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Stephen Oster Obituary

OSTER, STEPHEN ALAN February 9th, 1943 to June 7th, 2013. Born in Providence, Rhode Island resided in Greenwich, CT Stephen A. Oster, beloved husband, father and grandfather, died yesterday at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Hospital surrounded by his loving family. A resident of Greenwich, Connecticut, he was just 70. Oster, a graduate of the University of Rhode Island, was an accomplished businessman, humanitarian, esteemed professor, world-record holding pilot, active philanthropist, and passionate fisherman. His career began at A.J. Oster company in Rhode Island where he worked and cooperatively developed virtually every facet of the company's growth; taking it from a small family metals distribution company into America's largest brass mill products manufacturing and distribution service center, as well as the world's largest manufacturer of pewter metal. After selling the company to Cookson Group, he charted a new course for himself in the merchant banking world by establishing Oster Industries and The Greenwich Consulting Group, a private consulting and investment company specializing in real estate and venture capital. Although his travels and career took him all over the world, his real love and personal achievement was always with the precious family and friends he cherished. He lived his life with great pride and humility and it was his selflessness, strong faith in Judaism, and generosity that will truly be his legacy. May his memory forever be a blessing. He is survived by his wife Sandra, children Sarah and Aaron, and two grandchildren. "Life is over so quickly. It is possible to reach the end with no regrets. It takes some bravery to live it right, to honor the life you are here to live but the choice is yours. Appreciate the time you have left by valuing all of the gifts in your life, and that includes especially, your own, amazing self" All donations to be made to Chabad-Lubavitch, 75 Mason Street, Greenwich, CT 06830 In memory of Stephen A. Oster Funeral service will take place Sunday, June 9th at 2PM at the Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home, 31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT 06830.

Published by The Providence Journal on Jun. 9, 2013.
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Stephen was a great person who really cared about people. When Stephen said that he was your friend he really meant it with all his heart. I am Tom Rose and it was an honor to have known Stephen.

Tom Rose

Friend

June 3, 2020

Stephen and I did a lot of traveling together in my time at Oster. I remember my first sales call with Stephen in Massachusetts. He wanted to know how I was able to sell this one account when all the other salesmen were unable to get any business from them. When we stopped at the reception desk, the receptionist told us that they were waiting for us in the conference room. As Stephen and I entered the conference room, he could not believe what he saw. There sitting at the large conference table were about 12 second graders with the owner of the company. I introduced Stephen to everyone and I immediately left the room. Stephen stood there for a moment wondering where I had disappeared to. All of a sudden I returned with a suitcase full of magic tricks. I am a professional magician and I promised the owner of the company that I would perform a magic show for his granddaughter's birthday party during school vacation. I performed for about 30 minutes and then we had cake and ice cream. When we left the company and got into my car, Stephen looked at me and said, now I understand how you were able to crack the account. Stephen was a great person and always tried to help everyone he met.
I am so glad that I was part of his life.

Thomas Rose

Friend

June 3, 2019

My late husband, Corny Hudak, was a close friend to A J , Richard and Steven for several years. At the time - AJ Oster was a customer of Plume & Atwood where my husband served as President and AJ served on the Board of Directors. I worked there also and remember a young Steve Oster coming into the office with a great smile on his face. Very friendly to all of us. Throughout the years my husband mentioned the Osters and always wondered where Steve was - he would be sad to learn that Steve passed so young. My sincere sympathies to the family of this smiling, friendly young man.

Milly Hudak

Friend

January 17, 2018

I was in contact with Stephen until about one month prior his passing.

Although we eventually lived far apart I always looked at him as a special friend and person. He was indeed one of a kind.

It is with heartfelt sympathy we learn of his passing.

He will surely be missed by his family, friends and society

David & Ann Kwiat

David Kwiat

October 2, 2013

Sandy,
I just found out this afternoon. Many many fond memories from next door neighbors in Woodbridge-doing deals together- sharing time with you and the family - my heart is saddened by the loos of what was a real true friend.
Although too young we were all blessed by his presence- will miss him dearly
Our love and prayers to you and the kids Carol- Tom

Tom Gagliardi

June 13, 2013

Sandra,I am so sorry to hear about Stephen. I have great memories of working for Stephen back in the 70's. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kathy (Harrington) Jeffrey

June 13, 2013

Stephen was a wonderful man and a genuine nice guy. I had the pleasure of meeting Stephen through his work with the Connecticut Turnaround Management Association. He was the consummate professional and gentleman. He will be missed and my sincere condolences to the family. Philip Kane - CTTMA

June 13, 2013

I'm so sorry to learn of Stephen's passing. I always enjoyed our conversations. My deepest sympathies to Sandra and his entire family.

Vernon Howard

June 12, 2013

sandy, jerry and i just got the news today. needless to say we were very shocked. our condolences to you aaron and sara. so sorry we can't be with you at this time. know that our hearts go out to all of you. love joan and jerry

June 11, 2013

Stephen was a wonderful man. It was an honor to know him. I can still hear him and Rusty speaking together throughout the night. He will be missed more than words can say. Sandy, I will always be here for you, because of that special bond that God made sure we have. My prayers continue for you and your family. Much love, Bev

June 10, 2013

My condolences to the Oster family. I do remember the excitement at the AJO Providence office in 1978 when Sarah was born - that week in March was when my employment began with the Oster family. Stephen always had a smile and words of wisdom to share. May he be at peace.
Petrina Lauro

June 10, 2013

We are so sorry to hear of Stephen's passing. He was a wonderful man and I only have the fondest memories of him. Our deepest sympathies go out to all of you. May his memory live on in all of you and your children.

Alexandra Rothstein Small

June 10, 2013

Sandy, I cannot tell you how sad I am to hear about Steve's passing. This is not what I wanted to read first thing MOnday morning nor the email I would have liked to get from you. I am so glad I had the chance to meet him and your warm and loving relationship was quite obvious to anyone in your presence. Yes, I have been in your shoes and they are not the ones we want to wear. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I am here for you always.
Love, Shelli Rafkin

Shelli Rafkin

June 10, 2013

I fondly remember my days spent in Bolivia with Stephen by my side while we were working on a metals contract. Unbeknownst, Stephen made a sizeable donation in my name to a foster child I was sponsoring in the area. That's just the kind of guy he way! He will be missed. Tom and Joyce Rose

Tom Rose

June 9, 2013

May Steve's memory be a blessing for all those who loved him....He lived next door & was my 1st date. (I was 14, & we double dated with Dickie and his wife.) I loved Steve's dad and often sat with him in his back yard, learning about life. (i.e. "It's not a sale until you ring it up on the cash register.") xxx Jane Gleklen Wyeth

Jane `Wyeth

June 9, 2013

Sandy,
We are so very sorry to read of Steve's passing. He was such a good man, and always so pleasant whenever business brought us together. Our deepest condolences to your family.

Sally and Larry Schneider

June 9, 2013

Me and Sherri are saddened by the great loss. We fondly cherish the happy memories. Me, Sherri, Robert and Jerry Gonicber will miss him very much.
Love, The Gonicbers

June 9, 2013

To the Oster Family, my deepest condolences on the loss of Steven. I worked with Steven for years at the family business and can say that he always found time to stop and ask about you, your family and if you were happy doing what you were doing. He will be greatly missed in the business world, and by family absolutely. Carmine "CAP" Rego.

June 9, 2013

Heartfelt condolences are offered to your family with the loss of your husband. May the Hearer of prayer grant you peace and comfort. (Psalm 65:2)

June 9, 2013

Please accept my deepest condolences. Steve was such a beautiful person taken from us too soon. He always gave me hope and encourage me to pry and to never loose my faith. I will miss him and good humor.
I pray Adonai to help his family ease the pain left by his loss.

Alex Alvarez

June 8, 2013

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