Veteran's Day again, Bud, as I always say "They lied.. it never gets easier. No matter what small or drastic changes life brings - it still comes back as fresh as the night they knocked on our door. Life is changed forever. I want you to know, though I'm sure you already do - I kept the promise I made on your grave. Life has changed, but Dad and I will remain friends and accept lessons learned and keep the good memories over the past 22 years. Watch over him, please, he's keeping his promises too. I hope we did the right thing, and you are smiling rather than doing that "shaking your head and steeling your jaw" at us thing. :(... You are so loved here on earth - save us all a seat at the campfire there. It's gonna be a hella meeting when we all get together. Love you. "MO"