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Harvey Doischen
December 31, 2025
Happy New Year in Heaven Dad,
Another Year begins without you here to share it, and although this afternoon will be (17) years since you crossed the bridge into Heaven it amazes me on how much I really miss you.
I think of you EVERY day, and pray to you each night, asking for you and Mom to watch over your family.
I know its temporary, and some day, not soon, I'll meet you and Mom on the other side.
Until the day I also walk across that bridge and meet you and Mom I'll keep living in a way that honors you, being kind, Loving and taking care of family and facing every New Year with the courage you taught me. Every step I take forward is guided by the Love both you and Mom left behind.
Until then I pray that you and Mom are at Peace and celebrating a far brighter light than any fireworks we ever watched together.
Until then, I carry you with me always !
I LOVE you Forever and Always !
Harvey
Harvey Doischen
December 28, 2023
I Miss you Dad !
Its been 15 years since you are gone.
I continue to think about you all the time and always will.
The memories we shared are priceless, and help me keep you close to my heart.
I read about "If you had One wish"....
I would pray to god, and wish I could just see you and speak to you again.
Neither words or tears will bring you back...
I know, because I have tried...
I pray that both you and Mom are having a blast and continue to watch over your family.
We are well, and will continue to live our lives like both you and Mom taught us.
Till we meet again.
With ALL my LOVE.
Harvey
Harvey Doischen
December 28, 2022
Dad,
It is now 14 years since you have been gone.
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. My only grace is that I know that both you and Mom are together and are looking over your family.
Alot has changed since!
Your grandkids are adults and are pursuing their own lives now. As to me and Rob, we continue to live on, and be the good people and strong parents you taught us to be.
Please continue to watch over your family!
All my LOVE !
Harvey
Lowell Halpern
April 15, 2019
Howie, it's been almost eleven years...I think of you very often, miss you, and the good times we had growing up in the Bronx and Rockaway. Rest in peace my friend. I will see you at the cemetery.
Lowell
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Harvey Doischen
January 24, 2017
Harvey Doischen
January 24, 2017
Dad,
I cant believe its been 8 years. Time seems it has gone by so fast, but yet at times, it seems like forever.I just wanted to let you know that we are ALL doing well. We miss you dearly, and not a day goes by that we dont wish you were here with us.
I know that you are ALWAYS with me. Standing over me and protecting me.
As Rob stated, WE are who we are because of how you and mom raised us. We are both GREAT parents and are bringing up GREAT kids.
Please continue to watch over your family.
With ALL my Love.
Harvey
Rob Doischen
January 4, 2010
I just came across something Josh had given me a couple of years ago and it really is true, dad:
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God took the strength of a mountain,
The majesty of a tree,
The warmth of a summer sun,
The calm of a quiet sea,
The generous soul of nature,
The comforting arm of night,
The wisdom of the ages,
The power of an eagles flight,
The joy of a morning in spring,
The faith of a mustard seed,
The patience of eternity,
The depth of a family need,
Then God combined these qualities.
When there was nothing more to add,
He knew his masterpiece was complete.
And so... He called him DAD.
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Dad, you are all this and so much more. You've taught me so much and continue to teach even in your absence. When I am unsure as a dad, it amazes me how I can always find the answers from the lessons you taught me so long ago. I know you are with me.
I miss you, I love you,
Rob-
Gail Virtes
December 31, 2009
Dearest Sister and family,
This is a very sad Holiday and New Year for both of us...Please remember that Howie is at peace and suffers no more. As with all of you, Howie is always in my thoughts and his memory lives on through his sons!
Love, Gail
claire doischen
December 31, 2009
Howie,We know you are with us all the time. We feel your spirit everywhere. We miss you soooo much. We will continue to remember the wonderful years we had together. Howie, we have a great family and great friends that will always keep your memory alive.
WE LOVE YOU
Your Monkey always
December 30, 2009
To the Doischen Family:
I can't believe it's been a year since Howie has left us. It is a sensitive time since Claire, Howie and I had wonderful memories celebrating every New Year's Eve together since 1993. I think of him often and miss him. He was a good person and was always laughing and enjoyed making everyone else laugh at the same time.
Howie will always be remembered and missed! Love, Eileen
Tim Pehlke
November 19, 2009
To the Doischen family:
We have been Howard and Claire's neighbors for over 20 years and we couldn't have asked for better ones! Your family truly became part of our family. There are so many stories to tell - I always remember Howard being there when Tim was working and I would frantically call for help (frog in the house). But then came those times when they stepped right in without even our asking (when our son was rushed to the hospital and they took care of our daughter). There came a time a few years ago and we are on vacation - upon our return Howard was describing a bird and the awful squawk he made in the middle of the night and how it kept him awake. We never heard that bird until about a year later (when it woke up us in the middle night with its nonstop squawking!) - we looked at each other and said must be Howard's bird! So everytime we hear this bird we say there is Howard's bird!
I can't believe almost a year has gone by but your family has stayed strong and that is what Howard would want.
We are sorry that we missed the unveiling - we had plans to be there and tragedy struck our family with Tim's mom and we went through some tough days but we too know that she is in heaven looking down on us. It is hard when a loved one passes on but I know one day we will see them again.
We are always here for you!
Love,
Tim, Peggy, Melissa and Kyle Pehlke
October 27, 2009
My dads unveiling was this past Sunday. The weather was gorgeous and the suns rays made it seem as though Dad was beaming on All of his family and friends that attended.
We all returned to my house where we were able to reflect on my dads life and enjoyed some time together.
It was very comforting that ten months after his departure he was still in everybodys thoughts and prayers. The signs that I personally encountered over the last 10 months, tell me he is fine and in a better place. He is and will always be in our hearts.
Love ya Dad !
Harvey
Lana Randolph
March 5, 2009
Dear Claire, Harvey Robert, Jesse and Josh.
Wow, where do I begin! Howie was in our life before I was born and was always a father like figure to me and my sister. We will always hold him near in our heart and not a day goes by that I don't think about him. He has watched me grow up and has been there always through the worst parts of my life, but was there to see me grow and change and be happier than I have ever been and will never forget the support and love he has given to me and my family. Claire Rob and Harvey. I am always here for you. I love you. Howie, I know you are watching over us, and may you rest in peace.
eleanor murphy
February 9, 2009
Dear Doischen Family, I am so glad I got to know you all. I always remember Howie with a big smile on his face. I am glad I was a part of the family and will always have a grandchild in common. I have great memories of Howie and we had fun sharing Jesse on Fridays when he was a baby.
love, Eleanor
Dorrie Horwath
February 8, 2009
Dear Harvey,Theresa,Jesse, Meghan and Claire,
Memories keep Howie close to y'all in spirit and thought and always in your heart,today and forever.
Your hearts are broken, your sadness great. Please know that you are in the prayer and thoughts of many. May you find comfort in the memories of your lives with Howie...a wonderful husand, dad and grandpa.
love,
Dorrie, Bob and Kevin
Laurie Phelps-Bullock
February 4, 2009
My entire life whenever I referred to the Doischens it's always been "Howie and Claire". What a reality it was when I received my first bday card since Howie's passing signed "Love Claire". It was such an empty feeling to not see Howie's name in that card. I have so many memories of Howie and the entire Doischen family, going back over 40 years. But I think my best memory is when I was reunited with him and Claire after 18 years of losing touch and not having them in my life. They were always like my second set of parents and it was the most joyous occassion when they welcomed me back into their lives after all that time. It was like we never missed a day together. He always told me I was the daughter he never had. I miss him on this earth and think about him often and take great comfort in knowing we have one more guardian angel up above watching out for all of us.
ART LIHTE
February 3, 2009
It's hard to lose a friend,that for so many years showed what friendship meant. Though it's been a long while,I never forgot what you meant to me when You,Claire,Eileen and I,were inseperatable. You will be missed greatly,and you will always be in my thoughts. Some day ,I will see you again,and we shall walk together,reminissing the good old times...Rest in Peace,Howie.
Claire Doischen
January 10, 2009
To my Howie on Cloud "9",
My heart aches without you.
We only knew each other for 8 months before we got married, but were together for 47 years. Yes, we had our ups and downs during those years, but we were "soul mates". Our true love and devotion to each other helped us through.
You were such an unselfish and devoted husband, father, Baba, grandpa and friend.
You taught our sons and their families that devotion.
I know in my heart you can see how they all are helping me through this most devastating time of my life.
I promise you I will go on, because I know you would want me to. I believe that someday we will be together again.
I Love you Always,
Your "Monkey".
Harvey Doischen
January 9, 2009
Dear Dad,
I was up late last night thinking about you, and Hoping that you are OK. Couldn't stop thinking about all the good times we shared. I found the following poem. It says so much that is on my mind. I hope you enjoy it.
Dad, our sadness knows no end;
We cant believe youre gone;
We're grieving for you every day;
It's hard to carry on.
You were always there to support and care;
When we needed a true friend,
How we'll ever do without our dad,
We can not comprehend.
You were our teacher and our guide,
Our dad, so good and strong;
Youre example will sustain us now,
And last our whole lives long.
We're trying to communicate;
We hope that you can hear;
Expressing what we feel for you,
Helps us feel you're near.
Our memories of the times we had
Help the pain to go away.
But Dad, our lives wont be the same;
We'll miss you every day.
A part of us went with you;
You left a gap too big to fill;
You're our father and our hero;
We LOVE you and we always will.
sandy filla
January 8, 2009
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal
Love leaves a memory no one can steal
Today you will be remembered with laughter and tears.And remain in our hearts throughout the coming years.
Wtih deepest sympathy.
Sandy
Gail & George Virtes
January 6, 2009
In loving memory of Howard Doischen, a wonderful Husband, Father, Grandfather, Brother-in-law and Uncle. May he rest in peace.
Dearest Sister Claire, Nephews Harvey & Robert and families:
May your hearts always be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Howie was like a father to his nephew and niece and was always there in times of need.We will love and miss him and he will be in our hearts and prayers forever. His spirit will always be with all of us.
All our love and deepest sympathy, Gail & George, Stuart & Nanci, Lisa & Jay, Aaron & Marshall
Dad, You wil be missed. Rest in Peace. I Love you!
Harvey Doischen
January 5, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Eileen Lihte
January 5, 2009
Claire,Harvey,Robert,Jesse & Josh,
No words can express the sadness I feel of your great loss. Howie was my friend of 45 years and I witnessed someone special who was good natured, compassionate and thoughtful and who would never say no to anyone who needed him.There was no one like him. Howie enjoyed life and had a good sense of humor always wanting to make people laugh. I'm going to miss him. You are very lucky to have had such a terrific husband, father and grandfather in your lives. He was a perfect role model for all the hats he's worn. May your wonderful memories and the support of family and friends help you get through this rough time. Love, Eileen
Harvey Doischen
January 5, 2009
Howard leaves behind his Loving wife, Claire of 47 years, his sons Harvey and Robert, daughter in law Theresa and Deborah. Three beloved grandchildren, Jesse, Meghan and Josh. His Loving Aunt Thelma, who was like a mother to him. Sister in law Gail, who unfortunately was unable to be here today. Nephew Stuart and niece Lisa, whom he loved as his own children. And many, many special friends who were like family to him.
Howard did not have many hobbies - Family and Friends were Everything to him. He was a man you could always count on. If you had a problem, he did not hesitate to help.
He was a Wonderful and caring husband, father, "Babba", grandpa and friend. He raised two of the most responsible, respectful and caring sons, who truly reflct the type of man he was.
Yes he could be stubborn and hard at times, but always available to anyone who needed him.
Up untill his last minutes of life, he was thinking about how to make it easier on his family.
To quote his nephew Stuart,
" He will be Greatly missed by All.
Smile, laugh and enjoy, as he would want it that way, because that is how he lived his life."
Howard was laid to rest at the Eternal Light Memorial Gardens cemetary on January 4th, 2009.
May he rest in Peace forever!
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