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Julia J. "Julie" Stalker

1957 - 2017

Julia J. "Julie" Stalker obituary, 1957-2017, South Bend, IN

BORN

1957

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Palmer Funeral Homes - Welsheimer Chapel-North

17033 Cleveland Rd

South Bend, Indiana

Julia Stalker Obituary

Julia J. “Julie” Stalker

Sept. 13, 1957 - April 25, 2017

SOUTH BEND - Julia Jo “Julie” Stalker, 59, of South Bend, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on Tuesday, April 25th. Julie was born September 13, 1957, to the late Billy and Bette Stalker. She was a graduate of LaSalle High School. During Julie's career she worked with computers for Simon Brothers and Associates/Citigroup. She is survived by her siblings, Greg (Barb) Stalker and Diana (Marc) Breden. Although Julie never had children of her own, her nieces, nephews and “greats” were the lights of her life. They are: Brad (Shannon) Stalker, Janet (Abe) Carr, Amy (Douglas) Pettit, Aaron (Emily) Troutmiller and Katie and Eli Breden. She was always excited to get to see her great-nieces and nephews Alyssa and Kyrstin Stalker, Madison and Zachary Carr and Langston Pettit. Julie also loved her church family and her new family at Southfield Village. Julie loved deeply, with all of her heart, and would do anything for anyone. She would give you the shirt off her back or her very last penny. Julie really found purpose in life during these past ten months while living at Southfield Village. Even during her own pain and suffering, she brought light and love to the older residents at Southfield. Julie will be truly missed not only by her family but by her numerous friends who Julie considered to be just like family. Second only to her family and friends was Julie's love for Camp Millhouse. Julie began her association with Camp in the early 1970's when she worked as a counselor-in-training and later a counselor for many years. Julie returned to Millhouse later in her life to serve as a volunteer member of their Board of Directors, sitting on many committees and in executive board member positions.

Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m. Monday, May 1, 2017, at Northwest United Methodist Church, 21855 Brick Rd., with Pastor Vickie VanNevel officiating. Burial will follow at Highland Cemetery. Friends may visit with the family Sunday, April 30, 2017, from 2:00 to 6:00 p.m. in the Welsheimer Family Funeral Home North, 17033 Cleveland Rd.

In lieu of flowers, Julie's family and friends may honor her love for Camp Millhouse with donations marked for the “property purchase”. It was Julie's hope to be a part of helping make this dream come true for Camp Millhouse and their campers. Donations should be mailed to Camp Millhouse, 25600 Kelly Rd., South Bend, IN 46614. Email condolences may be made at www.welsheimer.com.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on Apr. 28, 2017.

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Sharon (sobieski) hilbert

April 22, 2024

You will be missed cousin.

Julie B.

May 4, 2017

I met Julie at Camp Millhouse back in early 1970s. She was so much fun. It's one of my best memories since of my hearing loss, she made me feel as human being during those times. She's unique person.

Patsy Klopfenstein

May 2, 2017

Julie...i miss u so much already,my good memories reminds me of you often...

Gail Pursell/Thornberg

May 1, 2017

To all of the Stalker family:
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Julie, and even more sorry that I/we were unable to attend services.Julie and all of the Stalker family always have a way of making you feel like you were one of the family, even for those meeting the family for the first time.The world could use a lot more good people like Julie and her family, but a least heaven has one more beautiful angel.
Love to you all ,
The Thornbergs

Marie Jachimiak

April 30, 2017

I met Julie and the entire Stalker family while working for Dr.Doug Kosek,what a fun loving group, Julie always made us laugh. Julie and my husband Gene passed on the same day, Heaven now has two great angels! Marie Jachimiak

Karen Berggoetz (Carrier)

April 30, 2017

We were so sorry to hear about the passing of your wonderful sister, Julie. Her laughter filled the room. The last time I (Karen) got to visit with her, her focus was on what was going on with me and my family- she cared so much for others. How fun it was to have the Stalker family live up the hill from us when we lived on Woodbine Way; those are memories that will last forever. We pray for all of you and hope that your memories of Julie will give you comfort and a smile. Blessings, the Carrier family.

Brenda Ingleright

April 29, 2017

My deepest condolences to the family. Julie had a heart of good. I worked along side of her at Associates/Citigroup. I had so much fun with her. She will be greatly missed by many. RIP my good friend Julie.

James Claxton

April 29, 2017

I first met Julie at Citigroup and we became friends. She was a kind and lovably person.She will be missed all who new her.Keep up the good work in heaven. R.I.P. Julie.

April 29, 2017

I am extending my condolences to the family and friends. May the entire family find peace in knowing that God cares for you and your family and will help you during these difficult times. 1 Peter 5:6,7

Sharon Sobieski -Hilbert

April 29, 2017

My condolences,sending prayers and hugs to all her loved one..

Linda Hands

April 28, 2017

I took care of Julia at Southfield and I'm heartbroken. I have rarely come across a patient so concerned with the health and welfare of other patients and staff like Julia was. She encouraged them, laughed with them, visited with them, and was always praying for them. She had a heart of gold. To Greg and Diana, I am very sorry for your loss and the loneliness that you must be enduring with Julia's passing. I pray for God to sustain you during this time and that your love and memories of Julia will comfort you. It was an honor to take care of her and a blessing to have known her.

Kathleen Ullery-Norris

April 28, 2017

I have very fond memories of Julie while attending Coquillard school. She was a sweet and kind person. Every cry is heard by the Father. Not one tear from your eyes goes unseen. He lovingly cares for His children. Let His love be the strength that you need.

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2:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Welsheimer Funeral Home North

17033 Cleveland Rd, South Bend, IN

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10:30 a.m.

Northwest United Methodist Church

21855 Brick Rd., IN

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Highland Cemetery

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17033 Cleveland Rd, South Bend, IN 46635

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