 24, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Fargo family in the loss of Adam. I did not know Adam, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Adam my heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written aobut you. You are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
August 24, 2006
Hey Adam (Bubba)! It's Mom. I sure do miss you. We've been hearing great things about what you were doing in Iraq. We can't believe it. We are so proud of you! Words cannot express how we feel. I always said you were a special young man and were destined for great things. You proved me right. I just didn't think you would do them at such a young age. You are in a better place now, I know. And you are eternally young, healthy, and happy. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!! Mom xoxoxoxo
August 17, 2006
Fargo , its about 12 AM and I am up thinking about you . Its been about a month since you left us , I just wish I could talk to you one more time . There is so much I would like to tell you . I just want to let you know that I am thinking about you and have not forgotten you . You will always be a great friend to me , and make me laugh out loud EVERYTIME I think of you and what we used to do . Good times!!!! I know you are resting now , I just wanted to say " Hi" . I will see you again someday , goodbye Fargo
August 10, 2006
Adam,
This is your cousin writing to tell you that you are my hero. Ilove you man and you are the most inspiring person I have ever met in my entire life. You are truly a role model and I look forward to seeing you in a better place. I love you homie!!!!
August 10, 2006
I came across what happened to Adam today as I went into the mail box at work and seen it in the local paper. I attended high school with Adam, but we never got the chance or took the time to make a friendship. I knew his name and face but not the person he was. His family and friends should be proud of him and not feel regret. People go through their whole lives without purpose and meaning. Some only discover their purpose on their death bed at an older age. Most people would say they would do what Adam did but I personally don’t know any. He was brave, which only few can say. I send my prayers and love to the family and friends of Cpl. Fargo. God Bless
August 09, 2006
Fargos, may God bless your family during this difficult time. Adam was and always will be a true hero.
God Bless You
August 07, 2006
Fargo Family:
You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless each you! THANK YOU ADAM!
August 06, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your
entire family. Our son served in Iraq with Adam. It is with great sadness we say good bye to another American Hero.
Adam will be in our prayers. God has given us another angel.

Tony and Shari George/ parents of Christopher George
August 06, 2006
I am so very sorry for your loss & pray that God will comfort you until you are reunioned in heaven. Until that time may you hold and keep Adams memories close to your heart. Kim Busch
August 05, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,

I had the pleasure of knowing your son not only at Ft. Campbell but Baghdad as well. Although he gave his life for the ultimate sacrifice, he will never be known as anything less than a "Hero." SPC Fargo was "Mr. Super Soldier" who tried his hardest in everything, many people wanted to be like him. He was a role model of what a soldier should be. Stay strong, and God Bless.
August 05, 2006
First to Adam, I will be forever greatful for the times we spent sitting out on the balcony talking about life and sharing a laugh, for the one person I could go to no matter what I had going on and knew I would leave with a smile, a true friend, a great medic, and always an outstanding soldier. I will never forget you brother, rest easy fine sapper, you have done your time.
To Adams family, I was Adams room mate when he first came to our company. We shared a lot of time talking about personal life issues and joking about this and that, I'll never forget how he could always bring a smile to my face even when i was angry.
I want to extend to you, with all of my heart and soul, my deepest sympathy. Thank you for your familys service and sacrifice.
August 05, 2006
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We will be always grateful for the sacrifice that your Soldier, Adam, made. God bless you and your family with comfort and peace. We will not forget.
August 05, 2006
My Deepest Condolences to family and friends of a Fallen Soldier
August 05, 2006
A poem for you in your time of loss. Thank you Fargo family for the ultimate sacrifice.


It is alright to be sad,
It is alright to be mad,
But I am in Heaven now,
And when I saw the lights, "Wow".

The Angels are singing,
And the bells are ringing.
It is so pretty up here,
And there are some people that I know near.

I want you to try to be happy,
I know that you will miss me.
But I will not be far away,
For I am in your heart to stay.

When you start to feel sad,
Remember the good times we had,
Remember the times we would sit and talk,
Or the times we would have long walks.

So the next time you feel the sun shining on your face,
It is me giving you a warm embrace.
I will be there in everything that you do,
Always remember that I love you!!!
August 05, 2006
Dear Fargo family,

I had the distinct honor of calling Adam my friend and although I knew he was a great person I had no idea of the magnitude of his character until I started reading some of the other experiences people have had with him. I wish I would have gotten to know him sooner. Take what comfort you can in knowing your son is in a better place now and that he awaits us all.
August 05, 2006
I knew your son well Not as well as my roomates Leon and Chase whom have been with him from the begining of his army career and AIT. We were medics together here in Baghdad. I remember the first time I saw him. He has just arrived to the unit with Leon. Chase was telling me all about him. When we joined them for lunch, I thought to myself, "WOW he's cute. And that voice its great!" But the Chase informed me he was taken by the love of his life who was in Hawaii. (Damn!) What I knew of him made me laugh. We called him Froggy out here with his unmistakable raspy voice and it definately fit.
Since he has been gone my "family" has slowly been falling apart without him. Its like he was the glue keeping us sane and no one realized his effect until he was gone.
After we evacuated his fellow soldiers to the CSH we heard the tragic news. It was unbarable.
I cant say I know exactly what you are going through, but I feel as though I have lost a friend and a brother. He will never be forgotten in this "family" the Army family of the WARHAWKS and SAPPERS!
We Love You ADAM!
August 04, 2006
Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

August 03, 2006
To the family of Adam Fargo,

I knew Adam he was a good guy. I send my regards and so does the weapons deparment onboard the USS Wasp LHD-1. It hurt me to hear that he left us. I wish i could have been there for the services. But im underway right now. Best of wishes and may God be by your side through these hard times. God bless you.
August 03, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our nephew, SSG James "Ross" Graydon, was riding with Adam that Saturday. He too was devastated by the loss of this fine young man. God Bless you and your family.
August 03, 2006
To the Fargo Family-
I currently work with your son Jason here in Atlanta, GA. It is with great sadness that I heard about the loss of Adam, your son. Jason is very special to us here at PCM and we would all like to extend our thoughts and prayers to you all in this time of need. I never got the chance to meet Adam but if he is anything like Jason, he is a very special, genuine person. Thank you Adam for all you did for our country!!
Sincerely-
Jessica Buckalew
August 03, 2006
THANK YOU ADAM!
August 02, 2006
Thank you, Fargo family, for raising such a fine and upstanding young man whose sense of honor and decency led him to sacrifice his precious life for this country. God bless you all in this trying time. A grateful nation thanks you.
August 02, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. Our son, Spec. James Strawderman knew your son and recognized him as a great soldier.God Bless you and your family.
August 02, 2006
Doug and Libby-
Adam and my brother Jake were good friends, and Adam was always at our house hanging out. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
August 02, 2006
To the Fargo family...
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Take care and may God bless you!
August 02, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Adam J. Fargo:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
redsandstuff2006@yahoo.com
(Millersville, PA )
August 02, 2006
Adam
Thanks for all u did to help the world have freedom. U will be missed so much cutie. I wish your family the best in years to come.
August 01, 2006
As a friend to the Fargo family, it was with great sadness learning of the passing of lil' Fargo. He was a son, brother, friend, and hero. To me he will always represent that-giving all he had for our country. God Bless you Adam-and God Bless the Fargo family-you now have an eternal guardian angel.
August 01, 2006
Dear Fargo family,
My daughter, Lynne, went to George Mason with your son. She talked about "Fargo" frequently and how much fun they would always have together. He was a good friend to her and he always made her laugh. He meant a lot to her.
I was so sad to hear of his death.
Please know how much I appreciate his service to our country and his sacrifice for our freedom. He is a hero.
I am so sorry for your loss.I have been, and will continue to keep your family in my prayers.
Take care.I pray that God will give you comfort and blessings even in this valley.
August 01, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
August 01, 2006
Adam,you came into my life through chasity,my daughter. how could i have known then as a young boy how much i would come to love and respect the man you became to know you was to love you,your smile, your voice,your loving heart, your sense of humor. blessed to have known your true presence i"m so proud of you my HERO my FRIEND!
August 01, 2006
Fargo Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Adam,

Thanks for everything you have sacrificed for us. You will be missed!
August 01, 2006
Adam, your smile and good conversation will always be with me. I will never forget our good and bad times that all seem funny now and that wonderful trip to Florida. I am so glad to have knonw you and to have shared so many memories with you. I am so proud of you and the sacrafice you have made. You are truley a hero. I can't wait to see you again some day.
July 31, 2006
i will miss you, i love you, and you are my HERO.
July 31, 2006
Fargo Family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
July 31, 2006
May you be blessed with the strength and courage you need to help you through this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
July 31, 2006
Oh Adam, seems like just yesterday we were in that car heading to Florida. To look back now, that was one of the best experiences in my life. I think at that time we were lost, trying to find ourselves. Since then, in the past three years, you found yourself and your duty. I have never been so proud and honored to be your friend. We have always remained friends through the good and the bad. I will never forget the last conversation we had, for it was only two weeks ago. This week was hard with out you but I enjoyed celebrating your life, the way you would want me to with laughter and tears. I said goodbye to you today with a red rose but I promise there will be the day when I can say hello to your sweet smile. My memories of you will be cherished in my heart and my mind forever n always. My prayers are with your family, but their strong, holding eachother together, the way you would want. I love you and will miss you always.
July 31, 2006
Dear Fargo Family:
Although we did not personally know Adam, he was a fellow soldier and friend to my son, Spc Matt VanWinkle serving in Baghdad and a friend to both my son and daughter-in-law at Ft. Campbell. There simply are no words compelling enough to express our sorrow & sympathy. From one soldier family to another - May God see your family thru this difficult time. The Fargo Family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
July 31, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I had the pleasure of attending grade school and graduating with Adam. He was a great person, he had such a wonderful personality and I am honored to have known him
July 31, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,

My husband and I were stationed at Fort Campbell with your son. He was a very good friend of my husband's especially during their time in Iraq together. I had the pleasure of hanging out with him one night before they left and we all had such a good time. He was so sweet and fun to be around.

You will all be in our prayers.
July 31, 2006
I never knew Adam personally, but I did meet him once and the circumstances solidify how genuinely nice he was.
A few years ago Adam found my wallet with $350.00 cash in it and called me. I could never quite get over the fact that this teenager was so honest. I always knew he was a very special person and I can only imagine the pain of losing him. He is surely in a better place than we are - God Bless Adam and the Fargo Family.
July 31, 2006
Dear Fargo Family,
Adam was an incredible teammate to me on the soccer field. It sounds like he was an incredible teammate on the battlefield too. I am so sorry. I'm praying for you.
July 31, 2006
May God be with you in your time of grief. My heart goes out to your family for your loss! It's never easy losing someone we love, as a soldier's wife here at Fort Campbell, I understand the pain of being away from our loved ones for so long! God bless you and hold you close, and may you always have your memories close at hand! No Slack!!!
July 30, 2006
"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you: and through the rivers, they shall not overflow you..." Isaiah 43:2a

I am Pfc Jackson Lanners Mom. My son knew your son enough to say "Hi" and would be received with a big smile. The loss of one of the extended family of the men and women who face the daily dangers with valour cuts to all of our hearts. Know He is with you as you pass through the waters of grief. We pray for your journey through the waters.
July 30, 2006
I could never express how much I am thankful to Adam for all he has done towards protecting Americans and the beliefs we all hold so dearly. My deepest condolences to the Fargo family for their loss. I attended George Mason University with Adam and he was a great friend. The times we all shared together in that year are forever preserved in my heart. He will always be considered a hero and a devoted friend to me. His presence and energy always made me smile. I am grateful to have known him.
July 30, 2006
As the mother of a son serving in Iraq, my heartfelt prayers go out to the Fargo family. May God bless you with courage and strength to get through this painful time. The Meyers Family
July 30, 2006
Dearest family, I ask you not to think of what you have lost, but the things you gained by having such a great young man in all our lives. Cpl Fargo is a great spirit, soldier and person and will be remembered for that eccentric personality and raspy voice...Dont you worry, he lives on, just in a better place.
July 30, 2006
My heart was truly touched when I read the story of Adam Fargo. I had the pleasure of seeing him around school and knowing his sister Sarah, but I deeply regret never getting to really know Adam. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Fargo Family.
July 30, 2006
Dearest Family and Friends of Adam,

As a mother and grandmother I can't imagine the grief that you all are feeling at this time in your lives. Even though I did not know this incredible young man, I can tell you emphatically that he left this world a hero in my eyes. He put himself in the line of fire for a country so very different from ours, with values and ideals that he probably wasn't raised with in this country. But he saw a need and stepped up to the plate and gave the ultimate gift to the people of this community, the people of Iraq and the the people of this, the greatest country on earth, the USA. Thank you Corporal Adam Fargo for your 'gift' will not be forgotten or lessened as the time goes by....you are a hero to us all! I know that God blesses you now in His presence.
July 29, 2006
To Fargo's Family,
My husband and I had the privelage to attend A.I.T. with your son. He was a great person and a better soldier. My condolences could never be enough...we pray for your family and may God comfort you at this time of great loss.
July 29, 2006
Dear Sarah, Jason, Libby and Doug,
Thank you for allowing our community to be part of the memorial service for Adam. It meant so much to all of us. A wonderful person was described by so many in such detail that we all felt we knew Adam well! I wish the four of you the company and comfort of the experiences you shared with this amazing person, Adam!
Thank you for all you did to make his life such a fine one,
June Battaile
July 29, 2006
To the family of Adam, I am so sorry for your loss. Adam was a fine young man. He had the courage to stand up and make a difference during hard times. Adam is our hero and we will never forget him. I know during these difficult days ahead, you will probably forget about simple things like sleeping and eating. As a grieving mother who also lost her son in Iraq a few months ago I know your pain. Please allow God to help you share this burden. I am so so sorry for your loss.
July 29, 2006
We had the opportunity to go to school with Adam (a.k.a. 'Argo') for nearly 7 years. He was always making someone laugh and enjoying every minute of it. The way that he lived the last years of his life are an inspiration. May God bless the Fargo family and bring peace in the coming days.
July 29, 2006
Libby, Doug, Jason and Sarah,
Words cannot express what I am feeling in my heart for the loss of Adam, your beloved son and brother. He shared a unique and unbreakable bond with each of you; individually. Cherish this bond and hold it close in your hearts as it can never be taken from you. Grieve as long and as loud as you need too knowing that Adam is wrapping his arms around you in his attempts to comfort each of you. Be open to, and watch for signs of Adam, here on earth, as only he and God can show you. May God bless and grant your family strength as you struggle through the long days ahead for it is through Him that all things are possible.
July 29, 2006
I only met your son once or twice, but I know how much he meant to my niece (Chasity Darnell)and her family and whom she loves, so do I.
To you, my deepest sympathy and utmost gratitude!!
It is because of men and women like your son, that we all get to live in this country and enjoy the FREEDOM that is anything but free. Adam paid the ultimate price for my freedom and I am eternally grateful.
July 29, 2006
I may not know your son very well but my husband does SPC Ashanti Johnson who also served with Adam in Iraq. I'm regretting not ever meeting him now, I've meet some of my husband's friends but I guess Adam wasn't around he's been busy at Campbell before I ever got to meet him and I wish I had. From what my husband has told me that he is a really good friend and that he is his buddy. My husband and I wish the Fargo Family the best and to be strong. Adam is watching all of us family and friends from heaven. God bless to all families and friends and the soldiers that’s in Iraq
July 29, 2006
I may not know your son very well but my husband does SPC Ashanti Johnson who also served with Adam in Iraq. I'm regreting not ever meeting him now, I've meet some of my husband's friends but I guess Adam wasn't around he's been busy at campbell before I ever got to meet him and I wish I had. From what my husband has told me that he is a really good friend and that he is his buddy. My husband and I wish the Fargo Family the best and to be strong. Adam is watching all of us family and friends from heaven. God bless to all families and friends
July 29, 2006
To the Fargo family:

Adam shared his life with many people, and we are all better for it.
May God's Grace and Mercy carry you through this time of sorrow.
July 28, 2006
My boyfriend, Joshua Milstead served with your son in Iraq. He had dinner with all wounded the night before, and helped carry them into the medics. My deepest thoughts and sympathy's are with you in your tragic loss. He will live on in your prayers, and you can forever be proud of your son. Be strong and you will see him again someday. Take peace in knowing he is ok. my deepest sorries.
July 28, 2006
OUR gRANDSON,Robert Huntzinger, Served with your son In Bagdad. He is also a medic .He asked for us and our Church to pray for your family and the others who were wounded. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you in your time of loss.
July 28, 2006
We know what you are going through and are praying for you.

Parents of 2LT Leonard M Cowherd III
KIA Karbala, Iraq
16 May 2004
July 28, 2006
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I hope your family finds some comfort in knowing you are in the thoughts and prayers of many people. Joan W. (Apex Truss, Troy, VA)
July 28, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

God Bless,
mother of Pfc. Paul R. Sullivan
July 28, 2006
To the Family of CPL Fargo, it was and honor to serve with a loyal and dedicated Soldier. The "WARHAWKS" will never forget his sacrafice. May God be with you in this time of grief.
July 28, 2006
First and formost my heart goes out to the Fargo family in this time of great tragedy. Adam was not only a great soldier and friend but one of the best men I have ever had the privlige to work with.We will miss him greatly as he rest im gods loving arms. We love you Fargo and will see you again on the other side.
July 28, 2006
Adam "lil Fargo" you will be greatly missed you were and still are a wonderful person to me. my thoughts and prayers are with all family and friends may god bless you and get all of us through this horriable time.

Semper Fi
LCpl Locke
United States Marine Corps
July 28, 2006
Adam "lil Fargo" you will be greatly missed you were and still are a wonderful person to me. my thoughts and prayers are with all family and friends may god bless you and get all of us through this horriable time.

Semper Fi
LCpl Locke
United States Marine Corps
July 28, 2006
WE want you to know how deeply sorry we are for your loss. A brave man he was and loved by all. There are no words to make you feel better but know from my heart if you need anything to talk at 2 am please just call and God Bless your family
July 28, 2006
Sorry about your loss. My brother said Adam was a great guy. My brother is Evan serving over in Iraq and said he knew Adam very well. May God be with you in your time of need.
July 28, 2006
Adam, there isnt a better little buddy in the world !! Your spirit is so incredible that you shall never be forgotten. Every memory I have with you I will cherish forever, along with those incredible stories!! :)Adam there are not many people in the world like you and you went far and beyond your duties. You will always be in my heart. I love you !
July 28, 2006
May God be with him, he will continue to be in my daily prayers, as i do for all the other soilders, including my own son.
July 28, 2006
My heart breaks for Cpl. Fargo's family and friends. He is a true American hero and did not die in vain. My son (Marine Cpl. David Bass) died in Iraq on April 2, 2006. If there is anything I can do, please feel free to contact me.
Proud Marine Mom
July 28, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
July 28, 2006
Adam, and his family

please look at my myspace account as i have deticated it to you Adam and to my close friends i too have lost along the way fighting for fredom. Im not much of a writer so please know that you will never be forgotten and your spirit will always remain in my heart and soul.
July 27, 2006
FARGO FAMILY I PRAY FOR YOUR COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT ADAM IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW,I WOULD ALSO THANK YOU ADAM FOR YOUR ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR OUR COUNTRY !THIS IS ALSO FROM MY SON CHRIS TRADER WHO IS ALSO IN IRAQ HE ASKED ME TO THANK YOUR FAMILY ADAM !GOD BLESS THE FAMILY !! CHRIS AND CARROLL TRADER
July 27, 2006
We are sorry for your loss. We thank your son for serving in the army to protect us. I pray that God keeps you and your family close by him in your hour of need. God Bless You and Thank You Adam for all you did for the USA.
July 27, 2006
We have never met Adam & we know there is no way we know how you feel but give thanks to God for the time you had him and be very proud of what he was doing for our FREEDOM.God must have a much bigger need for him in Heaven. Take care of yourselves and hold on to every memory. God Bless you and GOD BLESS AMERICA.
July 27, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends of Adam. He had a special spirit that will continue on in our hearts as will the memory of his uplifting smile and personality.
God Bless and keep you all in his care.
Thank you Adam for your sacrifice!
July 27, 2006
Although I didn't know Adam or the Fargo family,my heart was touched when I read his obituary. What a courageous and promising young man. May God be with you during your mourning. My prayers are with you all.
July 27, 2006
My thoughts are in your prayers. God bless the Fargo family through this rough time. We miss you Adam.
July 27, 2006
To the Fargo family. I didn't know your son, but I prayed for him everyday. I know your hearts are broke, but if you only knew the pride we as non family members feel for him. He was everyones son and our hearts break and we weep.
July 27, 2006
Our country is so grateful for Adam, his service and his sacrifice. God bless your family - our prayers are with you.
July 27, 2006
Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

July 27, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this hard time. Adam was such an amazing person and could never compare to anyone else. All my love always.
July 27, 2006
All of us are going to miss you
" Fargo " . You were a good friend and none of us will ever forget you . We love you , and are thinking about you everyday . Miss you brother !!
July 27, 2006
My heart and prayers go out to Adam's family and friends.
May God give you peace and act quickly to soften the pain in your hearts.
July 27, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.
July 27, 2006
My deepest heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all.
July 27, 2006
Sorry is never enough to say. May the good memories help get you though.
July 27, 2006
Adam was a wonderful, fun loving person. He always had the biggest smile, he will be greatly missesd.We are all so proud of him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and to all of Adam's closest friends. May God Bless.
July 27, 2006
I weep and my heart weeps for the loss of this fine young American.
GOD BLESS HIM & HIS LOVING FAMILY.
July 27, 2006
God is with you and may His love be soothing, His words bring you stength and His promises fill your heart with His peace. Your are in or prayers.
Willie, Brandon & Janet Frye
July 27, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
July 27, 2006
Adam's service to his country will not be forgotten. Praise God for his life! The Fargo family is in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
July 27, 2006
We love you Adam and you will always be in our hearts.
July 27, 2006
To the Fargo family:

I did not know your son; however, I recently moved from Ruckersville and, after hearing about what happened, I felt compelled to send you a message.

No words can be expressed to describe how you feel right now, but I hope you will find comfort in knowing that reading about him touched me, both personally and as the sister of a Marine, in a way that demands the highest honor, respect, love and pride.

May God bless you all!
July 27, 2006
Offering our deepest condolences to the family at a difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
July 27, 2006
I will always remember Adam as my daughter Trista's first "true love". We will have him in our thoughts and prayers always. Trista wishes she could be there in your time of sorrow, but is living in England now with her husband and son. Our family's thoughts and prayers will always be with you all.
July 27, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
July 27, 2006
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
July 27, 2006
Please know that I am deeply sorry for your loss.
The price Cpl. Adam J. Fargo and his family paid for this country will never be forgotten...
May he rest in the Mighty Arms of God and may God's Loving Comfort and Grace be with the Fargo family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.

With each new day, may the Lord restore your soul and, through His love, give you the strength to go on.

Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee.
Psalm 55:22

Softly and slowly....
Time heals...
July 27, 2006
What a brave and dedicated young man we have lost. Our thoughts, prayers, and love go out to the entire Fargo Family during this sorrowful time. We love you all-
July 27, 2006
Thank you Adam for your service to your country and helping us all to stay free. Thank you to the Fargo family for having such a wonderful and dedicated son. My thoughts and prayers will remain with you.
July 27, 2006
I would like to thank Adam & his famiily for the sacrifice they have made to assure our freedom. There are never enough words to express my heartfelt sympathy to your family. You are in our thoughts & prayers. God Bless.
July 27, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
July 26, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM
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