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Edward J Barber Naples, FL
Edward J. Barber, of Naples, FL passed away August 30, 2013, after a courageous battle with cancer.
He leaves his loving wife, Barbara; children, Shelli (Tom) Norei ka, Julie (Thomas) Rooney and Leslie Barber; sisters, Mary Jane Calnan and Ginny (Joe) Marria; grandchildren, Garrett, Dustin and Rebecca Waldron, Victoria and Thomas Rooney and Evan Elkins, who lovingly called him 'fireman Ed.'
Ed was predeceased by his parents; as well as his brother, David; and sister, Sally.
Ed leaves many friends and family who he loved dearly, including Scott Morcaldi, Leslie Bernauer, Kristin and Michael Elkins.
Ed served in the US military during the Korean Conflict. He was a firefighter in Torrington, CT for 28 years and was a courageous officer in the fire department, receiving many accommodations for his rescue efforts.
Ed was also an outstanding and talented athlete who played semi-pro basketball as well as being an avid golfer and tennis player. He was passionate about the St Louis Cardinals baseball team and had an amazing knowledge of players, statistics and the sports world. Ed was very patriotic and loved his country. He was never without an American flag pinned to his lapel. Ed was a faithful parishioner of St Agnes Catholic Church in Naples. He was known for his sharp wit and his fun sense of humor. Hundreds of cards and messages that Ed has received, since the onset of his illness, are a testament to his kindness and thoughtfulness to others.
A memorial mass will be held 11:00 a.m, Saturday, September 21, 2013 at St Agnes Catholic Church, 7775 Vanderbilt Beach Rd Naples, FL 34120.
A reception will follow in the Club House at Carlton Lakes, Carlton Lakes Blvd Naples, FL.
Arrangements entrusted to Garfield Funeral Care, 5644 Tavilla Circle, Naples, FL 34110. (239) 596-5288.
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My condolences to your family.
Nick Alimonos
September 20, 2013
Ginny, so sorry for your loss.
Nancy Rowett
Nancy Rowett
September 19, 2013
Barbara we had many fun times with you and Ed. We loved playing mixed doubles with you guys. Love you, Kate& Steve.
Kate & steve Rubino
September 15, 2013
Will miss you dearly, Mr Barber. I always looked up to you.
September 15, 2013
We will miss seeing you dance up a storm at our parties. we shared some great time together,Lois & Michael.
lLois Mike Williams
September 12, 2013
I was saddened to learn of Eddie's passing. He was one of the good guys to play with and against in the rec leagues around Torrington. A great fan and competitor. And I shall always remember his kindness upon my mother's passing. Sincere condolences to the entire Barber family.
Mike Considine
September 10, 2013
Barbara, and the entire Barber family, sorry to hear of Ed's passing. As kids growing up,we were part of the Torrington North End gang. Friends then,friends thru life, and now, friends forever. Rest in peace, Eddie.
Steve Magyar
September 9, 2013
Larger than life, strong and tough. RIP Ed, Joe D. Burrville, CT
September 9, 2013
Our hearts go out to you barbara and to your family. You were so caring and loving to Ed.He was so very proud of you.
Sue sue and andy mitchell
September 9, 2013
Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you, Barbara, and your family. After all Ed's suffering, he is finally at peace. We wish you peace as well and the comfort of pleasant memories you had together. Fondly, Maryann and Jack Dolan
September 8, 2013
Thoughts and prayer for you and your family, my your dad be in peace
Gianna Dmytryck
September 7, 2013
The tennis community sends their love and prayers to you.Ed was a good man and you Barbara took such good care of him
Marie Smith
September 7, 2013
The tennis community sends our love to you and Barbara. she gave you tender loving care.
Marie Smith
September 7, 2013
Dear Ginny,
We are so sorry to hear about you brother's death. We hope your memories of him will be some comfort to you. You and the family will be in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Love, Carolyn and Dick
Carolyn and Dick Pacella
September 7, 2013
The Foresters of America, and our community,has lost a great friend. This gentleman was such an involved guest in all our lives. His legacy as a man of honor will be missed. Our sympathy to all the family, may they be comforted.
September 7, 2013
Forester's of America, Court Washington No. 67 Torrington, CT
September 7, 2013
Shelli, So sorry to hear of your fathers passing..I am happy that you have Tom by your side in this time of need
Steve Dmytryck
September 7, 2013
Ed was a great guy who you never wanted to mess with, that's for sure! He will be remembered for his strong character and bravery. Bill D.
September 7, 2013
Ginny and Family, We are sorry to hear about your brother Ed's passing. Our condolences to you and the Barber Family.
Dennis & Bonnie Andrews
September 7, 2013
To the family of Eddie- I'm so sorry for Eddie's passing. He was a great guy. I use to go to the Y all the time to see him play basketball for Alfano's. May he RIP.
Barbara Bambakidou
September 6, 2013
Ginny and Family,
Not sure if you remember, but we talked last year at your High School reunion about Ed. Marlene (Buccos) and I are so sorry to hear about Ed's passing. I went to school with him and we were good friends as kids. Our sincere condolences.
Marlene and Jim Barrante
Cheshire, CT
James and Marlene Barrante
September 6, 2013
Shelli, I remember how fondly you always spoke of your father. You inherited his strength and good looks. Sending you much love, Your college friend Beth
September 6, 2013
Elaine and I are sorry to hear about Ed's passing. We graduated with him.
Elaine Turri & Kay Abraham
September 6, 2013
rest in peace . we will miss you ed
Jim Downs
September 6, 2013
My condolences to the Barber family.
Emilio Zordan
September 6, 2013
Lori and I were very saddened to her that Ed had passed away. You two are the best neighbors anyone could ever hope to have. We're going to miss him.
Rob and Lori Dambrose
September 6, 2013
Very sorry to hear of Ed's passing. I knew Ed from my firefighting days at Torringford Vol Fire Dept. He was one heck of a strong and determined firefighter. When I was elected Chief of Torringford, Ed was the first from "downtown" to call and congratulate me. We got along very well in those days of career / volunteer relationships. Sincere condolences to the family.
Jack Wallace
Former Chief
Torringford Vol. Fire Department
Torrington CT
Jack Wallace
September 6, 2013
To: Dave and the Barber family,
My condolences on the passing of Ed, he was tough but fair most of the time, the old Moosehead days will always bring back fond memories....Jim Doyle
September 6, 2013
God Bless you Eddie, RIP
Bart Piorkowski
September 6, 2013
Shelli, so sorry about your Dad. Sincerely Jimmy & Esther Beebe, Longs, SC
September 5, 2013
Shelli and Tom, so sorry to hear about your Dad, our deepest regrets.
Tom and Nancy Hemenway
September 5, 2013
Ginny and Barber family so sorry to learn of Eddie's passing. He was a good man. I wish you peace
Dennis Santore
September 5, 2013
The Barber Family,
I'm sorry to hear of Eddie's passing.He was a big part of Torrington's rec leagues during the 60s and 70s. I have great memories playing with him and against him, always smile when thinking about those times. My prayers are with you all.
Charlie and Alanne Turina
September 5, 2013
My condolences to the Barber family. Eddie, thank you for your service to our country. Had many good times at Moosehead. RIP
Georg Gebrian
September 5, 2013
Ginny
So sorry for the loss of your brother Ed. I'm remembering our heated basketball games at the "Y"....he won every time!:) Please accept our condolences.
Jim & Brenda Bagnaschi
September 5, 2013
Had a lot of good times with Eddy,Playing ball for the moosehead with Nobby my brother John and the guys -Grump
Grump Crossman
September 5, 2013
My Dad and Eddy served for years together at the TFD. As a kid I looked up these guys, especially Eddy. To me Eddy was larger than life, a mans man. Althought I haven't seen him in years, I'll miss him. Just knowing Eddy no longer walks this earth saddens me. Go in peace my friend.
My condolences to the entire Barber family.
Jim Weingart
September 5, 2013
Eddy, may God Bless You and May You Rest in Eternal Peace! To Your Family, I am so sorry for their loss. Mario R. DePaoli (Retired Captain, TPD).
September 5, 2013
Dear Barb,
John and I just got home from NY to,learn of Ed's passing. We so wanted to see him last week but were caught up in our getting ready for our trip. It had been so great to see him when we did.
We are just so terribly sadden to hear this and are upset that we just didn't get there again.
Will get in touch with you
Sunny and John Drohan
September 3, 2013
Dear Barb,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for Ed, who was very courageous during his illness. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Peace, Prayers and Blessing.
Carole and Tom Tuckerman
CAROLE TUCKERMAN
September 3, 2013
Dear Barb, I pray that you and Ed heard my phone message, last week as I was able to skip away for the weekend and spend time with my grandchildren. Just got home today, to learn of Ed's passing. My prayers are with you and you may get intouch with me ANYTIME. God bless you ALWAYS!
Jan Eucalitto
September 2, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear of Ed's passing; I met him when he worked at Bonita Bay's golf courses, and we found that we were both from Torrington! A fun person to talk to; he will be greatly missed.
Sally Giffor
September 2, 2013
Hi Barb,You know how sorry we all are about Eddie See you soon. Love, Ginny,Joe and family
September 1, 2013
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