Pam's passing is a tragedy of deepest misfortune. My heartfelt sympathy to Martha and Cory. I know they loved Pam maximally and unconditionally. Among Pam's many strengths and attributes were her brilliance, sense of humor and her singular penchant for bringing people together. Her compassion and sensitivity always shined bright in all walks of her life. The world will not be the same without Pam, but I know I am joined by many when I say that I am privileged that she touched my life for 25 years.
Heartfelt sympathy to Cori, Kathleen and and Martha. Pam is resting now in the comfort arms of our Lord.
I happened to see the obituary of Pam. She would not have known me but over the years I attended several HR programs with her as a speaker. She was always entertaining and educational. In 30 years of HR management, having attended many seminars, one in which Pam spoke was always the best. My sympathies to her loved ones
Service to be held Sunday Dec 1, at 3pm. Visitation with family and friends from 1 - 3 pm. Vander May funeral home, Wayne, NJ. Visit their website for details. Thank you everyone for your kindness. Pam was one of a kind and a beautiful person.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sister! I wish I had known her as it seems she was a guiding light. Knowing you makes that not surprising. Sending thoughts and prayers to your whole family.
Rest In Peace, My Dear, Dear Friend.
I worked with Pam at Rutgers Center of Management Development for the last 14 years. I so enjoyed her stories, her presence and enthusiasm for sharing the law with her adult students. Pam had a wonderful sense of humor and we shall miss her.
Dear Martha and Cori,
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. Dr. Seuss had it right. Thinking about Pam and her authenticity, uniqueness and generosity brings a smile. With love to you and your memories,
I smile when I remember working for Pam at PaineWebber/UBS. She was intelligent, caring, funny and tough...all at the same time! I will never forget her. My sympathies to Martha and Cori.
Dear Martha and Cori,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in memories of happy times shared with this special person in your lives.
Judy & Gene Danilchick
I was deeply sadden by the passing of Pamela. I know she will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Martha,Cori, and the rest of her family. Pam was one of a kind, they didn't just break the mold but smashed it because there will never be another. I will cherish my fun stories of Pam and the gang at the Hearthstone. It brings a smile to my face and a shudder remembering the shot of Jameson's we all had to do for Martha's dad. Pam will be truly missed. xoxo
Pam and Martha have been very special. They taught me a lot, gave me hope and inspired me to be a strong woman. I pray Martha & Cory will have strength during this time. Pam will be missed by many.
I have known Pam for many years. First,when she was with Mutual Benefit.
Then I reconnected when she taught some courses At Rutgers. She was such a wonderful and brilliant person! Linda Groce
Anyone wishing to make a donation in Pam's name should do so to the "Kent Place Deveopment Fund, Kent Place School, 42 Norwood Ave., Summit, NJ 07901
When you think of Pam smile. Be happy she lived, not sad that she died. A brilliant woman who knew how to have fun. Everyone remember the wonderful stories you have of her. Please, Pam would not want you to be sad. Rejoice that we had the opportunity to share her life in various ways. I cherish every day of my 28 years with her.
Heartfelt sympathy to Cory and Martha .
We are sorry to hear of Pam's passing. A giving person and a wonderful neighbor for so many years. Our deepest sympathy.
I am humbled to have known such a brillant woman. RIP Pam.
Oh,I am so sorry! I loved Pam - her intelligence, wit and good will will always be remembered. My condolences to you, Martha, and of course to Cori and the rest of her family.
I am so sorry to hear about Pam's passing. She was a dear friend and mentor to me may years ago and I will always think of her very wise guidance.
Pam was one of a kind. A brilliant attorney and a warm, generous person. She was an inspiration and will be missed.
An impressive woman who did a great job here in NJ, under Gov, Kean.
My prayers go out to family and friends.