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Bernard J. "Bernie" Gray

Bernard J. "Bernie" Gray obituary, Wacousta, MI

Bernard Gray Obituary

Bernard "Bernie" J. Gray Wacousta Age 84, our loving companion, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend passed away December 9, 2012. Born September 16, 1928 in Washington, D.C. Bernie was a veteran serving with the U.S. Air Force. He began his long career becoming an agent with John Hancock for 20 years, later with U.S. F. & G. for 10 years, and most recently with the David Chapman agency. He enjoyed fishing Lake Michigan on his wooden boat "Charisma". He remained a licensed Airplane Pilot into his 80's. He was the Governor for the past 8 years of the Quiet Birdmen "QB's". He was a member of the Aircraft Owners & Pilots Association; life member of the V.F.W. Post 6986 in Onondaga; member of the American Legion Post 0153; member of the 40 et 8; member of the N.R.A.; member of the Fraternal Order of Eagles Aerie #1039; member of the Ducks Unlimited. Bernie loved the air and the sea. Surviving are his companion of 35 years, Esther "Sunshine" Erickson; his daughters, Deborah Ann Gray, and Pauline "Polly" Gray; 2 grandchildren Teal (Robert) Campbell, and Susanne Gray; great-grandson, Kaleb Campbell; longtime dear friend, Richard Moulton; and numerous friends, business associates and fellow group members. Bernie was preceded in death by his parents Pauline and James Howard. Visitation is from 12:00 - 2:00 p.m. and 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Friday with services 1:00 p.m. Saturday, December 15, in the Tiffany Funeral Home, 3232 W. Saginaw, Lansing. Military honors will be provided by the Morley Oates V.F.W. Post #701. Contributions may be made to the Capital Area Humane Society in memory of Bernie. Friends may visit the guest book at www.tiffanyfuneralhome.com.

Published by Lansing State Journal on Dec. 12, 2012.
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To the Family of Bernie Gray -
So sorry for your loss. Bernie was a very kind and caring man who will be missed by many.
God Bless all -

Sandra Parks and Family

December 17, 2012

My prayers are with you and family . hard to loss. what great smile and fun loving he was. I remember the picnic by river and canoe trip. what fun. God Bless. Dorothy Olive and Floss, Chad

December 14, 2012

Esther,
All our love and prayers.We know how you are feeling.All our sympathy.
Love,
Marge & Ron

December 12, 2012

Polly -I am sending my thoughts and prayers and condolences to you and your family during this sad time. I was suprised and saddened to see that your dad had passed. He was a wonderful man, had a funny sense of humor and was always great to be around. Take Care - Your ex-roomy Mary Wotring

December 12, 2012

Heart felt condolences to Esther and the entire family. Talked to Bernie in August and he sounded great and was looking forward to meeting him later. Really saddened to learn of his passing. Worked with Bernie for many years-he will be greatly missed by all those whose lives he touched. God speed on your next journey. Sharon and Dean Worrall

December 12, 2012

Sending my condolences for Bernie and his family. I just met Bernie a couple weeks ago, my father, pat Dionise , passed away. Bernie presented us with a QB memorial for my dad. Bernie was very sweet and kind to our family and it was obvious that he had a beautiful passion for flying as was my dad. I was glad to get to know him. God bless you all.

December 12, 2012

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