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August 16, 2015
Kevin, It was 6 years ago today that I found out you died. When you left this world you took a part of me with you. I think about you every day and my heart aches to give you one more hug and to tell you how much I love you. Even in death you are still part of my life. I know we will be together again but until then I will keep your memory alive and share with others what a wonderful man you were.

Love Mom
June 16, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Kevin from high school, and he was a caring and good man. All of my prayers for peace and strength for your family.
May 16, 2014
Kevin would have been 42 on the 28th of this month. It has been almost 5 years since he died and I still think of him all the time. I guess as his Mom that it is only normal that no matter how much time passes his absence leaves a huge hole in my life. I know that other family members and his friends miss him and think of him but I know that it isn't the same for them as it is for me and Kevin's dad.

I have pictures on my desk of Kevin during the different stages of his life. I look at them and I can go back in my mind to that period of time and remember him as he was.

Life goes on and there have been many changes since Kevin died. Nina had the twins Mason and Isis. Nick's girlfriend had Lucy last year and Anthony just a couple of days ago. Mike died 3 years ago and last year I remarried. Kevin has not been here in the physical sense but his spirit is always with us. When I think of Kevin on the other side I see him with my Mom and others that I love and I have to believe that I will be with them again.
March 12, 2012
Just recently found out Kevin has passed. He was my first real love, and even though our relationship did not work out, I have no regrets and will always remember the good times. It's been 12 years since I last saw him, but remember his quirky sense of humor and his amazing intellect. Very sad to hear he has passed. He surely will not be forgotten.
August 17, 2011
There are many times I wonder how we can find the strength to go on after loss. I have found there is no right or wrong way. It is through the strength of faith and the power of love that we can move forward. Knowing we will all be together on the other side of this very thin veil makes it all worthwhile. In the mean time we comfort ourselves knowing you loved us and we loved you so very much. Love knows no time barrier. Love is eternal. So on this day I send my love to you and embrace all the goodness you gave me when you were here. See you soon! Love, Aunt Hazel
August 17, 2011
It was 2 years yesterday afternoon that I found out you had died. I will never forget that moment when they told me you were gone. Even after 2 years the pain is just as sharp as it was at that moment and at times when I look at your picture I still can't believe that I will never again have the chance to hug you and tell you how much I love you. All I can hope for is that your spirt is close by and you can hear me when I say again Kevin, I love you more than anyone and I will never stop missing you.

April 05, 2011
Kevin, now Mike is gone and I am on my own. I still have Leo and the rest of my family but Mike's death hit me harder than I thought it would after going through losing you. I will get through this and I will do my best to live a good life that will allow me to be with you again. The past few years have been so filled with grief and having to say goodbye to those I love. Anthony in 2004, Ma in 2007, Donna in 2008 you in 2009 and now Mike. I have learned a lot about myself both good and bad but I continue to try to grow as a person that you would be proud to call your Mom.

I still think of you all the time and so miss having you here. I know when I talk to you, you hear me and that you are always with me.

Love you forever
November 14, 2010
Kevin, last week was the first time I have seen your headstone. I think that is when I realized that you are really gone. I miss you so much and when I feel the holidays getting closer I look forward to seeing you as usual at your mother's house. I think back and you were there at the biggest points in my life, when I got my license, when Mimi passed. I loved the wealth of information that you had about everything. You always made me think. I love you very much and hope that you are at peace wherever you are.

Your little cousin
November 08, 2010
Hey Kevin,
There are days I think of you and miss you so much I can hardly catch my breath. I talk to your mom and try to do what I can to help her through some of her pain, but it is hard. We all just miss you so damn much. I don't have any regrets about my relationship with you, though. I was only 14 when you were born and I believe I was a really good aunt. I loved you from the beginning; you were our little miracle! And as you grew we became friends and that was wonderful. My only regret is that my girls won't grow old with you as their loving cousin and friend. They won't get to keep on experiencing the magic that you carried with you. But you had your appointment with our Maker and it is right that you kept it. I like to think that when your time came your grandma was right there holding out her hand, because she loved you so much. Please take care of each other while you wait for the rest of us. I will always love you, and always miss you.
October 06, 2010
Dear Kevin, I am writing to you to tell you once again how much i love you. I miss your smile and your laugh and hugs. I feel you around with your big energy and spirit and this calms my soul. Yet i would give anything to see you and hug you again..much love and prayers for you on your journey. Know you are loved always! Aunt Hazel

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