James "Jimmer" Mills

James "Jimmer" Mills obituary, 18, Sayreville

James Mills Obituary

James "Jimmer" Mills

AGE: 18 • Sayreville

James "Jimmer" Mills age 18 passed away Thursday November 8th 2012 in Sayreville. Born in Perth Amboy he was a life long borough of Sayreville resident. Jimmer was a 2012 graduate of Sayreville War Memorial High School and had enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corp where he was to report later in the month of November.

He is predeceased by his paternal grandfather Ernest W. Mills, his maternal grandparents Buddy & Rose Iacouzzi. Surviving are his parents James W. and Theresa G. Iacouzzi Mills of Sayreville, his brother Justin Iacouzzi of Old Bridge his godparents Ernest L. Mills and Sally Iacouzzi and many other aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Funeral services will be held Friday 8:45am from the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home 15 Cherry Lane Parlin followed by a 9:30am mass at Our Lady of Victories R. C. Church in Sayreville with burial to follow at New Calvary Cemetery.

Calling hours at the funeral home will be held Thursday from 4pm to 8pm. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers donations in Jimmer's name be made to the Hurricane Sandy relief fund at www.redcress.org/nj/princeton . Letters of condolence may be sent to the family at www.spezzifuneralhome.com

Published by Home News Tribune on Nov. 13, 2012.
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Think of you all the time and on our bday I make a toast to you. Love and miss you lots. Happy Birthday

Dolores Beaton

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November 7, 2020

Just heard, so sorry for your lose. thinking of you.
love,
mickey and the kruk family

Mickey Kruk

December 3, 2012

I am so sorry for you loss. My heart goes out to all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Words cannot express my deep sadness for the loss of Jimmer. I am here for you if you need anything at all. I miss and love you very much.

Love,

Rose, Joe and Katie Rubino

November 18, 2012

my heart goes out to you ,family and friends.lighting a cande for yu James a fellow sayreville resident.rest in peace <3 my pryers are with you..Lisa Lakomski

lisa lakomski

November 18, 2012

Theresa and Jim,
We are so very sorry for the loss of your dear son.You are in our prayers.

Gordon&Brenda Treat

November 16, 2012

Theresa & Family,
We are deeply sorry to hear about the death of Jimmy. I can't imagine the sadness you & your family must be feeling for your loss. There are no words to even begin to express our sorrow. Hold on tight to the memories for comfort & lean on your family and friends for strength, and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers.

Kris & Josh Domanski & Family

November 15, 2012

Jimmer, this candle is lit to help guide you home to a state of grace. It is lit so that your memory and your love burns bright for those you left behind. --Theresa, Jimmy and Justin, you are all in my prayers.

Stephanie "Bialkowski" Horvath

November 15, 2012

To, Jim And Theresa, We are so very sorry for your loss,

Lorraine And George V.F.W. # 7508

November 14, 2012

Theresa and Family,

I was saddened to learn of your loss.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Orest Watamaniuk

November 14, 2012

Semper fi

Richard Barrera

November 13, 2012

Jimmer, Rest in peace. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

Rick Gathy

November 13, 2012

Please accept our sincere condolences for the sudden loss of your dear Son Jimmer. We can only imagine what a shock it must be to you and your family. Our hearts BREAK for you. While the loss of a loved one is never easy, even when anticipated, it is most certainly the hardest when they are taken from us too soon. Your recent loss of your son who has left us at such a youthful age is certainly in the category of those hard losses for which there is so painful a reminder of what might have been. Although we didn't know your “Jimmer” that well, we can only imagine the kind of young man he was. Knowing you Theresa- what an amazing and wonderful woman you are, a heart of gold, compassionate, sweet and funny... I could go on… My Grandfather would call someone like you "The Salt of the Earth"... We do know that he was loved by all and respected throughout his community, school and friends. You were very fortunate to have such a young man in your life and now as an Angel above watching over you and your family. Again, we offer our deepest sympathy on your tremendous loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time. May he live on in every beautiful memory that you will remember forever. A friend of mine recently said… “When there are no words or actions that can make someone's situation easier, you have to hope everyone's presence makes them at least know they are not alone”. We hope you know that you aren't alone and if there is anything we can do for you, please call upon us. We ask for God's blessings on you and your wonderful family. May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and confidence and in knowing that his was a life well-lived. Love, hugs and more hugs, Tara, Jeff and Dylan Finkelstein XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Tara Finkelstein

November 13, 2012

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Tracie Wiilliams

November 13, 2012

May your soul rest in peace!!!

Pete Rizzolo

November 13, 2012

Rip Young one ..Prayers

November 13, 2012

jimmer, we loved you dearly and ill miss celebrating our birthday together. will miss you dearly. rest in peace honey.

dolores beaton

November 12, 2012

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