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Matteo Joseph Scalaro

1928 - 2014

Matteo Joseph Scalaro obituary, 1928-2014, Norwich, CT

BORN

1928

DIED

2014

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Labenski Funeral Home

107 Boswell Avenue

Norwich, Connecticut

Matteo Scalaro Obituary

Matteo (Matt) Joseph Scalaro Oct. 15, 1928 - Jun. 3, 2014 NORWICH - Matteo (Matt) Joseph Scalaro, 85 of Norwich entered into eternal life on June 3,2014 surrounded by his loving family. He was born on October 15, 1928 in Norwich, the son of the late Matteo and Sarah (Sammatero) Scalaro, Sr. Matt served in the US Navy and was honorably discharged in 1948. He was united in marriage to Prudence (Morosini) on February 3, 1951 at St. Mary Church in Greenville. Matt was employed by the United States Civil Service, working at the commissary as a meat cutter at the US Submarine Base in Groton as well as Shop Rite Supermarket. He was a communicant of SS. Peter & Paul Church where he served as an usher. Matt was a member of the Norwich Elks, VFW Post 104 in Taftville and was an avid New York Yankees fan. He was an active member of the United Italian Society of Norwich. Besides his beloved wife of 63 years, he is survived by five children and their spouses; Janice Czikowsky of Norwich, Beverly and Joseph Razzano of Chantilly, VA, Peter and Donna Scalaro of Berlin, Mary Ann and Stephen Cornell of Brimfield, MA and Matthew and Jennifer Scalaro of Bernardsville, NJ. He is also survived by a brother, Antonio Scolaro and his wife Tina of Norwich. Additionally, Matt is survived by ten grandchildren and four great grandchildren. He was predeceased by three brothers; Joseph, Epifiano, and Gustavo Scalaro, and three sisters; Irene Jarry, Mary Batten and Nellie MacDonald and two grandchildren. His family will receive relatives and friends on Friday June 6, 2014 from 6 to 8 P.M. at the Labenski Funeral Home, 107 Boswell Ave. Norwich. The funeral will assemble on Saturday at 9:30 A.M. at Labenski Funeral Home and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 A.M. in SS. Peter and Paul Church 181 Elizabeth St., Norwich. Interment will be at a later date. Matt was a strong supporter of Catholic education, therefore in lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations be made to Community Foundation of Greater New Britain for the Matteo J. Scalaro Fund for Catholic Education. Donations can be mailed to 74A Vine Street, New Britain, Connecticut 06052.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jun. 5, 2014.

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Mary Ann

June 15, 2025

Happy Father´s Day Dad!
I love you

Peter

June 4, 2025

Hi Dad,

It´s hard to believe it´s been 11 years since you went to Heaven. There´s not a day that passes that i wish you were here. I miss our talks. Last year was a tough year for me health wise but I felt you were with me each and every step of the way. Thank you for watching over me and letting me know I still had more things to do before joining you again. I´m retired now and life is very good. The only regret I have about retiring is that you weren´t here to see that happen but I know you were smiling at me from above. Until we meet again, I love you dad .

Mary Ann

June 4, 2024

Hard to believe it has been 10yrs since I held your hand. A beautiful cardinal came to visit and I smiled knowing you were close. Love you and miss you more Dad
Mar xxoo

Mary Ann Cornell

November 23, 2023

Happy Thanksgiving Mom and Dad! I am thankful you are back together and for the person I am because of you both love and miss you
Love,
Mar

Petet

November 3, 2023

Hi Dad,

You´re reunited back with Mom now and you can both have your eternal happily ever after now. Mom is much better now that she is back with the love of her life.

Until we meet again.

Love,

Pietro

Bev

October 28, 2023

Dad, please give mom a big hug from me.
Love you both.

Bev

Mary Ann

June 3, 2023

Love you always Dad

Mar

June 19, 2022

Wishing you Happy Father´s Day in heaven Dad. I miss your smile and our lengthy chats. I know you would be proud of the legacy you have created. Thank you for being the best Dad and love you more

Peter

May 30, 2022

Dad, another year has passed. I know you´re watching down over everyone. Miss you and love you.

Mary Ann

June 20, 2021

Dad,
As we celebrate Father's Day today I am eternally grateful for the privilege of having you as my Dad. I miss our talks and your smile but I carry so many incredible memories with me everyday. Thank you for shaping me into the person I am today.
I love you more

Mar

Peter

June 4, 2021

Dad,

It’s hard to believe it has been 7 years since you left us. I miss you and find myself talking to you for advice. Thank you fir being you and being there to talk. I try to do the same with Courtney and Gina as you were there for me.

Love,

Peter❤

B R

June 3, 2021

Dad,

I love you. Thank you for all that you have done for our family. I know that I am the person I am today because of the opportunity of going to Catholic school which you worked so hard to give each of us. It formed me , molded me into a person of faith. I would never be able to live this life without it. I will always be thankful for your love, your guidance and your faith in me. Please pray for us.

I love you Dad.

❤ Bev

October 15, 2020

Dad,
Wishing you a Happy Birthday in heaven today. I am forever grateful for the strength and confidence you instilled in me. I love you and miss you dearly ❤
Mar xxoo

Peter Scalaro

May 30, 2020

Hi Dad,

Its hard to believe its coming up on 6 years since you passed away. I miss you every day and am sad that we missed out on our talks about raising a family. Courtney has graduated from Seton Hall University and is working at Pfizer in NYC and Gina is going into her senior year in high school and were looking at colleges again. Wish you were here to talk to about the college process. Youd be proud of them both. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I love you and look forward to when we meet again. ❤❤

Peter

October 16, 2019

Thank you for being the best father.
Love you always :)
Bev

June 17, 2018

Happy Father's Day in Heaven Dad
Love you Mar ❤

June 3, 2018

❤❤❤❤❤❤

June 3, 2018

Love you Dad.

Bev

February 4, 2018

Yesterday has come and gone, but my love for you will never pass.
You are forever in my mind,heart and prayers.

June 5, 2017

Miss you ❤❤❤❤❤

October 15, 2016

Hi Dad. Today is your birthday, it is still very special to me because that is the day the world became a little more blessed. Love you always ❤

Bev

Happy Father's Day, love you dearly xxoo

Mary ann

June 19, 2016

June 19, 2016

Happy Fathers's Day Dad. You were the best father, thanks for all you taught me and for all your love. I am so glad God chose us for each other.

Love you always.

Bev

June 3, 2016

Still loving you with all my heart Dad.

Bev

December 25, 2015

Thinking of you today Dad, wishing you a Merry Christmas in heaven. I love you dearly,
Mar xxoo

October 15, 2015

Thinking of you on this special day Dad.

Love you always!

Bev

June 21, 2015

Happy Fathers' Day Dad. Thanks for being my dad. I love you.

Bev

June 4, 2015

Dad,
It has been a year since you left us and although we are healing, I miss your loving ways. I wrote these words a year ago and they bring me fond memories as I revisit them today. I love you always Mar xxoo

Dad was the most loving father a child could have. His love and nurturing were ever present in the words he spoke, his attentive listening and gentle hand holding. Dad was a man who led by example, if you work hard and treat people the way you want to be treated things will work out fine.

Our conversations always opened with "How are things going Honey? To which I would then share the details of my day. The conversation would continue and he would ask is I had spoken to my brothers or sisters, which reminding me to reach out if we had not spoken in some time. He then asked about my husband Stephen and his family, always wanted to be sure everything and everyone in my life was good.

Although my Dad was not a man of many words, the words he did speak were powerful and the ones we did not speak were even more powerful. A few weeks ago we were sitting at the dining room table and Dad reached over and grabbed my hand, no words were said, his action demonstrating his love and affection.

April 14, 2015

Dad,

Thinking of you and missing you a LOT lately. I miss you so much. I will always love you and hold you in my heart. Sending you hugs and kisses.

Love always, Bev❤❤❤

December 25, 2014

Dad,
Thinking of the happy times spent together and greatful to have had such a loving father. Merry Christmas in heaven.
Loving you always,
Mar

October 15, 2014

Happy Birthday Dad. I love you and miss you very much. Thank you for the wonderful life you gave all of us. I hope we are making you proud. You taught us well (^o^)
I thank God for giving me you!
Love you always Dad.
With a healing heart,
Bev

Pms

June 19, 2014

My Darling Matt, you made our life complete. You may be gone,but the love we shared will always be with me. You were and are my one true love. I love you and don't you forget it ...Pms

Bev

June 15, 2014

Dad,

Happy Father's Day. Thank you for the gift of your never ending love. You have been a wonderful dad. I continue to draw strength from you and all that you have taught me. I love you dad always and forever.

Bev

June 15, 2014

Happy Father's Day.

Love mjeb

June 15, 2014

Happy Fathers Day ... love mjeb

June 7, 2014

Theresa McGrath

June 7, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of your father's passing. Another difficult time for you Mary Ann & Stephen. God Bless xxx
Theresa & Jack Vogel

Frank Florio

June 7, 2014

Pete and family,
I would like to express my condolences on your fathers passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time

Linda and BJ Frank

June 6, 2014

We will sadly miss Uncle Matt. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.

June 6, 2014

Jan Much sympathy to you and your family.I really enjoyed working with your father at Shop Rite.Sincerely;Diane Mea and family.

Diane Mea

June 6, 2014

d

June 6, 2014

Mary Ann, I am so sorry for your loss....

Matt, Patty and Prudy ca 2006

Bradford Williams

June 5, 2014

June 5, 2014

Mary Ann, My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Kim Paddock

Laura D'Aquila Gilliland

June 5, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember how he made all of you laugh and how proud he was of his family.

Jason Weiner

June 5, 2014

Mary Ann,
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My heart felt condolences to you and your family.
~Jason

Lynne Picco

June 5, 2014

To have known this sweet man was a privledge to remember him will be an honor.

Angela DeBartolo

June 5, 2014

Sending our thoughts and prayers to your family. May you find comfort and peace with family and friends during this sorrowful time. Reflect on the years past with memories that will warm your hearts and put smiles on your faces knowing that you shared a great love with Matt.
In sorrow and with love, Michael DeBartolo Sr. and Angie DeBartolo

Gayle O'Neill

June 5, 2014

Jan
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cathy & Alan Macgregor

June 5, 2014

Mary Ann & Family,

Hold your memories close to your heart. Nothing can take these away from you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

June 5, 2014

Peter, Donna, Courtney & Gina and family. With deepest sympathy we offer our prayers to you all. Sorry for you loss.
The Kehlenbach Family

June 5, 2014

Dad,

I can't believe that you are gone. You were here one day and now you are gone.

You were a great father and a role model as to what a father should be. You taught me that as a father, my primary goal was to provide for Donna, Courtney and Gina and to teach the girls about respect. I know that you worked as hard as you did when we were younger to provide us with the opportunities that you did not have. Your hard work provided me with the opportunity to go to college.

I know that you were very proud the day that I became a CPA and later a Partner in the Firm. I know you enjoyed telling people that I was a Partner in the Firm. It also made me proud to be able to make you proud.

You worked all the long hours at two stores yet never complained as you said "it was your job to provide for us". I have this same work ethic and owe that all to you. I try each and every day to be the type of father to Courtney and Gina as you were to me.

Life is much more hectic today than what it was like when I was a kid growing up. It seems like life was much simpler and there was more time available for family time. However, even as hectic as it is today, I still try to be like you and manage to get things done for the girls, putting their needs before mine as you did for me. I am like you in many ways when it comes to getting things no matter what time of the day it is.

One thing that I always remember was when you took me to our annual baseball game trip to Yankee Stadium when I was a boy. (Thank God you raised me as a Yankee Fan..hey that's what Italians are supposed to be!!)

One game I especially remember was June 8, 1969 when we went to Mickey Mantle Day to see his Number 7 retired by the Yankees. I always felt that when we played catch when you came home from work in the front yard that you were my Mickey Mantle, my hero, because of your example of what a father should be. It's ironic that you are being buried one day before they retired Mantle's number at the Stadium.

Well Dad, you are now up in the Stadium of Heaven looking over us now and are no longer suffering. For that I am glad that you are in no pain. I look forward to the day when we can play catch again like we did when we were both younger...I love you Dad,

Peter

June 5, 2014

Peter and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. May you have many good memories.

Janet H.

June 5, 2014

To All of you...condolences from Linda and family,& Suzy, from Florida.....Hugs from Afar....RIP Uncle Matt

Lori Krieger

June 5, 2014

Dear Pete, I know we haven't spoken a word to each other in many years, but I wanted to send you my condolences on your dad's passing. We went to elementy school together, at West Thames ST. This is Lori Krieger Taylor. I am so sorry buddy

June 5, 2014

With Deepest Sympathy,

The Officers and Members of the 4th District Ladies Auxiliary to the Veterans of Foreign Wars.

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