The right words are difficult at times like this, but knowing that you have family and friends that truly feel your pain, makes it a little easier.
Having known Ray since S.J.C. days, I did not have the pleasure of knowing Carl. I do know that he was in the hands of two loving parents.
Ray and Marilyn, Kathy and I send you our deepest regrets and know in time, things will be better. Every one is praying for that.