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Phaelyn B. Koch FARMINGTON - Phaelyn B. Koch died suddenly on Monday, July 15, 2013, at age 31. She is survived by her mother, Deborah Flora; sister, Helana (Michael) Bradley; maternal grandparents, James and Barbara Flora; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Friends may call on Thursday from 7 to 9 p.m. at Lucey-VanVoorhis Funeral Home, 301 W. Main St., Victor, where a celebration of her life will begin on Friday morning at 10 o'clock. Gifts in her memory may be directed to Evelyn Brandon Health Center, 81 Lake Ave., Rochester, NY 14608. Condolences are being accepted at luceyvanvoorhisfuneralhome.com.
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Many years have passed and this has never gotten easier. In my mind I can still see you smile and hear your laugh. We were best friends. Phae, I miss you terribly and pray that you've found peace. Without you best friend and sister, the world just isn't as bright. You will never be forgotten. - Jules
J. Campbell
Friend
February 14, 2021
Phaelyn miss you so much i enjoyed being your boyfriend for the 4 years we had toghther. 10 years ago .love you
Brandon Beatty
August 25, 2017
It's been two years since you've passed my friend and I still can't believe you're gone. Phae you were my best friend and also the sister I never had. I visited your grave yesterday, I miss you dearly and think of you often. Wish you were still here so I can still hear your laugh and see your smile. Will always love you and continue to pray that I see you again someday.
Katie O'Coin
July 17, 2015
Always in our thoughts
Penny Bradler
March 25, 2015
Phaelyn will always be my heart and strength she was always so good to me, i miss her everyday.
Brandon Beatty
March 24, 2015
Doug and Jan, I am so sorry for your loss.
Noeleen & John
Noeleen Griffin
November 17, 2013
Phaelyn,
I always thought of you as my cousin, even though technically, we were on different sides of the family. You were a wonderful friend growing up those many summers at Aunt Lori's. You made me feel like it was okay to be myself when it was hard to navigate my naive teenage understanding of the world. I will always love our friendship.
I hope heaven realizes how lucky they are to have you, because we all miss you like crazy down here.
Amanda Garner( Flaherty-Benson)
August 8, 2013
Dear Deb,
So very sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with you, i cannot imagine what you are feeling. God will take care of her from here. I hope you can take some comfort in that. Love, Fran
August 5, 2013
So sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen Ford
July 31, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about Phaelyn. She was a wonderful friend with a very thoughtful personality and a contagious smile! Phaelyn - You will be sadly missed!
Julie Poquette
July 24, 2013
Dear deb, Helana,and extended family, I'm soo saddened about Phaelyn. You are on my mind and in my prayers. Sooo many memories of past swim club days have come to mind. All thoughts of Phaelyn are of her sweet, kind, gentle nature. Nothing but goodness comes to mind when thinking of her. My love to you all! ....
Jeanne haynes
July 21, 2013
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time! XXOO, Lexie Hunsinger
July 20, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you Helana, Debbie and all of Phaelyns family. Phaelyn was such a nice, thoughtful person.
Bridget Youngjohn
July 18, 2013
Love and prayers to the entire family during this deeply sad time. With sympathy.
Lori Koonmen family
July 18, 2013
Helana and family, with heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy during these difficult times we will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
Scott and Krista Williamson
Scott and Krista Williamson
July 18, 2013
My deepest sympathies, Debbie, Helena, and all the Flora family! I am so sorry you are suffering this painful loss.
Linda Armstrong
July 18, 2013
Debi, I don't know what to say to fix your broken heart.I cannot imagine the devastation,so many memories. Love to you all. You are in my prayers.
Penny, Paul, Bryn & Courtney
Penny Bradler
July 18, 2013
My heartfelt prayers and thoughts go out to Phaelyn's family and friends. She was such a wonderful friend in high school who was so sweet, kind, and fun. She will surely be missed by all who knew her.
Erin O'Brien
July 18, 2013
Deb and family, my thoughts, prayers and sympathies are with you at this very difficult time. Phae and I played volleyball for years together. A wonderful person with a great spirit. She will be missed.
Julia Santiago
July 18, 2013
Debbie, Helena and Family, so sorry to hear of your loss! Phaelyn was such a nice person and I always enjoyed visiting her when she came into our office! My thoughts are with you.
Sarah Van Dyke-Dwyer
July 18, 2013
Debi Flora & your family. I deepest sympathy to all of you at this time. May you find a way to be at peace with this soon.
Judy Metzger
July 18, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Phaelyn's beautiful smile as she swam up and down the pool at Victor Swim Club. May she be at peace in the hands of our father. Love and hugs to you all!
Coach Carol Reissig
Carol Reissig
July 18, 2013
Debbie and family, It can be so hard on you this first year. Remember your friends are there to help you through this time. Ron and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. The one thing to carry you through is that I believe God only lets the very best into his Palace and Phaelyn is now there and will be you own Angel to watch over you.
Ron and Carroll Phillips
July 18, 2013
Love and thoughts to the whole family. Sue Steneken
Sue Steneken
July 18, 2013
Ours thoughts and prayers are with you...
Diana Palmer
July 18, 2013
So sorry for your loss . Sending love and prayers to your family .
Joyce Domville
July 18, 2013
My thoughts & prayers are with you all & may her memory be eternal...
Debbie Rohr
July 18, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss. Phaelyn was such a nice girl, we played volleyball together. I'm in shock, she will always be remembered. I'm so so sorry.
Michelle Dawson (Landolfi)
July 18, 2013
Deepest sympathies to Phaelyn's family. So sorry to hear this news. My prayers are with your family.
Rich Garrett
July 17, 2013
Words can not express how heavy my heart is right now. I watched her ,her sister and cousins grow up. She had a wonderful spirt . Love and prayers to every family member. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Carrie DeJohn
July 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Debi, Helana & the whole Flora family. May Phaelyn rest in peace.
Gillian (Barth) Smith
July 17, 2013
My heart aches for all of you. Phae is at peace, and will be forever your guardian angel. Prayers and love sent...
Kari Wilferth-Wolinski
July 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers go out to Phaelyn's family. I am so very sorry.
Shari Bliss
July 17, 2013
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Flora family. My girls and I are very sad about this. Im sending all our love and prayers to you Debbie, Helana, your parents, Michelle, Lori and all your extended family. Love, Kathy, Jenna, and Michelle Vanas
kathy vanas
July 17, 2013
We am so sorry for your loss, no words can explain. Love of family and friends will help you thru this. Know your Angel is watching over you. Prayers for you and Phaelyn.
Ed & Joanne Borghi
July 17, 2013
Debby, Helena & family - I'm so sorry! My prayers are with you all.
Kasi Krenzer Marshall
July 17, 2013
My heart is grieving with you. May His peace & comfort envelop you & yours.
Barb Cook
July 17, 2013
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