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Jude Cotter Obituary

Jude Alexander Cotter, 6

Jude Alexander Cotter, 6, of Lafayette died at Riley Children's Hospital in Indianapolis Tuesday, February 5, 2013, where he had been a patient the past week. Jude was born in Lafayette, August 12, 2006, the son of Matthew C. and Karla A. Goodman Cotter.

He attended St. Mary's Preschool, and was currently attending kindergarten at Hershey Elementary School. Jude played t-ball with the East-Tipp Summer Rec program; soccer at Faith Community Center; basketball and flag football at MacAlister Center; and attended YMCA Summer Camp. Jude enjoyed swimming and had recently taken ice skating lessons. He took classes at the Columbian Park Zoo; art classes; enjoyed taking trips to the library; playing video games, especially Beatles Rock Band and Mario and playing board games with his family.

Surviving along with his parents is his brother, Kane and sister, Tessa Cotter; maternal grandparents, Terry and Nancy Goodman, of Lafayette; paternal grandmother and step grandfather, Christine and Craig Itt, of Ft. Wayne; paternal grandfather, Tom Cotter, of Mishawauka; maternal great-grandmother, Doris Goodman, of Lafayette; paternal great-grandmother Bernadette Cotter, of Union City; his aunt and uncle, Melissa and Nick Hollar, of Indianapolis; and numerous great-uncles, great-aunts and cousins who loved him dearly.

Friends may call at St. Mary's Cathedral in Lafayette from 5 to 8 p.m. Monday. Mass of Chrisitian Burial 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, St. Mary's Cathedral, Fr. Jeff Martin officiating, with interment following in St. Boniface Cemetery. If friends desire. memorials may be made to Riley Children's Hospital, 705 Riley Hospital Drive, Indianapolis, IN 46202. Hahn-Groeber Funeral & Cremation Services, Lafayette, is caring for the family. Memories and condolences may be left at www.hahngroeberfuneralhome.com.

Published by Journal & Courier from Feb. 7 to Feb. 8, 2013.
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Matt and Karla, There are no words to express the grief and sympathy I feel for you at the passing of little Jude. May you find solace in your faith and the presence of family and dear friends. My heart aches for you both as well as for Terry, Nancy, Doris and all other family members. Aunt Dema

Dema Simeri

February 13, 2013

Sorry to learn of the loss of your precious son, Jude. Jude is in God's
care and will be with you always in spirit. Peace be with you.

June Conner

February 13, 2013

My heart is broken for the entire family. I am blessed to know Jude's grandfather, Terry. What a beautiful gift you were given and now a beautiful angel for all. I am so, so sorry.

Annette Helm

February 12, 2013

Your family was in m thoughts all day today. I hugged and held my youngest grandson even more than usual as I thought about the hardest thing any parents/grandparents should ever have to face - the burial of a child. I prayed that God will give your hearts peace in knowing He has Jude within His arms.

Elaine Siemers

February 12, 2013

Words can never comfort the loss of a child. I wish you and your family great strength through this difficult time. You're in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Lisa Ratliff

February 12, 2013

So sorry for your loss..

Dianne Randolph

February 12, 2013

God be with the Cotter & Goodman family in their toughest hours. Help them find strength in knowing that Jude is in a better place and he will be waiting for them. God bless Tessa & Kane.

Abbe O'Daniel

February 12, 2013

Matt, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious son. May he rest in peace.

Shawna (Robb) Niblick

February 12, 2013

Matt and Karla, I am so sorry for the loss of your little angel Jude. He is with God now and will ever be watching over you all. I am sorry I can't be with you all but Pat will be there and my thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Love, Jeannie Cotter

Jeannie Cotter

February 11, 2013

Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. I'm sorry I didn't get to know Jude, but Tom has talked about him before. I am so sorry for your pain and anguish.
Linda Runkle

Linda Runkle

February 11, 2013

Thank you so much for giving us the chance to get to know Jude. Such a sweet, wonderful boy - simply a joy to be around. We're thinking of you all, with wishes of peace.

Columbian Park Zoo

February 11, 2013

My prayers and thoughts are with you. The loss of your child is the most tragic thing that you will ever have to face. I know this because I have had two sons that have gone on to Heaven before me. I wish that there was something that I could say to make it easier but it is so hard. Always remember that you will be reunited again in Heaven and never be separated again. That is the only thing that keeps me going. Your little Angel is with God. Take care and God Bless.

Carol Morningstar

February 11, 2013

Sorry for your loss Matt.

Mike Bartley

February 11, 2013

Dear Karla and Family, All of you are in our prayers. May God comfort you, wipe your tears and help you to grieve. Jude is safe in God's loving arms.
He tends his flock like a shepherd; he gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart. He gently leads those that are with young.

Alex and Bobbie Pothen

February 11, 2013

Nancy...my heart aches for the loss of your grandson...my thoughts and prayers are will you and your entire family

Michelle Reynolds

February 11, 2013

I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

February 11, 2013

Karla&Family. I'm sorry about your lost of your son. Karla you will always be in my heart. And your family to.

Zac Brewer

February 11, 2013

Doug and I are lifting up everyone involved in the loss of little Jude in prayer. Our hearts are very saddened. God bless

Michelle Wagner

February 11, 2013

We mourn your loss and the suddenness of this catastrophe. We're sad...And wish we could see little Jude and continue to hear about his growth and successes. May you find the power and strength to carry on strengthened by his life and inspired by his memory. We love you.

Walt and Amy Halley

February 10, 2013

another angel, gone here on earth, now with our heavanly father

February 10, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Kelli Ellison Cassidy

February 10, 2013

Such a beautiful boy... such a beautiful family... my thoughts are with you.

Suzanne Nirmalan

February 10, 2013

Words seldom say enough; however, I hope that the compassion behind each of them provides some comfort in reconciling the loss of Jude. He was a great boy and touched the lives of many within the Hershey community.

Matthew Pendleton

February 10, 2013

My deepest sympathies on the passing of Jude. I don't know you, but my daughter, Bianca, was one of his good friends in his class. Our family is deeply saddened by this news. We are praying for your family.

Beth Etter

February 10, 2013

May God be with you,I to lost my son just 1 year ago. There are no words.

February 9, 2013

My heart breaks for you. You are in my prayers.

Tammy Wolf

February 9, 2013

My heart aches for your family with the loss of your beautiful son. Please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of many during this difficult time.

Deb Mikels

February 9, 2013

I am a friend of Jude's Great Aunt Martha. I was stunned to learn of your son Jude's passing, and the pain you must endure. You have been and will continue to be in my prayers for the strength you will need to carry on. I am so sorry for your loss.

Laura McCormick

February 9, 2013

We are so saddened by your loss. You are all in our prayers.

With Love,
-- Ginny & Michael Hollar

Ginny Hollar

February 9, 2013

Another flower in the Master's bouquet. Our sincere condolences.

Marvin & Kathryn Mohler

February 9, 2013

My heart is with your family. We have not met but Jude's story made it through to my family and friends. I pray you all stay strong.

M. Aquino

February 9, 2013

Mr. & Mrs. Cotter:
I heard of your son's illness and passing through my school (Harrison College). I am sorry to hear of your son's passing.
May your wonderful memories shine through to keep your hearts afloat in your time of hurt.
My heart goes out to you and your family.
T. Dickison

February 9, 2013

Dear Cotter Family
I can not imagine your pain...my heart aches for you! My daughters attend Hershey and Elli buddied up with Judes class. Our whole family discussed memories of your sweet son, Elli shared some very special memories of him that she recalled and although the rest of us didn't have the privlidge of knowing him...I know little Miss Elli will never forget your beautiful son!!
Much Love,The Urbanski Family

Nikki Urbanski

February 8, 2013

we are so sorry for your loss. we are praying for you and your family

darryl benn

February 8, 2013

Karla and Matt I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son Jude! I had the pleasure of teaching Jude at children's choice and he was a wonderful little boy. I hope you guys can find peace through all of this. Prayers are with your entire family

Heather Mccarter

February 8, 2013

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your precious son, Jude. Know that your family is in our prayers.

Bob and Phyllis Robb

February 8, 2013

Karla and Matt, may God's arms wrap you in His love, and faithfulness will fulfill you and yours.

Katy (Allison Noland's mother) Ade

February 8, 2013

My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your family since I heard of Jude's passing Tuesday. I cannot even imagine what you guys are going through but I pray for strength and comfort for the days and months ahead. I've heard wonderful stories about Jude from my son Ben and he enjoyed playing with and being friends with him. Jude is greatly missed!!

Jeremy, Carmen and Ben Slate

February 8, 2013

He is the healer of the brokenhearted. He is the one who bandages their wounds. Psalm 147:3 Take comfort Jude is forever in the arms of our Lord Father.

Linda Austin

February 8, 2013

Karla & Matt, Chris & Craig:
John and I send our love and prayers to all of you that you might be able to endure the agony of this loss. Many prayers to all of you.

Love John and Diana Walborn (Christine's childhood friend)

Diana Walborn

February 8, 2013

My deepest sympathy to your immediate and extended family for the loss of your dear Jude. My heart goes out to all of you. From a friend of his Great Aunt Kathy and his Grandma Chris.

Nancy Forsey

February 8, 2013

May God help you during this most difficult time. May you experience His supernatural peace which surpasses all understanding. By faith I know that Jude went straight into the arms of our Savior.

Lori

February 8, 2013

You all will be in my prayers. It's never easy losing someone so dear to your heart.

Summer Denny

February 8, 2013

So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

Mark and Tira Smith

February 8, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. May the memories of your short time with your beautiful boy hold you until you meet again.

Jen Zuercher

February 8, 2013

April Kear

February 8, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son.

April Kear

February 8, 2013

So sorry for your loss..

Dianne Randolph

February 8, 2013

Cara shared this heartbreaking time in your lives with me from the time Jude went into the hospital, and I cried when I heard he had died. I pray for comfort for you and your family. I know one thing with absolute certainty that I hope brings some joy in this otherwise terrible time in your life: Jude is sitting on Jesus' lap and was welcomed there with arms wide open.

Melissa Nachtnebel Albert

February 8, 2013

My heart is broken again, as I lost a granddaughter a few months ago.
God is holding Jude tight and my faith is holding me up. We will never know why God choose our children but he will give us strength to go on.
I will add Jude to my prayer list.

Donald Vaughn

February 8, 2013

We can't imagine the pain that you are experiencing. Our hearts ache for you.

The Rookstools Camelot Subdivision

February 8, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. I remember once a person told me that God does know what it feels like to lose a precious son. Praying that his love completely encompasses your family through this.

Holly Duncan

February 8, 2013

Marlys Pedigo

February 8, 2013

Karla, I'm sorry about your son, Jude. No words can express to anyone of losing a child especially at a very young age. If you need anything or want to talk to someone with all of our friends, including myself, don't hesistate to ask. We'll always be with you, thinking of you, and be praying for you during your mourning of grief.

Chris Wilcox

February 8, 2013

Karla,

This is "seansdad" from the old Lafayette Moms site. I know there are no words, and my heart is broken for your loss. I'm praying that God will keep and comfort you and your beautiful family.

Dave Packard

February 8, 2013

Our heart and our prayers go out to you and your family. Our son attends Hershey and I know the entire school has been affected by the loss or your beautiful son. Trust that God is holding him close. Lifting you up in prayer.

The Davis'

February 8, 2013

I never met any of you but i am sarah goodmans sister. I just wanted to give you my sympathy and let you all know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Such a sweet looking boy may he rest in peace

Heather Hicks

February 8, 2013

Your family is in my prayers. I have walked the road of a bareaved parent and know no words can comfort right now. I pray you can find peace and comfort from those around you.

Krystal

February 8, 2013

I learned about Jude through our friend Kaisa, and am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like he made a lot of memories for you to cherish. Hugs and prayers to the whole family.

Janet Bolan

February 8, 2013

Jennifer

February 8, 2013

Karla,
My heart aches for you and your family. May you find comfort and strength in knowing so many people care and are mourning the loss of your precious angel.

Kristi Weber Moad

February 8, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I am the FaceBook friend of Elizabeth C. My prayers are with you at this tragic time.

Kelly Sharpe

February 8, 2013

Carol Hill

February 8, 2013

I hug my children a little tighter each day now. No words will suffice right now so I will send my prayers.

barbara Johanns

February 8, 2013

My condolences to you and your family. Life does not make sense and losing someone as young as Jude is tragic. Emma (classmate) will greatly miss him.
~The Daulton's

Misti Daulton

February 8, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Renda Bryant

February 8, 2013

With the family he had, Jude lived as good a six years as a person could hope for on Earth.
Sharing of grief is small consolation, but it's all we have.

Mike Goodman

February 8, 2013

Sending prayers to your family.

Juanita Robertson

February 8, 2013

I am incredibly sorry for your loss. My little sister Ava Porat i know was good friends with Jude. I only ever heard good things about this little boy. May god be with you during this time. god most definitely recieved an angel.

Alex Grovak

February 8, 2013

Krista Eash-Smothermon

February 8, 2013

Karla & family~ My deepest sympathy on the loss of your beautiful son. Lifting you all up in prayer during these difficult days.

Cindy McCall Divan

February 8, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Jude was a bright sweet boy and will be missed by many. I pray for comfort for your family during this hard time.

Jamie Schauer

February 8, 2013

i DO NOT KNOW YOU MY I WILL SENDS SPECIAL THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS FOR YOUR FAMILY...TAKE CARE OF YOURSELFS AND EACH OTHER....

ROBIN KING

February 8, 2013

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Nicole Clayton and Simon Niklasson

February 8, 2013

•Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in our thoughts and prayers.

Michelle Leithliter

February 8, 2013

Karla and Matt - I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Jude. My prayers are with you during this time!

Angie Teel

February 8, 2013

So sorry for your loss.

Jackie Lanter

February 8, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain and heartache you are going trough. Wrapping you and your family in prayers.
Tammy Skelton (former Hershey Para)

February 8, 2013

Karla and family, my heart aches for you and the loss of your son. He will always be in your hearts and memories. Take care.

Joyce Fuller

February 8, 2013

Matt and Karla
My heart breaks for you and your family. All of you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you both find strength.

Krista Callis

February 8, 2013

Brenda

February 8, 2013

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Barb (friend of LaNeeca) Painter

February 8, 2013

His doctors at Riley are mourning him as well. I'm sorry I never knew the "real" Jude. I wish I could have done more, my thoughts are with your family.

Mandy Harris

February 7, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Praying for God's grace to help you and lift you up during this extremely difficult time. We are so very sorry for your loss.

The Colby's

Rebecca Colby

February 7, 2013

Nana loves you, Jude! You will always be my BFF, pinky swear.

February 7, 2013

Our hearts are with you.

Karenna and Josh Awtry

February 7, 2013

So sorry to you all. Love and best thoughts for your family. XO

Charlotte Grant

February 7, 2013

Tracey Lehman

February 7, 2013

Sweet sweet Jude, this is for you!

Alice Harper

February 7, 2013

Sending love and praying for your family every day.

Jenny Robertson

February 7, 2013

Our prayers are with your entire family. So sorry for your loss.

Jeff and Amy Gorman

February 7, 2013

Thoughts and prayers going to you and all of your family.

Amy Hughes

February 7, 2013

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful sweet son. Know that you all are and have been in our thoughts constantly. Love and peace. RIP Jude xxx

Michelle McElduff

February 7, 2013

Our deepest sympathy for your families. It is a great loss to our Hershey community. Prayers and thoughts will be with you and Jude.

The Tordil Family

February 7, 2013

We love you Jude Cotter!

Jordan, Ashlie & Ryker Marsell

February 7, 2013

Karla and Matt,
Our hearts are broken for your family. Please know that we will be here for your and your family in any way we can. Jude will be greatly missed. His light will shine on in the love you have for him. We send you all our love,
The Grahams

Nik Graham

February 7, 2013

Karla and Matt,
Jon and I are so sad to hear of the loss of your beautiful son. He will shine in heaven as a glowing star.

Angie Tucker

February 7, 2013

Prayers to your family.

Michelle & Charlie

February 7, 2013

My deepest sympathy to all of the Cotter/Goodman families. I didn't know little Jude but I have so many grandchildren about his age and I would be just devastated to lose any of them. My heart breaks for you. May Jesus hold him snug in His arms.

Elaine Siemers

February 7, 2013

Karla and Matt and family,also Nancy and Terry.Its so hard to express our feeling, just know you are all in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this dificult time. Our love and prayers are with you all.Love , Uncle Howard & Aunt Jeanie

Howard & Jean Pitstick

February 7, 2013

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