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July 26, 2014
To my best friend, my 'big' brother, my 1st crush(inside joke) and the half that made me whole... Missing you everyday Paul..
July 17, 2014
daddy... I miss you please come back to our world
July 14, 2014
I miss you so much. I miss our talks you always made me laugh and smile.
June 12, 2014
Hey you.. My best friend of almost 30 years.. Even though you were 6 years older than me, it was nice to have you as an older brother (being I'm an only child) to get advice from and confide in.. I went to Mercy and years before you went to CBA. In the last 20+ years we've gone through so much together!! And with each passing year we had become so close that when I learned of your passing, I went to a dark and lonely place I've never been and never want to go to again.. I was in the hospital having emergency surger (I called your Mother and told her my situation and she was very understanding.. I was in the hospital for nearly 2 weeks).. Although I could not be at your wake or funeral, I know you heard me praying with Father from Blessed Sacrament several times during my stay!! I was very fond of your Mom and most of all, your kids.. I can't bring myself to write anything else for the moment.. Every time I think of our special relationship I still cry and go to a dark place that I'd rather not be.. I felt as you were my own blood, my brother, my best friend, my insides.. You used to always protect me from certain people because I wasn't a social and never did drugs.. Anyone you considered bad news- you would tell me to get going and always told me to call him as soon as I got home (to make sure I got home safe).. Those little things always made me feel loved and special.. Thank you for that my friend.. You ALWAYS protected me and I loved you for that.. I miss you so much some days I cry all day and it is already heading to mid June 2014...We had a real connection.. We would sit on your couch for hours as you'd read the paper to me and I'd lay on your shoulder and just BE.. I miss you every second of everyday my Angel.. Although my soul feels incomplete, I just think of how we used to laugh, talk and sometimes cry.. The bond and trust we shared is one in a million.. I can see your big smile that would light up the entire room when I close my eyes.. I will see you in the future.. Please make sure you are there to greet me- I have NO doubt my friend.. You've always been special to me and that will never change.. Fondly, Melanie Hodgkinson-Sorel
January 09, 2014
... You never knew me but you may have known my dad Paul Merges, he was your cousin and he loved you so much. Im his son Cooper Merges, and when i heard the tradgic news I cried for so long. I felt so bad, so bad for you and your family. I Miss You, everybody does, and I just want to say for all the people out thier who knew you, WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND YOUR SOUL WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEART! God bless you and your family.
January 09, 2014
I love you.. and I'm so sorry... - Cooper Merges (Son of Paul Merges)
January 08, 2014
My angel..
January 08, 2014
Man I miss you soo bad. I was just reading our last messages on Facebook. I know you are with me. You came to me in a dream to say goodbye. I just wish I could call heaven and tell you how good I am doing. You would be so proud. My son still has your peacock feather. We talk about you often. Please help me stay strong and be the Mom you always told me to be. No one will ever fill the void in my heart. I love you bro. Until we meet again.
August 02, 2013
My sincere sympathies on this tragic loss. Wishes to family and friends for healing, recovery and cherished memories that last forever.
January 29, 2013
I only recently learned the passing of Paul. We dated for a few months when we were in our early 20's. He was such a sweet guy. He was always looking out for me as I was living on my own, and he would visit even if it was late at night just to keep me from being alone. He talked about his parents and his brothers with such love and admiration. I will always keep the memory of Lake George boating in my heart. Rest in Peace Sweet Guy.

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