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Reginald David Bolin

1977 - 2013

Reginald David Bolin obituary, 1977-2013, Schaumburg , IL

BORN

1977

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Laird Funeral Home - Elgin

310 South State Street

Elgin, Illinois

Reginald Bolin Obituary

Bolin, Reginald David 36, of Schaumburg, was called home to be with the Lord while surrounded by his family on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013. He was born July 11th, 1977 in Milwaukee, WI to Mary and Maurice Bolin. He was a loving husband and affectionately known as "Honey Bun" by his wife Ratisha Bolin. When he was a young man he was an acolyte at St. Dismas Catholic Church in Waukegan. He mentored youth at Second Baptist of Elgin where he also served as a coach for the church's basketball team. Reggie had a love for cars, electronics and technology in general. He was loved by many and his infectious smile inspired all who knew him. Reggie was a big man in stature, but had even a larger heart. Reginald is survived by his loving wife, Ratisha or "Sugacane" (as he called her); mother, Mary A. Bolin; father, Maurice (Elva J.) Bolin; brothers, Eldridge, David Patrick (Brenda) Bolin, Clifford; sister-in-law, Janine Ernest; brother-in-law, Detrone Turner; nephews and niece, Andrew, Aniya and Ja'Cari; a host of aunts and uncles including special cousin, LeRoy (Carla) Fullwood Jr.; close friends, Aaron (Ashley) Coleman, Andre (Tiffany) Negron, Tobias Beale, and so MANY others. Reginald Bolin was preceded in death by his grandparents, Andrew and Leola Dickerson and Rufus and Cara Bolin. A special thank you to the Second Baptist Church Family, the ICU staff at Rush Medical Center, and countless others who showed their support at this time. Services will be held at Second Baptist Church, 1280 Summit Street, Elgin, IL Wednesday, November 27th, 2013 at 11:00 a.m. Arrangements are being handled by Laird Funeral Home, Elgin. For more information http://www.lairdfamilyfuneralservices.com/ or (847)741-8800. In lieu of flowers, Reginald's family asks for a donation to a worthy cause at: https:// www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/26g3/reginald-and-ratisha-defeating-leukemia-fund.

Published by News Sun from Nov. 23 to Nov. 29, 2013.
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I went to Reggie's Facebook page yesterday to send him a message because he ran across my mind and I realized I hadn't talked to my friend since just before his wedding. I remember how excited and happy he was to be getting married. I just sort of assumed we lost touch because our lives got busy and it's just sort of part of life at this age. He found his perfect wife and was building a life, I also started a family and was just consumed with mommying and working, I don't think there's anything he wanted more than a family of his own and I know he was over the moon and crazy in love. I wanted to say hello and catch up. I wanted to hear how terrific things were for him. I was completely stunned to see that he had passed away. Reggie was an amazing person and friend and his favorite topic was his mom and how much he adored her. He worked something about his mom into EVERY conversation we ever had lol! I know it's been four years, but I don't think anyone ever gets over losing a soul like Reggie. I wish you all continued peace and comfort as you continue to navigate life with out him.

Ebony Scott

September 5, 2017

My condolences and prayers to the family.

Kelvin Johnson

March 16, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Continue to trust in him at all times. (Ps 9:9,10)

The Dalton Family - Gurnee,IL

November 28, 2013

My heartfelt condolences. May the God of all comfort be with all of Reginald's family during this time of intense grief and always. (1 Cor 15:26). I'm very sorry for your loss.

J K

November 28, 2013

My deepest condolences to you Mary and your extended family. Reggie and Patrick use to watch my kids, I remeber him being so good with kids. He'll be missed by many. It's been a while since I have seen any of you, but I have been trying to locate you and then I saw this in the paper. I am so very sorry for your loss. May God Be With You.

Diane Hargrove

November 27, 2013

"What up Big Bruce," is what I would always here first before we started talking about any and everything, plus that big smile. Be at Peace my brother, and may God Cover your Wife and Family with his strength.

Bruce Jones

November 27, 2013

My biggest & sincere condolences to the Bolin Family & Friends. Since school & beyond school every memory that I have of Reggie is full of laughs and that wonderful bright smile! He was such a big part of my Family (Alvarez Family) he was like another cousin of mine. He may not be here with us in the physical world but he will continue to live forever in our hearts! Thank Reggie for all the wonderful memories you have left us. Thank you for all the laughs and good times. Lots of Love God Bless

Evelin Herrera

November 27, 2013

May the peace of God, shadow you during this time. My condolences to the Bolin Family.

November 27, 2013

My deepest condolences to the Bolin family. My fondest memories of Reggie were just always laughing with him. Most of the time him laughing at me. Lol. I know you touched a lot of lives man and I pray for God's strength for the Bolin family as you enter heaven.

Ruben Chavez

November 27, 2013

I was sadden to hear about this. I remember laughing/joking in the mornings on the bus stop in front of your house on the corner of Glen Flora and Mccree to school. You were a great guy and will be truly missed by many. My prayers go out to your wife, parents, family and friends.

~Earth has no sorrow heaven can not heal~

Latoya Anderson

November 27, 2013

My prayers go out to the Bolin Family. Reggie always had a smile on face in school, always crackin jokes and always had a basketball with.. You will be missed god called one of his angles. Rest well!!! Class of 95..

LaShawn Jackson

November 27, 2013

May the peace of God comfort your hearts in the great loss of a loving young man. I met Reggie through his best-friend Aaron and my daughter Shalamar who were friends to both Reggie and Aaron during their high school years and beyond. I can remember his gentle spirit and genuine smile. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

Patricia Hardy-Baiyewu

November 27, 2013

To the family of Reggie, my thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. Reggie was a wonderful guy and a wonderful friend with a smile and laugh that would brighten the darkest of. days. He will be truly missed. rest in peace Reggie we love you.

denise houston

November 26, 2013

Our sincerest condolences to Reggie's family (Mary Bolin), Our prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

Marta & Jose Luis Guzman & Family

November 26, 2013

Dear Mary and Family,
I was very saddened to hear about Reggie. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord sustain you during these pain filled days of your grief and shower you with grace upon grace.
Lovingly, Your Ambassador Club Friend, Marcia

Marcia Ragin

November 26, 2013

I remember in grade school, I fought a girl in our class. I was bigger than the girl, but did not like her and felt that she started the fight. After the fight, while all the other kids was laughing at how I beat her up. Reggie walked up to me and said, "Kim, you was WRONG for fighting that girl. You know she was smaller than you!"
I always remember that, because it disgusted him! lol
Reggie was such a joy! And although, it was God's Will for him to leave - his smile, his love, his spirit and his memories will always remain and live in and through those who loved and knew him. My prayers are with the family (especially his wife - who was so blessed and such a blessing) and know that God's grace is sufficient.
Rest Well Big Regg!!!!
CLASS OF 95 BABYEEEEEEEEEE

Kimberly Williams

November 26, 2013

Dear Mary and Family,

It just seems like just a few months ago when our boys would play all day long in the neighborhood. Reggie was always the fun-loving one ready to start any game of tag, or climbing on our garage roof with Joey. Reggie was a bright light in the neighborhood, he will be missed by many. May God give you all comfort knowing how much Reggie was loved by so many people.

Sincerely with love,
Cyndy Snider

November 26, 2013

Our sincere condolences to you, Ratisha, and your family. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.

Your Friends at Chevy Chase

November 26, 2013

I have so many fond memories of shared adventures and assorted shenanigans at St. Dismas with Reggie. I am truly so sorry for the loss of such a precious soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Peter Lindquist

November 25, 2013

I was a manager at the Circuit City in Gurnee when "Reggie" worked there (late 90's). I remember his enthusiasm and kindness to everyone. He went from working in the warehouse section of the store to being our Divx salesman ("Divx" was a type of DVD viewing format). He was so on top of the duties and became a full-line video sales counselor after the Divx product's failure. Everyone liked Reggie!! I sincerely hope his fellow associates from CC remember him in this guestbook.

Michael Hamilton

November 25, 2013

We love you and miss you Reggie!!

Mary Brown

November 25, 2013

Mary, my sincerest sympathy to you and your family. You remain in my prayers.

Janet Ochoa

November 25, 2013

Dear Mary and family,
Sorry to hear about your son, I will keep him in our prayers at this difficult time.
From Joan Cudworth (sister of Sharon Vogt)

November 25, 2013

Reggie was a true definition a gentle giant. He just made you want to smile even if you knew you had nothing to smile about. May God continue to be with his family. Please accept our prayers from my family to yours.

Shaquana Smith

November 25, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember the boys on that altar at St Dismas, yours and mine. God knows what he is doing even though we don't always agree. Keep your faith in Him. My prayers are with you.

Elaine Johnson

November 25, 2013

to my brother Reggie. May God Welcome you with open arms.

Gus Alvarez

November 25, 2013

I remember Reggie as a great person who was full of energy and always cheered people up with plenty of humor and laughter. Rest in peace Reggie.

Shawn Ford

November 25, 2013

Our God is our rock and refuge in times of joy and sorrow. May He hold your whole family in the loving palms of His hands so that you can experience His peace and love.

Janice Radosevich

November 24, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss Mary. He sounds like a wonderful man. If there is anything you need. Please call Jean & Jim Denam. St Dismas

jean denam

November 24, 2013

God bless you Brother Reggie. During the short time that I knew you, I found you to be a really great of a person. Sister Ratisha, just remember that God Is Able to see you through this difficult time. Sending my sympathy to the entire family.

Stephanie Day

November 24, 2013

Rest in Heaven brother. Thanks for looking after my brother when I left for the army. We are going to miss you, but I promise we will never forget you. Sending prayers to your family. Love you Reggie!

Michael & Tasha Negron

November 23, 2013

Please accept my deepest condolences for your family's loss. My heart goes to Mary, and the Bolin family during this difficult time.

Keeping you in my prayers.

Joy Bethman

November 23, 2013

May God bless your family in this time of sorrow and know that Reggie will not be forgotten, he was a wonderful man with a heart of GOLD...

Nicole Hernandez

November 23, 2013

May deepest sympathy to Ratisha, Mary, Maurice, Eldridge, Patrick and family. I ask God to be with you in the loss of this great, loving young man, Reggie. My heart is very saddened that he could not overcome his illness. Our memories of him will always be in our hearts and I know that he is no longer in pain. May God comfort all of you during this difficult time in your life.

"Safe In His Arms, Now and Forever."

Rose & Tony Sajuan

November 23, 2013

My deepest sympathy to his mother Mary and entire family! My prayers for comfort for all of you have been sent up!

Anne Krahn

November 23, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Helen Walker

November 23, 2013

My sincere condolences to the Bolin family. Peace be with your family. Reggie was loved and will be missed by many! To God be the Glory!

Beverly Gray

November 23, 2013

May God bless your loving wife with the precious memory of your awesome love throughout eternality. We miss your smiling face already, and will always remember your excitement to enjoy the annual McDonald All-star game with our family.

Mr and Mrs Gerald Coleman

November 23, 2013

What a loss the world has received. I hope they have Facebook where you are cause there are a lot of people that love you. I always looked up to you Reg...miss you man. Love you Reggie.

S J

November 23, 2013

Reggie was one of a kind, a great person and great friend. He could light up a room with that smile. Love you Reg! See ya later man!

J S

November 23, 2013

You are everyone's bestfriend. Sweetest kindest funniest person on the planet. Heaven made . You brought so much light. I will always remember your light. I will ALWAYS remember your LIGHT. When your family and friends look up at the heavens..We know you are shining Bright. We know you are Shining BRIGHT. Rest well my Friend. Kimberly

Kim T

November 23, 2013

My sincerest condolences to Reggie's family. I have the fondest memories of him from high school, he was a gentle giant and there for all that knew him. My prayers will continue for healing for his family, especially his wife, may he now be free of any pain and his family have peace knowing they now have the best guardian angel watching over them from heaven.

Brandi Szostak-Myslewiec

November 23, 2013

I consider myself fortunate to have known you, Reggie. You did everything in a big way, especially laughing and loving. Ratisha is one blessed woman to have shared even a small part of your life with you. Sleep sweet, Reggie.

Angela Baumann

November 23, 2013

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