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Sheila Sheppard Obituary

Sheila R. (Lefebvre) Sheppard
1961 - 2013

LOWELL -- Sheila R. (Lefebvre) Sheppard, 51, of Lowell, died peacefully on Wednesday September 18, 2013, surrounded by her family, following a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Lowell on October 7, 1961, she was a daughter of Pauline Pelletier of North Chelmsford who survives her and the late Maurice Lefebvre.

Sheila was employed as a closing manager for Mortgage Financial for the past 13 years.

In addition to her mother, Sheila is survived by her sons, Robert Sheppard III and his wife, Lyndsay of Ayer, Bryan, Kevin and John Sheppard, all of Dracut ; her siblings, Sue Connor and her partner, Annette Turniak of Feeding Hills, Carol Derkrikorian of Lowell, Linda Lavoie and her husband, Robert of Bristol, New Hampshire, William Connor of Raymond, New Hampshire, Paul Connor and his wife, Bernadette Connor of Lowell, Michael Lefebvre and his wife, Debbie of Lowell, Debbie Letendre and her husband, Normand of Nashua, New Hampshire, Colette Whitney and her husband, Stephen of Lowell, and Dawn Dery and her husband, Francis of North Chelmsford; as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

SHEPPARD -- Relatives and friends are invited to her Life Celebration on Sunday September 22, 2013 from 2 until 6 PM in the McKENNA-OUELLETTE FUNERAL HOME, 327 Hildreth Street, Lowell. Her Funeral Service will take place on Monday morning at 10:00 AM in the Lawrence Street Primitive Methodist Church, 1193 Lawrence Street, Lowell. Interment will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery, Chelmsford. For those who wish, donations in her memory may be made to the Lowell General Cancer Center,295 Varnum Avenue, Lowell, MA 01854. For directions or condolences, please visit www.mckennaouellette.com

Published by Lowell Sun on Sep. 21, 2013.
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I only knew Sheila on a professional level, but I can tell you that she was one the best closers I have ever worked with in the mortgage industry. Attention to detail and her calm approach to the many issues we encountered together was always appreciated. God bless her and her family.

Pete Smith

March 12, 2014

THANK YOU ALL,FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS,AND TREMENDOUS SUPPORT. OUR HEARTS ARE FULL,IT IS GOOD TO SEE HOW MUCH SHEILA HAS TOUCHED ALL OF YOUR HEARTS AS WELL!! SHEILA IS WITH US FOREVER & EVER...WE'LL BE TOGETHER AGAIN,THERE IS NO DOUBT.IN THE MEANTIME,WE ARE FULL OF ALL THE MEMORIES FORGED OVER 51...YEARS!!! OUR CUP RUNNETH OVER!!! LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER , MY DEAR SWEET SISTER SHEILA,(YAYA #4), YOUR SISTER SUE(YAYA #1) FOREVER!!!

Swirling Cloud

October 26, 2013

I am deeply saddened to learn of Sheila's passing. We had just connected about 8 months ago on Face Book and were chatting about circle 9 ranch and life. Hugs to all her family and know she really is in a better place without any pain now.

Terri LaVie Rawnsley

October 13, 2013

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days, my most heartfelt condolences.

Michele (Mimi) Lariviere

September 27, 2013

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Linda and Bob Lavoie

September 24, 2013

Lighting a candle in memory of you "my Auntie" who lost a strong fight against cancer, as you are laid down to rest today. Sleep in peace knowing your time here will live on forever in the hearts of your loved ones. May have not been meant to be to meet you here, but chance will come one day. Remember me as I will you the day I'm called. You will be greatly missed, but this isn't goodbye...this is see you later! Love you Dad and family with thoughts and prayers on this very hatd day! April Dawn

April Connor/Contreras

September 23, 2013

Rob & family - I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. Although I've only met her a couple of times, she was a lovely person who raised a great family. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Sheila Bailey

September 23, 2013

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. May your memories comfort you during this difficult time.

Mike & Cyndi Kenyon

September 23, 2013

We send our love and prayers to of Sheila's loving family My God be with you all Aunt Jackie and Uncle Howie

September 22, 2013

To all of Sheila's Family: Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Beverly Robitaille

September 22, 2013

My deepest condolence to everyone,sorry on my previous entry to omit Dawn, you will always be with your sister as her baby sister, her little angel, God Bless you all,Peg H

Peggy Hoffman

September 22, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to you colette and your family.
She is resting with all the other angels in heaven . Her pain is gone and she will forever be your guadian angel.

Kim/ Tom Campbell

September 22, 2013

Words cannot express the sorrow we are feeling for the loss of such a beautiful and caring lady. You were like a little sister to me. Always remember you with a big smile that would light up the room. Rest in peace Sheila we all will miss having you in our lives. John Derkrikoian and family

John Derkrikorian

September 21, 2013

Auntie Shelia I Love You And Miss You So Much. Words Cant Explain How I feel. You Were A True Inspiration And A Strong Women. Until We Meet Again See Ya Later!

Amy Brady

September 21, 2013

My dear daughter Sheila you were taken away so soon memere and pepere waited for you with open arms they fix a place for you I will miss you very much some day I will see you again love you Sheila you have no more pain.love MOM

pauline pelletier

September 21, 2013

We were tenants of Robert and Linda,we remember Sheila coming to there backyard get togethers. What a nice person she was.
Sorry for your lost.
Jack and Betty Rogers

John and Betty Rogers

September 21, 2013

To The Sheppard Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Sheila. God Bless.

The Bruce Family

September 21, 2013

My dear niece your ant Doris and I are so very sorry to hear that your life was taken away so soon
your grandmother and grandfather are awaiting your arrival with open arms, rest in pease my dear niece.

Ray & Doris Robitaille

September 21, 2013

Pauline and Family,
May God bless you in this time of sorrow. Know that you have a beautiful guardian angel to watch over you.

God Bless,
Suzanne Leonard

September 21, 2013

Pauline, Our prayers and thought are with you and your family. Sheila will be greatly missed, she was a beautiful and loving daughter. Our love to all

Jerry and Doreen Lacroix

September 21, 2013

You are already missed by so many. I know you will be watching over your fmaily. We love you Aunt Sheila...Love Jason and Melissa

Jason and Melissa Lavoie

September 21, 2013

Dear Linda,Debbie,Sue,Carol and Colette and family, your sister was so blessed to have you as such a strong support systems during her courageous fight. Sheila will be with you all as your guardian angel, as she was on earth and now in heaven, God Bless you all Peg H.

Peggy Hoffman

September 21, 2013

So very sorry for the passing of such a wonderful person. Our deepest sympathies to family and friends of Sheila. I know she will be truly missed. God Bless.

Christina Baron

September 21, 2013

MY DEAR DAUGHTER I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH BUT GOD WANTED A BEAUTIFL ANGEL YOU WERE TAKEN FROM US TOO SOON.YOU WILL SEE MEMERR AND PEPERE IN HEAVEN I'M SURE THEY MADE A PLACE FOR YOU.WE SHALL MEET AGAIN MY DEAR DAUGHTER WHEN ITS MY TURN.FOR NOW YOU ARE AN ANGEL LOOKING LOOKING OUT FOR ALL OF US.LOVE YOU SHEILA R.I.P.

pauline pelletier

September 21, 2013

Sheila, you were an amazingly strong and beautiful person who will be greatly missed by all. Sending my love and condolences to the Sheppard Family. Your mom will always be with you. xo

Cassie (Robinson) Walsh

September 21, 2013

so sorry for your deep loss, our prayers are with you at this time. Bob & Kathy Baillargeon

September 21, 2013

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