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Alyxx Sutley
January 12, 2023
I miss you so much your now sister Alyxx i got married 9-30 I wish you were there I know you are watching i love you big brother i hope you will be with me when surgery happens for me thank you for what you have done for your little sister when you were just a little 5 year old with mom i miss you
Doris Matthies
September 19, 2022
It's been 13 years without you...hard to believe!
still missing that smile.
Love forever
Gma
Doris Matthies
April 10, 2021
Always remembering
Never forgetting
Forever
Gma
Alyxx Parke
October 19, 2020
Its adrian your brother who became your sister Alyxx ill forever miss you
April 10, 2020
We always celebrated yours & Gpas birthdays together, now you're both gone. You both will always be in our hearts. Love & miss you both. Gma
Kellie Lynn
September 28, 2019
I was recently reminded of this poem I wrote after a butterfly landed on my head in the middle of the night...
Thank You for watching over us and sending little love notes by way of nature.
I Love You For Always~
Mum
On the wings of a butterfly
You flew to me
Softly landing on my knee
A gentle kiss
From the other side
An angel's message
That you're fine
~KL~
I Miss You Damien...
April 10, 2017
April 10, 2018
Remembering you & all your favorite things. We all sent a prayer to you & Uncle Doug on Easter..wish you'd been here! Happy 31st, Damien. Miss you so much. Gma & Gpa
December 26, 2017
Another Christmas without Damien. remembering all the fun times. Seeing your lego train under your Dads' tree. Miss him so much!
gpa & Gma
September 19, 2017
Remembering..the way you always bent down to take off your shoes when you came, how proud you were when you got the job @ Mercedes Benz, your smile, your "love you".
Miss you so much every day.
Grandma & Grandpa
Mom
September 18, 2017
I'll always remember the way the candle lit your face...
~I Miss You Damien~
Darla~
June 26, 2017
I think of you often. Today I ran across your memorial booklet. It still makes me so sad that you are gone. I hope you are enjoying the sights up there and keeping an eye out for your family. Love you Damien.
Lacie Brown
April 11, 2017
Damien,
Thought of you all day yesterday and how you should have been turning 30. I miss you so much and I wish you could meet Cyrus. I know you are watching over us and that your spirit will never leave. Watching Cy play with Nate's old Tonka trucks brings back precious, bittersweet memories of watching you and Nate turn bare spots in Mom's flowerbed into intricate construction zones. So grateful for those memories and all the fun times. Miss and love you.
Paula Matthies
April 11, 2017
Happy 30th Bday!..We miss you. Wishing you where her to celebrate. Love you Dad, Paula and Emma.
April 10, 2017
Wishing you were here to celebrate this special day. You are always in our minds, remembering all the fun times. Miss you so much.
Gma & Gpa
September 19, 2016
Missing you lots. Emma is going to be a Teenager this year (13)! She misses you. We all miss you. Thinking of you always. Love, Paula, Dad and Emma.
September 19, 2016
Remembering Damien on this sad day and every day. He is still loved & missed very much. Gma & Gpa
September 19, 2016
Still missing you...
I Love You For Always~
Mum
April 10, 2016
Remembering Damien today & every day.
We love & miss him so much!
Gma & Gpa
Private Kelton Kennedy
August 8, 2015
Damien.... I like to think of how proud you would be of me right now... I'm finishing AIT here in Fort Eustis. I've come a long way since you last saw me. I'm 18 now, I've got a good job, a plan for my life. I wish you could come to my graduation here. To see me become a soldier, it is one of the proudest moments the family has had. I miss you brother, but one day I'll see you again.
April 10, 2015
Remembering you today, your birthday,and all days. Wish you were here with us.
Love you,
Gma & Gpa
September 19, 2014
I think of you every day, but today, all day....what were you thinking on this day 5 years ago? I wish I could have been there for you to help.I hope
you knew how much we loved you.
Forever, Gma
September 19, 2014
Thinking of you today. Wish you where here missing you lots. Love, Dad, Paula and Emma.
July 4, 2014
Remembering how much you loved 4th of July, Damien.
Miss you so much!
Gma
April 10, 2014
It's your birthday..27!..but it's hard to say Happy when you're not here. We miss you so much & for all the new things you're missing.
Love you & miss you,
Gma & Gpa
Paula Matthies
April 10, 2014
Happy Birthday. Miss you lots..thinking of you today. Love, DAD, Paula, and Emma
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas, Damien,
We brought you a Christmas card today...we're all here tonight, but you're not. I hope you know how much you're loved & missed. It's not the same without you.
Love always,
Gma & Gpa
September 20, 2013
Had no idea that this guest book existed.
I keep finding sights to leave a message for you. We love you and miss you. You think about the good times. Love and kisses grandma and grandpa
Mary
September 19, 2013
Aloha To you young man I never got to meet you other than through your Mother. I know you look down on her from your perch up high please keep watch over her as I know she needs the strength that you send her.. Love Hugs Kisses Prayers and Much Aloha Always M
September 19, 2013
Miss your face <3
Lacie Brown
September 19, 2013
I think of you everyday. Thank you for the light and love you brought into my life and the lives of my family. You are a blessing. Missing you so much.
~Lacie
~Mum~
September 19, 2013
Always on my Mind...Forever in my Heart~
September 19, 2013
Thinking of you today. Miss you lots. Love Dad, Paula and Emma
September 19, 2013
Remembering the good times, Damien..
Wish you were here with us.
Miss you so much,
Gma & Gpa
April 10, 2013
Love is how you stay alive
Even after you're gone.
You're always with us.
Love & miss you,
Gma & Gpa
Paula Matthies
April 10, 2013
Thinking of you today. Happy B-Day. Miss you much. Love, Dad,Paula and Emma
Riley Kennedy
February 16, 2013
Big D, I think about you constantly , and know that you would be so proud of what I have become, but not a day goes by that I wish you were here with the family. I love you so much. <3
December 6, 2012
Every year you would call me on my birthday to say Happy Birthday and tell me you loved me. While I sit here as my birthday ends, I am thinking about how much I miss hearing your voice, saying those words. You were a wonderful son...it is times like this when I miss you so much.
I Love You For Always~
~Mum~
Lacie Brown
November 26, 2012
Damien,
Everyday I remember you. Everyday I miss you. Everyday I thank God for blessing my life with you. You were an enormous part of my childhood through your friendship with Nate. I will never forget how you looked out for me while Nate served in the Marine Corps. I will always think of you as part of our family. Thank you for all the fun, joy, and inspiration you have brought to my life. Missing you everyday.
Until We Meet Again~
~Mum
September 20, 2012
September 19, 2012
Whomever said, “Time Heals All Wounds.”; must have never lost a child. Some say the pain will lessen with time…I know they mean well, but nothing can fix the hole in your heart left from losing a child. We can fill these wounds with love and memories, but these wounds never truly heal. Damien, I try to remind myself that you are still with me…you are the sunset, the clouds, the stars and the moon. With every feather, heart shaped rock and pine cone I find, I am reminded that you are still with me, watching over me, with love. I Miss You My Beloved Son. …You are forever in my heart and always on my mind.
I Love You For Always~
~Mum~
Paula Matthies
September 19, 2012
Damien,
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. Your are always in our hearts. Love and miss you, Paula, Dad and Emma
Paula Matthies
September 19, 2012
Damien
There is not a day that goes by that we don't think of you. You are forever in our hearts. We love and miss you, Paula, Dad, and Emma.
September 19, 2012
Damien,
Miss you still and always will.
Gma & Gpa
One of the proudest days of my life...I'm blessed to have shared it with you Damien~
September 18, 2012
Darla
September 16, 2012
I think of you often and know you visit ocassionally....thank you. I always share when you visit me....with her. <3 Sayer has the crystal you gave him set up in a special opened box amongst his other crystals. Thanks for the good vibes Damien. Missing you.....
Kelton Kennedy
June 24, 2012
So much has happened Damien. And yet, every day, I wake up with the realization you are gone. The months roll by. And every one of them, there are few moments when you aren't in my head. I know you are there. Watching over us. And I know I have veered off course many times, but every time, something pushes me back on the right track. Thank you Damien. I miss you and love you.
~Kelton Lyn Kennedy
Lisa
May 29, 2012
Damien had THE biggest smile as a little boy--he lit up the room! I am so saddened to learn of his passing.
Condolences and love to you Darren-- I know how very much you loved him.
~Lisa
April 11, 2012
Not a day passes when you aren't thought of with love...I feel you in the wind...See you in the heart shaped rocks I find and the feathers you leave behind. You are the music, the air and everything beautiful I see. I miss you so much my son...Walk in Peace Until We Meet Again~ I Love You For Always~Mum
April 11, 2012
Happy 25th Birthday, Damien.
Sure wish you were here.
Miss you so much!
Love You,
Gma & Gpa
April 10, 2012
Happy Birthday. We miss you lots! Think of you everyday.
Love, Dad, Paula and Emma
September 18, 2011
Damien~
There isn't a day when I don't miss you, as waves of thunder crash within my heart. Only to be replaced with the beauty of the sunrise and sunset of that which was your life.
I Love You For Always~
~Mum
April 11, 2011
Another year passes and we miss you more...Happy Birthday, Damien.
Love You,
Gma & Gpa
Kellie Chapman
January 31, 2011
When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner that when you die the world cries and you rejoice.
Indian Proverb
Mum
January 5, 2011
There is never a day that I don't think of you. The days are long...the nights are longer...and every night I light candles to help me make it through.
I Love You For Always...
Until We Meet Again~
Mum
Kellie Chapman
December 25, 2010
Missing you today...and every day...
Merry Christmas Damien~
I Love You For Always
Mum
September 19, 2010
There are things we don't want to happen;but have to accept. Things we don't want to know; but have to learn. And people we can't live without; but have to let go.
Missing you so much, Damien.
Love you,
Gma & Gpa
Kellie Chapman
April 18, 2010
This is something I wrote on the eve of Damien's birthday...
Tonight I sit…heavy hearted…
As the day approaches. The day Damien was born. I’m a whirlwind of emotion, none of which I can pin-point. Other than the main one of overwhelming sadness. It’s been over six months now since he left this world. Yet, to me, it still feels like yesterday. I don’t know what to do with this pain. I am pretty sure that it will never truly go away. I was reminded recently by a friend that he wouldn’t want me to be grieving for so long. That he would want me to remember all the wonderful years we did have together. I know she is right, I’ve felt his presence at times…it makes him sad to see me this way…But I can’t help it. I miss him tremendously. I regret all the things that I didn’t do right, that I forgot to do, that I should have done when I did have the time. I feel like I was a terrible mother. I was so young when I had him. So caught up in my own life to really be there for him when I should have been. But then I am reminded by my husband…If I was such a bad mom, would he have loved me the way he did? Probably not. So I guess somewhere along the line I did some things right. Enough to let him know I loved him. And in return, he loved me. Even though I didn’t spend much time with him from the time he was twelve, he did always call me when he had a problem or something cool he wanted to share. In fact I think I was one of the few people in his life he could truly talk to and not be afraid of what I might think or say. He knew I would not judge him…he knew I would always stand by his side. I wasn’t just his mother, I was also his friend…and he was mine too. There were so many things he shared. Some funny, some frustrating, and some just heart breaking. I would listen, advise, laugh and cry right along with him. How I miss those phone calls…How I miss hearing him say, “I love you Mom”.
Damien’s nature was loving and kind. He was innocent and pure, up to a point. With a smile that could light up any room and a child-like laugh that was infectious. His memory was amazing, recalling things from when he was a baby, child, and yesterday. He was aware of energy surrounding him and of others. At times he found it hard to be around other people because he couldn’t handle the negativity they put out into the universe. He was awakening and it was wonderful to see. But unfortunately his life was cut short before he could truly understand all these things surrounding us. I’d like to think that now, wherever he may be, he has all the answers to the questions he was seeking. I like to think that he has gotten to see Greece like he always wanted to. I like to think that he is still with me, watching over his brothers, and still feeling the love we have for him. There are times that my friends and family come to me with experiences they’ve had. Ones they know were him contacting us from the other side. I like to hear these things…for sometimes I’m too shut down to receive any messages myself.
When Damien was a baby I spent a lot of time holding him, dancing with him as I sang. I remember that he loved hearing “The Joshua Tree” album by U2. I still to this day remember all the words to the songs, I always think of him whenever I hear any of them. Music of all kinds remind me of him, but for me, it will always be that album. His brothers and friends however would remember the trance music he loved…and the glow sticks they would swirl around while listening. Damien is music. Damien is the wind flowing through my hair. Damien is the bird that is observing me as I curiously look back. He is the moon, stars and sky…He is everything that makes me smile and reminds me that we are all connected. Not just while we are here on earth, but eternally. For Damien was an old soul…And I like to think that one day…maybe in another life…we will meet again. So, with all that said, I’d like to remember this day, the day of his birth…with love. I want to send out into the universe just how special he was and will always be to me.
Until We Meet Again, My Beloved Son…
Until We Meet Again…
I Love You For Always Damien~
~Mum~
janelle bloomberg gudal
April 14, 2010
i came you and to see you in the hospital when you where born.i will always remember going to the fair and you coming to stay the night with channing and i.we will always remamber you.xoxoxo
Gma Matthies
April 11, 2010
This candle represents just 1 of the 23 years you would have been yesterday. I hope you know how much Gpa & I miss you & will always love you!
Darla
April 3, 2010
I light this candle for you Damien. Thanks for your visits. I enjoy them!
adrian parke
November 16, 2009
And ive always wanted to be a dj and since ive known my older brother since i was a todler. ever since a todler i could sense spirits and in some cases only a small few "3" i seen them too. ive seen my grandma before id wake up in the early morrning and get this urge to look out the window and id see a white blob on the ground scurry across the law to under the deck. and i knew it was her since i knew when my pc monitor and light turned on that it was a sign. And when ever i feel upset i can feel his presense near and knowing that he is gone physicaly but not emotionaly its calming not depressing. and in his honor since he loved music and thats the reason i wanted to go through what i wanted to be and name my self DJ : DQM
Vickey Waters
November 16, 2009
I did not know you but I talk to your mom. She misses you so much. I love you K. RIP her son.
T. W.
November 15, 2009
To my dear friend K. and family. Sending all of my heart felt sympathies. Just remember Damien is with you always watching over you and know he loves you dearly as you love him. xoxoxox
MARY N NOAH WOLFE
November 15, 2009
I HOPE YOU ARE RESTING IN PEACE DAMIEN. YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH BY YOUR MOMMA. PLEASE HELP HER TO GET THRU THE SAD TIMES AND VISIT HER FROM TIME TO TIME IN HER DREAMS. BLESSED BE DAMIEN.
Kathleen Schonbrun
October 22, 2009
What a beautiful baby boy! He was such a joy to watch grow up.
He was very close to my girls in age-so we had many, many opportunities to be around him as he grew to be a young man.
He was more like a 1st cousin to my children than a 1st cousin once removed. We each have memories of Damien. This is one of my favorites.
Damien and Grandpa Gilbert built a birdhouse and gave it to me. I hung it in a tree. After some time I noticed a family of birds living in it. The next time I saw Damien I said "Guess what! there is a family of birds in that bird house you built." He just looked at me and quitely asked "Are they nice birds?" Yeah they were. Now that bird house sits under a tree and reminds me of Damien.
I had hoped to have had more memories of Damien. Instead I will cherish the ones I do have. I will always think of him with love. Aunt Kathleen
Darla B.
October 9, 2009
Gone too soon Damien :o( You are a beauiful soul my friend...May the techo lights and music play endlessly in heaven.
Joel Dunn
October 6, 2009
Damien was a student in my class at Canby High School more than one time. I really grew to appreciate the way he looked at issues from a different angle. He seemed to have a knack for just seeing things in a different, often better way. Always pleasant to have in class, never in a foul mood and always, always very polite. I have very fond memories of my time with Damien in class.
Riley Kennedy
October 5, 2009
Damien,
I will miss you so much. For we never did a lot of things. But all those moments Since I was little. Have the most meaning to me. You tought me so many things. And even though I acted like i wasn't listening to you I was. I am going to miss the techno music in the backyard. and the glowsticks all over the pool. Our movie watching nights and the days we would go tanning. I miss you and I love you Big. D.
Dawn Quick
October 4, 2009
I can't find the words so I will let music help me out...
"Dear my friend
If I could grab hold of these clouds I wonder if it would take me to where you are
And if we could meet again someday next time I'll grasp your hand tightly
So I can't lose you"-Miyavi
He will be missed but never forgotten.
Kimberly Miller
October 4, 2009
Damien was an amazing friend. I remember whenever I had a problem, he was always there to help me through whatever the situation was. I will always remember his smile, his laugh, and his ability to make others laugh. He was a great friend an amazing person. I will always hold him close to my heart. I love you Damien!
Kelton K.
October 4, 2009
My brother Damien, may you always have light and may I always love you, may your best dreams and wishes come true as you fly to the highest cloud or build the biggest city. May you always find your way and help others with their losses as you did ours, may your phone never run out of power and your candles never burn out. I love you and you love me, may we see you in the afterlife and may your guide teach you well. Your stepfathers daughter shall help you light the way for others and may your soul live on as it has been, for if it does not you shall lose us and we shall lose you. Always have 3, never 2, never 4, for keep the things you love and destroy the things you hate, as death is a experience like no other. If you die you see all the secrets and feel all the emotions. may you live on forever until your family and friends are with you, I promise to visit your memorial every 5 years on April 10th, and I promise i shall light your birthday candles on that day as well, for you are still alive and still growing and experiencing everything around you. I love you forever.
Erick Stone
October 3, 2009
Damien IS a good friend with a good heart.
I refuse the word "was".
No struggles ever seemed to keep him down for long. Not even death can keep him down. I'll see you later Damien. For there are no permanent good-byes.
Julie Jeseritz
October 3, 2009
Damien was a good friend in high school. He will be missed.
Annemarie Stief
October 2, 2009
My heart goes out to you Kellie and Darren. To have to say goodbye to your firstborn so young I cannot imagine. He will be gone but never forgotten, as our memories can never be taken away. My best wishes to the families.
Nils McCutcheon
October 2, 2009
Darren, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Be strong my old friend.
Kayla Berge
October 2, 2009
He was much more than just a friend to me. I just found out today... I miss him greatly as I imagine you do too. He was a good man.
Rachael Mandella
October 1, 2009
My words cannot express the saddness I feel for you Darren, Paula and sweet little Emma. Keep the memories close to your hearts always. Never forget his smile, his laugh or his ways. Take comfort in knowing he is watching over you all. XOXOXOXO
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