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Silvestro Accettullo 1961 - 2001
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November 27, 2013
I really miss the boating and all the nonsense with the fish pictures!!! Happy thanksgiving dad.
September 07, 2013
SiLvestro..We all have comfort in knowing that we now have a special guardian angel to watch over all of us!!
We LoVe & MiSS You!!
Your Family <3
September 06, 2013
Dear Silvestro, we continue to celebrate your life through your family and our memories. We miss you so much and think of you always....love always...Michelina :)
June 16, 2013
Hey Daddy,

Happy Father's Day!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!
May 01, 2013
Hey Daddy,

Happy Birthday!! 52 today wow!! :) I am just kidding. I hope you, Jonathan, and Everyone Else are enjoying your day!! May 1, 2013 already!! Time flies by so fast. Your Grandchildren are 9, almost 7, 3, and almost 2 already, and you are getting another one in June!! Three boys are going to be so much fun. I know you really enjoied your children and still are, and I know you are enjoying your Grandchildren as well. I told Oliver about your birthday and he asked me about you and I told him that you are his GrandPa and he said 'My GrandPa!!' and I said yes. He is excited just talking about you, and I know that makes you proud. We are going to Disney tomorrow and I know you will be there with us making sure we all have a Great Time. Oliver and Austin are going to be so surprised. They look so much Like You and Dziadzio when they make certain faces or when you look at them from certain angles. They are a perfect mix of Tracy's side and Our side. They are so cute and I am looking forward to meeting the little one. I hope that you are having a Great Time!! We will continue to make you and Mommy Happy and Proud, and I know you will continue taking care of us!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!

LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
September 08, 2012
Silvestro, never forgotten..you are always in all of our HEARTS!!
September 07, 2012
It feels like yesterday! You are always in our hearts....Mommy misses you too! Your family is wonderful, they are all growing up into successful adults. You and Eva are the core of their lives and gave them wonderful family values to live by. Keep watching over them as they make important decisions and live their lives honorably. God Bless everyone! Love and miss you, your sister! Michelina
September 06, 2012
Hey Dad!

How's everything going? Today's September 6th.. I can't believe it's been 11 years already. I miss you dad
:( As you know, I'm at Salve now! Your little girls growing up! Please, watch over me while I'm here and watch over mommy especially! I miss her and every one else. Can't wait to see them again! Rest in Peace, Daddy! I love you so much!

always and forever,
your little girl
Deana <3
May 01, 2012
Hey Daddy!

Happy 51st Birthday! I wish you were here to celebrate it, I miss you a lot! I can't believe it's been so long. I'm about to graduate high school and going off to college. I've decided to go to Salve Regina! I know you love it there and I do too! I can't wait! I hope I'm making you proud dad. Please keep watching over the family especially mommy. I know she misses you! Watch over her when I go off to college! I really wish you were here dad. I hope you have a fantastic birthday! I love you so much!

Always & Forever,
Deana <3
May 01, 2012
Dear Daddy,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! It is already May 1, 2012. Wow, time goes by fast. How have things been going with you and all your buddies up in Heaven? I am sure you guys are having a good time. Your grandchildren are getting so big. Oliver is just all over the place, he is so fast. What does slow him down though is fishing. Did you see his fish he caught? He received a trophy for it. :) We are so proud of him...and you want to know something else I know you were there helping us. I felt it. The moment was amazing, and I wanted to let you know that we all know that you are here with us everyday. As for your new grandson, Austin, another big boy, he is so cute. He is a very affectionate baby, and he is getting very close to walking. He already is an instigator to Ollie, but for the most part the two of them get along so well. Ollie absolutly LOVES him and doesn't want to go anywhere without him. I think that is so cool. As for Tracy, and her beautiful self, she is doing great. She does so well with the boys, she even does a great job taking care of me. I am so LUCKY that I have her in my life, and I really feel like you had a major role in that too. Thanks!! : ) Dad, I think about you all the time and I try to imagine what it would be like if you were right here right now, and all I imagine are great memories. You are the BEST, Continue to take care of MOMMY, and all of US. Enjoy your Birthday, Daddy...YOU DESERVE IT!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AGAIN!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!! WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH DADDY!!!!!!!

LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
February 02, 2012
I miss you dad, everyday. I wish you were here. Hope I'm making you proud! I love you always and forever <3
May 18, 2011
Dear Daddy,

I am checking in, wanted to tell you I Love You!! Hope you are having a good time with Jonathan on his birthday. Your grandson is doing great. There are times where he looks just like you. I know your excited about your next grandson, I am as well. Tracy and I still need a name for him. Maybe you can help me dream about one tonight. That would be cool. We are going to Disney next week. Keep us safe, I know we will have a good time. KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!! WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH DADDY!!!!!!!

LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
May 01, 2011
Dear Daddy,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DADDY!! Keep the Party ROCKING!! WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!

Love Always,
Jason
March 18, 2011
You are always in our hearts! xoxo
February 01, 2011
Dear Daddy,

I wanted to say HI, and to tell you that you are going to be a Grandfather again. Oliver looks just like you Dad, I Love It!! Everytime I see Him with an expresson on his face, and he looks like you I get so excited, and tell Tracy that Ollie looks just like my father right now. It is so cool. That is one of your ways you say HI, huh? Mommy and everyone were over this weekend for Ollie's First Birthday, it was a goodtime. He is one already Dad. WOW!! Continue to take care of Mommy and all Us!! We Know You are Everyday!! Thank You!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU DADDY SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!

LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
November 10, 2010
May 17, 2010
Dear Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!!!!!! I know it is a little late, but I know you know I was thinking of you all day on May 1st. I think of you everyday. When I look in the mirror I see you, when I talk to Mommy I hear you, when the family is all together and Happy I know you are there with us feeling the samethings, oh and when I see Oliver, I see you!! You are a Grandpa for a third time. He is such a great gift, I Love Him So Much!!!!!!! I know you are enjoying him as much as Tracy and I and the rest of the Family is. I saw what Lisa said, and she is right I do know how to party, but that is only because I learned from the best. You always wanted to get the family and friends together because you knew that that is when you have the ulitimate great time, and that is what I try to do. I Love Hanging out with the family, it just feels GREAT!! Tracy, Oliver, and I are going camping in a couple of weekends and I think alot of the family is going too. Maybe we will come up with another Great campfire story. We came up with a pretty darn good one on the night before Oliver's Baptism. Man was it funny...I am sure you heard it =) Oliver's Baptism was on Your's and Mommy's anniversary. I thought that was pretty cool how that worked out. Keep putting a smile on Mommy's face, I Love when she is smiling, she looks BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! Also, keep the family focused on the good things in life, Make Lisa feel instead of wonder, I know you can do it because you do it for me everyday. When I go to the ocean I feel like you always show up through all its beauty, whether it be cool waves or a colony of seals, although when I am fishing I seem not to catch anything, but thats different just another day where we get shunked, but we don't let that stop us. Keep Giving Us The Stenghth To "KEEP GOING"!!!!!!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING UP THERE WITH BABACCI, DZIADZIO, JONATHAN, UNCLE MIKE, DALE, and ALL YOUR OTHER BUDDIES!!!!!!! WE ARE KEEPING IT ROCKING HERE!!!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!

LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
May 10, 2010
In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
May 01, 2010
Hey Daddy :),

Happy 49th Birthday! I really wish you were here, I miss you so much. But I know your watching over us always. Have a great birthday!

I love you dad always & forever <3
April 28, 2010
What a party rocker Jason is...no really! He always has something up his sleeve for us! i Love it! we were in cape cod this passed weekend for OLIVER's Baptism......most of the family went. It gave me such a good feeling. Everyone was happy. It was such a good time! I just finished listening to a song that made me want to write on Legacy...your birthday is on Sat...man, your getting old lol, just kidding! HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD... 9 years without you now. Time is getting older. i always wonder what life would be like with you here...how our relationship would of been...It sucks that its just a wonder i have with you. Last week sometime, I went to karaoke night with a friend and some young kid sang an Elvis song. HE sang it so well too, what young guy sings a Elvis song good? lol anyway, i danced to it- for you POP.

I miss You, I think of You & I love You "Always and Forever".
November 26, 2009
Dear Daddy,

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!! WE LOVE YOU!!

Love Always,
Jason
October 26, 2009
October 26, 2009
Hi..Silvestro.
I'm with our LiL'Sis Anna.. OmG! She turned 40.WoW! Thers is NOT a day I don't have some thought or image..that reminds me of you..On a bad day, I think of you..and it makes my <3 smile. I LoVe & Miss you!!
OxOx
P.S. This photo will make you think
I'm still alittle silly ;)
LoVe You!!
Eufemia'
October 24, 2009
Dear Big Bro,
You are always on my mind.

Xoxoxo
Love Always.
You Little Siter-Anna :o)
September 29, 2009
Just reminiscing... I miss you.
June 25, 2009
Dear Daddy,

How is everything? I hope You, Jonathan, Dziadzio and all the Fathers in Heaven had a Great Father's Day!! I know you know about your two beatiful granddaughters, Lianna and Hailey, I just wanted to give you another Father's Day gift and tell you that you are going to be a grandpa again. I cannot wait to tell my child all about there Nono and Babacci. Happy Father's Day Again!!!!!!! KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!

Love Always,
Jason
June 22, 2009
hey daddy :),

yesterday was fathers day & I just want to wish you a HAPPY ONE <3. I miss you so much! I wish you could be here sharing great memories with the family but I know your watching over us always! I always think about you and the wonderful memories we had together! Dad, I truly love you from the bottom of my heart :) <33


Always & Forever,
Deana
May 03, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
http://www.ruthann1.com
May 01, 2009
Dear Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!!!!!! How is everything going? Everyone here is doing great. Sam and I are going to the Chicago Bulls Game tomorrow, in Boston. It would be really cool if they win. Maybe you can give them a little help. =) Tracy and I are having such a great time together, and we cannot wait to start a family. I hope you are having a GREAT Birthday. Continue to BLESS Us, DADDY. KEEP THE PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!


LOVE ALWAYS,
JASON
May 01, 2009
Hello Silvestro,
Happy Birthday!! Can't believe so much time has passed. You are always in my heart and you live on forever for us! Mommy & Papa always talk about you. We see you in ALL your kids! You have a wonderful family and they always make us very proud. Continue to stick by their sides and protect them.
Happy Birthday ....God Bless..
Love your sister Michelina & Family!! Kiss Kiss!
May 02, 2008
Hey Silvestro,
Dido to Jayson's comments...I really miss you and start my day thinking of you too. Mommy's heart is broken..and talks about you all the time. We all miss you! Didn't want to forget to mention that I love your family very much and I am proud of every one of them! I had a wonderful 40th B-day party and all my friends couldn't stop talking about how respectful your kids are! That made me very proud! I love your grandchildrens too...so precious! We are also reving up for Jason and Tracy's wedding! God bless...always in my heart...Michelina
May 01, 2008
Dear Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!!!!!! How are things going up there? I hope all of you guys are having a great time. I just got off the phone with Mommy and the Family. It was so much fun talking with them. I know you know that Tracy and I are getting married in September, I cannot wait it is going to be so much fun, and I am really excited to start a family with her. I know you will be there partying with us and having a good time, just as you are there for us every day. Dad, there is not a day that goes by where I don't feel you in my heart. Every day I wake up you are there in my thoughts and as alot of people say also in my attitude. But it is my attitude that has got me to where I am in my life today and I really Thank You and Mommy for that, I know I can be a little firey, but most of the time that fire is my motivation to do better in my life. THANKS!!!!!!! We Really Miss You So Much. Keep The Party ROCKING!!!!!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!

Love Always,
Jason
May 13, 2007
Hi, my name is Pasquale Accettullo and I'm from Italy. I know that many years ago people from my family left Italy for USA. I was wondering if we can be relative and there could be any relation to this. If you like you can contact me sending an e-mail to paccettullo@hotmail.com Thank you. Take care. Ciao
May 01, 2007
Dear Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!!!!!! Keep The PARTY ROCKING!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

Love Always,
Jason
February 05, 2007
Hi Silvestro,....you have been on my mind "MISSING YOU" so I just wanted to reach out to you.

Always in my mind & heart.
with love, Your little sister Anna
June 18, 2006
Dear Daddy,

Happy Father's Day, Daddy!!! Happy Father's Day Dziadzio!!! I hope you guys are having a good day. The PARTY IS STILL ROCKING!!! We Miss And Love You So Much!!!

Love Always,
Jason
May 01, 2006
Hey Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!! How is everything going up there? I was Home this weekend, and I had a great time. I bet you were excited to see Junior's paint scheme. That is a pretty cool birthday present for you. I hope You, Dziadzio, Jonathan, Grandma, Grandpa, BJ, and Dale are all having fun celebrating your birthday. Down here the PARTY IS STILL ROCKING!!! WE MISS YOU and WE LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH!!!

Love Always,
Jason
April 08, 2006
hi uncle silvet,
i know this is the first time ive signed this and im sorry. i just wanted 2 say that things havent been the same without you. we all miss you so much, you just cant describe it. wish you were still here. we all love and miss you.
January 28, 2006
hi silvestro, its me lorraine, friends of your sisters. i wanted
you say hi to my dad who recently
passed away say hello to him for me. he is a good guy. how are u doing.

lorraine
June 23, 2005
Dear Daddy,

Happy Father's Day!!! The PARTY is STILL ROCKING!!! WE MISS and LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Love Always,
Jason
May 01, 2005
Hey Daddy,

Hey Dad, Happy Birthday!!! How is it going up there in Heaven? Everything here is going good. Alot of good things are going to happen in the next couple of weeks. Mike is getting married next week. Sam, Tracy, and I are graduating in two weeks. Oh how time flies, huh? You must be excited about your grand daughter Liana. She is so cute. I am happy I was able to write some of this it makes me feel good to do so. The Party Is Still Rocking, Daddy. We Miss You, and We Love You So Much.

PS: You must be having a good time with BJ and Jonathan. = )

Love Always,
Jason
June 20, 2004
Dear Daddy,

Happy Fathers Day!!! Keep the PARTY ROCKING in HEAVEN. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

Love,
Jason
May 02, 2004
Hey Daddy,
Happy Birthday!!! It has been a while since I have last wrote to you. Things have been busy with school and all, but that is coming to an end for this school year. I'm going to Cape Cod again with Tracy. It is so nice up there, you would love being there every second. How about Rusty Wallce huh? He finally won again. I was so excited. The past two weeks have not been good for him but I think things will turn around. You and Jonathan must be having a good time up there. I think of yous everyday. Everytime I wake up I feel as if everything is the same and when I realize what it is it becomes difficult to accept it, but there is nothing that I would do to stop having those occurences. I like waking up and just feeling as if everything is the way it was. I am always thinking of you Daddy, and I Love You So Much. Happy Birthday Again. The Party Is Still Rocking!!!! We Love You.

Love Always,
Jason
November 17, 2003
Hello Silvestro,

As you already know, I think of you and pray to you everyday to watch over our family and especially your wonderful wife and children. Just want to tell you how proud I am of how well they are all doing! They are growing into fine young adults. My wish is that they continue to focus on doing well in school and respecting and watching over one another. I know that they will continue to make you proud in all that they do and accomplishments in/with their lives. Please continue to watch over all of us as you are our guiding light. Be with us during this holiday season and always. I love you and your family very much! With love from Michelina and Mommy and Papa! Also Anna and Benny, Niko and Gabriella! CIAO Baby!
November 14, 2003
I LOVE YOU
May 05, 2003
happy birthday dad...
May 04, 2003
Dear Daddy,

Happy Birthday!!! The Party is Still ROCKING. We Love You.

Love,
Jason
February 17, 2003
Dear Daddy,

Hey Dad what's up? Everything here is cool. We are getting like two feet of snow right now which is pretty cool too. Later on tonight I'm going to enjoy that two feet of snow. Well how about the race yesterday? Pretty interesting. I was kind of disappointed about it ending early, but there are still 35 races left for Rusty to win = ). I hope you enjoied it. Dad feelings have been going all over inside of me, and sometimes I get frustrated when they get going all at once. Dad you know what is going on with me right now, and to be honest it is something that I am not used to. Sometimes I want myself to act a certain way but the exact opposite happens and you know how I feel about that. I guess what I'm tring to say Dad is that I just want to act the way I know is right so if you and God can help me and everyone else not to feel the opposite of what we want to feel, I will be really thankful for that. Daddy the party is still rocking, and when I'm outside tonight I'll look up to you.

Love,
Jason
December 25, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Merry Christmas Daddy, how is everthing going up there? Everything here is going good. Jonathan is back, Sam and I did good in school and it is Christmas. = ) Last night was so much fun hanging out with the family I really enjoied it, and sooner or later Uncle Benny isn't going to be able to pull his tricks on us in Scoba. I'm sure you know this too, but I am so happy that I have a cousin like Jonny. He gave up his Giants ticket to me and his reasoning for doing it was so cool. I know he can be a pain in the butt some times, but he always does things like what he did yesterday and thats what he really is all about. Dad we have such a good Family, in your sisters and brothers and parents, also in Mommy's sisters and brothers and parents, and also in your cousins everybody is so cool. I know some of them have difference going on right now, but with the way things have happening I believe everything is going to work itself out. Dad thank you for everything, you really are playing a great part in my life and you will always be doing this. Dad the Party is still rocking. Merry Christmas!
PS: Wish us luck with our licenses. = )

Love,
Jason
November 29, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Hey Daddy what's up? It has been a while since I last wrote, I guess it is because of school and football, but I don't want to use those as excuses. How was your Turkey Day? I know it is was fun. I had fun hanging out. How about Tony Stewart, I bet you were pretty happy. I guess he deserved it but I really wanted to see Mark Martin win the Championship. As you know Sam and I are back here for the Thanksgiving brake, and were having so much fun being here. Not that being at college is bad, but I would much rather be here with the family. Thank You for helping Sam and I throughout this semester, were both doing well, but we also can't wait till its over too. When we get back in December its going to be like old days. Jonathan is going to be back here that's going to be cool and Sam and I won't have home work to worry about too. = ) The only difference that there will be is you will be watching us in all the things we'll be doing. So I guess we should be careful with what we decide to do. = ) Dad yeah I'm sad that I'm not able to see you physical now, but what keeps me going is that I'm always having a good time with you always. You are a part of everything I do in my life so when I cry you are crying with me when I'm angry you are angry with me and when I'm happy you are happy with me. Dad I'm glad that you are the way you are because if you were anything different I believe that I wouldn't be who I am now. Thank You Daddy. The party is still rocking and we are about to add a new element to it...The Caddy... = ) We Love You Daddy.

Love,
Jason
November 29, 2002
hey dad...
Happy Thanksgiving!!
Today was Ok. I kinda had a bad day but I'm fine now because im writing to you. I wish you were here phyically again. I miss you alot dad. It's hard but im trying my best to move on. So far I'm doing good. People tell me to think of the good memories we had so I would stop crying and feel better but when I do, I do feel better but I cry even harder because I miss the goodtimes we had and now we can't do them anymore.
Well I hope your happy and had a good time with your buddies on Thanksgiving.
I love you.
Lisa

September 10, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Hey Daddy, what's up? Everything here is going well with classes, football, and all. It's been a year since, and of course there has been some differences, but none that your spirit couldn't help us through. Dad you are with us everyday of our lives, just as you were all the days before September 6, 2001 and my understanding of this will never pass me and will never be forgotten by me. I'm sure you know about the party Mommy and Everyone else threw for you, and I want to say this even though Sam and I weren't there we were thinking about it and we wanted to be there, but we were here at school. What makes me happy is that they did throw that party, it shows me that yes everyone is still partying for you because they know that at the parties in the past you were the center of them all. Dad, obviously the party is still rocking and I'm sure that you are loving every minute of it, and you are allowing us to love every minute of it, just as you have done for us in the past. Thank You and We Love You.

Love,
Jason
September 06, 2002
Dad and Uncle Silvet what’s up?
Today is the first anniversary of your death and its so hard, it has already been a year! We all wish your were here physically again... All of us are missing you like crazy. Today we had a little party at our house for you and we all had a good time talking about all the good memories and good times we all had with you and that was about you. Dad and Uncle Silvet, you are always going to be in our hearts and in all of our minds...we love you lots!

Love Always,
Lisa and John
August 11, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Hey Daddy what's up? Everything here is going good. As you know I just got back from camping today, and now it is time to get ready for college and football. This weekend was very enjoyable, Jesse coming up to visit me really made this weekend what it was. I'm missing her now, but we both have to do what we have to do. I'm sure there will be other times where we will see eachother again, and as long as we stay in touch who knows what could happen in the future. I really am growing deep feelings for her. Thank You for letting this weekend be the way it was. As I just mentioned, Sam and I are going back to school for football, yes we are looking forward to the football, but we are not looking forward to being away from the family. I am sure you will be there to help us through it all, and I hope that we both do good this year both in football and school, and like last year we are going to take you along for the ride. We will be think of you and you know and we know that you'll be right there with us. Jonathan is almost done with his army deal, and we can't wait till he gets back from that. Please continue to bless him, and confort him with the thoughts of us praying for him everyday. Dad you know what I am feeling right now, so I am going to ask you to give me the comfort while I am feeling this way. I know you will do this for me because everyday I feel it (the comfort you give to me). Daddy, the party is still rocking and it's about to get bigger as things move on, and it is all for you. Thank You, and We Love You.

Love,
Jason
July 20, 2002
Dear uncle Silvet,
I really miss u and I wish that u were here to yell at me and too tell me to get the He*l out of the brown houses yard when u would get home from work and see me playing tag in it, and also telling me not to climb it's tree. I really miss you being there at all of the parties or telling me to stop being a punk and become a real fishermen. We are going camping in five days and I wish that you were still here with us physically and come like u always have. I will miss you this year. It wont be the same with out your awesome campfires and without you. I will try to take after you and make a camp fire that will last for hours on end with the same pieces of fire wood. One time Sly and I came up with a idea to take a big thick piece of card board and to also take one of your pictures and just tape it to the card board and cut it out so that we can stand it up in the kitchen so at the parties they have at your house and things like that you will be there in person also. And I want you to know that I will be thinking about you when we are at camping. And thank you for the idea with the Armor All to clean all of my sneakers with. WE will miss you always and forever. L

P.S. ill never forget (miss) the way you and my dad used to jump me and sly and beat us up, and I will never forget when u laughed at me when I broke my fingers, you laughing so hard made me laugh and made me forget about the pain ,Thank you and I will love u always and forever
Fil Jr.
July 19, 2002
Hey Dad...I was watching Emiril the other day and he reminded me of you ...I remember you loved watching him and the food he was making...I just wish I was watching it with you like I always have....
I miss the days I was with u and gave you company when you were alone and needed someone to be with when mommy was at work...I also miss the times you wanted to be with me and just talk about school and stuff...I wish u were with us in person right now again... :(
I miss you <3 <~~ You are always on my mind and in my heart...
I love you Dad
*XoXoXo*
Love always,
Lisa
June 16, 2002
Happy Father's Day!

Dear Son/Brother, You are loved
and missed so very much!

XOXOXO
Love,
Mom,Dad,brother & Sister's



June 16, 2002
Dear Daddy,
Hey Daddy, how is everything going? Everything here is cool. Happy Father's Day!!! We went to see you today, as you know,it was fun just standing there and talking with Mike, Sam, and Deana, we shared a few laughs. Did you see the race today, I saw the beginning and then the end, and from the looks of those two points it looked like it was a good Father's Day race. Rusty did good so I was proud of that and Tiger won today, that was another thing i was proud of. With all the good things of today, and thinking of you all day, today was one of the best days of my life. Yesterday was alot of fun too. It was our party, I'm sure you know that. Everybody came, including Tom and his Wife it was cool to see them again. I had alot of fun talking with them and everybody else about you, it was cool. Thank You for that good time, like always you know how to have a good time. As you saw yesterday and today the party is still going and you are the center of it all. Happy Fathers Day, Daddy. We Love You.

Love,
Jason
June 16, 2002
Hey Dad and Uncle,
Today is fathers day so *HAPPY FATHERS DAY*!! We're alwayz thinking of you every minute of the day...and we will forever think of you...We love you and miss you alot...
YoUr LoVeIn DaUgHtErS aNd NeIcE,
Lisa, Deana, and Gabby
June 03, 2002
Hey dad
whats its me mike hows everything up there , your prolly chillin with Elvis and Dale E. well i miss u aloy down here theres not one day were i dont stop thinkin about you . guess what im tryin to fix the truck and shes givin me a hard time like she would to u , but i think u have something to do with that (lol)The thing tryin to fix is the trany leak i changed to pan gasket cuz it was garbage but it still leaks not a lot like it did before .hopfully with ur help the truck will be ready for campin . i miss u alot i still cant believe ur gone . Slys been doin stuff with me like we uses to do stuff like workin on the yard , on the truck and going fishin. u know every where i go enerybody says i look exactly like u and that make me feel so good ,buy yet it make me cry to because i miss u alot well i got to because i got work tomorrow u know how that goes, everybody misses you. well talk to later
Love Mike
p.s. ur always with me i love u daddy
May 30, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Hey Daddy what's up, It's been a while since I last wrote to you, but you know and I know that we have always been talking. Sam and I are having a great summer vacation. We are getting to hang out and we actually got a job with Uncle Phil. What we do is pretty cool we are starting to get used to it and Uncle Phil is doing a good job walking us through some of the jists of the whole job itself. I understand now why you did this type of job for a while, its not the same and you always learn something new everyday, its not bad. Being up in those high places is pretty nerve racking but you get used to it. Uncle Phil is cool to work with, you know alot of people don't praise him much, but he is not a bad guy, I'm having a good time working with him and Sam. Another thing, I'm sure you know all the info about the family, but yeah, Nicky is going to Notre Dame and I am glad because I'll be helping him and Uncle Carmen out with the football situatiomn they have, I'm sure that would be fun too. I know that Uncle Carmen and Uncle Phil are both upset with eachother still, but I believe that stuff is going to die down so, and I feel that you Daddy are the one thats going to turn that deal around, I just know that this family is going to come together no matter what it takes. This weekend was fun, we went camping as you know, and it was everything that we expected, just flat out enjoyable, and it reminded me alot of you, Daddy. It was tough at first, but only for a little bit because soon the feeling was good, like as if you were there enjoying the time with me. Daddy you are the Man. We been hanging out with Barbra and Gus alot since Jonathan went back. It's really cool because I'm having fun doing it, and I believe it's really making them happy. It's awesome how things have been working out latly. As I mention and I'm sure you know Jonathan is back to his job. He is in Kosovo now and taking care of business, and from what I've heard from Rebekah it doesn't sound like he is happy with what he is doing now. Please keep him safe with whatever he does, Bless him, Comfort Him, and keep Him Aware that We are all here Praying for Him everyday. Daddy, it's been a long time, but it seems so short ago, and that's how I like because I want to be as close to you as possible, I want to continue to feel you presence everyday as I have been doing, and I hope that everyone else is feeling the same way. Daddy, the Party is Kicking and You are the Fuel that keeps it Going. WE LOVE YOU DADDY.

Love,
Jason
May 05, 2002
Happy belated birthday Sly.Think of you always.You'd love where i'm working now.Right next to the sound in Norwalk.I see guys towing slips across and it reminds me of you.Miss
you and wish you were here.

CARMEN
May 04, 2002
Hey Daddy and Uncle Sal!
How are you? Everything is good here. We're missing you like crazy and wish you were here to hang out with us physically. We were at Aunt Terri and Uncle Vons house this weekend and were going to have a water balloon fight and we remembered how last memorial day we all had a huge water fight and how you got all of us with the jugs of water and the hose and soaked us all...it was fun. Those were the days! We just want to say how much we miss you and really, really wish that you were here with us, we know you are but we want you to be here with us physically...it's better that way. We love you a lot and will never forget you...and we know you are here with us each and every day in our hearts! Hey Uncle Sal remember all those talks we had about my roommate with the "tendencies"? Well I won't be having to worry about that anymore, I'm getting my own room next year so I wont be seeing her that much...hehe. Hey Daddy, i remember that one time we went camping for a week recently and we both woke up at the same time with just me and you in the tent and mommy and the kids were makin alot of noise and soo u yelled out " i'm gonna report you guys to the office" but u were just playing around, then u called me over to where u were layin and gave me that BIG hug and told me that u love me...i will always remember that day in my heart dad and u know that...Hey Uncle Sal, remember how you started busting on my car cuz its an 89 and old? Well it's also haunted...The radio starts playing even if the car is NOT on and it will also play if the face isn't attached to the actual radio...wanna explain that one!? hehe :Þ...Everything at your grave sight got messed up the other day because of the rain and wind but your mom, dad and sisters fixed it all. So it looks nice again. I'm going to come visit soon Uncle Sal, I've been nervous too, but I'm going to take Lisa with me...probably someone else too...I've also been wanting to write on this for awhile..and finally someone just told me to write what I wanted too. So Lisa and I are doing it. Ok well, we hope you are doing well and having fun in heaven with your buddies and God...but not too much! We miss you LOTS and hope your keepin us safe down here...tty soon

luv always,
Alicia and your loving daughter Lisa
XOXOXOXO
May 02, 2002
hey uncle silvet,
hows everything going? things down here are ok, I guess. its been going pretty good. yeah I know u know that turned 18 a couple weeks ago. it was weird not having u here for my party. it was also weird for the twins not to be here too. i missed u guys. and i also know that yesterday was ur bday, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! another thing that i wanted to say was what me and mike did this weekend. we got the truck going. we did a dump run with it and stopped by uncle sal's house. man did it feel good t ride in that puppy. the funny thing about it was what we had to do. i remember when u use to work on the truck and she use to give u a hard time and u would get so pissed, well she hasnt changed at all. me and mike had to go back and forth to coopers like 3-4 times. first it didnt start at all, and we charged the battery. it started but wouldn’t stay on so we ended up buying a new battery. then when it started the fuel filter was cracked, gas was pissing out of it, so we had to go back and buy a new one of those. so now the truck is started and and me and mike are pumped. we get in and put it in reverse and the darn thing didnt move. we messed with it a lil and mike was like its prolly transmission. so once again, we got out and went to coopers and brought tranny fluid. we put it in and the thing started, and moved and we bounced. we rode it around the streets and we were just so happy that we had it moving. we went to the dump, listened to ur radio (i didnt know it was that good), than we stopped by uncle sal's house, showed off a lil. you know how that goes, than we came back home. it felt so good. at the end when we parked it i said to mike "you know what, ur father was prolly like, it was never a easy task for me to get the truck going so im gonna make it challenging for them" we just laughed. i think u just waned to test us to see what we could do. well we succeeded and i hope that u are proud of us. Well one more thing, fishing, wow is it different, opening day was different w/o u, but we did it and were pretty successful with what we caught. i know u had something to do with that. well let us keep on catching the trout, and shhh let me get a nice one soon, ok? well im gonna go now. i will talk to u soon. u know i miss u and most of love u forever.
bye bye :-)!!!

Love you,
Jose(S.C.)
May 01, 2002
Hey dad ~*HAPPY BIRTHDAY*~! I LOVE YOU and miss you alot...

-Lisa
May 01, 2002
Dear Son,
Happy 41st Birthday!
You are missed so much and deeply loved.
Love Always,
Mom Dad and Family
April 08, 2002
Dear Daddy,

Hey what's up? Everything here is fine, but wow what a weekend. It was fun because I got to hangout with Jonathan, Mike, Sam, and Dave, but all of it was out weighed by another good friend. You have good company with B.J. he is a really cool and smart kid. Life is a funny game sometimes, but You and B.J. seemed to except that game, and I respect you both for that. You guys keep us safe down here, and like we always do and will continue to do we will be thinking and praying for yous every day, every hour, every minute, and every second. Dad now you have a very good companion up there with you, He is young, strong, and smart just like You. We Love You Guys, and We'll always be thinking of You. Daddy, until next time take care, and by the way we are still partying for You and B.J. We Love You.

Love,
Jason
April 02, 2002
March 29, 2002
Hey Dad It's Lisa. I haven't wroten to u in awhile. Me, Sammy, Jason, Jose, and Mike went to go see u this morning. We saw Nonno and Nonna there too. On Wensday my friend's father passed away as u prolly already know and It brought back so many memeories. I really miss seeing u every morning and every day like I always did.I wish u were here again to give me thoughs hugs u always gave to me and all thoughs good times we had together with the family.I miss you and I'm always gonna be thinkin of u! There is never gonna be a day without thinkin about you b/c u r really special to me and i love you! I hope ur having fun in heaven with your buddies and God. Daddy, i love you and i will always will 4ever *n* ever! :'(

Love ur daughter,
~Lisa
March 28, 2002
Dear Daddy,
Hey Daddy what's up? How is everything going? Everything here is going good. Sam and I are back for Easter and Jonathan is back from Germany. We have been having alot of fun hanging out with each other. Feels like the old days. Today we visited you, it was Jonathan's first time. It felt like something was complete when were there today and I'm pretty sure you know what I'm talking about. You heard the four of us talking last night and you know how we are feeling about that talk. It is a big thing and I am asking you and God to bless all of us just as you guys have been doing every minute of every day. School is almost out, wow, how fast the year went by. Sam and I are in pretty good shape, and we are always trying our best. I don't have to say that because I am sure you know that. Daddy it is the third holiday which will be different for a first time. Easter is the day Jesus rose from the dead, and I know that he will bring you and everybody else with him this Easter, and like every other day I'll see you that day. We Love You Daddy, until next time We'll be partying for you.

Love,
Jason
March 12, 2002
Dear Daddy,
Hey Dad what's up? How are you doing? Everyone here is fine. I cleaned our room today, boy was it a mess. With the way I have been acting with, you know, being clean and all, I didn't think I would even start to clean the room, but I did and I finished it. Its all because of you, you are helping get over that phase of mine and I Thank You for that. The NASCAR Season is four races in, and boy Sterling Merlin screwed up at Daytona, but he is doing good now huh? I am pleased with the position Rusty is in now, but as for Little E I am a little disapointed. But I think he is getting back on track. So how is it watching the races up in Heaven? It must be a cool thing. I'm sure your enjoying every minute up there and we are with you as you are with us every step of the way here on Earth. Dad as everyone has been saying, things are differnet when we do them now, but I try not to picture them that way. I try to picture them the same way as they were before. Every morning I wake up I always feel that you are here, like it was July 26, 2001 and the reason for that is because you are still here and you never left and never will leave. We Love You, Daddy and are Thinking of YOU EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY.

Love,
Jason
March 11, 2002
hey unlce silvet,
How have u been. it has been a while since i wrote to u. i hope ur doing good. i miss u so much. i wish so bad that u were still here with us physically. saturday was so nice out and it felt like boating and fishing weather and all i could think about was u and when we use to go on the boat and go fishing and all that other good stuff . it is gonna be hard doing all that stuff without u. but u know we are gonna do it for u. it has been rough this year with all the stuff that is going on in my life and i want to thank u because i think that u are there watching over me, making me get throuhg it all. when i encounter a tough situation i just think that u are there and i try my hardest to do it, hopeing that u are guiding me through it. and usually i do get throgh it. i dont know if it is u or not but, thats what i like to think. i dont know what else to say right now but i just wanted to say hi and to tell u i miss u and i love you forever and always. bye -bye :) !!!!!!!!!!

love ,
Jose
March 10, 2002
Hay uncle savet,
I miss you very much...I know I never really showed it to you but I do love you.I remember when you took me and Nick fishing 2 or 3 times and on the way there your truck wouldnt start and we told you to warm it up first and you said to us that we sound just like my wife.
I wish you were here so you can play me or Nick in Grand Tourismo.Well im not really sure what else to say but wanted you to know that I miss so much and I love you with all my hart.
Love,
Johnny
P.S.
I will never forget you!!!!
February 22, 2002
Hey Daddy, what's up? As you know Sam and I have been talking alot about you lately to our friends here at college. I Love It. Did you see the 500 last Sunday, pretty weird huh? Little E didn't have any luck, and Rusty just got ran over. What was Sterling thinking? I bet you were happy that Ward won, he diserved it. This week they are at the Rock. I remember when Richard was still racing and he was my favorite driver, we were watching a race at Nono's house and I wanted to go somewhere with Uncle Benny, but you wouldn't let me go unless I told you that Dale Earnhardt was going to win. I told you that he was going to win and you let me go, but when I got back the man in Victory Lane was Rusty, my favorite driver now. I just think that, that was a foreshadow to how you made the sport of NASCAR an important part of our lives and I thank you for that. I'll never want miss a race again, because every Sunday wether Rusty is a contender or not I look forward to watching those guys turn left. All because of YOU. THANK YOU. We Love You, DADDY.

PS: Who will win this week?

Love,
Jason
January 22, 2002
Hey Dad whats up,
this is mike its been a long time the last time i wrote u . i cant believe ur gone i miss u alot . U werent just a father to me but u were my best friend too.When that ball dropped for the new year it hit me hard i couldnt stop cryin. I think and cry about u every day. a few days ago we were watching videos of u when u did the demolition derbies.Remeber those days . Guess what i started the truck the other day and she started right up . I remeber we put that truck together I'll never for get that. :( What am i gonna do about the 73 camaro how am i gonna put fix it up without u. sorry dad i cant write no more cuz im breakin down but ill write u agian later.hey everybody miss u too. later .
Love Mike
January 16, 2002
Hey Big Brother,
You are missed so very much....more than words can say. You are in our hearts & thoughts each and ever day!

Love Always,
Your little Sister
Anna, Niko & gabrielle Lucia
January 03, 2002
Dear Daddy,
Happy New Year, Dad. We had a good time New Year's Eve hanging out and thinking about you. The stories we told eachother, which were about you, was the best part. I had goose bumps the whole time we were talking I'm sure you knew that, but I just wanted to write that down. Now saying that I want to write this down too. I know you know how I feel about what Jose wrote, but I also want him to know and everyone else who reads this to know. Jose, hopefully you get this message I am writing to my dad and for everyone else. What Jose wrote in this guess book touched me sincerely. It touched so sincerely that I could not even wait to write my feelings. So here I am now not even two minutes later writing what I feel. Jose mentioned that we (Mommy, Michael, Sammy, Lisa, Sly, Deana and I) were taking our situation very well, and that all of us were strong. I want to thank him for that. I was going to just write him an e-mail to tell him personally, but I believe this is a better way of telling him. The reason why we are so strong, in this situation, is because of you, DADDY. You brought us all up to endure difficult things, and this situation is one of those difficult things. But with the help of you, DAD and everyone else from our aunts and uncles, to our friends like Jonathan and Jose, we (Mommy, Michael, Sammy, Lisa, Sly, Deana and I) are able to live with your Spirit. What Jose wrote made me realize that he is more than a cousin to me he is a Brother, just as Jonathan is, a friend who is more than a friend. I see him as a Brother as well. What Jonathan wrote for you dad, lies right next to your heart I know it does, because you LOVE Jose and Jonathan as sons just as they LOVE you as a FATHER. DAD, this party for you has just gotten bigger, and I am going to make it continue, as I will keep partying for you.

Love,
Jason
January 03, 2002
hey uncle silvet,
hows r u doing? im doing ok. missing u like crazy. the holiday season went by ok. it was weird for u not to be there to see and joke around with. i miss u so much. there is no one there to pick on me and things like that. one of the main reasons that i am writing to is to tell u something that really touched me. one night i as over ur house and me and Deanna were in the twins room. she was sitting on the computer and listening to music, this song by lonstar came on. it was such a good song. she was holding ur picturre and singing it while she was looking at u. she had the biggest smile on her face, and it hit me in my heart i started to cry . she looked at me and was like “ jose dont cry it is ok” and i just put my head under the pillow and cried more. she took it so good. and for me to see that she was not all depressed about it was just a good feeling. it just made me feel good inside. i just want to let u know that i am so proud of ur kids. they are so strong when it comes to the situation. btween the twins in college and mike having to work and the youger ones having to go to school and still coupe with the situation is so good. sometimes i sit there and try to get in there shoes. i picture not having a father figure in my life, i think that i just wont be able to do it. all i can do is sit there and cry , it is a good cry thiough. it just shocks me on how strong they r. and autn eva. i think that she is doing a real good job at keeping everythig going smoothly in the house. you should be very proud of all of them. when i was over ur house to days ago i was playing grand turismo on sly’s new ps2,a nd all i can think about was how we all use to sit there with u and try to won new cars and get licenses and different things like that. i wish that u can be here physically with us again, i miss u so freaking much. i cant write no more right now, i am sorry............i love u uncle silvet for ever and ever.
love,
jose
aka stupid Colombian
January 02, 2002
SLY,
I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW MUCH I MISSED YOU,UNTIL NEW YEARS EVE.WE ALL MISS YOU BUDDY.I MISS WORKING ON CARS;MINE OR YOURS TO ALL HOURS OF THE NIGHT.FREEZING OUR BUTTS OFF AND SIPPING E&J.NEVER FORGET YOU BRO.
HAPPY NEW YEAR,
CARMEN
December 27, 2001
Uncle Silvete,
Well, Christmas passed...your favorite holiday :)Our family got through another holiday w/o you...And I'm pretty sure you helped us along...All of us miss you alot...Me,Mommy and Todd went to your grave on Xmas morning..we left you 2 roses and my mom's candy cane cookies...when Nonna went..she said that the cookies werent there any more..she said that you ate them.. :)Mom said that she hoped you liked them :)I'm sure you did...
Uncle Silvete..I think about you all the time..And I love you with all my heart..
And please watch over us as we enter the New Year...and let it be a good one :)
Love you!
Love,
Chrissy and Mom
December 21, 2001
Dear Daddy,

Hey Dad, what's up? It's been a month since I last wrote, and instead of Thanksgiving being around the corner, it is Christmas this time around. You know what is going on now, and I really want you to help us get through this. Dad, I know you can do so, because you love us so much. I know you would do you best to get us through this time. Christmas, just as Thanksgiving will be different, but I know that it'll be one with you still, and there is no changing that. Dad, I know that you are hearing me in what I am writing and in what I am thinking, please help us get through this time and I'll be doing the same thing this time just as I left off the last time. Dad, I'm still partying for you and that won't stop no matter what happens.

Love,
Jason
November 20, 2001
Dear Daddy,

This is the first time I am signing this guest book. I didn't want to sign it right away because I wanted to collect my thoughts and feelings. I didn't want to write about missing you; I want to write, to you. I choose this way of writing because I believe that you are right here with me now and every second of the day. I know this because of how my days have been going. Sam and I have been experiencing enough time to do our work and enough time to just hang out, and I believe this is You and God blessing us. Everytime I wake up to the time I go to bed, and when I am asleep I feel blessed by the both of you. I hope that everyone knows the both of you are blessing them as well. They had two masses for you here at Salve; I know you know this, they were beutiful. At the two masses and at other times of other days I cry thinking about you and the family. But when I cry I feel good, yes there is a sadness but there is always something that over takes this sadness. I have got a good idea what that something is, it is You. You don't want us to be sad you want us to stick together and move foward with you in our hearts. This reminds me of when NASCAR proceded with its season because thats what Dale would have wanted them to do. Thats how I feel about you, you want us to move on and do new things, and this I am trying to do and you are coming along for the ride. This ride already started and we are doing a heck of a job together. Dad, Thanksgiving is coming up. You saw what I wrote to Jonathan yesterday, that is true. It is going to be a different feeling on Thanksgiving for the both of us and our family, one that may take a while to get used too, but I know that you will be there with us as always you are. I hope You, Elvis, Dale, and God enjoy your Thanksgiving, and if Yous can, let us know in someway that Yous are enjoying it. You said "to party," Dad until next time I'll be partying for you.

Love,
Jason
November 17, 2001
Dear Daddy,
I miss u so much! i really wish u where here with me and the family now...i miss making u salad u loved when ever u wanted it,ahhh calling me upstair and asking 4 a cup of ice, and I will miss u kissing me good night, every night.I'll always remeber when u called me upstairs and i did and then u would tell me to come here and then u would give me a ~BIG HUG~ and tell me that u *Love Me* very much and will always love u and i would say i love u too! I'm gonna miss u telling me that so much...Oh yea I'm also gonna miss going on the boat with u and going to thoughs car shows we use to go every year and the fleemaket with the family...the holidays will not be the same with out u now....it wouldn't be the same when we go get a Christmas tree this year and it wasnt the same when ever we went to get pumkins. I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH AND U WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART!!! I'll always remeber thoughs memorys with u! I miss u... :(

P.S. Your r little Angel from Heaven now and I'm still and will 4ever be your little Xena! hehe, Luv u always and forevr!

Daddy's little girl,
~Lisa~
October 17, 2001
Uncle Silvete,
Lets see..its been a month since you've been gone..and the pain in my heart is still here...I cant get over the fact that you're not here with us anymore...I try an think of the good times..but all it brings is tears to my eyes becuz we can no longer have anymore good times together....no more parties..no more hearing your cheerful and contagious laugh...no more of your sqeaky kiss you gave me on my forehead...I miss you so much...and I have my dayz where I just feel like crying..but people keep tellin me that your in a *better* place..and I hope so...holidays are sure not going to be the same..whos gonna eat all the food now?!
I just have so much emotion built up inside of me,that putting it on here is not gonna make me feel better..I want to say this to your face..I want to beable to hug you again...there are so many things that all of us wanted to say to you..and its soo unblieveable how quick all of this happened...I guess now..we have to live each day to its fullest..and appreciate who is in it and what it brings us..becuz you never know what could happen...you just never know...
when I saw you in the hospital for the first time..my heart turned blue,and sank..I couldnt see you like that..Aunt Micky was tellin me that you heard me ..becuz you were moving around...I had to leave..it just hurt me so much to see you in there...but afterwards...I came to visit you...my mom and I...and I would just sit there and hold your hand and talk to you..I wasnt sure if you could hear me or feel my touch...but everything I said to you...came straight from the heart...absolutly everything...and I just wish you could have talked back...I just wish you could have pulled through it...I wish you were right here now...theres so much I have to say..but I think its ok for now until we see each other again..I love you so much..and you will *f o r e v e r* be in my heart...there will NEVER be a day that passes by that I dont think of you..
Love your *Little Princess*(you called me that)
~Christina
October 16, 2001
TO SILVET: THIS IS MARIE TALKING TO YOU (I MISS YOU SO MUCH ) I KNOW YOUR WITH GOD, BUT I GUESS IM SELFISH I FEEL DEEP IN HEART YOU SHOULD BE HERE WITH US STILL. I KNOW YOUR GONE, BUT IN MY HEART FEEL LIKE I'M GOING TO SEE LEAVING YOUR HOUSE FOR WORK OR MEETING YOU DUNKIN DONUTS, SEEING DRIVE BUY AFTER WORK SHARING A FEW WORDS BEFORE WE TURN IN AT NITE. THE FEELING I IS A PAINFULL ONE THAT I KNOW IT WONT GO AWAY. I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY. I STILL CRY BECAUSE I HURT SO MUCH I CANT BREATH HEART HAS A PAIN THAT WONT GO AWAY. I DONT HAVE CLOSER BECAUSE EVERYTHING HAPPENED SO FAST I DONT GET WHAT HAPPENED I FEEL LIKE A LOT OF THINGS WEREN'T SAID . WHEN YOU WERE IN THE HOSPITAL IT KILLED BECAUSE I FELT THE PAIN YOU WERE IN BUT I COULDN'T HELP YOU. WHEN THEY TOLD ME YOU WERE LEAVING I FREAKED I SCREAMED I FELT LIKE I LOST A PART OF ME. EVERYONE WAS CONFORTING ME BUT THEY WERE IN A LOT A PAIN TO BUT BENNY AND MICHILINA HELPED ME I COULDNT TAKE WATCHING YOU . I TRIED BUT I COULD HANDLE IT. I STILL CANT THATS WHY IT TOOK ME SO LONG WRITE THIS MESSAGE TO . I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY . I FEEL VERY ANGRY BECAUSE I DIDNT TELL THINGS THAT I WANTED TO TALK YOU ABOUT THE SECOND DAY YOU WERE THERE. TO MANY PEOPLE AROUND. SORRY FOR WRITING SO MUCH BUT THIS IS WHAT IM FEELING.I HAVE MORE TO SAY BUT IM FEELING DEPRESSED BECAUSE I HAVE TO TALK TO ON A COMPUTER. I FEEL A LITTLE SILLY. YESTERDAY , I CAME HOME FROM WORK I MADE A SANDWICH DONT ASK WHY BUT IS A SALAMI SANDWICH I PUT ONION IN IT FOR SOME REASON NEVER DID IT BEFORE I THOUGHT OF YOU WHEN ME AND CARMEN MADE YOU TRY A PRUSUTO AND ONION YOU LOVED IT YOU ATE MINE . I MISS THOSE NITES YOU POPPED OVER. I HAVE STOP WRITING I THINK I SAID TO MUCH. I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW I LOVE A LOT AND I FEEL YOUR LOSE. HOPE YOUR OKAY WERE EVERY YOU LOVE ALWAYS YOUR SISTER MARIA ACCETTULLO PELLEGRINO LUV YA
October 13, 2001
to all family members, may you find peace with yourselves in this time of sorrow,god bless you all
September 25, 2001
SILVESTRO,MY BROTHER
GOD, ARE WE GOING TO MISS YOU..LIKE WERE ALL SAYING......YOUR ARE LITTLE "ANGEL" IN THE SKY....AND ONE DAY WE SHALL ALL MEET AGAIN...YOUR IN MY <3 AND IN MY SOUL.."I LOVE YOU."WE"LOVE YOU,TILL WE MEET AGAIN.......YOUR LOVING SISTER:EUFEMIA AND FAMILY..@-->>-->-
September 25, 2001
To The Accettullo Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this diffuclt time and always.

Michelina and Anna
I just want to know that Joe and I will always be there for you and your family and we love you !!!!!
September 17, 2001
Dear Uncle Silvestro, I hope your enjoying my du-rag right now. I bought a new one so that you and me can be livin-it-up. I’m going to miss seeing you when I go over your house all the time but I know that u will be there with us always and forever. Before I continue sleeping over your house I have to ask u a question, "is it ok if I sleep over ?" I miss u so much. I hope mike keeps up all the names u use to call me, (stupid Columbian, your such a "mess" up) and all the other good names. I can’t wait to go fishing and camping and all the other good stuff we all use to do together. It will be sad but we will do it for you and we will make it fun to. Make sure you put all the blues in the sea and add in some strippers. Oh yeah and take out all the sea robins please, ok? I just want to tell you one more thing, I will always be there for everyone else to, especially the kids. There is not much I can do but I will always be there to help out Lisa, Sly, and Deanna if there is anything I can do, and with Sam, Jay, and Mike, well you know that we will always be together and there for each other no matter what. That’s what you call “automatic support“. Well I will always love u, forever and ever. Love, Jose
September 14, 2001
To the Accettullo's family
Are prayers go out to the entire
family
September 13, 2001
What's up Dad,
I miss u alot and so does everyone else.I still remeber that day what u told me before u went to the hospital.I didnt want to believe it . I'm gonna miss u alot we were always together most of the time. I'm gonna miss working on the car and truck with u, I'm gonna miss working on the boat too. I'm gonna miss going fishing with u too.I'm gonna miss alot of things about u .
Now ur gone and left me to be the man of the house now and I promise to do that to my best of my ability .Everybody loves u and miss u ,but you'll always be in our hearts especially mine you'll be in my heart forever.You are the best father a son could have,love always your son Mike.I <3 u
September 12, 2001
Dear Accettullo Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting all of you when I started to date Jonathan and I had the honor of meeting your father and husband.You all always welcomed me and made me feel special. You were all there for us at our wedding and I'm so grateful to have known Slyvestro. Even though Jonathan and I are in Germany and can't be there with you - we are always here for all of you. We know Sylvestro is watching over all of you and taking care of you. We love you
Jonathan and Rebekah Silva
September 11, 2001
To Eva And the accettullo Family,
I learned of your lose last night there are no words for consoling your broken hearts.I want to offer you my sincerest sympathy for your loss and please know that my prayers are with you and your family.GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!

David and gonzalez family
September 10, 2001
My prayers go out to the entire Accettullo Family.
September 10, 2001
Eva & Family.

John and I want to express our deepest of smpathy to you and your children. Sly and you did a great job raising such a nice family,and I know you will continue on doing so. If there is anything theat we can do for you let us know. Right now it is so hard for you and we are praying for you and we hope that it will give you the strength in the months ahead.
Sincerely John & Freda Rose

September 10, 2001
To the Accettullo Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Orlando & Gloria Lanzante
September 10, 2001
Accettullo Family. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. in this time of sorrow, may god bless all of you,, rest in peace sly,,,xoxo. Darlene Puccilli
September 09, 2001
Dear Silvestro,

I want you to know that you have always touched my heart in a very special way. You will always be with me and the sound of your laughter will cheer me up when I'm feeling down. Know that you will be deeply, deeply missed. P.S. Don't forget we have a certain "rematch" to take care of when I see you again!!

To The Accettullo Family: I love you all and I share in your pain and your loss. I know that Silvestro will be watching over all of us from above.
September 09, 2001
-Hey Lisa
I'm really sorry about your Dad. I can't even comprehend when you are feeling right know. Anytime, you need a friend, someone to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, you can call me and I'll be there. When you start feeling sad just remember your Dad is in Heaven smiling down on you, watching you, and loving you. Just like the song says "Cause I always saw in you my life, my strength And I want to thank you now for all the ways You were right there for me You were right there for me Always In my dreams I'll always see you soar above the sky
In my heart there'll always be a place for you, for all my life
I'll keep a part of you with me
And everywhere I am there you'll be
And everywhere I am there you'll be"

**You are my friend and I love you always! I'll be there for you anytime never hesitate to call me! I love you always
September 09, 2001
TO THE ENTIRE ACCETTULLO,WE ARE VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS THE FAMILY.LOVE ALWAYS,SCOTT&CORI TRAVERSE
September 09, 2001
To The Entire Family of Silvestro:

There are no words for consoling your broken hearts. Only know that Silvestro is side by side with God and has become one of the chosen angels to take care of all of us who remain on earth until we meet again in heaven. Silvester and the entire family will remain in our hearts and in our prayers. We now have one more angel looking down on us.
September 09, 2001
TO THE ACCETTULLO FAMILY
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE
REMEMBER HE IS STILL WITH YOU ALL AND WILL ALWAYS BE...
HE WOULD NOT WANT YOU TO BE SAD..BUT BE HAPPY
September 09, 2001
I don't know if this is the Eva that I went to St. Michael's with, but in any event, I want to offer you my sincerest sympathy for your loss. I can't imagine the pain that you and your family are going through, and please know that my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless all of you!
September 08, 2001
UNCLE SYLVET,WE LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU.MAXI MISSES YOU TOO.MY GAME[JOHN]IS BEING DEDICATED TO YOU.I HOPE TO SCORE A TOUCHDOWN FOR YOU.YOU WILL BE IN NICKYS AND MY HEART ALWAYS.LOVE JOHN AND NICK
September 08, 2001
SLY I WILL MISS YOU.I LOVED YOU LIKE A BROTHER.WE LOVED TO DISAGREE.BUT THAT IS WHAT I LOVED ABOUT YOU.I'LL MISS THOSE TIMES WE SPENT TOGETHER,WORKING ON OUR CARS TILL THE WEE HOURS OF THE MORNING.REST IN PEACE,MY FRIEND,MY BROTHER.P.S.I WILL KEEP MY PROMISE TO YOU.YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART.TRY NOT TO BOTHER ELVIS AND DALE TO MUCH.LOVE YOU BUDDY.007
September 08, 2001
To Mike, Sammie, Jason, Lisa, Sly and Deonna..
My deepest and sicere sympathies to each of you, I cannot even try to imagine what you are going through. Your dad is not suffering anymore and he will hold a special place in your hearts always and forever. I am here if any of you need to talk or just hang out give me a call anytime and you are always welcome here.
I love you guys
~Jackie N.~
Lil02nic
September 08, 2001
Dear Uncle Silvestro and Daddy,
No words can passibly explain the love we have for you....you were a great person and from reading all these letters we can tell..we just want you to know that we will
*f o r e v e r* be in our hearts..and we will never forget you! your to good of a person to forget....just remember..that we *love* you and we know that your watching over us! all the time! and have fun with *Elvis*
*Dale Earnhardt* and *Family*..hey! but not to much fun! hehe..we love you!
Love Always and Forever-
Christina and Lisa
September 08, 2001
To The Accettullo Family,
We are so sorry about the passing of your son.he will never be forgotten,and our thoughts,and prays are with you all.
annette & john mellor ( ansonia, ct)
September 08, 2001
To The Accetullo Family,
We are so sorry for your lose,
i can't even put into words.Salvestor will never be forgotten.I remember all the good times we had growing up and that's how Salvestor will always be remembered.Our Prays and thoughts are with all of u.
Love Always,
Donna & Ken
September 08, 2001
To all of the Accettullo's. Our hearts go out to you in this time of the need.If there is anything you guys need you can call us anytime.The way the boys talked about their father we could tell he was a great man and he will be in our prayers. Keep your heads up.Your father must have been a very proud man to have a family that loved him so very much.
God bless,
Sigfredo,Lisette,Vanessa,Brandon
September 08, 2001
DEAR ACCETTULLO FAMILY SO SORRY TO HERE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON LEAVE OUR SIDE HE WILL BE SADLY MISSED ON OUR BEHALF AND OTHERS.WE ARE A FEW HOUSES AWAY PLEASE IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO TO HELP WE'LL BE THERE SO SORRY TO YOU ALL
September 08, 2001
TO ALL OF THE ACCETTULLO'S

DEAN AND I ARE SO SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR HUSBAND,FATHER,SON AND BROTHER. I KNOW THIS IS A VERY HARD TIME OF ALL YOU. ARE PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES U ALL ALL HAD WITH SILVERSTOR HE WAS A REALLY GOOD MAN. AND A REALLY GOOD FRIEND. I WOULD NEVER FORGET THE TIME THAT WE WERE BOTH IN A FENDER BENDER HIM NOT KNOWING WHO HIT HIM AND ME NOT KNOWING WHO HIT ME. EVA I AM SO SO SORRY REMEMBER SILVERT IS IN A VERY GOOD PLACE RIGHT NOW AND HE IS LOOKING OVER YOU SAYING PLEASE DONOT CRY. WE WILL MEET AGAIN SOMEDAY. OK ALL IF YOU NEED ANDTHING LET ME KNOW

LOVE U ALL
LORRAINE AND DEAN
September 08, 2001
TO THE ACCUTTULLO FAMILY,MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL AT THIS TIME OF SORROW OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL.MAY GOD GRANT YOU ALL STRENGH.HE WILL BE SADLY MISSED.GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
September 07, 2001
Dear Silvestro,

We all love you and miss you very much. We will have you in our hearts forever. You will be our little Angel in Heaven.

I love you very much!
Your loving sister and Family.
September 07, 2001
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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