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LEE BENTON Obituary


Lee Frederic Benton
Lee Benton passed away in Palo Alto on August 24, 2012 at the age of 68 due to complications following surgery.
Born on February 18, 1944 in Springfield, Ohio, Lee was the son of the late Robert and Candice Collins Benton. He was a graduate of Oberlin College and received his J.D. from The University of Chicago, where he served as the Executive Editor of The University of Chicago Law Review. Lee was a teaching fellow at Stanford Law School before joining the San Francisco office of Cooley, LLP in 1970.
Lee was a founder of Cooley's Palo Alto office in 1980 and was managing partner from 1996 to 2001. He was a partner at the firm from 1975 until 2006 and then served as senior counsel. During his distinguished legal career he focused on the formation, financing and growth of high technology companies. While at Cooley he also served as general counsel and a member of the senior management teams of two publicly traded technology companies.
In addition to being an accomplished practitioner, he was a dedicated mentor to a generation of lawyers who value his legacy. Reflecting on what Lee stood for in his life and work, one colleague wrote, "success does not have to come at the expense of decency and humanity or be coupled with the sacrifice of principle or soul."
Lee was a deeply thoughtful, kind, and caring man. In recent years he faced several health challenges with an indomitable spirit. Drawing from these experiences and the expertise he acquired, he was tireless in extending his help to individuals and institutions. He served on the Board of Directors of the National Headache Foundation, as a Strategic Advisor to the California Institute for Quantitative Biosciences (QB3).
He took great pleasure in his unique array of hobbies. Some of his extensive collections and research included commercial aviation, single malt scotch, classical music, and country music. He was, as well, an avid and vocal follower of sports and politics.
Lee was a loving husband and father and is survived by his wife Susan, sons Timothy and Matthew, brothers Marc (wife Trish) and Bruce (wife Andrea), and brother-in-law David Wann.
On Saturday, October 6 at 1:00 pm, a memorial service to celebrate Lee's life will be held at Trinity Church, 330 Ravenswood Ave., Menlo Park. For contributions in his memory, the family suggests the National Headache Foundation, 820 N. Orleans, Suite 411, Chicago, IL 60610.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 6 to Sep. 9, 2012.

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Mary G Anderson

October 5, 2012

Dear Susan,
I am sending much love and solace to you and your boys during this challenging time. Please take very good care of yourself.

~Mary G. Anderson

Marianne Miller

September 14, 2012

Dear Susan and Family:
Know my thoughts are with you as you move through this time of loss.
Marianne Huysmans-Miller (Capp Street neighbor)

Joe Russoniello

September 13, 2012

Moira & I were saddened to hear of Lee's passing. His was a steady hand on the wheel, guiding, mentoring, caring, insightful and deliberate. He will be missed.

Melissa Draper

September 12, 2012

Susan-
Thinking of you in this most difficult time. Let me know if I
can do anything for you.
With affection, Melissa Draper

Catherine Robinson-Walker

September 12, 2012

Dear, dear Susan,

I am so very sorry to hear about Lee's passing. I am thinking about you so much; please know you are in my thoughts and in my heart. I would love to be of help in any way. Much love to you and your family,

Cathy

Annette Schubert

September 11, 2012

Susan....I am so sorry to hear of Lee's passing. I remember meeting him many years ago. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Annette

James Bancroft

September 9, 2012

There will never be enough "right words" for Lee. I was with Lee infrequently--never long enough--and only when he was helping us and others.
He belongs in heaven, but I wish we could have had him longer. Jim Bancroft

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