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July 03, 2014
Toby,
It's been a year but to your loved ones I know it feels like an eternity, and at the same time, no time at all. Please continue to be near them and help them with the memories that at times may seem too painful to recollect. You had such a profound impact on so many people that I regret not knowing you better, but feel hopeful that someday our spirits will meet. I hope my dad and his dogs cammie and java are doing some fly fishing with you and daytona!
love and prayers
July 01, 2014
Toby,
In the time I was blessed to know you they are all great memories. Memories of you being an amazing (and sometimes stern:)) big brother to one of my best friends, the best husband ever to your beautiful wife and a loving son to your wonderful mother. I know you are missed every day by so many! I'm just lucky I was fortunate enough to know you.
June 30, 2014
Our thoughts & prayers are with you Erin & the rest of the family.

God bless
June 30, 2014
It is still hard to believe that you are gone Toby. Your and Erin's love was such an inspiration to our marriage. I still have the beautiful wedding card you and Erin gave me over 10 years ago:

"You were born together, and together you shall be forever more. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. You shall be together even in the silent memory of the Great Spirit. But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another, but make not a band of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each others cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone. Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not to near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, and the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each others shadow.

Your strong presence behind that smile is missed dearly and my heart aches for my beautiful friend, Erin, and your family, although I am sure you are never far from them.

Love,

Tannya and Carlos Hurley
June 30, 2014
Hey Toby,
It's been a year and I'm still not sure what to write. I guess it's because I think you already know how we feel. Not a day goes by that we do not think of you.
I sat outside with Josh watching thunder storms this year wishing you were there and at the same time knowing you were right there with us.
There have been times where I swear I can hear you gut roaring laugh and it always makes me smile.
We were all so lucky to have known you and our lives will be forever changed. We miss you more than words can express. Thank you for all the great memories. Hugs!!
June 30, 2014
Hey Toby,
It's been a year and I am still not quite sure what to write. I guess cause I think you already know how we feel. Not a day has gone by that we do not think of you. I sat outside watching a few thunder storms with Josh, wishing you were there and at the same time knowing you were right there with us. We were all so lucky to have known you and our lives will be forever changed.
There have been many times in the last year that I swore I could hear your gut roaring laugh and it always makes me smile.
We miss you more than words could ever express. Thank you for all the great memories. Hugs!
June 30, 2014
Toby,
You were such a special man to all who met you with an easy warmth and charm that put everyone around you at ease. I was grateful for the times we spent together (especially that last visit when my girls did your hair) and am sad beyond words for my dear friend Erin. May she carry the strength of your love forward to whatever the future brings. I keep your picture up as a reminder of how fragile and special life is and think of you guys every day. Love to all your friends and family.
June 30, 2014
Cousin Toby,
My childhood memories are filled with the times spent with all of the cousins. We always had so much fun together! It's been sad for me, that there was such a sudden stop to those times, when my parents divorced. Everyone on my moms side started to feel like strangers, though I know not intentionally. I have this one random,but very vivid memory, of you when we were little.....the time you showed me how you fed your pet boa constrictor a mouse. Crunch! :)
So long ago. Life is way too short. I'm 31 and can't believe I am not married by this age! You and Erin together, seem like a true life fairy tale. I hope I'm fortunate enough to marry my soul mate someday like you and her did. Well Toby, I just want you to know that even though we have not spent significant time together since childhood, my memories together with you and the cousins have always been, and always will be, cherished in my heart. Love you Toby. Give Ukki a hug for me please.......I can still smell his pipe tobacco <3
June 29, 2014
Dear Toby,
You were taken way too soon. Although I hadn't seen you for several years, I always thought of you with fondness. You were always smiling and always cracking jokes. You had a love for life and I can remember how VERY much you loved Erin.
See you on the other side, my friend.
June 29, 2014
Tobias, It's hard to put into words, how I miss you. Your a good man and overall a joy to know. I thank you for the time we had outside Laurens weeding. Your word were so helpfull. It just doesn't seem fair. I will continue the conversation we have each night. I think of you every day and wish I had been a better Dad. Again I'm having trouble putting into words just what you meant to me. I'm sure you noticed the potting bench you had in mind. I believe you influenced me while I was making it. Thanks!!!

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