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Robert McFarlane Obituary

MCFARLANE, ROBERT F., 73, of Stella Street passed away Thursday November 15, 2012 at Home and Hospice Care of RI. He was the husband of Barbara A (Lennon) McFarlane. Born in Providence, a son of the late George and Marie (Clark) McFarlane. Robert was employed by the McFarlane Pewter Casting Company as a rubber mold maker. He enjoyed yard sales and car cruises. Bob started practicing KiTo-Ryu Jui Jitsu under Sempa Bob Carney in 1973 and achieved his first black belt in 1975. He was active in teaching and became a 3rd. degree in KyuDan Juijitsu Federation of the USA. He is also a 4th degree and lifetime member of the US Kodokan Federation. He will surely be missed by his fellow practitioners. Surviving besides his wife is a son Robert F. (his wife Carol A) McFarlane, the papa of Robert F McFarlane, Jr. and the brother of Carolyn Palumbo and the late Shelia Averista, Rita Olivo and Elizabeth and Martin "Bud" McFarlane. His funeral will be held Monday at 9:00 AM from the J.F. SKEFFINGTON CHAPEL, 925 Chalkstone Ave. with a Mass of Christian Burial at Holy Cross Church, 645 Hartford Avenue, at 10:00 AM. Burial will be in St. Ann's Cemetery. Visiting hours Sunday 5:00 8:00 PM. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made in his memory to Home and Hospice Care of RI, 1085 North Main Street, Providence, RI 02904. For online condolences kindly visit skeffingtonfuneralhome.com.

Published by The Providence Journal on Nov. 17, 2012.
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Dear Aunt Barbara Carolyn and Rob,
I just learned of Uncle' Bobby's passing.
My prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Sandra Simoneau

Sandra Simoneau

November 25, 2012

Bob, brother of my companion Sheila, will always be remembered by me for his friendly and kind manner. I was surprised and saddened to learn of his untimely passing.

Phil Pascucci

November 19, 2012

I was saddened to hear of the passing of Bob,my companion Sheila`s brother; he always impressed me with his friendly and kind manner.

Phil Pascucci

November 19, 2012

Barbara, Robby, Carolyn and Susan, Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of your husband, father, brother, uncle and friend. Bob will be sorely missed by all who knew him. May all of your memories bring you comfort. You will remain in my prayers.

Paula Iannucci

November 19, 2012

To the McFarlane family
Please accept my condolences on your loss, I will miss seeing Bob at the office.Bob always had a smile and a kind word, may he rest in peace.
Jan Healey (RICVG)

November 18, 2012

Dear Barbara and Rob,
I just now learned of the passing of your husband and dad. Im so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you face this diffucult time.

Dorothy Mollock

November 18, 2012

Bob was a good friend he will be missed.

Bob & Kathy Conn

November 18, 2012

To Aunt Barbara and Cousin Robby

Obviously many people who have ever come into contact with "Uncle Bob" would have to remember him. Uncle Bob always had a kind word for all. Uncle Bob never spoke about himself but always helped everyone. He would always say "well I am not sure but I would do it this way", He was always right. We all new that. Whatever he did he did very well. Even though Aunt Barbara and Cousin Robby could not hear him He would always speak proudly of his family and how lucky he was. Uncle Bob always stated that he is the man he is because of his wife and how lucky he was. Uncle Bob loved his entire family and was extremely good to my mother "auntie lulu" and would joke with her how to do things and than make her do the work!! (I am only kidding Uncle Bob) I am sure that all his traits have been passed onto his son Robby with special instructions on what and how to do things and to take care of his mom, his wife Carol and his son. I am sure Cousin Robby will always hear his dad's voice and instructions. None of us understand what is next when we pass on to a new beginning, but one thing for sure Uncle Bob is in heaven with his family taking them to "the 50"s cruise night"

John Olivo

November 18, 2012

To all of Bob's family,
I am so sorry for your loss!! Bob always had a smile for everyone. He will always be in our hearts! May he rest in peace. I hope our prayers bring peace to his family!
Sincerely,
Linda Moan

Linda Moan

November 18, 2012

Barbara, I'm so sorry for your loss.I know how much you loved Bob. You are the strongest woman I know and you have guided me so many times. Please let me know what I can do for you. I love you and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Amy Sylvia

November 18, 2012

Dear Barbara With deepest sympathy. Sincerely, David, Lori, Valerie, and Kyle Chirico

Lori Chirico

November 17, 2012

To the McFarlane and Lennon families and friends my deepest sympathy on your loss. Bob was a very good friend of mine, he will be missed very much. So sorry we did not get to see each other when I was in town. Hopefully the memories he left will keep him in your hearts always. May God Bless You with the strength to get through these tough times.

Robert R. Bushee, Sr.

November 17, 2012

Dear Barbara & Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. "Sensei Bob" has been a great influence and friend to our family. He will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Tom, Sherry & Christopher Snow

Thomas, Sherry & Christopher Snow

November 17, 2012

To Mrs. McFarlane and family, im very sorry for your loss. Sensei Bob had a heart of Gold, and will be greatly missed.

Love,

Luc, Kathi, Kait & Nic

Luc Carpentier

November 17, 2012

Barbara, sorry for your loss Sensei Bob was a great man. I had the pleasure of knowing him since 1980 . May he he rest in peace.

michael Jolicoeur

November 17, 2012

My deepest sympathy for the loss of such a great man. I learned how to drive because Bob allowed me to drive his BIG Blue Cadillac back and forth to Jiu Jitsu when I first got my permit. Kevin & I became "friends" because of the time we spent together while Bob worked on his Blackbelt.Such an influence in so many lives. I know that Bob & Kevin are working out right now. Farewell sensei.For all that has been loved and lost, prayers must be shared. Bless you all.
Love, Donna J Carney

November 17, 2012

Barbara, so sorry for your loss our prayers are with you
Tom & Charlene

November 17, 2012

Barbara, So so sorry about your loss. Are prayers are with you all XO

Andy & Wendy Moricas

November 17, 2012

To Barbara,Rob,Carol,and Robert,
You will always have an angel smiling down on you. He always made me smile and was a such a good man. Our prayers coming your way. RIP Bob. We all love you. Nancy, Steve and Nicole.

Nancy Argenti

November 17, 2012

Uncle Bob,

Thank you for all you gave throughout the years. You are in our memories - one and all.

Love,

Maestro, Melissa, Kate, & Nicole

November 17, 2012

All my love and prayers for you and the family. Sorry for the loss of your husband. Rocco

November 17, 2012

To the McFarlane and Lennon Families,
We are so sorry for your loss of Bob aka Mr McFarlane. We will always remember him and keep his memory close to your heart. We love you!

Maria Muldowney

November 17, 2012

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