BENJAMIN PROCTOR

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October 16, 2012

David, Shana and family, we were so sorry to hear about Ben. You and your family are in our prayers. We love ya'll.

October 15, 2012

I didn't know Ben personally, but I saw the deep love the Ben and his father had at church and and in worship. I couldn't help thinking with great joy that Ben was singing along with us this past Sunday night in worship.

October 14, 2012

Dear David, Shana and Family,
We cannot imagine the emotions you are experiencing right now. Ben was a very special and unique young man who made his presence known and made a difference in the lives of everyone who knew him. Please accept our sincere sympathies. You and your family have been in our prayers. The Lord knew that he placed Ben into the right home. Only He knows why he called him home so soon. God bless you all.

In Him,
Jim and Judy Hulsebus

October 14, 2012

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 12, 2012

I lost my father in March, but I can't imagine what it is like to lose a son. I hope you'll always cherish the times you shared supporting the Commodores, win or lose. Ben got to enjoy a bowl game, numerous NCAA tournament trips, and a College World Series. God bless you, and I hope you receive comfort in the fact that Ben is in the loving arms of our lord.

October 12, 2012

To the Proctor family:

I am a VU alum and dedicated Vandymania reader. I have met you both on occasion, always at VU sporting events. I have an autistic son, Hamilton, who loves the Dores. He is now 15. My oldest, Harris, who is gifted, just applied to VU.

Actually, he is not our oldest. We lost their older brother, Carter, two years ago. Thus, we know your pain, on every level.

I will miss your wonderful recounts of your times together, but treasure these memories. I know I will.

Jeff Melcher, Atlanta

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October 12, 2012

Robin,
I am so sorry to hear about Ben. What a character he was, living life to its fullest and enjoying every minute of it. I have not seen you in years but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family in these difficult days ahead. May God wrap you in His arms and hold you there for comfort! Please let me know if there is anything that I can do.

~Amy Blakeney

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October 12, 2012

While only experiencing this young man through his father's touching stories, his memory will be published forever on internet message boards and in loved ones' hearts. The scope of his inspiration may likely never be measured but trust it is exponentially more than those can envision.

Anchor Down, Angel Up. (Dores311)

October 11, 2012

David,

Never met you or Ben but feel like I know you from the many posts you've shared on VM. So sorry for the loss - my thoughts and prayers are with you.

October 11, 2012

Our family lifts you up in prayer. May God grant you peace. Ben was a very special young man who touched all of us in a special way.