Aloha Jill and Kyle,
I am really sad to hear about Doug's passing. I hope he did not suffer too much and you folks are holding up OK.
Doug and I shared some great times together at UCLA and some of my fondest memories are from when we were roommates in a one bedroom apt (there were 3 of us!). He made me laugh a lot and he had some great "hey, hey" mannerisms which I still use to this day.
Not sure if it is possible, but if you let me know when his ashes will be scattered on Kauai, I would like to be there. However, I will definitely understand if you wish to keep the ceremony private.
My deepest condolences to you both.