I was a very young girl when I visited Jeffery and his brother in Schenectady NY. I remember Jeffery visiting my parents home in NJ a few times after that. I am sorry for your loss and sorry too that our families did not stay in touch. My fondest memory is of Jeffery is his sitting in our house smoking a pipe and sporting a small beard. I remember calling him "Dignified Daddy-O" as a term of endearment.
I know that he will be written in the book of life.