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Patricia Ann "Patty" STATE

1941 - 2016

Patricia Ann "Patty" STATE obituary, 1941-2016, Portland, OR

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1941

DIED

2016

Patricia STATE Obituary


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Patricia Ann "Patty" (McCabe)


Patricia "Patty" Ann (McCabe) State died in Portland, Oregon on Saturday, October 17, 2015 at the age of 74 from Alzheimer's Disease, with her husband and three daughters at her side. She was born in New York City in 1941 to Percy McCabe and Josephine Molloy McCabe, and was raised in Leonia, New Jersey. She grew up working alongside her dad in the local ice cream shop and bars he owned, before attending LaSalle Junior College. She moved to NYC after college, then took a job at TRW in Washington DC where she met her husband Tom. They married in 1967 and relocated to Redondo Beach, California. They had three daughters who Patty stayed home to raise in their early years, before taking on a job as an office manager where she worked for nearly 15 years.
In 1994, Patty retired to stay home and care for her beloved mom, Josie, until her passing in 1995. They later moved to Spokane, Washington in 1999, where they lived until 2012 before moving to Portland, Oregon where they could be cared for by their daughter. Despite suffering from Alzheimer's, Patty maintained her sense of fun and enthusiasm for life, endearing herself to those around her even more. She was the perfect wife and mother, and the best friend her husband ever had.
Patty is survived by her husband Tom, and three daughters: Anne State of San Diego, Laura Bonin (Mark) of Torrance, CA, and Leigh State of Portland, OR; and her brother Peter McCabe (Marilyn) of Rockville, MD. Donations in her honor can be made to The Alzheimer's Association.

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Published by Spokesman-Review on Jan. 17, 2016.

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Leigh Elwing

October 17, 2018

Missing you so much, Mom. I can't believe you've been gone three years today. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. Thank you for being the very best mom, we were so lucky to have you.

February 11, 2017

Your mom was soo funny. I distictly remember her leaving notes on the butter in the kitchen letting everyone know that it really ticked her off that there were crumbs left on it. Bless you Leigh, Laurie and Anne .With soo many fond memories. ..
Gina Marie DeBenedictis

Katherine Kuhlman

April 24, 2016

Many wonderful memories of this sweet lady. Watching her dance to Elvis Presley in the kitchen at work,how music made her smile and happy. She will be remembered fondly.

Anne State

January 17, 2016

I still feel her love everyday. Not only "Best Mom ever" - but an amazing human being. Nobody could have handled Alzheimer's with more grace, courage and style. She never let it crush her spirit. Everyday, I appreciate the gifts she gave me. Love you, Mom! -Anne ❤

Kenneth Ong

January 17, 2016

A well-written obituary flows naturally out of a well-lived life.

Sorry again, State family, for your loss.

Jennifer Leigh State

January 17, 2016

I love and miss you, mom, so much. You were the best, just the best.

Your baby,
Leigh

Jennifer Leigh State

January 17, 2016

To the best mom ever, I love and miss you so much. You were more amazing than could ever be described.Your baby,Leigh

Sandra Fridlund

January 17, 2016

It's really interesting to read about her life since I didn't know her until she was affected by Alzheimer's. However the spunk and energy you talk about sure did continue. She could brighten anyone's day by singing and dancing and making us all laugh with a silly face or comment. She was so beautiful and I am so greatful I knew this woman - even if it was closer to the end than the beginning.

Lillian Blood

January 17, 2016

A life well lived - a love that will endure.

Jennifer Leigh State

January 17, 2016

To the best mom ever, I love and miss you so much. You were more amazing than could ever be described in words.

Your baby,
Leigh

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