I am so very sorry to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife, and your other children. My husband lost his son about ten years ago, it is something a parent shouldn't have to go through.
I don't know if you will remember me, I was Judy Froelich. My father was Norb Froelich. We lived next door to you on Quincy St. I thought the world of your family. Again, sorry for your loss.