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Anthony Fappiano Obituary

FAPPIANO, ANTHONY PAUL, MD Anthony Paul Fappiano, MD, age 74, husband of Olive Fappiano of Madison, passed away unexpectedly on May 3 at Yale–New Haven Hospital after a brief illness. Anthony was born on March 15, 1940, in New Haven, CT to Paul Fappiano and Josephine, previously residing in Hamden, CT. He attended and graduated from Fairfield University and Yale University School of Medicine. Dr. Fappiano was employed by St. Raphael’s Hospital, retiring in 1992. He was a veteran of the Vietnam War, having served in the U.S. Army. He was a parishioner of St. Margaret’s Roman Catholic Church as well as active in Madison Lions Club, American Legion, and Knights of Columbus (4th degree). Anthony was a lifelong resident of Madison. He married Olive and they made their home in Madison. He was a devoted husband and father who cherished time spent with family. In addition to raising their children, he maintained his career as a Pathologist. He had a loving and gentle nature with a great sense of humor. He was predeceased by his wife and parents. He is survived by and will be dearly missed by his daughter, Susan Fappiano; brother, Paul Fappiano and his wife Stephanie of Branford; two sisters, Joyce Warzecha of Hamden, and Joanne Laporta and her husband Andy of Nevada; and many nieces and nephews. Anthony’s family would like to express their deep gratitude to the Madison House’s staff for their wonderful care and to Smilow Caner Center, and friends and neighbors for their many acts of kindness and support during his illness. Visitation hours will be May 7 from 4 to 7pm at the Swan Funeral Home in Madison. Funeral Services will begin at 8:30am at the funeral home, followed by the Funeral Mass at 9:30am in St. Margaret’s Church. Burial, with Military Honors, will follow in the West Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in his memory may also be made to Smilow Cancer Hospital and Madison House. To sign the online guest book, visit www.swanfuneralhomemadison.com

Published by The New Haven Register from May 5 to May 6, 2014.
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To the Fappiano Family,

I was privileged to have been a classmate of Anthony's at Helen Street School and Hamden High. His picture still looks like our Helen Street Class picture of him.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sandra Hart Makuaole

May 9, 2014

To the Fappiano Family, we send our deepest sympathy to Anthony's family

Sincerely,
cousins Al & Patti DeMatties Kissock {North Branford, Ct}

May 7, 2014

To the Fappiano Family, we send our deepest sympathy to Anthony's family

Sincerely,
cousins Al & Patti DeMatties Kissock {North Branford, Ct}

Patti Kissock

May 7, 2014

You have our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. May you find peace and strength through the love and caring of family and friends. If there's anything you need, we're here for you.

Love Vinnie & Debbie Marro

Vinnie Marro

May 7, 2014

Susan, you worked for me in chemistry. Your dad was a resident with us. He was a kind gentle man. I am so sorry that you and your family have lost him.

Carol Walker

May 6, 2014

Dear Susan, Your dad and my husband were Lions together for many years. I always looked forward to seeing your dad in front of the Madison Coffee Shop as the Christmas Season approached, but I also was privileged to visit him at Madison House. He, and you, will always be in my prayers and in my heart. Dianne Coyle (Mrs. Ray)

Dianne Coyle

May 6, 2014

My name is Anthony Vivenzio. Our families were neighbors in Highwood. Anthony and I were friends in our early years as we went through Newhall St School and Hamden High. We were a month apart in age and I will always remember him as a soft spoken and really gentle person and friend. Although we went our separate ways after high school he has always remained in my memory. Our sincerest condolences to Anthony's family.

Anthony and Barbara Vivenzio

May 6, 2014

To the Fappiano family; My name is Bill LaVelle, Tony was my classmate at Hamden High School. He was funny and kind and very generous of spirit. Many years later, I was at St.Raphael's Hospital in the emergency room with my mother, when Tony came walking by. He had his overcoat on, his briefcase in hand and he looked exhausted. He saw me and asked why I was there. I told him about my mother. He put his arm around my shoulder and told me he would see what he could do. He helped me so much that night. He stayed until he was satisfied that my mom was in good hands. I will never forget that.
He was a good man, a compassionate man and a wonderful human being.
I am so sorry that I will be out of state for the next few days.and not able to pay my condolences in person.
I am very sorry for your loss.
Bill LaVelle

William LaVelle

May 6, 2014

Susan, your a dad and I were first cousins. We were in the same home room in H.S., went to college together, both at Yale Medical School together and I introduced him to your Mom. They attended my wedding together. Unfortunately, when he moved to WA we lost contact and never rekindled our friendship. I did think of him often, however. I will always remember our fun times together! I'm so sorry for your loss.

Phyllis Kenes

May 6, 2014

Susan, call me if you need anything. Your cousin Greg in Las Vegas - (702) 997-1971

May 5, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss

Anthony Tramontano

May 5, 2014

will always remember our great neighbors and our growing up years with a tear and with a laugh love to you all

paula scalzo

May 5, 2014

Susan and family,
My most sincere condolences to you.

Scott Wermann

May 5, 2014

Sue

So sorry for your loss.

Steve

May 5, 2014

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