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May 01, 2015
Dr Nero lovingly cared for 5 of my cats over 17 years, and gently helped me say goodbye to 3 of them. I was about to bring him the 4th when I heard he was gone. Though it's been awhile, for me the news hurts like it just happened. He will always be missed by the many lives he touched.
Sincere - if belated- condolences to his wife, family, and staff~
February 09, 2015
Years have passed, but he will never forgotten. Miss you and your kindness. Look down on my cats all the cats you helped. God Bless my prayers are still with you. RIP...........
February 09, 2015
I think of Tom everyday
I wrote a song for Tom, for some happy moments in his life take a look..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yTee6YeBGo
February 08, 2015
He taught me how to cook. Thanks Tommy.
February 07, 2015
May 05, 2014
I have followed the guest book entries for a year now - I still cannot believe Dr. Nero is gone - I think about him often and my last visit with him shortly before he passed when he took photos with his phone of my beautiful cat. I think he will stay in the hearts of many people and the wonderful cats he helped over the years. I feel his spirit lives on at the clinic. Time does help heal but no one will ever replace our dear Vet - Dr. Nero
May 05, 2014
Within a couple of days of learning of Dr. Nero's passing, my path unexpectedly crossed with a sweet black and white cat, with markings very similar to my cat, Buster, whom Dr. Nero had taken such great care of many years ago! I never thought I'd get another black and white cat, but it was clear to me this little guy was meant to be mine and he was a gift from above. Angus has a great personality, is very much his own "person" and without a doubt, I believe Dr. Nero had his hand in sending him to me! Thank you so much, Dr. Nero, for your many kindnesses and generosity of spirit … on earth and in heaven. Continued love and blessings be upon all your loved ones.
May 05, 2014
As this book will be closing, I can't help but reflect back on what a wonderful person Dr Nero was. So calm and reassuring, all my cats loved him. Even the most difficult moments were made a bit more bearable by his demeanour. He always took time to explain things and answer questions, never just brushed you off.
My condolences to the entire family.
Dr. Nero will never be forgotten, his kindness and love for our pets will live on forever.
May 04, 2014
I've been ever mindful that this book will close soon, knowing for the past year that I mustn't let it go without adding a few thoughts. It has seemed a daunting task. What does one say when one's world is shaken by the shock and heartbreak of losing someone who was such a crucial part of that world?

Last April I posted of Dr. Nero's passing to a small group of people who are especially thoughtful and caring. One replied (and I'm sorry to paraphrase, because he said it so beautifully) that sometimes the sudden loss of someone in your community, particularly a deeply trusted support person with whom you're very familiar, though not necessarily a close friend, can be more shattering than other losses. There's something about that loss that deeply rocks one's sense of stability and comfort.

I started with Dr. Nero a year after Cat Clinic opened, and from the first moment, I knew I was in the right place. Through the years of routine checkups, a few illnesses and treatments, and the inevitable sayings of goodbye to our precious friends, his calm expertise was of supreme comfort. I treasure the memories of our all too brief conversations whenever he had a few extra moments -- about cats and their ways, about their (and our own) nutrition -- and while it would have been wonderful to discuss flying and other mutual interests, there was just never quite the time for it.

To Betty Nero, I want to say that through the sadness of last April, I thought then, and I still do, that the most important thing in the world was to preserve Dr. Nero's gift to the community, that any loss of the Cat Clinic he created and believed in would have left a crater at the heart of Danbury. We will never be able to thank you enough for keeping his vision alive. We loved him, and had the highest regard for his practice.

With condolences and best regards always,

Charles, Nathan, and Kristi

And of course: Muffin, Taffy, Jack, and Barrett, who have passed on -- and Poe, Mikey, and Kali, who continue to enrich our lives every day.
May 02, 2014
It's been a little over a year now, your 1 year birthday in heaven, now with your mom and dad, God Bless you all, I miss you so much Tom, so many times I think, how I wish I could talk to you, ask you about something, or just to say thank you for being there and being you...you were the best thing to happen to me for my furry babies...I am pretty sure you must know how much you were loved, cared about, respected and you are missed so greatly by so many! Wish you were here! Heaven is so lucky to have you! God Bless, Grace
May 01, 2014
This book will close in a few days, but Tommy's book goes on. He was a good friend, a Renaissance man, and an unforgettable character in our lives. See you around, T-Bone.
March 18, 2014
I have been with Dr.Nero since he began his practice in 1993 with my cat Patches & then for the next 18 years with my cat Guinness. He was always so gentle and sensitive with not only my cats but to me, especially when we were going through such difficult times when they were sick. I am so sad to have heard of his passing. I will miss him & wish all his family and staff strength through this loss. I am in disbelief.
January 04, 2014
It's hard finding a good vet, so when we took our (3) cats in for checkups, I met Tom, I felt like we finally found someone we could trust, respect, like, and his vibe was such that you coudn't help but feel a warm, generous spirit inside. I first heard of his passing this past summer, and like many others here, was in shock! How could such a healthy, vibrant, good person be taken already? Because only the good die young, and I guess he accomplished what the universe set him out to achieve. My heart goes out to his friends, families and loved ones, so for them, know this: Our souls are eternal, which there is more and more evidence supporting this phenomenon, See http://www.soulsurvivor-book.com/, and http://wedontdie.com/home.htmld

May you find peace in this life. We'll all get to see Tom in the next!
November 14, 2013
May God Bless you you have done a tremendous job my heart goes out to the family
August 16, 2013
I found out about Dr. Nero's passing from an acquaintance to whom I recommended the Doc to. I was totally shocked, and wish that I had heard about it back in April so that I could have paid my respects. He had been my cat's vet for fourteen years and I would not trust anyone else with her health, and he always treated her with respect, even when she was at her grumpiest (which was more often as she grew older!). He will be greatly missed.
August 13, 2013
GOD BLESS YOU FOREVER....HEAVEN HAS GAINED AN ANGEL..........
August 13, 2013
I was just at the office picking up meds for one of my cats Leo when I found out about Dr. Nero. I was so shocked and upset. I couldn't believe it. One of my friends told me to go to him for my cats. I was new to having cats and he answered all my questions. It started with 2 cats and now I have 5. One of them Leo had some problems which he solved. He was so kind and truly loved the animals. I loved going there with them 2 at a time. 2 sisters one tough and 2 brothers also one tough. I remember him saying to me after they got their shots and one he couldn't examine. I'd say is he or she alright and he would say if they act like that they are healthy. My single cat Patches is a big cat. He would hold her and say. You feel like you about 20 pounds and laugh. He will be greatly missed my many, me and my cats. May God Bless him and his family and friends.....Heaven has gained a special angel whom will take care of the animals up in heaven and look down on the ones down here. He will live forever in our hearts and prays. RIP and thanks for being there for me and my cats you had such a special gift......
July 29, 2013
I am beside myself today and in shock having just found out that out that Dr. Nero passed away in April. It's hard to explain but it felt like I just found out I had lost a close friend. He was a great vet and I have trusted him implicitly with my two cats since 1995. My condolences to his wife, family and close friends. He was a very special man. Rest in peace Dr. Nero. You will be deeply missed.
June 14, 2013
To Betty, Virginia, and the Nero family,

I recently found out about Dr. Nero's passing from a veterinarian that I work for. I wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear of your loss. 10 years ago I worked at the Cat Clinic for Dr. Nero. He was a great veterinarian and truly loved his job and all of his patients. My thoughts and prayers are going out to all of you at this time.
May 10, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Nero saved our cat Oscar's life. He was the only person who recognized the issue and immediately treated Oscar. Please accept our deepest sympathy and condolences. We will truly miss Dr. Nero.
May 06, 2013
They say the hurt of losing a loved one gets better over time, God speed to Tom's family and friends. Betty, I loved seeing the YouTube picture tribute you created of Tom for us, it brought to me a lot tears and smiles. Thank you. Tom, you were loved by so many, our four legged babies and their "mommy's and daddy's". We were so blessed by knowing you.
May 05, 2013
I want to tell you how sad I am to know that my dear friend Tom passed away. He was a wonder doctor to my cats, Alice and Trixie for their 19 years.
I hope time and memories help the hurt you are feeling now, just know who much Tom's good work affected all of us.
He will truly be missed.
May 05, 2013
Thank you all for your kind words and for sharing your memories. Click the link for my video tribute to my husband.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uk6_03gjdHM
May 03, 2013
Deepest sympathies. Thomas is watching over you.
April 27, 2013
I would like to offer my condolences to Dr. Nero's friends, family, and colleagues at the Cat Clinic. He was far and away the best vet I ever brought any of my animals to. I just went to get my cats their prescription food yesterday when I found out and was crushed to see this obituary on display. What he has done with the Cat Clinic is truly remarkable and he will live on through the clinic. This is a huge loss for our community, and to Dr. Nero's friends and family, you have my deepest condolences.
April 22, 2013
I'm so sorry and sending prayers to the family, friends and staff of Dr. Nero. I have always gone to him since getting my first cat back in 1996. I feel like I've lost a close friend.
April 19, 2013
I had to pick up my Mickey's medicine and was very shocked to hear of the passing of a great docter. My prayers go out to his wife and family, friends & to the employees that worked for him.
My family & all the many cats we had were very blessed to have him in our lives and will truly miss him. God has a great docter working for him now & my God be with you all at this time.
April 19, 2013
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yTee6YeBGo

video tribute for Tom
April 17, 2013
I am very saddened and shocked at Dr Nero's sudden passing. I have been bringing my cats to him for the last 7 years, and he has always been very patient, kind, knowledgeable, and helpful. Of all of the vets I have been to, Dr Nero is the only one that seemed to genuinely love the cats - he would always hold them and cuddle them at least a little bit after the exam, which none of the other vets did. My deepest sympathies go out to everyone at Cat Clinic and all of Dr Nero's family and friends.
April 17, 2013
I would like to send my deepest condolences to the Nero Family for the lost of their beloved Dr. Nero. I knew Tom as a young boy and then years later he became my cats' doctor. He was the best and a true professional. I as well as my cats will miss him. May you rest in peace.
April 12, 2013
TO THE FAMILY OF DR. NERO WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.WE WERE SO SHOCKED TO LEARN OF DR. NERO'S DEATH. WE WERE PATIENTS OF HIS FROM THE BEGINNING AND OUR FAMILY STILL BROUGHT THEIR CATS TO THE CLINIC. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND GIVE YOU COMFORT. ROGER AND BETTY LOCKWOOD
SUMMERFIELD FL FORMALLY OF DANBURY CT.
April 12, 2013
dear betty, our hearts are broken for you. praying God gives you strength and calm one day at a time. we love you. marilyn & tom brooks (your cousins)
April 12, 2013
I am shocked and saddened in ways I can not express. I have been going to Dr. Nero with my cats since 1996 and I couldn't have had a better veterinarian EVER. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and staff.
April 12, 2013
My husband and I made a routine stop at the Cat Clinic yesterday and were stunned to learn of Dr. Nero's death last week. The tears of the staff as they relayed the news were visible proof of the respect, affection, and appreciation they felt for Dr. Nero as a veterinarian and as an individual. We had complete confidence in him and feel an emptiness in his passing and great sadness that so much goodness has gone. Our deepest sympathy goes to his wife, family, and friends.
April 12, 2013
I am in shock. We just brought our cat Sadie into his new place in the Germantown. He will be missed by so many of us and our pets. Prayers go out to his family sorry for your loss. Great man.
April 11, 2013
April 11, 2013
I would like to add my condolences to Dr. Nero's family and the staff at the Cat Clinic. As so many others have said, he was a wonderful,caring, compassionate doctor and person. I can't believe he will not be caring for Duke or any future cats any longer. He helped me through the passing of 3 previous cats over the many years we visited the Cat Clinic, 1 as recently as last month. With deepest sympathy, Terry Clayton & Jocelyn Clayton
April 11, 2013
We extend our heartfelt synpathy to Dr Nreo's family - he was a special vet and we had been with him since the beginning - so gentle and caring -that is a gift not many people have.
A very sad time for all of us -
April 11, 2013
Dr. Nero touched my life in ways he could have never known. He offered me a job as a vet assistant when I was 17 during a job shadow day. I glady accepted and began working for him. He taught me so many things about medicine and medical procedures as well as smart business practices. This led me to where I am.today, about to begin nursing school and eventually become a FNP and run my own practice. He was one of the main reasons I chose this career path. He was such an amazing, caring person. He truly cared about each one of his patients and their owners. He would take the time to explain procedures, medications and treatments. He will be missed by so many. He was an incredible DVM and person. All of us who were blessed to have known him are better for it.
April 10, 2013
Today we gathered to honor you and give our love and support to your dear wife, Betty and your family. You were taken away too soon from all of us, maybe that sounds selfish, I think not, our babies have lost a fantastic vet and friend, Tom, you were loved by so many, I hope you knew that. Rest in peace my sweet friend, I know my Sebastian was up there to greet you, you remember him, "Tri-pod", please give him a hug for me....
April 10, 2013
Shock and disbelief hit me last night 4/9/13 when I asked at Elmers Diner to see the daily paper. While looking at the recent deaths page I saw Dr. Thomas Nero's name. In 1993, I adopted 2 cats: Belen and JJ (mother & son-their owners were moving back to England). I always brought them to the Cat Clinic for check-ups, boarding, and a very difficult an dangerous surgery for Belen, which turned out to be very successful-MANY THANKS TO DR. THOMAS NERO! For the first few years,his mother Mrs. Nero helped him out at the Cat Clinic. Two cat quilts used to line my cat carriers were purchased by me. They were hand made by Mrs. Nero. She has an excellent memory and recalled my buying paint at the Nero's Paint store on Elm Street in the late 60's to paint my mother's kitchen & living room. His wife who is an artist, whom I have never met, made a wonderful paper mache cat and ceramic mural for his office. His family was truly involved with his life. I no longer have any cats and am very greatful for the wonderful care Belen and JJ received in the Cat Clinic by Dr. Nero.
April 10, 2013

So very sorry for the loss.
April 10, 2013
Very sorry for your loss.
April 10, 2013
I am devastated to hear the news of the Doctor's passing. He was one of the kindest souls I ever had the chance to meet; it was as if he truly could talk to my pets. My sincerest condolences to his family and friends.
April 10, 2013
This picture of Tom is exactly how I remember him. I worked with Tom when he first started out at Bethel Vet and couldn't believe how compassionate he was toward the animals. My best memory and the one I will be forever grateful, was when Tom came over on Easter morning to put my dog out of his misery. My deepest sympathy to all Tom's family and friends. He truly was a very special person.
April 10, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Dr. Nero will be missed by myself, Tazz, Furby and Joel. He was so great with myself, Tazz (when he broke his leg) and George (who died last year a 4 with heart trouble).
April 09, 2013
Dr. Nero, it's heartbreaking that you are gone. You were an amazing vet and human being, so kind and gentle. You really loved cats and enjoyed each one's unique personality. All our cats had the best possible care from you and your staff, even Indy Boy of the red sticker. You will be greatly missed by all.
April 09, 2013
WoW wha news!!!. We've only greeted each other a few times but during those timse you were so pleasant. My deepest prayers go out to your family.
April 09, 2013
Tom was one of the first veterinarians I worked for in Bethel. He was a fantastic mentor, fabulous chef, and phenomenal guitarist. He will be truly missed.
April 09, 2013
Our cats and their human proprietors pass along their well-wishes to the staff and family of Dr. Nero. Dr. Nero was a very special person who combined skill, compassion and practical sense in treating all of our cats. Dr. Nero will be sorely missed. We still can't believe he is gone and so quickly.....
April 09, 2013
Such a great person and a inspiration to many, he will be so missed by so many. God has a plan and we are all liucky to have had Tom for the little time we did.... Too soon for us all to see him go.
April 09, 2013
Dear Betty, I'm so sorry for your loss. My condoleneces to you and your family.
April 09, 2013
Dearest Betty, I am so saddened to hear of Tom's sudden passing. Without a doubt he was a gift and gem! His wonderful energy, mean guitar playing and great hugs will be sorely missed. I am grateful and blessed to have known him. Keeping you and the family in my prayers.
April 09, 2013
So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
April 09, 2013
Betty, my heart is just breaking for you and no words can adequately express my sorrow. Tom gave our cats excellent care and was always sensitive to the financial impact of multiple surgeries, often discounting costs for us during tough times. He will not be forgotten. You are in my heart and prayers.
April 09, 2013
I am heartbroken upon hearing news of the sudden passing of Dr. Nero! My thoughts and prayers are with his cherished family and beloved staff at the Cat Clinic. May you find a measure of comfort in the outpouring of all the love people have for him. He was an amazing human being and I will be forever grateful to all that he did in his care for Buster and Wyatt as well as the many kindnesses he extended to me. From the moment I placed Buster in his caring hands in 1993 to the last time I had Wyatt there, I always knew they would receive the best care possible because that is how Dr. Nero was - he always gave his best to his patients. It was easy to see how the loving compassion and concern he expressed to all of the animals placed in his care translated to all aspects of his life and how he lived it - with joy, humor, quality and integrity. I celebrate his remarkable life and from the depths of my heart, I was honored to know him. Heaven has now welcomed another St. Francis!
April 09, 2013
My vet, Tom Nero, died last Thursday.
I was very sad, and I cried.

My cats came and curled up next to me. They were sad, too.

They told me I should think of ten good things about Tom so I could tell them to everyone else who cared about him.

So I did.
1. Tom did not suffer fools gladly.
2. Tom demanded and gave excellence in all things.
3. Tom was generate and compassionate to all animals and to (most) people.
4. Tom loved to make things that made the world around him a better place: like music, photographs, houses, offices, kitchens, food and friends.
5. Tom brought an extraordinary level of creativity and craftsmanship to everything he designed and built.
6. Tom had that rarest of qualities, common sense.
7. Tom believed in right, wrong and justice – even after all these years.
8. Tom had an impish, sardonic wit.
9. Tom was brave.
10. Tom loved cats.
April 09, 2013
Words are not enough to exprve welcoemd our sorrow and loss. Love to you Betty.
April 09, 2013
Dearest Betty,
I am so sorry for your loss...I've known you guys for over 30 years. I haven't seen Tom in years but would always catch up in May around our respective birthdays. Our deepest sympathy. Robin, Doug, and the kitties Chester and Max.
April 09, 2013
We have such amazing and fond memories of our adventures in the Philippines, where we met Tom. We romped around in our early twenties and lived life to it's fullest. Always feeding off one anothers enthusiasm for life! Tom "showed us the ropes" many times in our travels! We were fearless and laughed our way through many culturally shocking situations. His creative juices always flowing, inspiring us all. He taught us how to see things through the eyes of wisdom, humor and reason.
Tom will live on forever in our hearts!
We love you Betty!!!
April 09, 2013
I am so sorry to learn this.
April 08, 2013
Doctor Nero, your legacy and clinic will always shine on. Cats and their owners will alway be grateful for what you have done for us. God Bless you, and my deepest sympathy to the Nero family and workers at the Cat Clinic.
April 08, 2013
T, I'll see you again FURTHER ON UP THE ROAD.
April 08, 2013
T, I'll see you again FURTHER ON UP THE ROAD.
April 08, 2013
My cats will miss you Dr Nero as I will
April 08, 2013
Dr. Nero - we will miss you greatly. Thank you for taking care of us over the years and scratching us behine our ears. We loved you for that !
April 08, 2013
Tom was very much a Dr. Dolittle, of sorts, in his uncanny ability to talk to the animals. His soothing nature calmed even the craziest of my cats and I will be forever grateful to him and his amazing staff for the loving care and concern always shown to my beloved pets. I do believe that Harley and Winslow understood the very sad news I conveyed to them, through my tears.

My heart goes out to Tom's family, friends and incomparable staff. What a legacy he has left behind.
April 08, 2013
My heart is broken. Dr.Nero you lef us much to soon. Your professional, compassionate and human manner are qualities I won't forget. There will always be a place in my heart for you. Thank you for all the loving care you gave to all my kitty cats over the years. Peace and comfort to your family, friends, staff and all your clients. We'll miss you dearly.
April 08, 2013
There are no words to express how we feel at this moment. I'll always remember how happy Dr. Nero looked in the new office.
April 08, 2013
Tommy, we called you cousin but you were like a brother to all of the Shakers. Farewell brother.
April 08, 2013
We were shocked to learn of the tragic passing of cousin Tom at such a young age. These things shouldn't happen. He was a wonderful guy and we will all miss him. The world has prematurely lost one of the good ones! Love, Richard, Kathy, Alice and Jimmy
April 08, 2013
My deepest sympathies to Dr. Nero's family and the staff at the Cat Clinic. He treated Riley with so much care and respect (although Riley is a handful). Dr. Nero will definitely be missed by all his patients.
April 08, 2013
Our deepest sympathies go out to Tom's family. He was a great man and it was always a pleasure to see him throughout the years at Swift Aviation. We will miss talking with him and hearing about his flying experiences very much. Please let us know if you need anything.
April 08, 2013
My cats weren't happy to see Dr Nero but I always was. I loved the atmosphere of the waiting room, the staff - Dr Nero created the most unique, calming environments for my cats, and it was obvious he loved his work. His kindness and compassion were evident when difficult decisions were necessary. He will be missed.
April 08, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Dr Nero's family and his wonderful staff at the Cat Clinic.His compassion and understanding when I had to put my Peewee to sleep will never be forgotten.I am saddened that my Gizmo will never get to know him.You will be missed.
April 08, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to Dr. Nero's family, friends and staff. He treated every cat that walked into his office as his own pet, and every person as his own family. Dr. Nero's kindness, skills, and joy of his work and life will be sorely missed and never replaced. Thank you, Dr. Nero, for everything you did for all my feline friends (past and present)
-Emily, Constance and Carlton
April 08, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Nero Family and the Cat Clinic Family. Thank you Dr Tom for your caring and compansionate ways. You will be missed by all who had to pleasure of knowing you.
April 08, 2013
I am so sad and shocked to hear the news. Dr. Nero was regarded as much more than Reese and Gizmo's vet. After knowing Tom and his practice for almost 20 years, we always felt like part of his family. Always soft spoken words, great advice and care, and friendly smiles whenever we were there. My deepest, sincere sympathy to his family and his extendend family, the staff at the Cat Clinic. We will miss him and remember his kind ways always.
April 08, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to Dr. Nero's family and his staff at the Cat Clinic. We were deeply saddened by the news. Dr. Nero was a wonderful person and an exceptional and caring vet. We and our four cats Audrey, Mindy, Emily and Merlin will miss him.

Sincerely,
Angie and Al Tonnessen
April 08, 2013
My thought and prayers are with Tommy's family. Tommy was a great friend, landlord, and doctor. I will never forget the Christmas morning when he opened his clinic to examine my kitty who had sudden liver failure. I know Tommy will be missed.
April 08, 2013
Cousin, you will be missed. A lot.
April 08, 2013
Our sincere sympathy to Dr. Nero's family and the staff of the Cat Clinic. Dr. Nero will be sorely missed by all, especially the cats that he has helped so much over the years. It is so sad. Our regrets to all.
Linda Oswald and family of Cally.
April 08, 2013
I remember Tom as one of the finest fellows I ever knew. My deepest condolences to Betty, and to Tom's wonderful family.
April 08, 2013
Tom Nero's warm smile, gentle spirit, and extraordinary range of talents will forever be etched in my heart.
There is no doubt all who knew him experienced this as well.
The special life and bond he shared with his beloved wife Betty was just as inspirational.
Tom was truly one of the "Good Guys" and will be hugely missed.
April 08, 2013
We were saddened to read of Tom's untimely death and will keep you and Tom in our prayers. We were among Tom's newest clients and didn't have the privilege of knowing him as long as others who have posted here. Our cats (Rumpleteaser especially) loved him. We will all miss him greatly.

Laura Atwood
Danbury, CT
April 08, 2013
Dr. Nero was the best Vet for my four cats. My deepest sympathy to his family and staff at the Cat Clinic.
April 08, 2013
I am so saddened to hear of our Dear DR Nero. His had such a great heart. I remember how Spraky lived for 20+ yrs because of his care and he had tears in his eyes when she passed. Then we had Merlin just a handful a cat with an audited at his office he lived for 17 yrs. He said he was sad that he never really got to know Merlin's kind side. Now we have Luna and Simba 2 and 1 yrs old. So caring is he that he said " So great to be able to pet these 2.
All the love and care he showed his patients & all that were blessed to have known him.
To His family, friends and staff I am so very sorry for all your loss. Words just can not express my most hear felt sympathy. He was such a wonderful man.
God bless you all.
April 08, 2013
To Tom's family and his Cat Clinic staff. I am so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He has been my vet for 20 years. His passing is a huge loss in this community. It seems God always takes the good ones. Tom is one of the good ones. Thank you, Dr Nero, for all you have done for so many years
April 08, 2013
Our thoughts are with Dr. Nero's family and the staff of the Cat Clinic..We are so saddened by his passing...our Orange Boy, Monster and Mother will also miss the good doctor...
April 08, 2013
Dear Betty,

My thoughts and prayers are with you, as we share the loss of your husband and our beloved friend Dr. Tom Nero.

I remember my first visit with a folder of Morgan's medical records, no cat, and Tom's reaction. What can I do for you with a twinkle in his eye. I explained the whole mess of a 12 week old kitten dropped in my lap - thought to be diabetic.

45 minutes later, I was a fan! I learned so much going over each test, I found hope, and I knew this man had a gift.

The next morning began the special journey of Morgan the Pirate Gato. He spent weeks at the clinic being regulated on insulin. Every time I would visit, he had more toys to play with. He came out for play time with Sam, Abigail and friends. He was turning into a happy go lucky healthy kitten.

Morgan and Tom shared a very special bond, and we celebrated each milestone together. Being healthy enough for neutering, his double cataract surgery at Cornell. I will always remember how much he smiled the first time he saw Morgan's new crystal clear green eyes.

Through each new challenge with Morgan, we smiled and Tom found a way to make him better. When Morgan needed a sonogram - Tom came in on his day off to do it.

I could write a book about the Doc and Morgan and how thanks to his caring - Morgan is here today.

He gave Jesse James an extra year of a happy life, when he had 2 types of cancer. He got Willow through herpes. He got Amigo through two horrible crystal bouts. He helped with trap/neuter/returns when feral showed up. The list goes on.

Heaven is a better place now that Tom has arrived.

Thank you for everything Doc - I know Morgan has a special Angel looking over him.
April 08, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the Nero family and Cat Clinic staff during this very sad time. I will be forever grateful for the knowledge, advice, compassion, and kindness Dr. Nero extended to my Cats Max & Tucker and the times you comforted me when my cats were hurt. Thank you for the thoughtful card you send when I lost my beloved Tucker. I never felt like it was just an office visit you always made it feel like they were an a member of your family to. You will be deeply missed! My thoughts are prayers are with you.
April 08, 2013
Dear Nero Family and Cat Clinic Staff,

Mere words cannot express our sadness on the loss of such a wonderful person. Please accept our warmest condolences. Dr. Nero was a very caring and dedicated vet with a kind heart. He had a special gift in the way he bonded with his patients. He will be forever in our thoughts and prayers. Thanks so much for all your help and superior service throughout the years. God Bless.

Sincerely,
Virginia, Sofie, & David Goncalves
April 08, 2013
Dr Nero took care of my cat and my best friend who recently passed away in a very loving and compassionate way. Dr Nero will be missed my prays go out to him and his family.
April 07, 2013
Our deepest sympathies and condolences the the family of Dr.Nero and the staff of the Cat Clinic.
April 07, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the family for the most loving and kind person I have known since working with Tom as a teenager to now my children coming to see the best doc to our animals. I respect him and love his passion for cats and always giving to all others and making there lives the most important! We will all miss you terribly! All our love to the family!
April 07, 2013
Betty, we are stunned and saddened greatly by this news of Tom--a lovely man who took care of our various cats for 20 years. Also, you; our hearts go out to you as you face this unfathomable loss of a true soulmate. We're here for you.
April 07, 2013
You will be sadly missed ! Thank you for all you did for Bently and Merlin.
April 07, 2013
Heaven needed Thomas and he is sitting at the right hand of God. Working on all of God's creatures. He is still a D.V.M in Heaven....
April 07, 2013
To The family of Dr. Nero and to the staff at The cat Clinic my deepest sympathy at your loss. From Mr.Toot and Ms Mida. Please dr Nero rest in peace.
April 07, 2013
Brother you will be missed
April 07, 2013
We will forever keep your candle burning in our hearts and thoughts! God Bless!
April 07, 2013
I am still having a hard time accepting that you are gone, never to hear you, talk to you, see that smile and see that glint in your eye, you were so much more than just a friend. My daughter had worked w/ and for you for over 20 years and loved every minute, you taught us so much and took care of all our kitties with as much love as we had for them. You have been taken away from us too young, rest in peace, our Dr Tom. My heart and prayers go out to Betty, his family and all of the Cat Clinic staff that have become part of the family as well. God Bless.... Cookie (Monster) and Miss Shellie will miss you so much!
April 07, 2013
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
April 07, 2013
My sincere sympathies to Betty, Virginia, the Nero and Ryan families and to the staff and patients whom Tom touched. I remember his sly humor and spirit at family get togethers many years ago. He will be missed.
April 07, 2013
Dear Betty, our prayers are with you. We were so sad to hear of your husband's passing, and can imagine how hard it is for you..Your cousins, David & Cassie Kormanicki
April 07, 2013
So sad and unexpected.

Tom was a great vet for felines and not only took good care of his clients' cats but also his clients during the difficult times when their "loved ones" were sick.

I know, I was one of Tom's many clients and when I had my three "kids" he and his staff took care of them as if they were their own.

He and his staff helped us through the most trying times when we had to make the most difficult decisions.

He will be greatly missed by so many.

Special prayers and condolences to Betty, Virginia and Joseph, his extended family and many friends.

Keep Tom in your hearts and memories and he will always be with us.

And if you have one, give your cat a hug for Tom.
April 07, 2013
Betty, I was so terribly sorry to learn of Tom's passing. You are very much in my thoughts and in my prayers. With my deepest sympathy, Siri Wheeler
April 07, 2013
Our dearest Betty, Our sympathies are sent to you with deep love. Tom was a very special person and will be deeply missed. We love you and are here for you anytime you want to get away.
Kim and Paul Komarnicki
April 07, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the Nero family and Cat Clinic staff during this very sad time. I will be forever grateful for the knowledge, advice, compassion, and kindness Dr. Nero extended to me and my feline family over the past 14 years. He will be sorely missed by us all.
April 07, 2013
May God bless you and your family at this unbelievably difficult time. You were a great man.
April 07, 2013
With deepest sympathy to the Nero family.
April 07, 2013
To Dr. Nero's wife,family and staff I extend my deepest condolences. The loss we all feel is beyond words. May you rest in peace, Dr. Nero. You gave Lily and Mochi the best care and I will be forever grateful.
April 07, 2013
To Tom Nero's wife, family, friends and his beloved Cat Clinic: He was a talented, compassionate man who will be terribly missed. He did something important extremely well. I will always remember him.
April 07, 2013
Condolences to his family and friends as he will be greatly missed by all the lives he touched....especially the animals he cared for. Jeanine Scotti
April 07, 2013
We were so saddened to hear of this terrible tragedy. Our condolences go out to his family and co-workers. Dr. Nero was the absolute best! He truly cared for our clan. Betty Boop, Sam, Emme, Cali, Midnight, and Izzy (not to mention us) will all miss him terribly. He always had such a great demeanor with all of us. We will never be able to replace him.
April 07, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with Dr. Nero's family, friends and all the staff at the Cat Clinic. I have brought my cats to him for years. He showed such compassion and love to all of them and will be missed.
April 07, 2013
Heartfelt sympathy to Dr. Nero's family and friends. He was a great vet and took care of my kitties for many years. A truly kind and compassionate man.
Fern Mamberg, Brookfield Ct
April 07, 2013
HE WAS A GREAT CAT LOVER . HE TOOK CARE OF SOME OF MY CATS,HE WILL BE MISSED.....PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY R.I.P.
April 07, 2013
It is a very sad time for all of us that knew Tom. He was a great friend to myself and my family. I am thankful for the times we had together playing music or just hanging out. I know he is missed by all. Rock on in Heaven Tom. ...Love...
April 07, 2013
Tommy my dear godchild, you lived life to the fullest and sadly departed way to soon. RIP
April 07, 2013
Our condolences to the Nero family. Dr. Nero was such a wonderful dedicated vet, our cats loved him and they will miss his smile and witty words as we will.
Linda and Marc
April 07, 2013
A great loss! He was a wonderful Doctor and a great man. Our prayers are with his family in this terrible time
April 07, 2013
our hearts are broken ,with deepest sympathies
April 07, 2013
We are absolutely heartbroken at the sudden passing of Dr. Nero. His talent, compassion and expertise in caring for cats made him stand out from the crowd. His loss is enormous for those of us in the rescue community who depended on him to provide top-level care with sensitivity to our budgets. I'm sorry I didn't know him outside of work because it sounds like those who did were truly given a great gift of his friendship and love. Our deepest condolences to his family, staff and friends during this very sad time.
April 07, 2013
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife Betty and his family
April 07, 2013
our hearts are broken, with deepest sympathies
April 07, 2013
This is a great loss not only for his family but for the community and the countless cats he has taken loving care of over the many years in his practice.
April 07, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Nero family and the staff of the Cat Clinic. Dr. Nero was a wonderful vet and a kind & compassionate man. He will truly be missed.
April 07, 2013
Thoughts and prayers. We will keep you in our hearts forever.
April 07, 2013
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Dr. Nero. He was truly an amazing Veterinarian and great musician. For over 20 years he has treated my family with the utmost care and respect. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, friends and to the wonderful staff at the Cat Clinic. We will truly miss you. Thank you, Dr. Nero.
April 07, 2013
You are in my Prayers, I got to see how hard Tom worked on his new clinic everyday and I still cant belive that I wont see him anymore, He was not only my vet and my neighbor but he was a friend. My geart goes out to the Family and the staff, may he rest in peace
April 07, 2013
The world has lost a great human being. He has touched so many people and pets. The heavens shine brighter now for his presence
April 07, 2013
The picture displayed in the guest book is our cat Jasper. If one picture is worth a thousand words,then there is nothing more that we can say.
April 06, 2013
This is not only such a huge loss for Tom's family, but for the community as well. What an amazing, caring, multi-talented man - and the very best cat doctor ever. I've been taking my boys Rocky and Ace to Dr. Tom since they were born seven years ago. My heart goes out to Betty and family and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 06, 2013
This is a sad day for all of us friends musicians and cat owners who Tom has touched our lives. Tom and I had so many plans together and I can't imagine he will not be here. He touched our lives with his love and kindness, I am so sorry for his passing. Tom now rocks in heaven forever.
April 06, 2013
My deepest sympathies to the family & friends of Dr. Nero. He was so good to my babies, Tiki & Mr. Cowie. The world has lost a great man. We will all miss you. May you rest in peace.
April 06, 2013
I've met two genuine people in my life ... Tom was one of them. His smile and easy way will be missed.
April 06, 2013
It was an honor to know Tom and to work by his side as he tended to his clients and patients. As a member of his staff, I looked forward to learning from him each workday. As his friend, we shared the love of music and enjoyed introducing each other to bands and musical artists the other didn't yet know of. His passing has left all of us at the Cat Clinic with broken hearts but also with many memories of the kind, compassionate, caring, incredibly multi-talented man that he was. I am grateful for the time I had with him. My deepest condolences to his dear wife Betty, his entire family, his friends, clients, patients and my fellow technicians. We grieve now but in due time may we all come to find peace in his passing and a meaningful way to carry on his philosophies.
April 06, 2013
My condolences to the Nero Family. A good man - A compassionate and dedicated Veterinarian.
April 06, 2013
Today we grieve the loss of our veterinarian and friend, Dr. Tom Nero. There are no words to express our sadness to Betty, Virginia and the staff at the Cat Clinic. You have been part of our family for 20 years. For the many many many cats that you helped, may God bless you and keep you near. RIP Tom.
April 06, 2013
My heart goes out to all of Tom's family, friends, and coworkers. Tom was incredibly talented, kind and generous -- a deep and gentle spirit and a beautiful, loving person. I am so sorry for your loss.
April 06, 2013
I am saddened to hear about Dr. Nero passing. He was an incredible Vet. Compassion and skill guided him always as he took wonderful care of his patients. The Cat world has lost a great friend.
April 06, 2013
April 06, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Nero Family through this very difficult time. Tom, you will be greatly missed. You were a great boss and an even better Vet. I wish so badly I could say goodbye in person. Rest in peace Dr Nero.
April 06, 2013
My heartfelt sympathies to Betty, Mrs. Nero and to my friends that worked with Tommy. I have known him for a very many years and I weep with you all. He was a great person and a wonderful Vet. I remember him crying with me when I had my Lawrence put to sleep. Tommy will be missed by us all that have known him. I am still in shock and I pray for his family.
April 06, 2013
To Dr. Nero's family and the staff at the Cat Clinic.
When I heard today about Dr. Nero. I was very shacked. He has made a name in Danbury and the surrounding towns as the Vet who "cared for my cats." Most of my cat customers came from the recomendation of Dr. Nero for grooming. He will be greatly missed. And a great loss for this community. Rest in peace Dr. Nero.
Cindy From Four Paws Grooming Salon
April 06, 2013
Dr. Nero 's compassion was unmatched...he was a gentle man who comforted his feline and human patients alike. He will be missed by so many. I am sick with sadness. I know all he cared for were waiting for him in Heaven!
April 06, 2013
Tom was my friend for nearly 40 years. We played music together, ate good food, talked cats, had fun. It's inconceivable that he is gone. Rest easy, Blackie...
April 06, 2013
What a huge loss for us all. Tom was one of those people we all had a story or two about. Great musician, terrific animal lover. And when it came to cats, well, everyone has a story there too.
I'm posting some old video to youtube. For all of us. May he forever rock on...
April 06, 2013
We are shocked and saddened by the news this news. Dr Nero has been more like a friend than a vet always so sensitive and thorough in his care for our babies. I will be forever grateful for his talent and compassion as he treated our beautiful Gabby for so many years! He will be so terribly missed. Our sincere sympathies to his family and staff.
April 06, 2013
He was such a special person. So sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and the staff of the Cat Clinic. He took such special care of my cats.
April 06, 2013
We are so sad for the lose of a great person. Tom was a great musician and veterinarian. Condolences to the entire family.. Joann & Richie Scarlet
April 06, 2013
So sorry to his family, friends & staff at the Catclinic . He will be greatly missed. His generosity never ceased to amaze me. We are grateful to him for 15+ years of care he so lovingly gave to all of my cats.
RIP Dr. Tom
April 06, 2013
For the family and the ladies at the Clinic, we are devastated at the news. Please accept our deepest sympathy. I cannot find even the finest words to express what a wonderful, caring, insightful Doc he was to all my boys over the years. I guess God needed the finest vet in Heaven about now. God's gain our utmost loss. He will always be in our hearts and memories, especially when I make pea soup.
April 06, 2013
I am just heartbroken. What a wonderful, kind and gentle man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and the staff at the Cat Clinic. Dr Nero will be so missed, by myself and Haley. Rest in peace.
April 06, 2013
Our deepest condolences to the Nero Family, there are no words to express our shock and sadness. Our many thanks for having him as our Vet for our two cats.
April 06, 2013
My condolences to Dr. Nero's family, staff and friends. He was a fantastic person who truly cared about his patients and I consider myself fortunate to have met him. May he rest in eternal peace.
April 06, 2013
Deep sadness overtakes me at this news. My love and prayers for all of you. Countless are the people Tom touched with his love, his smile, his care, his talent and skill. I thank God for the privilege of having him in my life.
April 06, 2013
To the family of Dr Tom and the staff at the Cat Clinic, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. He was always so gentle and kind to my cats Crystal and Smokey, and to all of the other cats before them. He was the only vet I ever used. Thank you Dr Nero for everything that you have done, especially for the recent work on Crystal. You will be missed dearly by all. May you rest in peace.
April 06, 2013
What a loss to our community. My thoughts & prayers are with the family at this difficult time. Dr Nero had a heart of gold. He has helped keep my furry friends healthy, at a reasonable cost for many years. Last February he helped us through a terrible, unexpected loss. Rest in peace Dr. Nero.
April 06, 2013
We will so greatly miss the caring hands which touched our girls, the gentle heart which saw us through a major loss and the good man whose loss we mourn. We are better for knowing such a kind soul. May God bless his loved ones.
April 06, 2013
We are so shocked and saddened to hear about Dr. Nero. He was a real hero in our household. He saved one of my cats and always gave the right advice with a lovely human touch. The reason I hired him as our vet was the way he picked up my cat. I knew he really liked them. He will really be missed. Condolences.
April 06, 2013
Betty, my heart broke at this news. Tom was one of the finest people I ever met. His loving and gentle care of my cats over the years was unforgettable and unmatched by any other veterinary professional. My very deepest sympathy to you and all who loved him.
April 06, 2013
To the family of Dr. Nero and to the staff at The Cat Clinic, our deepest sympathy at your loss. May Dr. Tom rest in peace.
April 06, 2013
I was shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Dr. Nero. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and with the staff of the Cat Clinic. We have lost someone who was honest, straight-forward and trustworthy with his clients and kind and compassionate with his patients. From the first time I saw him with our old man, Earl Grey, I was a fan. Through Earl's decline and passing, my respect and admiration for him was cemented. Many times, I would joke with him about disguising my dog as a cat, so that he would see him as well. I will miss his affectionate "Knucklehead" comments to my children, who were never afraid to ask him questions during visits. Although our loss pales in comparison with that of his family, he will be missed dearly by his feline fans and fanciers.
April 06, 2013
Tom was a great musician and a great guy. I am shocked to hear of his passing. This really hurts. Prayers go out to Betty and the rest of the family. He will be missed
April 06, 2013
To Doc's family and staff at The Cat Clinic. We are very sorry for your loss and you will be in are thoughts and prayers. My cats Gyspy and Angel were very comfortable with the Doc. He will be missed by all.
April 06, 2013
To Dr. Tom's family and the staff at the Cat Clinic - while no words can truly comfort you at this time, here's hoping that you will find comfort in knowing that those of us who entrusted him with the care of our beloved cats grieve with you and that you are in many thoughts and prayers. Thank you, Dr. Tom - may you rest in peace.
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