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Allyn Andress Obituary

ANDRESS, ALLYN J., age 52, of Bay Meadow Drive, Kissimmee, passed away on Sunday, Oct. 3, 2004 at Orlando Regional Medical Center. Mrs. Andress was born in Muskegon, MI and moved to the Central Florida area in 1997. Mrs. Andress was a Pre- School teacher and a member of the Lutheran Church. She is survived by her husband, David L. Andress of Kissimmee; sons, Jonathan and wife Angela Andress of Muskegon, MI, Jason Andress of Sacramento, CA, Christopher Andress of Kissimmee; mother, Audrey J. Malling and step- father, Gerald Malling both of Michigan; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Gene and Marlene Andress both of Davenport; sister, Melanie Williams of Lansing, Michigan; brother, Paul Malling of San Francisco. She was preceded in death by her father, Allen L. Fink. Funeral Services will be held Thursday, Oct. 7, 2004 at 11AM in the Chapel of Osceola Memory Gardens Funeral Home Kissimmee. Interment will follow in Osceola Memory Gardens Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 5-8PM, Wednesday, at the funeral home. Services are under the direction of OSCEOLA MEMORY GARDENS CEMETERY, FUNERAL HOME and CREMATORY, 1717 Old Boggy Creek Rd, Kissimmee 407-847-2494.

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Published by Orlando Sentinel on Oct. 6, 2004.

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David Andress

October 2, 2019

It is hard to believe that 15 years have passed since you left us. A lot has happened in those years, but one thing will never change. The love we shared, the beautiful time we had together will be lasting memories that I will treasure for an eternity. You are always with me, holding a special place in my heart.... David

David

October 22, 2017

I love you...

Jason

February 5, 2016

Happy Birthday Mom

October 3, 2015

Dear Punky...

You live on in my thoughts, memories, and in my heart. I miss you

Forever,

Your green eyes

Jason

May 10, 2015

Happy Mommys day
Love Baby Sita

Jason

February 5, 2015

Happy Birthday Mom

October 3, 2014

My Dear Sweet Cheeks...

It has been ten years ago today that you left us... Many changes have taken place, but one thing still remains the same... You still live within my heart, and are often in my thoughts... I miss you... thank you for being in my life....

Love always, David

July 27, 2014

Thinking of you today...

October 3, 2013

Dear Punky,

I had many memories of you today... This was the saddest day ever for me... I will never ever forget you... you always have a special place in my heart... Thank you for a wonderful life together..... I miss you...

Love, David

Gary Lindsay

September 17, 2013

Hi Allyn. I think of you often. Finally after all these years, I reconnected with Debbie McCreery. I have missed her too. Talking with her made us both think of you and what good friends we were as teens. A time when those good friendships were so important. Love to you. Gary.

May 12, 2013

Happy Mother's Day!!!

December 24, 2012

My Dear Blue Eyes,

Another Christmas is here... as always, you are missed... It is hard to believe the time that has passed...

We are going to have a grand daughter soon, she will be named Charlotte Allyn... Jill and I look forward to her birth...

I think about you often, and still cherish all the love and memories we had together, including all the great times each Christmas.... I know you are happy, and with God...

Love always, your green eyes

David

October 3, 2012

Dear Allyn,

It is a gloomy day out... always a sad day for me... It is the silence this morning... the memories of the worst day of my life are still very clear... Eight years have passed, and my heart has been mended... my life has moved on... I am happy again, and enjoying as much of life as I can with Jill... I know this is what you would have wanted for me...

Next April, we will be grandparents again... life goes on...

I am always mindful and grateful for my life that I shared with you... for all the laughter we shared, and the tears too... never alone... you will always live in my memories... in my heart...

The gloom of this day can never overcome all we had..... I miss you.......

David

May 18, 2012

Today would have been our 38th anniversary.... Happy anniversary punky! You still live in my heart...

David

February 5, 2012

Hard to believe today would have been your 60th birthday! I didn't forget...RIP Allyn

February 5, 2012

Dear Punky,

As always you remain younger than I! Today would have been your 60th birthday... I have fond memories of all the birthdays we spent together... each of them special... Happy Birthday blue eyes!!!

Love Fuzzy

December 23, 2011

Dear Allyn,

Another year past... another Christmas here... The pain of your loss has pretty much gone away... the memories and love we shared will last forever..... Merry Christmas punky!!

Love Green Eyes

Cindy Gilman-Sanader

May 19, 2011

I remembered your wedding day Allyn and thought of you and what a beautiful bride you were. My, how the time passes for those of us left behind.

May 18, 2011

Dear Blue Eyes...

I remember 37 years ago today that we were married. Thank you for all the wonderful years we spent together...

Love, Green Eyes

December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas Allyn...

October 3, 2010

My Dear punky,

I miss you... I love you...

Your Green eyes...

David

May 18, 2010

My sweet blue eyes...

May 18, 1974... We got married and spent a wonderful 30 years together before you were taken away from me... I will always remember this day, and the love we shared. Thank you for all the memories, three wonderful sons, your beautiful smile and everlasting love....

As you know, Jason and Amber have a new baby boy, Joshua. He is now 2 months old, and will have surgery today... This is a challenging time for the kids... But, I know that you are there with God, watching over little Josh, and keeping him safe...

You live on in each of our hearts every day... I miss you...

Love, your green eyes

Cindy Gilman

May 13, 2010

In loving memory of my dear friend Allyn...may you rest in Jesus' arms!

Cindy at Atlantic Beach, NC

Cindy Gilman

May 13, 2010

A major shock came late last night when I discovered I had lost a dear close friend I had known in Lansing, MI since 7th grade. Allyn's death seems impossible and it really hurt deeply when I found out she had passed on to Heaven well over four years ago. It's unbelievable. We had been bridesmaids in each others' weddings and David, his two sisters and parents had attended my church, not to mention Allyn lived around the corner and down the street from my house in my neighborhood. I was connected to the Malling and Andress Families more ways than one. I can't get over she's gone and at such a young age!

Sadly because Allyn and I each moved around so much and were busy with our lives and families, we lost touch and contact, but I never forgot our friendship! Allyn dear, you were always coming to mind and how I wished we could have seen more of each other. I was unsuccessful in locating her and David after many attempts, but thanks to the Internet I found what I needed to know and how tragic! My heart really goes out to David and her three sons, Jason, Jonathan and Christopher as well as to Audrey, Gerry, Melanie and Paul not to mention the entire Andress
Family.

You three boys don't know this, but I have photos your mom sent me when you were really little and also was aware you sang in a boys choir near Minneapolis/St. Paul. Years later when I lived 11 years in Des Moines, IA, I traveled to the Burnsville, MN area in hopes I could locate all of you, but by then you had likely moved away.

Reading all the guest book entries and looking at all the photos caught me up on how we've aged and matured these past 30+ years. Allyn never lost her smile and I recall fond memories of our times we shared together before our high school graduation from Lansing Eastern High. One time we borrowed her parents brown family van and Ruth Pardee, Allyn and I all ate a clam and shrimp dinner at Howard Johnson's at Frandor Center, then went to a high school play...I believe it was about Helen Keller. Afterward, we treated ourselves to dessert at Tastee Freeze.

Allyn one year rode daily with Mother and I to school and then in our senior year of high school, I was riding home with Allyn in one of her parents' green Datsuns. I recall sharing many phone calls with her as well as many times of laughter. We grew up departing Lansing and going our separate ways.

Allyn never once left my heart or mind. She will forever be in my memories. I deeply grieve her passing and am at a loss for words.

Please accept my belated sympathy along with my love, care and prayers. We must move ahead as I have with my own life and keep truly focused on what really counts in our lives...that is, making Heaven our eternal home and taking as many with us as possible. I look forward to one day being with Jesus and being reunited with all my friends and loved ones. Life is full of unexpected surprises and adversities, but we must always remember our time living on earth is short compared to the time we shall spend in eternity. We have this promise if we are Christians and ready to meet God.

To all of Allyn's loved ones...We may all be scattered like sheep all across America, but may God bring lasting comfort and heal your hurting broken hearts. May the Lord's peace abide with you until you are rejoined with Allyn in Heaven some sweet day. God be with all of you and know you are in my thoughts and prayers!

With Love & Deepest Sympathy,

Cindy

Jonathan

May 9, 2010

Happy Mothers Day, I love you and miss you.

David

April 13, 2010

always thinking fo you...

February 4, 2010

February, 5th... happy birthday blue eyes.... your are always in my heart... I love you....


Green eyes

David

December 23, 2009

My sweet blue eyes....

Christmas is upon us again... Jill and I have all the kids here this year... Amber and Jason are so happy with having a baby soon! Jill and I are very excited to be grandparents!! Jill possesses all the excitement you had when it comes to babies...

Lisa and Jon seem so much in love and ready to marry... Chris is done with college, and excited to find his way in this world!

Jill and I have been married four years now, and my life with her is wonderful!!! We share all of our time together, and are very much in love... I am so lucky to have found someone to love me so deeply...

This is always the time of year when memories of the past come flooding back... we all have enjoyed many fond memories of you, and our Christmases together. I treasure every one of them... being with you at Christmas made them that much more special... you always tried so hard to bring happiness to others...

You gave me the greatest gift of all... over 30 years of love, and companionship... you were my best friend, and our love for each other was awesome... you forever etched in my mind, your beautiful face, amazing smile and wonderful laughter... I miss you Allyn... I know you are with me, and I will always have a place for you in my heart... Merry Christmas!!!

Love green eyes

Jonathan

October 3, 2009

There will not ever be words to describe your loss. I miss you every day. Thank you for being supportive and loving and molding me into the man I am today. I love you

Chris

October 3, 2009

Miss you :(

David

October 2, 2009

Dear Blue Eyes....

This is a day that I will never forget....

Jill and I went to the cemetary today... there is never anything easy about that, but Jill is always by my side....

It has been five years.... and it is my hope that all of our family can finally move on with their lives...

When all of this happened, I thought of October 3rd as your birthday... your birthday into heaven... now you are five years old in heaven... Happy birthday Allyn... You know that I loved you with all of my heart, and that I still love you...

I am happy that you are somewhere better than here... I know that God has a plan, and I surely do not understand it.... but I know that I am happy again, and I know that I have moved on past our tragedy... I have learned to live, and to love again... I know that is what you would want me to do... that is your gift to me... you are always with me in my heart... you always will be... someday, I will see you again......

Forever,

Green Eyes

September 3, 2009

David, So sorry to hear about the loss of Allyn that you and your family have experienced. It was so untimely, way too early for her to have passed away. Wish we could have met up with you and Allyn one more time... Jim and Mary Caserta

August 23, 2009

Hey Mom, Amber and I are having a baby!!!! Miss you and love you lots
Jason

Jonathan Andress

July 31, 2009

I love you mom
I miss you

May 18, 2009

Today would have been our 35th Wedding Anniversary... Thank you Allyn for all the happy years we had together. I will cherish them forever....

Green Eyes

David

May 10, 2009

Happy Mothers day Allyn... It was a joy to raise our children together... We created many memories to last a life time... you were wonderful!

Jonathan Andress

May 10, 2009

Happy Mothers day Mom, Miss you very very much. Thank you for being the wonderful person that could turn any day into a good one. I love you

Gary Lindsay

March 4, 2009

To Allyn and her loved ones:

I found out about Allyn's passing in early October 2005. I was thinking about her and called Gerry and Audrey to see how she was doing. I had no idea she had died a year before. It truly felt like a knife in my heart, even after many years of not seeing her. I missed Allyn's memorial service and have recently connected with David. I want you all to know I love Allyn and she is always in my heart.

Jason

February 5, 2009

Happy Birthday Momma-Sitta

David

December 27, 2008

Dear Blue Eyes....

Another Holiday Season is upon us....

I have been thinking a lot about you, and all that we shared together... I am so very grateful for your love and affection over the many years we were with each other... My life has moved on now, and I am creating new memories and special moments with Jill. I know you love her too...

Our family is well, and we are all happy... moving steadily beyond our tragedy... we miss you, and love you everyday...

As we move on to 2009, never forget you are always in our hearts....

Love

David

October 3, 2008

Dear Sweet Cheeks,

Four years have passed since you left us... but not a single day has passed that I have not thought about you and the love we shared....

I miss you... you hold a special place in my heart forever...

Green Eyes

Jonathan Andress

October 3, 2008

Mom,
We lost you four years ago today. You are so deeply missed. Words cannot describe the intense loss. Thank you for being an awesome Mom being there for us with no hesitation. Thank you for all that have done for me, in making me a good person, with strong morals and values and being the best person that I can be. Seeking happiness, I know that is what you would want for all of us. I love you and miss you.
Your Son Jonathan

David

July 5, 2008

You came to me in a dream last night...

You helped me to see some things that I didn't understand...

It's funny how I used music all of my life to tell you how I felt about you, and in my dream last night, you told me through music how you felt about me and what happened to us... After you left, I was so caught up in my own feelings of loss that I never thought about your feelings.... I'm sorry.... thank you for sharing in a way to help me understand....

always know that I never doubted the love you had for me...

It was almost like a song.....

Love

David

May 18, 2008

Dear Sweet Cheeks,

This is our day.... 34 years ago today we began our journey together.... While I am still deeply saddened that you are no longer with me, I have used what I learned in our relationship to grow a new and strong relationship with Jill....

Allyn, you brought me many years of joy and happiness... I loved you with all my heart, and I still love you, knowing that you are with me in my heart...

Thank you for all that you shared with me over all the years we were together.... I have memories that will live with me forever...

My live now with Jill is wonderful... I am fortunate to have found two women in my lifetime that love me unconditionally... I am truly a blessed man.

I miss you... I really do.....

Love David

May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day to a wonderful mother & woman

February 5, 2008

Happy Birthday Sweet Cheeks...

It is a beautiful day here in Florida... The kind of day that you would enjoy...

I know you have found peace and happiness, without all the drama, hurt and pain we have here... I miss you always... I miss your smile!

Love always,

Green Eyes

Jonathan Andress

February 5, 2008

Happy Birthday Mom

Jonathan Andress

January 9, 2008

Mom,
I miss you and love you so very much, I think of you everyday, Thank you for all of the wonderful wisdom and knowledge that you have given me.
Love your son
Jonathan

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas Allyn...

Love always...

David

David

December 22, 2007

My Blue Eyes...

Jason and Amber are here with us now...

It has been a difficult time for me these past few days. I just want people to get along...

Today we went to the cemetary.... all of us felt your presence.... you helped us to releave the emoitional stress that draged us all down...

You know I miss you... always...

I will always love you...

Jonathan Andress

December 9, 2007

Mom,
I miss you so much and I think of you everyday, I look forward to when we will meet again in heaven. I have joined a church and I am taking steps to walk closer with God. There is a huge void, and nothing will ever be able to fill it. I will say a prayer for you at church this morning. I love you so much. Your Son- Jonathan

November 29, 2007

sometimes, time escapes me.... but it never escapes the way I felt for you...

David

October 3, 2007

I miss you... you are in my heart always...

David

June 27, 2007

Dear Sweet Cheeks...

I need to tell you that we are all doing well... that we are still healing from your loss, but continue to move on with our lives... I know that you know all the pain and grief that each of us has had to deal with, and in your way, you have helped each one of us to grow and be stronger in our relationships with those we love the most... I know that is what you would want for each of us...

Know that I think of you every day, and miss you, and in my heart rests my love for you that will never go away...

Your Green Eyes

Jonathan

May 13, 2007

Dear Mom,
Wishing you a Happy Mothers Day. Missing you with all of my heart. Thank you for everything that you have taught me to make me the man I am today. I Love you

May 13, 2007

Happy Mother day

Mom

I miss you

Chris

David

May 13, 2007

Dear Blue Eyes.....

Happy Mother's day Allyn... I have been thinking alot about you this past week. Thinking about how wonderful you were as a mother to our three sons... and how you extended those same qualities to hundreds of young children you taught through the years... You were a wonderful mother! You were loving, kind and caring... you had a heart of gold that overflowed with compassion and understanding... I am forever grateful to have raised our children with you. They have turned out to be fine young men, that I know you, and I are very proud of. I miss you...

Love always,

Jason

February 6, 2007

Happy Birthday Momma Sitta
Love and Miss you every day
Baby-Sitta
Jason

December 23, 2006

Dear Sweet Cheeks....

Here it is Christmas again.... hardly seems like you have been gone for over 2 years.... I still think of you everyday...... I miss you too..... Jill and I are very happy... we had an interesting first year of marriage with lots of fun and challenges..... I think my life with you has made me a better husband for her. I love you still... you are always in my heart... merry Christmas.....

Green Eyes

Jason

May 15, 2006

Happy Mothers Day Mom, things have been really crazy and I have been under a lot of stress. On this special day when children honor their mothers, I know that you are with me and watching over me. Thankyou for making me the man I have become. I love you momma sita, Happy Mothers Day

Love Jason

David

May 14, 2006

Happy Mothers Day Allyn...

David

May 11, 2006

Dear Punky,



Our wedding anniversary is approaching... It has become a time of reflection for me. I think back at all the good times we had, and all that we did together... the three children that we brought into this world, and how proud we are of each of them. I often wish you could still be here to share in their successes and to see them grow as young men.... men that you helped to mold and shape into who they are today... I know you are proud of each of them as I am too....



I am happily married now, and Jill is a very happy and good and loving woman for me. After you left, I never thought I could find love again, but life put our paths together, and when we needed it the most, we found each other...



We will be going to see Jason get his degree next week, and I know you will be there in spirit too... I think about you, and miss you, and you will always be in my heart. I love you...

T W

February 5, 2006

Happy Birthday Allyn. I'm watching over someone right now, that misses you very much.

David

November 21, 2005

My Dear Punky.....



It has been nearly a year since my first Thanksgiving without you..... Each of us, the boys and myself are moving on with our lives..... Jill and I are going to be married soon..... she makes me very happy, and I know you are very pleased with her..... I love her very much, and hope to have many wonderful years ahead to spend with her.....



Still, every day, I think of you, and all that we had....... and on this Thanksgiving, I am thankful for all you gave to me........ your love filled my life every day...... and even though your gone, I have so many fond memories of our time together....... thank you for all of you that you so graciously gave to me...... for your uncondiutional love in the hardest of times, and countless sweet tender moments in the best of times..... we had it all..... and for that, I am eternally thankful....... Happy Thanksgiving Allyn......



I love you always........

beth ann johns

October 4, 2005

Dearest Allyn, My Heart Has been sad lately,and the thoughts of how time just slips away from us in a blink of an eye ,and how we can't get back Precious moments that we need to bind together our lives to make complete,& whole. We still have the right to ask Why..... Our Hearts still hurt and we muddle through the best we can, and try to understand, but the tears keep falling without any answers , I just keep looking to the Stars and know that your dancing,and keeping watch over all that you Love and are helping us To feel the Healing power of your Love and getting us through another day,and teaching us not to Blink our eyes too fast,so we don't miss the Best that God has to offer in Life.... (*~*) Angel's Kiss on your cheek. love BethAnn

David

October 3, 2005

My Dear Blue Eyes....



You are with me.... in my heart.... I will always love you......

David

September 1, 2005

Dear Blue Eyes.....





I just wanted to say.....



Thank you for 33 years of memories, happiness... and love........



Thank you for three wonderful boys......



Thank you for watching over us now......



For keeping us safe from harm, and directing our lives towards happiness amidst the turmoils of our times and relationships.......



For helping me find true love, happiness and especially hope when life seemd hopeless....... It is only through your strength and devotion to each of us that we have been able to move on.......



I love you..........



your green eyes....

David

September 1, 2005

Dear Punky...



Here it is already September... It was a year ago that I went in for my third surgery, and we survived our way through three hurricanes...



A lot has happened since this date a year ago... I know that you are aware of all of it, since we struggle still with your loss, and at times wonder why all this happened......



I told you last time I was with you all about Jill... We are very much in love, and I asked her to get married... and she accepted... and we have a wedding date set for June next year... Jill is bringing me a great deal of happiness, and filling the void in my life created when you left...... She knows how much I loved you, and that you will always be in my heart...... she is a very wonderful and beautiful woman...... understanding first hand the tragedy and grief felt by loosing someone you love......



I am truly blessed to have found in my life time two women to love me unconditionally...... I will forever remember the love we shared, and I will continue to love you forever......

Jason with his new bride Amber, July 30, 2005

David

August 8, 2005

My Dear Allyn,

It has been awhile since I last wrote to you...... We went to California, and watched as Jason and Amber got married.... Jason had a beautiful tribute to you for the mother/groom dance.... We could feel your presence throughout the day.... from helping us find the tape to saving the glass cake top that hit the floor..... It seemed so awkward to be there without you.... I missed you so.....

A lot has happened in my life.... I have entered into a new relationship, and found someone who will love me for who I am..... as I am..... She is a wonderful person, and I know you would like her..... I realize that I must continue to move forward with my life..... to find new happiness, and love...... I never thought it would be a journey without you..... at least I know you are with me in spirit, as you have made so very clear to me since you left...... I still cry, but my heart aches less.... knowing that you are in a far better place.... surrounded by the love of God.....

I love you punky.... you live in my heart, and are with me always.....

David

July 17, 2005

Dear Punky.....



I love you....... More than words could ever say..........

David

July 7, 2005

Dear Allyn,



I need you right now... to feel your presence... your love.... to know that I am not alone during this difficult time in my life.....



Know that I will always love you....

David

July 6, 2005

Dear Allyn,



Jason helped me to remember the words to the song in my dream of you.....



I will be walking one day

Down a street far away

And see a face in the crowd and smile

Knowing how you made me laugh

Hearing sweet echoes of you from the past

I will remember you.



Look in my eyes while you're near

Tell me what's happening here

See that I don't want to say good-bye

Our love is frozen in time

I'll be your champion and you will be mine

I will remember

I will remember you.



Later on

When this fire is an ember

Later on

When the night's not so tender

Given time

Though it's hard to remember darlin'

I will be holding

I'll still be holding to you

I will remember you.



So many years come and gone

And yet the memory is strong

One word we never could learn

Good-bye

True love is frozen in time

I'll be your champion and you will be mine

I will remember you.....

So please remember....

I will remember you..........



I love you Allyn....

David

July 4, 2005

Happy Fourth of July Punky....



I really wish it were happy..... but for me, I am not happy.....



I spent the morning with you... trying to understand all that is happening in my life.... trying to see things clearly...... trying not to let my heart, lonliness, or loosing you cloud my judgement.......



Sometimes desperation seems to guide me..... other times it is sadness, and loneliness..... you have left such a void in my life....



I miss you...



I love you......

David

June 25, 2005

My Beautiful Blue Eyes...



I just woke up from a dream... This was my first dream where I have been able to interact with you... My fourth dream of you since you left me... The first two dreams were only a short glimpse of you... My third dream was brief, and I saw you laughing...



I rarely have dreams that I remember, or dreams that are profound, but this fourth dream was both, so I am writing it down so I never forget... I believe that you came to me in my dream......



I was in an auditorium... It was full of people... I was watching a presentation of some group of people singing and dancing... The music was beautiful... No words, but a song that has words... I don’t know the name of the song, but I recognized the tune, and lyrics that may go "I remember always, I’ll remember you..."



The performers were a mix of men and women... I saw a person I know, and then I saw you...



You were dressed in a black skirt and jacket with a white blouse... You were in the front row... Your row began dancing, and you danced with the person next to you... You danced back and forth, and then switched to the person on your left... You switched again and again, faster and faster, moving quickly to the end of the row... You seemed happy, and there was a big smile on your face... Although you didn’t look directly at me...



When I realized it was you, I thought that this couldn’t be true because you were gone... I started to cry, and started saying to those around me that it was you, and that you should be dancing with me... I tried to move towards you, but I couldn’t move my body... I just stood there sort of paralyzed... Finally you had worked your way to the end of the row, spun around, and danced up the steps into the audience to the row where I was...



During this time, your clothes changed into a long white flowing dress... and you wore a hat... you were absolutely beautiful... I would catch a glimpse of your face and your smile as you spun in circles...



You continued dancing and turning in spins as you headed towards the end of the aisle where I was standing... When you got close enough, you reached out to me and I wrapped my hand around yours, and you pulled me towards you... You quickly took me back to the stage...



I could feel your warmth, and the touch of your hand inside of mine, and I looked at your beautiful blond hair flowing all around you... As we headed to the stage, I realized you were wearing your wedding dress and hat, and you looked so beautiful...



All this time you had been in front of me, pulling me along by the hand... You still had not looked directly at me... When we got to the stage, it was empty except for one older man sitting on the stage in a chair... You pulled me right past him very quickly...



Finally, you turned to face me... Both of our hands embraced and we began to dance... You were leading me, and you slowly lifted your head to look into my face for the first time... when I looked at you, into your eyes, your smile was rapidly fading, and sadness came across your face... You looked into my eyes and appeared as if you were about to cry...



Suddenly, you were being pulled away from me very fast... I tried to hold on to you, but couldn’t, and I lost your touch and watched you fade away... I was left staring into nothing...... Standing there all alone..... Our dance had ended..... The music had ended..... You were gone....... My dream was over..........



I woke up, and began to cry......



Thank you for coming to me in my dream..... I love you Allyn..... I will always love you.....

Your face.... your smile..... saying "I love you David"......

David

June 16, 2005

Dear Punky.....

Today I had a task to complete..... it turned out to be harder than I thought it would be.... the realization of your loss once again soared into my heart, and I got very angry..... after many tears..... the feeling of loneliness overwhelmed me again.....

This has been a hard week for me.... at moments like this, I don't want to go on.....

This is the single most painful experience that I and the boys have had to endure...... and it is unrelenting...... there has to be someway to let this pain go......

I miss you Allyn..... I love you, and I want you back..... and I know that will never ever happen.....

I am so mad and so sorry that our lives together had to end like this.....

David

May 31, 2005

Dear Blue Eyes....



It has been nearly 8 months since you left me.......



The pain has lessened..... but loosing you still hurts...... to never know how our lives could have been..... to never have you to hold again..... to never kiss your sweet lips..... to never share our love again..... this is truly the greatest loss of my life........



In my heart are the treasured memories of all we had.... of all we were together.... of our great love.....



I will always love you..... and I remain only a heart beat away..........



your Green Eyes

I love you....

May 18, 2005

Make of our hands one hand.... make of our hearts one heart.... even death can't part us now....... I will love you forever Allyn....

May 18, 2005

I will never forget this moment..... you were my world.... my everything..... I loved you so, more than you would ever know.... all I ever wanted was you...... just you.....

May 18, 2005

You fed my soul..... you gave me strength and courage.... love and happiness....

May 18, 2005

A simple beginning........ a beautiful life together.....

May 18, 2005

I love you Allyn..... you were so beautiful to me.... thank you for sharing your life with me..... David

May 18, 2005

Sealed with a kiss...... May 18, 1974

May 18, 2005

My beautiful bride....

May 18, 2005

The mirror cannot lie... you were the fairest in all the land....

May 18, 2005

You are forever in my heart..... I loved you before I knew you here on earth.... I will love you for all of eternity....

David

May 18, 2005

Dear Allyn,



If you had only known what I felt for you… if you had only you known the way I lived for you… if I could, I'd be in heaven with you… my dreams would come true…



Because all I ever wanted…was you, and you alone… and I loved you so… more than you could ever know… all I ever wanted was you………



When you were my own… to caress and hold… I would shower you with love… and drown within your soul… because, I lived and breathed for you… and I really needed you to know…



That all I ever wanted was you and you alone… and I loved you so, more than you would ever know… all I ever wanted was you…



Everything I did was for you… you were every part of me… and I never wanted to face a single day alone without your love………………



Because all I ever wanted was you, and you alone… and I loved you so, more than you would ever know……



All I ever wanted… was you… just you……



I’ll love you forever…



Happy Anniversary Blue Eyes…

David

May 15, 2005

Dear Blue Eyes....



As our anniversary approaches.... the memories of you are growing stronger.... the pain in my heart is increasing..... I miss you....



I love you....

Allyn and Jason dancing.

May 15, 2005

Allyn and Jonathan dancing.

May 15, 2005

Allyn and Chris dancing.

May 15, 2005

Allyn, Chris, Jon and Jason...

May 15, 2005

Allyn, Jason, Chris and Jon, Christmas 1980

May 15, 2005

Jason, Allyn, Jon and Chris - 1989 in South Dakota

May 15, 2005

Jason, Allyn, Jon and Chris...

May 15, 2005

Chris, Jason, Jon and Allyn in Key West, 1987

May 15, 2005

Jonathan

May 8, 2005

Mom,

Thank you for being such a wonderful mother, who shaped and molded me into who I am today. All of the times that you were there for me, the good and the bad. Standing up for and beleiving in me no matter what. And providing unconditonal love each and everyday. I love you Mom and miss you greatly. Happy Mothers Day.

David

May 8, 2005

Dear Allyn,



Hapy Mother's Day Allyn.......



you were the best mother to our children......

David

May 4, 2005

Dear Punky....



Yesterday, I went to Moffitt by myself to learn about the results of all the scans I had done a few weeks ago..... I knew that I had to do this alone..... it was painful to not have you with me.....



You would be so happy to know that nothing showed up.... I know that we would have celebrated in some way this victory.... a glimmer of hope amidst all the gloom, and tragedy that has come into our lives.... As I left, I felt sad that I did not have you with me.... to look into your face and see your smile of happiness.......



Later, I went to visit you..... I talked and you listened.... the events of the day were bittersweet to me.... A part of me wished for the worse... if only to expedite my end on earth, to start over with you again in eternity....



Right now, I can make no sense of anything in my life.... I just am living from day to day.... and at times hour to hour...... Yesterday was a mix of very powerful emotions.......... and I shared my news with many that I love.... but in the end... there was no you..... no hugs.... no "I love you David"..... only the tears.... and the silence........



It is kind of ironic that I don't even care or think about having cancer anymore..... what people fear so much of, is nothing when compared to the sudden loss of someone you adore and love more than anything in the entire world.... suffering a pain that will never heal..... the pain of my broken heart, and shattered dreams of my life with you.....



I love you Allyn......

David

April 19, 2005

Dear Blue Eyes.....



A beautiful morning..... thoughts of you everywhere.....



I talked with your mother today... She told me what you had said...



If only I could feel your presence.... hear your voice.... just one more time.......



I love you Allyn

Angie Andress

April 11, 2005

Dear Mom,



You have and continue to support each one of us through your spirit. You are there for us whenever we need you.



I truely feel that you helped me out during my interview and pulled some strings to get me the job of my dreams!



I only have two more weeks until graduation and I know you will be there with Jonathan and myself celebrating, cheering and smiling with us.



It is so hard not to have you physically with us. However, your spirit is strong and resides with each of us. That in itself helps bring comfort to our hearts.



Thanks again for all your help Mom!

I don't think I could have done it without your help.



I love you!

Sincerely,

Angie

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